Why would an ex bf do this... In your opinion

Hi🙂 first off I'm a virgo libra moon, my ex is an aqua cap moon. We've been broken up since last summer. It was a LDR. every time I ever tried to contact him he'd always just snub me., he'd reply but sometimes not and said he'd never get back with me cuz he was hurt too bad by my harsh words and that I "attacked him all the time " emotionally , and I was emotionally manipulative stuff like that. So it's been forever since he texted me then Saturday I get a text of a selfie of him in the city wher I live. I said hey u, like 2 hours later he immediately replies- in downtown philly- I said oh cool I love the city. He was in town for a show- so I said oh Ya in town for faith no more? He said in mutter museum now! And I cut it short and basically said have a great time... Ok bye. That's what he always used to do to me. Just say bye before I could even talk to him. And that was it....; do you think he wanted me to ask him to meet up?? Cuz out of nowhere he's my friend?? I don't get it...

Whatya mean..?? Elaborate plz

Posted by Vegetta91
Since when not caring after things went the wrong way is considered bad ?
And you have the right to be suspicious because people don't just show up,so you have answered your own question

Posted by Zetarose
He was in town for a show

Posted by Vegetta91
because people don't just show up

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lmao

@op.

It's May 2015. Are you going to stop obsessing over last summer?

I thought us aquas over analyze. He may have just text you because he was in your city. I do that, it doesn't mean I have a secret agenda. Most aquas don't even acknowledge you exist after you've wronged them so the fact he even text you probably means he's way over it by now. I know you posted about this several times now since just this past weekend and I think you mentioned you are back with a different ex. It would probably be more productive for you to focus on why you are so hung up on an EX and his actions while you are in a relationship with another man. You shouldn't jump into a relationship until you've learned what you needed to ABOUT YOURSELF and made peace with your past. Work on you and creating a happy future for yourself. Leave an ex in the past. Good luck!

I'm back w the father of my children; I've been w him off and on now for 19 years.. Lol.

Posted by kaqual75
I thought us aquas over analyze. He may have just text you because he was in your city. I do that, it doesn't mean I have a secret agenda. Most aquas don't even acknowledge you exist after you've wronged them so the fact he even text you probably means he's way over it by now. I know you posted about this several times now since just this past weekend and I think you mentioned you are back with a different ex. It would probably be more productive for you to focus on why you are so hung up on an EX and his actions while you are in a relationship with another man. You shouldn't jump into a relationship until you've learned what you needed to ABOUT YOURSELF and made peace with your past. Work on you and creating a happy future for yourself. Leave an ex in the past. Good luck!

he def had a secret agenda!! Lol, I shouldn't even be asking anyone you guys don't even know him!! He hasn't texted me in a year!! He hates texting, and he has a secret agenda I think for everything he does lol!!!!

Ya ok he's gonna just send me a selfie on his little crappy pre paid phone cuz he has no feelings at all for me.. And doesn't care at all about me , ok and let me guess if I'd of said it didn't mean anything people would say I think it did... Jeezus I swear I say white you say black!! All of you!! I really don't think he'd waste his time sending me a selfie if there wasn't anything at all left

I think you are missing the point. You are obsessing over a handful of text messages from an ex from a year ago but you are currently in a relationship with the co-creator of your family. You should not be in a relationship if an ex can make you obsess over a random text message from him.
Think about what you want/need. Do the text messages you got from him this weekend even come close to meeting those needs? No the. Stop feeding a monster that doesn't give you any joy. If you've been with your BD for 19 years on/off you are in your thirties. You should have a better sense of self than to obsess over a text message. Who gives a fuck what your ex wanted! Why do you want? Feed the people who feed your heart mind and soul. Shit!

Posted by Zetarose
he def had a secret agenda!! Lol, I shouldn't even be asking anyone you guys don't even know him!! He hasn't texted me in a year!! He hates texting, and he has a secret agenda I think for everything he does lol!!!!

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Posted by Zetarose
Ya ok he's gonna just send me a selfie on his little crappy pre paid phone cuz he has no feelings at all for me.. And doesn't care at all about me , ok and let me guess if I'd of said it didn't mean anything people would say I think it did... Jeezus I swear I say white you say black!! All of you!! I really don't think he'd waste his time sending me a selfie if there wasn't anything at all left

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