Those scorpio boys.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Candeh15 on Thursday, March 10, 2011 and has 54 replies.

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@Candeh15
16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo
Are there many scorpio guy/virgo girl relations? I'm ALWAYS seeing the other side, and they seem to be pretty successful. Out of curiosity, is there a difference between the dynamics? I don't see much of this pairing, but I've always wanted to know what it'd be like. According to basic astrology, a girl should shack up with someone who has his sun in the female's moon sign... and considering mine is all scorpio influenced and everything, I should at least try out a scorpio. Well, they seemingly don't exist in my life, so I'm asking you guys what would the pros and cons be of that pairing and if there is anyy difference between the scorp female/virgo male pairing.
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@Candeh15
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Hmm.. I would imagine it would be the same dynamics - the scorpio, regardless of gender, would be the one wearing the pants.

I've seen Virgo guy and Scorpio female work out .. until the Virgo cheated. So its a great relationship for the Scorpio as long as the Virgo is committed.



This was actually pretty insightful... what? Lol anyone, that makes sense. I was just thinking since I rarely saw this pairing that there could be something different going on. I mean... I don't greatly mind the control factor... in bed. 😛
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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces
The same thing that draws these two together is the same thing that breaks them apart.

Virgo is too accommodating

At first, this is great for Scorpio because here's a person who will allow the Scorpio to emotionally control (which is the only thing Scorp wants = emotional control) ... Virgo comply readily ... match made in heaven. But, then it gets too comfortable and Scorpio gets bored.

Bark !!! Virgo barks.


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@P-Angel
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Sift through here and you will find threads that describe what I just said. Virgo women come in here terribly upset because Scorpio takes advantage of them, while they sit at home to cook and clean and showered, waiting to please him the moment he walks through the door .... only he stopped coming home and she doesn't know what to do ... maybe she should go take another shower and shave her legs again because he could come home any time.

Why doesn't he want me? I do everything for him.



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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
Posted by P-Angel
The same thing that draws these two together is the same thing that breaks them apart.

Virgo is too accommodating

At first, this is great for Scorpio because here's a person who will allow the Scorpio to emotionally control (which is the only thing Scorp wants = emotional control) ... Virgo comply readily ... match made in heaven. But, then it gets too comfortable and Scorpio gets bored.

Bark !!! Virgo barks.




i agree. virgo is very accomdating to scorpio. virgo wants someone to take care of and feel needed, scorpio wants control and wants to posses virgo. they can both feed off of each other. but i think scorpio grows bored and keeps virgo around as a "safe bet." virgos represent stability to scorpios.
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Posted by P-Angel
Sift through here and you will find threads that describe what I just said. Virgo women come in here terribly upset because Scorpio takes advantage of them, while they sit at home to cook and clean and showered, waiting to please him the moment he walks through the door .... only he stopped coming home and she doesn't know what to do ... maybe she should go take another shower and shave her legs again because he could come home any time.

Why doesn't he want me? I do everything for him.





we are both on the same page. scorpio guy walks all over virgo girl. but she secretly wont have it any other way, she doesnt want the opposite?

virgo thinks that scorpio will come home...eventually...he has 2, his mail is there.
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@DMV
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Posted by exoskeleton
you want a scorp guy bad, huh?. 🙂

i??ve never seen virgo girl scorp guy pairing either. i have a scorp sun/moon girlfriend who dated a virgo sun/scorp moon guy and it crashed and burned. they seemed perfect together at first. she wore the pants, then he got obsessive and up her ass, then she disappeared, and then he went BERSERK. his virgo head was fucking spinning analyzing that shit, lol. and they still resent each other. i briefly dated a virgo and his passivity really turned me off. he was way too cautious and even a little intimidated by me. i don't know if this would be the same the other way around, but generally i think most scorps want someone less willing to bend to them.



ooo virgo goes coco for cocoa puffs when scorpio ignored her. her life is like on standstill.
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@Candeh15
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Posted by exoskeleton
you want a scorp guy bad, huh?. 🙂



Haha well it's not so much I want one that badly. I suppose I'm just curious. Besides libra, scorpio is the one sign I have yet to even get close too, and I've always been curious about the dynamics of that pairing. Currently I've been wondering what it'd be like with me having my moon in scorpio.
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Posted by DMV
my virgo friend told me that she was ready for a relationship with a scorpio...poor thing didnt even know what she was up aganist.



lol I wouldn't say I'm necessarily ready (I wouldn't say that about any sign), but I'm not one to just avoid things either. I'm sort of the "don't knock it until you try it" kind of person.

I'm not sure how you can just be "ready," or what "ready" even means.
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i know a virgo now with a scorpio and they almost divorced. they're still trying to work it out.

been with 2 scorpios, one had an addiction, and i didn't want to deal with that.

the other scorpio i've been with was clean, and almost perfect, but i didn't see intensity. i wanted more.
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Posted by Candeh15
Posted by DMV
my virgo friend told me that she was ready for a relationship with a scorpio...poor thing didnt even know what she was up aganist.



lol I wouldn't say I'm necessarily ready (I wouldn't say that about any sign), but I'm not one to just avoid things either. I'm sort of the "don't knock it until you try it" kind of person.

I'm not sure how you can just be "ready," or what "ready" even means.
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well she kinda got some insight into what i was dealing with when i was involved with a scorpio. she wanted that kind of intensity and passion. this was about 2-3 months ago. now shes debating whether or not she can truly handle it.
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Posted by Candeh15
Are there many scorpio guy/virgo girl relations? I'm ALWAYS seeing the other side, and they seem to be pretty successful. Out of curiosity, is there a difference between the dynamics? I don't see much of this pairing, but I've always wanted to know what it'd be like. According to basic astrology, a girl should shack up with someone who has his sun in the female's moon sign... and considering mine is all scorpio influenced and everything, I should at least try out a scorpio. Well, they seemingly don't exist in my life, so I'm asking you guys what would the pros and cons be of that pairing and if there is anyy difference between the scorp female/virgo male pairing.


Careful. Contrary to what TKOL posted, one of my closer friends in a course was a Virgo girl. She married a Scorpio guy and I tellya it was disaster for her. He did cheat and refused to apologize, leaving her to look after their Cancer daughter. I presume she was put in alot of agony. They're patched up now, but the long suffering person is... the virgo wife. Not the Scorp.
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Posted by spica
Posted by Candeh15
Are there many scorpio guy/virgo girl relations? I'm ALWAYS seeing the other side, and they seem to be pretty successful. Out of curiosity, is there a difference between the dynamics? I don't see much of this pairing, but I've always wanted to know what it'd be like. According to basic astrology, a girl should shack up with someone who has his sun in the female's moon sign... and considering mine is all scorpio influenced and everything, I should at least try out a scorpio. Well, they seemingly don't exist in my life, so I'm asking you guys what would the pros and cons be of that pairing and if there is anyy difference between the scorp female/virgo male pairing.


Careful. Contrary to what TKOL posted, one of my closer friends in a course was a Virgo girl. She married a Scorpio guy and I tellya it was disaster for her. He did cheat and refused to apologize, leaving her to look after their Cancer daughter. I presume she was put in alot of agony. They're patched up now, but the long suffering person is... the virgo wife. Not the Scorp.
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preach
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Posted by DMV
@spica,

did your virgo friends' husband stop sleeping around?



I really don't know. I don't like asking sensitive questions. The other time she told it to me because I asked why she was so disorientated/ depressed for months on end. After that I just stopped asking. I presume it's ok or she's accepted it. Tbh, it's none of my business.
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@spica
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From my feel, Virgo girl/ Scorpio guy is really not a good pairing as written in the books. There is a disconnect in both of them - their thinking, outlook and desires. I would'nt recommend this pairing. I think it's a boring combi.. so boring that one or both will stray.
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@spica
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The best match for virgo woman is virgo man.. hands down! And I say this because I really emphatised with the virgo girl, and there was a virgo guy chasing her at the time. They're perfect together.. except they married other people.
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"i think virgo/virgo combination is the best. they seem to be the only sign to tolerate each other."

When I see two virgos together, no one else exists in the room. I have seen 2 couples fwiw.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
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I'd say you're all taking astrology too seriously.



A $ $ trology is a serious bidness!


Emphasis on the $ signs 😉
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The $ $ $ $ is for research munneh! 😉

Actually, you got a point. Astrology can't be taken so seriously because there's a chance an error or a misconstruation is committed.. and there would be loads, considering aspects number to more than meets the eye.
But yeah, everything in moderation.
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Posted by DMV
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Except Candeh has a Scorpio moon.. sooooo.. a Scorpio man may work fine for her 😄.



you would think that.
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Meh, I cant dictate someone else' destiny. Even in my head 😛.
Plus, Scorpio moon has the emotional power on a Scorpion. Just that they will go through hell everyday if they keep up with his controlling - hot/cold rhythms. I presume Candeh can step out of it when it happens and she will be able to do nicely with him.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by spica
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by spica
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I'd say you're all taking astrology too seriously.



A $ $ trology is a serious bidness!


Emphasis on the $ signs 😉



The $ $ $ $ is for research munneh! 😉

Actually, you got a point. Astrology can't be taken so seriously because there's a chance an error or a misconstruation is committed.. and there would be loads, considering aspects number to more than meets the eye.
But yeah, everything in moderation.


So you're an Astro pimp to fund your research habit ?
Damn ! 🙂
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You will fund me? I can send you my paypal address 😉

If not, nevermind 🙂
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
I'm a not-actually-starving not-actually-artist dahling !!🙂
*air kiss*


*retches*



Also, considering no-one makes munney talkin' about 'strology here.. 'cept DXPlord.. from ads?
So, if time is munny, we're all throwing munny into astrology.. not getting proper returns!
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by spica
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I'm a not-actually-starving not-actually-artist dahling !!🙂
*air kiss*


*retches*



Also, considering no-one makes munney talkin' about 'strology here.. 'cept DXPlord.. from ads?
So, if time is munny, we're all throwing munny into astrology.. not getting proper returns!


Ladies and Germs like Russell Grant and Johnathan Cainer (what a surname, dude be hiighhhh!!!) must do.
All it costs them is time and nasty looking sweaters.
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I sense some bitterness stewing..

Who knows theyve eaten dry bread everyday while they worked on their manuscripts for 5 years. Now you deny them their royalties?
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@spica
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"I'm pretty sure Russell Grant wasn't living off dry bread though."

Then he was meant to write astrology books. It's his destiny. Who knows how many banana peels were thrown on him before his name emerged from the stanks of mediocrity!

..You write!
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Posted by QuietSt0rm
In fact, the cancer guy that I mentioned with the scorpio moon.. you would have thought we'd be perfect together since he had a cancer sun, I have a cancer moon. I have scorpio sun and he had a scorpio moon. But that had the potential to be a very volatile relationship. :/ Although I admit there was a very STRONG attraction between us, and probably would still be if I allowed it. He still contacts me and tells me about dreams he has of us being together, but he said some pretty evil things :/ So my mind is pretty much fixed on him being POISON.



i agree. its attraction but lots of stalemates.
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Posted by spica
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Except Candeh has a Scorpio moon.. sooooo.. a Scorpio man may work fine for her 😄.



you would think that.


Meh, I cant dictate someone else' destiny. Even in my head 😛.
Plus, Scorpio moon has the emotional power on a Scorpion. Just that they will go through hell everyday if they keep up with his controlling - hot/cold rhythms. I presume Candeh can step out of it when it happens and she will be able to do nicely with him.
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Interesting insight, spica!

Control is an interesting subject, imo. I'm not controlled very easily, but I like to maintain control. I just become very stubborn if I am controlled against my will. However, I'll submit in a way if there is enough trust. If the guy is being a douche, I'll either call him out on it or bow out before I get caught in anything, but if that is not happening, I'll be as supportive as ever.

Not sure how this wwould all go down with a scorpio. I don't expect swimming results or a terrible ride, but it'd be an interesting journey.
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@spica
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Posted by Candeh15
Posted by spica
Posted by DMV
Posted by spica
Except Candeh has a Scorpio moon.. sooooo.. a Scorpio man may work fine for her 😄.



you would think that.


Meh, I cant dictate someone else' destiny. Even in my head 😛.
Plus, Scorpio moon has the emotional power on a Scorpion. Just that they will go through hell everyday if they keep up with his controlling - hot/cold rhythms. I presume Candeh can step out of it when it happens and she will be able to do nicely with him.



Interesting insight, spica!

Control is an interesting subject, imo. I'm not controlled very easily, but I like to maintain control. I just become very stubborn if I am controlled against my will. However, I'll submit in a way if there is enough trust. If the guy is being a douche, I'll either call him out on it or bow out before I get caught in anything, but if that is not happening, I'll be as supportive as ever.

Not sure how this wwould all go down with a scorpio. I don't expect swimming results or a terrible ride, but it'd be an interesting journey.
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Good luck - with your psych background, you can handle any emotional instability - if you detach 🙂
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@spica
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by spica
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by spica
"I'm pretty sure Russell Grant wasn't living off dry bread though."

Then he was meant to write astrology books. It's his destiny. Who knows how many banana peels were thrown on him before his name emerged from the stanks of mediocrity!

..You write!


Hmm you lost me here.
He just targeted oap's imo.


I write what ?



You write one of those astrology books!


I'd feel like I was fleecing people and selling them false hope 😢
Damn my moral sensibilities ! 🙂
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They studied thier craft deeply - such that even they believed it was the truth - not that I have anything to dispute, though. Most of them are really too general for me.
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@spica
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
True true. but then again they've no doubt spent as much time finding the right words and themes (for lack of a better term) that's general enough for mass consumption/interest, but also leaves room for the end user to think it's personal to them ?
🙂
Saying that though, http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=F9tfKKZky0wC&pg=PA53&lpg=PA53&dq=gemini+midheaven&source=bl&ots=exnt3K4dIZ&sig=I0FL42PaoPi0fuwJ7oLGKp_ZciM&hl=en&ei=IY2CTbSEBIexhAfb-JTQBA&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=4&ved=0CDEQ6AEwAzgK#v=onepage&q=gemini% 20midheaven&f=false"> I found this link while scrunting around the internet the other day and it defines me to a tee, way more than other stuff I've indulged in, hehe 🙂



They blocked mine!
I have been fighting my textbook description of a midheaven for some time. I think cause I want to do something else! Plus I have planets there, so MC speak.. is extremely colored for me. Not clear cut. But am glad you utilised and identified with them!
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@pathfinder
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Candeh, ok, at 20, I can see your viewpoint. But my thing is, why don't you just go out with guys that attract you? Where there's real chemistry and good vibes? Who cares what sign he is? At this rate, you may be so blinded by wanting to meet a scorpio that you wind up with the WRONG scorpios and then get a jaded view of the whole sign. And if the right one comes around, you miss the opportunity because of a negative past.

Have fun & Relax. There's a reason why you attract certain men (zodiac compatibility may not even be the major draw). Enjoy them and learn.
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