hey busy virgo's!

Been dating a virgo girl off and on who has virgo moon also, and she is 100% textbook virgo it seems most times. I am just curious if it is possible for you gal's who have a lot going on to be so overwhelmed with everything to kind of make your lover an after thought and basically put something like making a phone call to him on your to-do list?

Uh, yeah, lmfao.

We don't mean to neglect our partners (I've purposely ignored texts or phone calls from someone I was seeing if I was busy when we were dating), but we need to priortize if we have a lot going on. The more going on, the more we tend to pull away. Doing something romantic to pull our head out of the books is a much needed thing 😉

Posted by CLCNY30
Uh, yeah, lmfao.

We don't mean to neglect our partners (I've purposely ignored texts or phone calls from someone I was seeing if I was busy when we were dating), but we need to priortize if we have a lot going on. The more going on, the more we tend to pull away. Doing something romantic to pull our head out of the books is a much needed thing 😉

that's a little more reassuring, thanks! it's a semi-long distance thing where travel is involved to see eachother also. (temporarily) I was actually shocked that I was getting frequent warm and sweet emails and txt's from her for a few weeks after the last time we spent the weekend together. (which seemed unlike her based on the past) Then those started to become more and more infrequent and more tepid as time has gone on, as she says she has been so overwhelmed with stuff.

Oh absolutely. We are usually always busy or tied down with work/school or some 'heal the world' project. Virgals are some of the busiest bees you will ever meet so please take no offense if she can't always make time to call or keep in touch as often as you'd like. It's nothing personal. We just like to succeed and we can't stay still so we have to always have lots to do. Good luck.

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Oh absolutely. We are usually always busy or tied down with work/school or some 'heal the world' project. Virgals are some of the busiest bees you will ever meet so please take no offense if she can't always make time to call or keep in touch as often as you'd like. It's nothing personal. We just like to succeed and we can't stay still so we have to always have lots to do. Good luck.

Co-sign--and if we're NOT busy, we will take on a load of stuff just to keep our minds (and hands) occupied. Idle is not a thing we like to be; even our DREAMS are busy, lmfao. VVxxx is right, take no offense--we don't mean to insult anyone with our actions, truth be told we just like to keep busy.

What would make a Virgo woman stop work or school and just chill out at the drop of a hat...hmmm

Maybe something big and furry-like that roars?

sorry, i'm too busy to respond...i'll be right back. 😉

JUST KIDDING! 🙂

happycapri, i concur with these ladies. i need constant mental stimulation, if something gets too easy or boring i need to find an extra something to keep myself entertained or challenged. i don't why.

however, when i mean 'finding something to entertain myself' it isn't something bad. it just has to be something with purpose.

if we do like someone, we stay consistent though. consistency is a big thing for me, but communication is so important as well.

i think its great that you came here to ask questions, that shows your care for the subject, dont be afraid to speak up your mind with her, just make sure you don't sound needy or controlling...we can't deal with that very well. it is a fine balance between showing lots of care, but also standing your ground about who you are and what you need...in a mature and confident way, do that makes sense?

oh and most of the virgals i know are good with long-distance relationships, when they feel secure about you and when they trust you, so as long as you have that...distance won't be an issue for the time being, just remember the other things.

good luck with everything and come here to ask questions anytime!

lol, i dont know of any Virgals who are into Virguys...something that clashes so awful with us, I guess...

Posted by Yossarian

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
What would make a Virgo woman stop work or school and just chill out at the drop of a hat...hmmm

Easy, another Virgo! Of course she does feel guilty after.

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Oh hell no, Yossarian. I would kill a Virgo man so fast my ass would be up in state prison somewhere. LOL. Virgo woman/Virgo man are like oil/water.

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by Yossarian

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
What would make a Virgo woman stop work or school and just chill out at the drop of a hat...hmmm

Easy, another Virgo! Of course she does feel guilty after.

Oh hell no, Yossarian. I would kill a Virgo man so fast my ass would be up in state prison somewhere. LOL. Virgo woman/Virgo man are like oil/water.

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Let the chuch say "amen", LOL

I only ever had a crush on ONE Virgo guy, and he was a teacher of mine back in high school. Oh, he coulda got it (omg the daydreams I would have in his class, what WOULDN'T I have done to/with that man?...) but even at 16 I couldn't see myself having anything other than some tawdry love affair w/him. Marriage? Yeah, no.

Hmm... I actually get along well with Virgo guys. I almost ended dating some at different points in my life, but they are just as guarded as we are so its like a never-ending dance.

I have met two types of Virgo guys, so Virgo girls, don't feel so disencouraged by all of them, I promise there are some that you could get along great with...it is just that getting into a relationship with those special ones might take a little time...and by little I mean unearthly measurement of time. 🙂 lol

plus...we are all so serious about relationships sometimes. it can get a little scary if you aren't completely ready. if we date (virgo guys and virgo girls) it has to either be something serious and thus we have to be 100% sure or we will just do something simple and short, but feel kinda guilty eventually, kinda like someone mentioned here. i say friendship might be the best choice for either case!