Why?

I have this friend who was dating a virgo guy (Who is also my friend) and like they dated for about a month or so, but he broke things off with her. Apparently she liked him alot which is why he dated her.. but I'm not sure if he liked her back the same amount..

Anyways they stayed friends for a while but were friends with benefits so they would kiss and such whenever they hung out but they were not in a relationship.

Well somehow like a week ago he just ended their friendship. I'm not sure why, he just tarted a fight with her and than concluded their relationship.

But why did he do that? My friend didn't do anything except like him.. and they were still friends even if it was with benefits, what would make him wanna just cut all ties like that?

Posted by AiRiLovee
I have this friend who was dating a virgo guy (Who is also my friend) and like they dated for about a month or so, but he broke things off with her. Apparently she liked him alot which is why he dated her.. but I'm not sure if he liked her back the same amount..

Anyways they stayed friends for a while but were friends with benefits so they would kiss and such whenever they hung out but they were not in a relationship.

Well somehow like a week ago he just ended their friendship. I'm not sure why, he just tarted a fight with her and than concluded their relationship.

But why did he do that? My friend didn't do anything except like him.. and they were still friends even if it was with benefits, what would make him wanna just cut all ties like that?

dont worry about this at the moment its only extra stress that u dont need christmas is tomorrow so be happy enjoy ur family and food and have a good time.

dis drama can wait another time imo

have a happy holidays 🙂

Aha thank you (:

Posted by DyTryin

He ended a FWB because it was more serious than what he wanted from her.

But they were friends before the FWB.. and they dated. She had feelings for him and I just don't get how he could be so cold and just shut her out completely since she is a nice person.

Virgos are like that. He probably had feelings for her too and could not deal with friends with benefits due to jealousy issues. Girl, I have a Virgo moon and I think that the ONLY thing that saves me from being an emotional wreck is that I have a Leo sun. Leos may get crazy and dramatic but they are trusting. If you say you are not cheating and they leo is the only one for you they believe it. Virgos think all the time and worry about everything. I read your other post if you want your Virgo man, stop kissing him for a while. He'll wonder why. He will worry like a mad man. Do not make it obvious. Just chill with him and try avoiding it. I do not suggest rushing into something with a Virgo ESPECIALLY if you are a Leo because you are setting yourself up for dissapointment. Leos fall inlove ::ahem:: lust ::ahem:: quickly, Virgos take a lot time (even though they may show you the world does not mean he is ready to share it.) VIRGOS ARE SWEETHEARTS. They LOVE romancing people. That does not mean they are ready for something serious. Leos love attention, so the reason why you like Virgos is because you fall into the trap. My boyfriend said he loved me, I FEEL, due to the fact that sometimes I pay no attention what so ever to what he is saying (though I still rememer/ Virgmoon=good memory). He says I love you I say likewise. He says I care about you I say ok. We went through rough patches just because he felt I was smothering him with affection so now I have learned. Just beware, Virgos change DRASTICALLY. My man was the sweetest partner I have ever met in my life, he did everything for me without me even having to ask him. He thought of me all the time. NEVER critized me just complimented me and flattered me. I thought he was spontaneous we would go for whatever, whenever, ice cream at 10 at night. NOW....PFFFFF. We sit there talking about our relationship, what we need to fix (so unflattering), what he wants ME to change and do, wants to see me when HE wants to see me, he hangs out with all these females and then gets jealous when I hang out with my male friends. Now he is not spontaneous, he needs to plan and order. I can not even change a date without him getting peed off. He will go on a rant about how he planned this and that and how I changed my mind last minute. I love him but I really do not care what he thinks, because hes just paranoid with worry. I take his constructive criticism into consideration. BUT GIRL ITS A LOT OF WORK. ESPECIALLY FOR A LEO!

Thank you for your advice, it's really helpful.

You are right it's going to be difficult, because of the fact that I am a leo and a cancer.. like I have characteristics of both and it causes my personality to be like a contradiction of itself.. It can be so frustrating.


As for the FWB thing, it wasn't thath e had feelings for her at all.. Like they were FWB because he didn't want to date her but she kept pushing it on him.. and than he started talking to me (Yes the Virgo guy here and the virgo guy I am talking about in my other posts are the same person) and than after me and him started talking he completely cut it off with her and I didn't understand.. I guess it was just because he felt it would cause problems.. I don't know.

I have some good news and some bad news. lol. There are two types of Virgos. There is the type that goes around sleeping with everyone with no feelings attached. Floating from one person to another, claiming they have no feelings and that they are a robot after they have gotten what they have wanted from you. This is the type that will change overnight, but NOT in a good way. So I'd be extra careful with him. The other type is the one that is constantly heartbroken, relationship after relationship. This is a keeper. The one that falls in love with caution...but completely. The type that won't change overnight, but if they do it is always an improvement. The question is do you want to be with someone that treated your friend in such a way because he might possibly believe that he already is mr. perfect? Or do you want to be with someone that treats others with respect because they seek self perfection?

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Posted by sweat.lioness
I have some good news and some bad news. lol. There are two types of Virgos. There is the type that goes around sleeping with everyone with no feelings attached. Floating from one person to another, claiming they have no feelings and that they are a robot after they have gotten what they have wanted from you. This is the type that will change overnight, but NOT in a good way. So I'd be extra careful with him. The other type is the one that is constantly heartbroken, relationship after relationship. This is a keeper. The one that falls in love with caution...but completely. The type that won't change overnight, but if they do it is always an improvement. The question is do you want to be with someone that treated your friend in such a way because he might possibly believe that he already is mr. perfect? Or do you want to be with someone that treats others with respect because they seek self perfection?

guilty of being num 1 but as i get older im leaning to 2 but right now im in the middle..

I agree with Sortilege. Honestly if that guy 'says' he has no feelings for her...he sounds like a real jerk, and never had any real respect for your friend. Mostly because he was just USING her.

Girl you have it right on target. I'm not even a scorpio but I'm suspicious. Usually I'd say go for it. But it sounds like a replay to me. Do I hear floater?