Aquarius / Pisces Feb 19th

I have a 47 yr male friend born Feb 19th. I don't know the particulars of his chart but through our interaction, I would say Pisces dominates. I do see Aquarius as well. (As if Pisces wasn't complicated enough.) lol :) Long story short, his ex pus
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I have a 47 yr male friend born Feb 19th. I don't know the particulars of his chart but through our interaction, I would say Pisces dominates. I do see Aquarius as well. (As if Pisces wasn't complicated enough.) lol

Long story short, his ex pushed him into a very nasty divorce after 15 yrs of marriage. Divorce was finalized almost 2 years ago. He was devastated and feels he failed his 2 teenage boys by not being able to keep the family together. We worked together on a project for a year and became very close platonic friends. He would confide / share his deepest thoughts with me (about everything) but it would always take me sitting / working with him for an hour or so before he would finally open up and tell me what was going on.

I am older than he is, divorced and remarried. I want to continue to support him but now that we aren't working together I'm finding it hard to stay in contact with him. It's always been obvious that in-person communication is where he's most comfortable. He has to be in the right frame of mind/mood for email and texting. I've told him my door is always open and we both stated recently that we do still care deeply for each other. He's so emotional (up/down) it's so hard to keep him engaged and frustrating due to the distance. And when I do get his attention, he disappears again just as quickly. Anyone have any suggestions on how I can continue to support him? All I know to do at this point is to just keep knocking on his door occasionally so he knows I still care.
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i cant believe no one has responded to you!!!! just a quick bit from me (an aqua/pisc cusp female) when im going through a hard time I usually need time to myself. i wont open up to anyone. however in the moments i do, i quickly snap back to being controlled/closed. I think youre friend clearly does the same thing. keep messaging and let him know youre there. when he needs you he will come find you. i'm that way. somedays i feel like i can handle it all then others i want desperately to talk to someone about my issues. i have a scorp moon which keeps me in my head a lot that could be the case for your a/p cusp as well. i hope my answer helps, i realized i rambled quite a bit lol
chaotically organised
Probably just wants his own space but I'm just speaking for myself as an aqua that's pisces dominant.

There's nothing in the world you can do to make him feel better, that's something he has to do on his own. And sure we understand people are out there for us to lean on but we'd rather not. I don't know if it's a defense mechanism or not but when I'm troubled I prefer to be left well alone.
chaotically organised
Relating to this: My grandfather passed away recently, there's a lot of emotions still circling around in me. No one knows how I feel, not my parents, not my siblings, not my best friend or SO.

I know they do care but I just rather not talk about it.
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