He is weak... and probably wants something.
Why do Virgos Come Back??
Posted by Cajunspirit
He is weak... and probably wants something.
and i thought my swagg was icy lmfao
but u gotta point virgos are very self sufficient.
ugh. sounds like me(virgo) and scorp man
he is back because he IS READY
my feelings for the scorpio man got Too intense Too fast (oooooooh love the virgo-scorpio connection) and i got scared and needed time to process my thoughts and feelings. we fell for each other too fast & i felt like it was too good to be true. i took longer than 1.5 months. he never gave up & kept holding on. sobx. why did i contact him after my long silence?? because i didn't want to lose him..
"He said he was also concerned because he was so attracted to me that he didn't want that attraction to interfere with seeing if I was really right for him."
LMAO This guy is full of crap. Dont even fall for it. I have lived long enough to know that if a man wants to be with you there is nothing he wont do to be with you and he wont be coming to you with a bunch of lame excuses. The only valid excuse is he was in a coma. Like Cajun said he just wants something.
LMAO This guy is full of crap. Dont even fall for it. I have lived long enough to know that if a man wants to be with you there is nothing he wont do to be with you and he wont be coming to you with a bunch of lame excuses. The only valid excuse is he was in a coma. Like Cajun said he just wants something.
Posted by snowball543
Yup!! That's what I was thinking. Our sexual chemistry has always been incredible ..
ha? were u both Only sexually involved. didn't follow ur story. hmm.
I've noticed this with my virguy and i think it's the part that confuses me the most about him. It looks like he really doesn't want to lose the girls who he becomes attracted to but it's the ultimate way to lose them. Completly vanish from their sight without a trace....that will come across as disinterest when in fact he pulls away so abruptly because he is really attracted to them......but he then becomes vindictive when they reject him. Virgos are something else lol
and cajun....that is exactly what my conclusions came to regarding my virguy situation. He does it all for sex.
i wonder if this virgo has a water moon cuz that would make him weak and keep coming back lmfao
Posted by sortilege85Posted by Scorpchick
Virgos are something else lol
Majority of Virgos need physical reassurance then they do verbal. The young ones need to feel rather then talk, unless your dealing with the weird type like me who can swing both ways haha.
Yet, they always repeat the same problem because many of whom who fall in love always attempt to perserve that feeling by avoiding anger and extreme gestures by giving themselves up through their service... which is why P-angel states that many of the virgos around are "Robots".
The virgos who break past that insecurity of yielding their true feelings and thoughts from a lover are the ones who aren't on dxp hahaha i'm kidding...
It takes a lot of effort and once that happens it becomes much easier to get a hold of people and keep them.click to expand
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm thats cool i think i lean towards tha more vebal because of tha my aqua Rising and mercury in libra and venus in libra talking is vital for me i must have it COMMUTATION IS A MUSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT DOES NOT COMMUTE PEOPLE WHO CANNOT COMMUNICATE LMFAO OWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
Posted by sortilege85
Same here legendary which is why i find it strange how women are so confused with virgos. Women understand me from the start to end. It's the temper that calmed into a good kick in the butt instead of the head, so people won't run away crying or angry anymore haha.
Hopefully you don't suffer from what i have.
we both have fire moon signs member people flee from me because of my crazy ass temper lmfao
plus i have moon square pluto im super intesne 2 damn frank and a loner at heart i tell people get 2 noe me if u dont want surprises lmfao
btw ur hair is epic owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmfao
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Majority of Virgos need physical reassurance then they do verbal
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm thats cool i think i lean towards tha more vebal because of tha my aqua Rising and mercury in libra and venus in libra talking is vital for me i must have it COMMUTATION IS A MUSTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT DOES NOT COMMUTE PEOPLE WHO CANNOT COMMUNICATE LMFAO OWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWclick to expand
Count me aboard the Verbal train.
I need to hear it to believe it, follow up actions seal the deal.
Why do Virgos Come Back??
He's either forgot his toaster or you owe him money. 😄
He's either forgot his toaster or you owe him money. 😄
Posted by Beergo85
Why do Virgos Come Back??
He's either forgot his toaster or you owe him money. 😄
LOL
Posted by sortilege85Posted by Scorpchick
Virgos are something else lol
Majority of Virgos need physical reassurance then they do verbal. The young ones need to feel rather then talk, unless your dealing with the weird type like me who can swing both ways haha.
Yet, they always repeat the same problem because many of whom who fall in love always attempt to perserve that feeling by avoiding anger and extreme gestures by giving themselves up through their service... which is why P-angel states that many of the virgos around are "Robots".
The virgos who break past that insecurity of yielding their true feelings and thoughts from a lover are the ones who aren't on dxp hahaha i'm kidding...
It takes a lot of effort and once that happens it becomes much easier to get a hold of people and keep them.click to expand
I can agree with this in my experience with virguy. He became a little sad when i reminded him about something he did that previously upset me....i could see he was using physical presence as a way to communicate with me so later on while i wasn't busy...i went over to him (it looked like he was trying to ignore me although he knew i was coming lol)..and he almost tripped and fell on me. I grabbed his hands and held then for a while. Nothing was said between us...he just stood there looking right into my eyes with a warm smile on his face. He then started jumping around and saying "i'm happy now" lol 😛...i asked "why?" and of course he didn't tell me why though i knew 😛
Can I ask you something?
I've had a date two days ago with a Virgo that has been asking me out for a few weeks and we finally went out. It was fun for me, he although felt a little nervous or weird, dunno, said he's not feeling like himself. Said he would ask me out again and then we both went home. Then he wrote me he feels like a fool and hates himself for not being able to tell me "i like you" in the eye, that he is a jerk and I didn't notice it, that he's afraid of a situation his friend had (a pretty awful love story, where the guy was the bad one that ruined everything), that I obviously expect something from him and he is so slooooow... :] And today is the second day of him being completely detached from the world (meaning, him being offline ;]]), I tried texting him yesterday, said "hello", no response from him. I regret texting. Just to mention, as we have been having conversations earlier, there has been a "few days offline" situation, just this time it bothers me a lot. Well, I don't blame myself for anything, as maybe it has nothing to do with me, maybe... I'm confused and I don't know what to expect. I feel that if he wanted to prove his jerkiness, he succeeded. And maybe that evening after the date he was truthful and I was really warned. He's young, not much relationship experience. Maybe it's normal then. And I find him a typical Virgo in other aspects.
I've had a date two days ago with a Virgo that has been asking me out for a few weeks and we finally went out. It was fun for me, he although felt a little nervous or weird, dunno, said he's not feeling like himself. Said he would ask me out again and then we both went home. Then he wrote me he feels like a fool and hates himself for not being able to tell me "i like you" in the eye, that he is a jerk and I didn't notice it, that he's afraid of a situation his friend had (a pretty awful love story, where the guy was the bad one that ruined everything), that I obviously expect something from him and he is so slooooow... :] And today is the second day of him being completely detached from the world (meaning, him being offline ;]]), I tried texting him yesterday, said "hello", no response from him. I regret texting. Just to mention, as we have been having conversations earlier, there has been a "few days offline" situation, just this time it bothers me a lot. Well, I don't blame myself for anything, as maybe it has nothing to do with me, maybe... I'm confused and I don't know what to expect. I feel that if he wanted to prove his jerkiness, he succeeded. And maybe that evening after the date he was truthful and I was really warned. He's young, not much relationship experience. Maybe it's normal then. And I find him a typical Virgo in other aspects.
Forgot the question 😄
Should I be concerned? 🙂
Should I be concerned? 🙂
why do virgos come back??
after they lose you, after all the analizing, then they will realize what they lost.
they think with their heads not with their hearts.
if you tell him you wanna break up and move on, he will agree. maybe he would wanna know why... but most of them dont even fight for love.
then after months, or years, it finally hits them on the head... what they let go, what they had and what they lost.
then they come back 😄
after they lose you, after all the analizing, then they will realize what they lost.
they think with their heads not with their hearts.
if you tell him you wanna break up and move on, he will agree. maybe he would wanna know why... but most of them dont even fight for love.
then after months, or years, it finally hits them on the head... what they let go, what they had and what they lost.
then they come back 😄
Posted by Imagination
if you tell him you wanna break up and move on, he will agree. maybe he would wanna know why... but most of them dont even fight for love.
We're giving you what you want!
Naive people we are.
Why fight for something, you are admitting does not exist, by breaking up with us in the first place?
then after months, or years, it finally hits them on the head... what they let go, what they had and what they lost.
then they come back 😄
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Pitiful huh?
Posted by DyTryin
Cajun: Why fight for something, you are admitting does not exist, by breaking up with us in the first place?
Some women threaten a breakup to "shock" the guy into doing something - usually dramatic - to "save" the relationship.
Just like some women will threaten suicide as a "cry for help" when they really have no intention of killing themselves.
You're right: The dramatic bullshit doesn't work with us. We'll take you at your word, and honor your request, and end the relationship.
I've never tried to get back with an EX. Once I end it, it's over & done. But, I could see a VirGuy who's been dumped trying to get back with the gal - prove to her she was wrong for ending it (especially if everything was fine from his point of view).
You are just like me, haha 🙂
Posted by sortilege85Posted by DyTryin
Powerful (prescription!) Narcotics.
I'm going to start purchasing some of those. Probably eat them like I do with m&m's and see where that takes me from there.click to expand
eat that on top of shrooms and see what happens lmfao
u probably think u can walk on water then drown lmfao
TauruS chick here.
DOnt believe the Virgo hype. I have many Virgo women friends that I am very close with. However, Virgo MEN are an entirely different story.
He may come back after a week, months, years. He was totally into me and then did a 180 on my ass.
He WILL only come back b/c his world will come crashing. Example; He lost his job or he needs you. Or instead of him doing the dumping- he got dumped by the female that he left you for. She will leave him for another dude or because she is sick of his bullshit. He will get what due to him-he always does. Virgo men find it hard to find happiness in relationships.Ladies, let me tell you this. They can trick you. They can live without sex. I mean..they can enjoy it but most of they time they only act on it to serve or act on it as a duty. They use it to lure you in--They are excellent lovers in bed but they will stop cold turkey: Its all about control- even the Virgo women do it(my best friends).
Virgo men go for the wrong women. They will LET GO of the ones who will be long-lasting. They can detect the long lasting ones. The only problem is -- it goes against what he thinks is gonna happen (THAT IT Wont work out). So instead he does everything to make sure that his logic is right so he will do anything to make you leave or for him to leave you. hen he experiences hell or a setback he needs a crutch. So he'll come back to an old flame. Im sick of seeing thse posts that read "wants a virgo makes up his mind and leaves-its for good" LOL BULL- he is a hyPOCRITE. HIS MIND plays tricks on his ass and he relizes he is human. PPL who thnk with their hearts (like me) get screwed over. BUT EVEN the VIRGO that thinks with his MIND-GETs screwed too. Virgo men only care about themselves. They only need extensions when they feel that arent good enough. When they are back to what they need to be or have what they need to have again- they dispose you. They try to be nice about it- or say "We can be friends" (like they are doing you a favor) or say "You are a great person..but". Really nothing that you do for a Virgo will be good enough. He has a log in his mind of your positives and negatives and as soon as you are not measuring up to his ideal standards-(you dont make his bed right, you want to see him too much, you ask too many questions, when you stick up for yourself and point out his weaknesses, you have male friends like coworkers, you dont help him with a chore) he'll drop y
DOnt believe the Virgo hype. I have many Virgo women friends that I am very close with. However, Virgo MEN are an entirely different story.
He may come back after a week, months, years. He was totally into me and then did a 180 on my ass.
He WILL only come back b/c his world will come crashing. Example; He lost his job or he needs you. Or instead of him doing the dumping- he got dumped by the female that he left you for. She will leave him for another dude or because she is sick of his bullshit. He will get what due to him-he always does. Virgo men find it hard to find happiness in relationships.Ladies, let me tell you this. They can trick you. They can live without sex. I mean..they can enjoy it but most of they time they only act on it to serve or act on it as a duty. They use it to lure you in--They are excellent lovers in bed but they will stop cold turkey: Its all about control- even the Virgo women do it(my best friends).
Virgo men go for the wrong women. They will LET GO of the ones who will be long-lasting. They can detect the long lasting ones. The only problem is -- it goes against what he thinks is gonna happen (THAT IT Wont work out). So instead he does everything to make sure that his logic is right so he will do anything to make you leave or for him to leave you. hen he experiences hell or a setback he needs a crutch. So he'll come back to an old flame. Im sick of seeing thse posts that read "wants a virgo makes up his mind and leaves-its for good" LOL BULL- he is a hyPOCRITE. HIS MIND plays tricks on his ass and he relizes he is human. PPL who thnk with their hearts (like me) get screwed over. BUT EVEN the VIRGO that thinks with his MIND-GETs screwed too. Virgo men only care about themselves. They only need extensions when they feel that arent good enough. When they are back to what they need to be or have what they need to have again- they dispose you. They try to be nice about it- or say "We can be friends" (like they are doing you a favor) or say "You are a great person..but". Really nothing that you do for a Virgo will be good enough. He has a log in his mind of your positives and negatives and as soon as you are not measuring up to his ideal standards-(you dont make his bed right, you want to see him too much, you ask too many questions, when you stick up for yourself and point out his weaknesses, you have male friends like coworkers, you dont help him with a chore) he'll drop y
I don't think it's necessary fair when someone comes and goes at their leisure. It's like they pick you up and then suddenly disappear without a trace. When someone is in and out of your life it can cause confusion. This Virgo guy has to get himself straighten out before he gets into another relationship. He seems confused. Maybe in time he'll get his head on straight.
Posted by DyTryin
sorti: Dy how the hell do you still go onto this site after reading so many stories with the same crap being told over and over again by different people?
Powerful (prescription!) Narcotics.
LOL
Lol! 😄
hi.. i need a male virgos insight and help. i am or was seeing a virgo for about 2-3 months. although i dont know much about horescopes but from what i have read hes your typical virgo. (i'm a scorpio)
he told me from the very begining that he wasnt looking for anything serious which i was ok with at the time. but i after a while i've developed more feelings for him. he talked alot about his previous girldfriends and opend up to me very quickly which iwas quite surprised with. but it felt good that he could trust me. it took me a little while longer to open up but i did tell him some personal stuff about myself. not much.i dont really open up to new people very quickly thats just the way i am. i find it hard to talk about my feelings and stuff espcially to new people.
anyways, he talked about previous girls and the ones he was chatting to at the time. he's a bit on a player. it was weird at first but he used to tell me everything about these girls and was very open with things. it did hurt me but i thought it was important to him to chat about them so i listened. (i think thats why he initially liked me becuase i listened to him) we went out a few times but that was it. i used to see him at his place for a meal or just hang out. he was chatting to another girl last year and started chatting to her again a few weeks ago.he was really into her. he said to me that he saw her as 'partner material' she had good values and qualities. she's blown him off a few times and said shes not interested in him which really pissed him off. i listened to him rant on about her
what really bugs me is that he used to say stuff like 'you'll be a good wife, lover' or 'mother'. it was like he was ticking a check list in his head, and my 'profile' seem to fit. but then he started chatting about other girls and i would get confused as to what he wanted and more intrigued and why he acted like this.
Also forgot to mention that having close friends is really impotatnt to him as he doesnt really have many and said from the begining that whatever happens he wants us to remain friends. despite him knowing how i feel about him he said he sees me as a friend and nothing more. (please note we have slet together) the thing is i'm falling for this guy. i really want to keep seeing him becuasei think it turn into something real if he lets it. i want to be more than friends.
i know my message sounds a bit muddled but i hope someone can help!
he told me from the very begining that he wasnt looking for anything serious which i was ok with at the time. but i after a while i've developed more feelings for him. he talked alot about his previous girldfriends and opend up to me very quickly which iwas quite surprised with. but it felt good that he could trust me. it took me a little while longer to open up but i did tell him some personal stuff about myself. not much.i dont really open up to new people very quickly thats just the way i am. i find it hard to talk about my feelings and stuff espcially to new people.
anyways, he talked about previous girls and the ones he was chatting to at the time. he's a bit on a player. it was weird at first but he used to tell me everything about these girls and was very open with things. it did hurt me but i thought it was important to him to chat about them so i listened. (i think thats why he initially liked me becuase i listened to him) we went out a few times but that was it. i used to see him at his place for a meal or just hang out. he was chatting to another girl last year and started chatting to her again a few weeks ago.he was really into her. he said to me that he saw her as 'partner material' she had good values and qualities. she's blown him off a few times and said shes not interested in him which really pissed him off. i listened to him rant on about her
what really bugs me is that he used to say stuff like 'you'll be a good wife, lover' or 'mother'. it was like he was ticking a check list in his head, and my 'profile' seem to fit. but then he started chatting about other girls and i would get confused as to what he wanted and more intrigued and why he acted like this.
Also forgot to mention that having close friends is really impotatnt to him as he doesnt really have many and said from the begining that whatever happens he wants us to remain friends. despite him knowing how i feel about him he said he sees me as a friend and nothing more. (please note we have slet together) the thing is i'm falling for this guy. i really want to keep seeing him becuasei think it turn into something real if he lets it. i want to be more than friends.
i know my message sounds a bit muddled but i hope someone can help!
Posted by Imagination
why do virgos come back??
after they lose you, after all the analizing, then they will realize what they lost.
they think with their heads not with their hearts.
if you tell him you wanna break up and move on, he will agree. maybe he would wanna know why...
but most of them dont even fight for love.
^^That is so fukking scary.
then after months, or years, it finally hits them on the head... what they let go, what they had and what they lost.
then they come back 😄
Posted by Cajunspirit
He is weak... and probably wants something.
When's your bday
Posted by applemint_fv"my feelings got too intense too fast"
ugh. sounds like me(virgo) and scorp man
he is back because he IS READY
my feelings for the scorpio man got Too intense Too fast (oooooooh love the virgo-scorpio connection) and i got scared and needed time to process my thoughts and feelings. we fell for each other too fast & i felt like it was too good to be true. i took longer than 1.5 months. he never gave up & kept holding on. sobx. why did i contact him after my long silence?? because i didn't want to lose him..
YESSS. WE NEED STABILITY. We need time to feel secure in our feelings for you and deliberate whether we TRULY want to get into a relationship. We dont just want to get into a relationship that will just crumble and fall within a few months. Feelings come and go--we don't want to get into a relationship that will not be worth it or last.
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