I'm a Scorpio sun/Gemini Moon woman with a recent ex lover who is a Virgo sun/Scorpio moon man. We causally dated for a year all was great! When he approached me on clarity of our relationship, I told him I still wanted to keep it casual. He then went behind my back and started tinder dating and met an Aries woman. Caught off guard, I told him to stay. He said he wanted to pursue her but wanted to remain friends. He constantly contacts me for our ritual nightly chats. He asked me to dinner and I kindly accepted. I found out this Aries is out of town and notice his recent chatting could be because of this. What gives? What does he want? Shouldn't he be focused on her as he once was with me?
What's the deal with this Virgo man?
Can someone really move on that quickly? He told me his feeling run deep but being the robot he is, he shut if off. What the heck?


classic case of player girl. Some women really need to step up their position in a relationship. Whoever complains that the man is not doing enough and has a diva complex needs to get a reality check. A man has the right not to put himself out there if the other party has made light of his efforts. This applies vice versa.

Posted by BrownEyedScorp
When he approached me on clarity of our relationship, I told him I still wanted to keep it casual.
Posted by BrownEyedScorp
He then went behind my back
Posted by BrownEyedScorp
Can someone really move on that quickly? He told me his feeling run deep but being the robot he is, he shut if off. What the heck?click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88I'm debating whether I should drop the words completely and express myself through images on this board.
@Damnata. You are a classic!!! Lol lol lol lol
I am a robot after all.

Posted by Damnatayour face says it all enoughPosted by busyeyes88I'm debating whether I should drop the words completely and express myself through images on this board.
@Damnata. You are a classic!!! Lol lol lol lol
I am a robot after all.click to expand

Posted by BrownEyedScorp😕 went behind your back? Lol. So this wasn't an "open" casual relationship? Smh....
When he approached me on clarity of our relationship, I told him I still wanted to keep it casual. He then went behind my back and started tinder dating and met an Aries woman.
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