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why my virgo female friend is behing this way?
Sounds like you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship .... she told you that she has to wait until she can pay her phone, and you flip out because you have become dependent upon talking to her everyday on the phone.
You said she is behaving with you normally .. so what's the matter with you?
You said she is behaving with you normally .. so what's the matter with you?
Leo's are needy ... way too needy.
You should probably hook up someone else.
You should probably hook up someone else.
Maybe she was annoyed with the fact that you ignore her messages/calls, but then expect her to be there for you so that you can talk to her every single day. Or, maybe she felt like you were being a bit too aggressive with the whole phone situation.
If she's the sensitive type of Virgo (not all are), she is more than likely feeling some way that you have not responded to some of her calls (remember she hates that) and is now keeping her distance so as not to continue getting her feelings hurt due to your avoidance of her. She might feel as if she's being a bother or a burden and is now trying to give you the space you need.
Most times if someone has offended us, or hurt us deeply, we won't complain directly to the person. Rather, we'll simply cut all ties and keep it mov'n right along. I know this might sound absurd but it's just how we operate. Some may think that perhaps we never cared all along if we are able to cut ties so easily but that is quite the contrary. It's easier to get rid of the source of the pain (especially if it's a friend who keeps doing something to us that we told them we hate), than continue to try and put up with it.
Why don't you try asking her directly what's going on?
Maybe it's none of the above and she really is just working on getting a new phone.
Most times if someone has offended us, or hurt us deeply, we won't complain directly to the person. Rather, we'll simply cut all ties and keep it mov'n right along. I know this might sound absurd but it's just how we operate. Some may think that perhaps we never cared all along if we are able to cut ties so easily but that is quite the contrary. It's easier to get rid of the source of the pain (especially if it's a friend who keeps doing something to us that we told them we hate), than continue to try and put up with it.
Why don't you try asking her directly what's going on?
Maybe it's none of the above and she really is just working on getting a new phone.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Most times if someone has offended us, or hurt us deeply, we won't complain directly to the person. Rather, we'll simply cut all ties and keep it mov'n right along. I know this might sound absurd but it's just how we operate. Some may think that perhaps we never cared all along if we are able to cut ties so easily but that is quite the contrary. It's easier to get rid of the source of the pain (especially if it's a friend who keeps doing something to us that we told them we hate), than continue to try and put up with it.
WELL, THAT'S VIRGOS RULES!!!....1 of virgo traits..cut all the ties ...slowly but surely...and never look back...
Posted by preciousvirginPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Most times if someone has offended us, or hurt us deeply, we won't complain directly to the person. Rather, we'll simply cut all ties and keep it mov'n right along. I know this might sound absurd but it's just how we operate. Some may think that perhaps we never cared all along if we are able to cut ties so easily but that is quite the contrary. It's easier to get rid of the source of the pain (especially if it's a friend who keeps doing something to us that we told them we hate), than continue to try and put up with it.
WELL, THAT'S VIRGOS RULES!!!....1 of virgo traits..cut all the ties ...slowly but surely...and never look back...click to expand
LOL...hey PV! Nice to see you around!
LOL...hey PV! Nice to see you around!
Thanks VV....i always came by just reading all your conversations in here.only the productive topics lol!! & busy working as usual...
Thanks VV....i always came by just reading all your conversations in here.only the productive topics lol!! & busy working as usual...
Honestly, I love to be needed, but not to be stifled. Sounds a bit stifling to me...
Posted by preciousvirgin
LOL...hey PV! Nice to see you around!
Thanks VV....i always came by just reading all your conversations in here.only the productive topics lol!! & busy working as usual...
Nice! Hope to see you around more often.
I was actually in a relationship with a leo guy. We got along great. We could talk for hours about anything. Downside: He needed constant admiration. CONSTANT. If my phone rang, I could see his eyes shift. We'd be walking down the street and if a guy looked at me, he'd put his hand on my ass or kiss me. It can all seem great but leo men REQUIRE that all of the time NON-STOP. Anyway, let me get back on topic here. I know from own personal experience (I'm a virgo) that when I tell a guy that I'm waiting for a new phone in the mail, or that my phone is either lost or stolen then that means that I don't feel like talking to you. That could mean that you did something that has made me lose some type of respect for you. I might come around but it takes some major convincing on your part.
Posted by catguy
It could mean that she no longer wants to talk to you blockquote>
:-)
I admit that she is always available for me at just a hello and I did not reply his messages and calls many times. Most of the times, she tolerated me and kept behaving nicely. Sometimes she complained and I just said sorry without any explanation on which she get irritated but said —ok, please don't do it again??. I was confident that she can never leave me, no matter what. Maybe this time, as you said, she has decided to break the ties but I can't read it on her face, she is behaving with me like before. Are virgos good in hiding their inner emotions?
But I know we both are addicted to talk to each other and if she is saying that she will buy cell after one whole month then I believe she wants to come out of this addiction. She has taken some decision inside her heat but don't want to tell this to me openly. Are virgos that secretive? I thought she is like an open book and share each and everything with me.
But I know we both are addicted to talk to each other and if she is saying that she will buy cell after one whole month then I believe she wants to come out of this addiction. She has taken some decision inside her heat but don't want to tell this to me openly. Are virgos that secretive? I thought she is like an open book and share each and everything with me.
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That's the problem hmmm. You've taken her for granted like many Leos do with Virgos.
It's almost as though you expect for us to be at your beck and call...which many times we are!...until the Virgo gets tired.
Of all the relationships in the zodiac, the Leo/Virgo pairing is the most classic example of 'king & servant' (respectively).
We are very loyal friends and we like to serve and support others but we also like reciprocity.
We are masters at hiding our emotion...we keep our cards close to our vests! We normally don't go in for showy displays of emotions and messy long drawn out "why did you do this to me" speeches, so that's why you are not going to get a whole lot of 'talk' from her. Instead we just cut you loose - quickly and precisely.
She asked you straight up "not to do it to her again" and your seemingly nonchalant attitude about the situation is what probably put her over the edge. We're not doormats you know...we have a breaking point as well!
I had a Leo girlfriend who used to do the same exact thing to me and needless to say...I threw her out like last night's trash along time ago!
I think Leos are great. Generous to a T and will give you the shirts off their backs. Loyal, protective as hell, and so sunny and warm, and can definitely cheer up the Virgo and bring out our fun side. The only downfall is the Virgo often ends up feeling like they're being abused (taken for granted) by the selfish, self-absorbed Leo. The relationship almost feels one-sided many times...like the Virgo is there to work for the Leo as some indentured servant!
Look, I don't doubt that you care for her and I suggest that if you want to keep this friendship, you start with an apology for not responding to her calls and let her know that you like having her in your life/as a friend and then I would suggest that you make a conscious effort to work toward more balance in the relationship.
It's almost as though you expect for us to be at your beck and call...which many times we are!...until the Virgo gets tired.
Of all the relationships in the zodiac, the Leo/Virgo pairing is the most classic example of 'king & servant' (respectively).
We are very loyal friends and we like to serve and support others but we also like reciprocity.
We are masters at hiding our emotion...we keep our cards close to our vests! We normally don't go in for showy displays of emotions and messy long drawn out "why did you do this to me" speeches, so that's why you are not going to get a whole lot of 'talk' from her. Instead we just cut you loose - quickly and precisely.
She asked you straight up "not to do it to her again" and your seemingly nonchalant attitude about the situation is what probably put her over the edge. We're not doormats you know...we have a breaking point as well!
I had a Leo girlfriend who used to do the same exact thing to me and needless to say...I threw her out like last night's trash along time ago!
I think Leos are great. Generous to a T and will give you the shirts off their backs. Loyal, protective as hell, and so sunny and warm, and can definitely cheer up the Virgo and bring out our fun side. The only downfall is the Virgo often ends up feeling like they're being abused (taken for granted) by the selfish, self-absorbed Leo. The relationship almost feels one-sided many times...like the Virgo is there to work for the Leo as some indentured servant!
Look, I don't doubt that you care for her and I suggest that if you want to keep this friendship, you start with an apology for not responding to her calls and let her know that you like having her in your life/as a friend and then I would suggest that you make a conscious effort to work toward more balance in the relationship.
Most times if someone has offended us, or hurt us deeply, we won't complain directly to the person. Rather, we'll simply cut all ties and keep it mov'n right along. I know this might sound absurd but it's just how we operate. Some may think that perhaps we never cared all along if we are able to cut ties so easily but that is quite the contrary. It's easier to get rid of the source of the pain (especially if it's a friend who keeps doing something to us that we told them we hate), than continue to try and put up with it.
Wow, that is so true! Thats almost my philosophy to a "T"
Virgos are passive. It is not easy to tell how we are feeling. You have to gain our respect before we let you in. Vague, elusive, mysterious, passive are all words to describe us. It's not a big surprise that we get along great with leos because virgos love it when people have great communication skills. Leos love to talk and that is a great thing. But we are artists at reading body language. What you say doesn't mean much to us. But if you say it, you better mean it. If we lose respect for you, it doesn't matter......we will delete your photo from our phone, stop listening to the song that reminds us of you and block you out of our minds. It is extremely easy to get over you if we feel that we are being disrespected or taken for granted.
The virgo woman that you are dealing with seems as though she might like you enough to give you this chance. She said not to do it again. That statement means a lot. You have to be careful. She is not going to show much anger just yet but believe me, she feels it. She will remain calm because this is your first offense. She really is up for giving you another chance because she likes you. Do it again, and she will become more than irritated. She might not answer your calls as frequently at that point. After that, she might just cuss you out, LoL. Then it will be difficult for her to want to talk cheerily with you. When she is talkative, it's a good thing. When she isn't, then something is bothering her. The best thing to do is to ask. If you ask it will show her that you notice her irritation and that will make her feel you are intelligent enough to read her. DON'T act like you don't notice or care.
The virgo woman that you are dealing with seems as though she might like you enough to give you this chance. She said not to do it again. That statement means a lot. You have to be careful. She is not going to show much anger just yet but believe me, she feels it. She will remain calm because this is your first offense. She really is up for giving you another chance because she likes you. Do it again, and she will become more than irritated. She might not answer your calls as frequently at that point. After that, she might just cuss you out, LoL. Then it will be difficult for her to want to talk cheerily with you. When she is talkative, it's a good thing. When she isn't, then something is bothering her. The best thing to do is to ask. If you ask it will show her that you notice her irritation and that will make her feel you are intelligent enough to read her. DON'T act like you don't notice or care.
Posted by Virgobeauty
Most times if someone has offended us, or hurt us deeply, we won't complain directly to the person. Rather, we'll simply cut all ties and keep it mov'n right along. I know this might sound absurd but it's just how we operate. Some may think that perhaps we never cared all along if we are able to cut ties so easily but that is quite the contrary. It's easier to get rid of the source of the pain (especially if it's a friend who keeps doing something to us that we told them we hate), than continue to try and put up with it.
Wow, that is so true! Thats almost my philosophy to a "T"
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