Why not to date a Virgo...

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Virgo:

If you're thinking of dating a Virgo, your best bet is to invest in a lint brush, some spearmint dental floss, and an expensive pair of double-thick, lined, sanitized, yellow rubber gloves. Are they all obsessive neat freaks? Absolutely not. They will, however, grade you on a daily basis-- lint accumulation in your navel, leftover sesame seeds in your teeth, or an untidy bathroom bowl will count for Big Points off your GPA. Once you've passed The Neatness Test, however, get ready to experience such rollicking good times as helping them alphabetize their CD's, rearrange their silverware drawer, and vacuum the car -- again. Are they all hypochondriacs? Well, maybe not, but how many other people do you know who own 27 Revised Annual Editions of the Physician's Desktop Handbook of Symptoms?

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CancerLady - actually, being with a Virgo is great because of those things you wrote. I mean, heck, to have a man who cleans up after himself is fabulous. Of course, since I'm Pisces, my housework is as scattered as my brain, so that certainly leaves room for him to jump right in there and do it the right way - the Virgo way. But hey, I'm not complaining - he can be as organized and clean as he wants - I'll just sit back and do what I do best - daydream!
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I guess my Virgo just isn't like most, it seems. Though, he can be critical and tends to analyze - he doesn't do so with me. Like what softy said above - that sounds pretty out of character for my Virgo. I admit, passion is not his thing, nor cuddling - but he would never talk to me in the ways that some people have experienced. I've dated and married a Virgo and my life has been blessed because of it. I think that the problem most people must have with these men is that they are so misunderstood by the more emotional type people. Some people can do things, others cannot - and that has to be understood in any relationship - it really has nothing to do with planets, or anything else. Bringing sun signs into the picture - we know, all of us know that Virgo's live their lives using their practical and logical brains and not with their feelings. If you know this going in, then how can one later turn around and say that he has an undesirable quality. We all have undesirable qualities.

I hear this all the time - not in here, but in the real world: Girls will ask the question in which they know has no correct answer: "Does my butt look fat in these jeans?" A Virgo will answer you accurately and it may hurt your feelings. The point here is - you knew it was a loaded question when you asked it. If you set yourself to fail - you will fall!!!! There is nothing wrong with Virgo's. There is however, something wrong with the person who expects them to be something that they are not and then condemn them for it. It would be like saying you don't like Pisces because they are dreamers, or you don't like Aries because they are self-centered - we know these things before hand. You accept the person you love with their faults, or you don't.

Sorry, I went off there. Just loving my man and he's just so . . . considerate of my feelings. CONSIDERATE, I said. Didn't mean to yell - just wanted to shout out loud that my Virgo is kind and compassionate and would rather die than hurt my feelings.

Ok, I'm done. I'll quit rambling on about how perfect he is.
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'm not saying that there is something wrong with Virgos in general...One of my best friends is a Virgo and althou, it can be annoying sometimes,,,she challenges me to look at myself first and foremost, so I do not make the same mistakes....Her favorite line is "what could you had done differently"...definitely make me think....But me being a Cancer and also just having my own preferences,,,I I had the choice,,I wouldn't choose a Virgo because I'm seeking a strong emotional connection with someone..and I odn't think that "I" can find that with them....I'm into feeling someone without verbal communiation as well as verbally.