Are there any specific signs I work best with? I find that I do well with cu
Who is the Kryptonite for each sign? Could be more than one...
Scorpio male: Gemini woman
Capricorn male: Gemini woman
Best friends or lovers???
Which is better for this paring! From what you've seen or experienced
Idk I feel like me and my sag best friend are in a never ending chase. He seems to have deeper feelings but won't say however Sags are blunt no? He is cap d
Recently I've started to notice in the modern time, a lot of relationships and couple pairings that are deemed to be 'Not compatible' in terms of classic Astrology.
For example :-
Pisces x Gemini Scorpio x Aries Taurus x Libra Gemini x Taurus Capricorn x Libra Pisces x Aries (I had an Aries girlfriend in high school myself) Pisces x Aquarius Scorpio x Leo (My parents, married now for 24+ years) Cancer x Sagittarius Virgo x Sagittarius Leo x Pisces Aquarius x Scorpio And the list goes on...
What are your thoughts on this? Do you think that in the modern day zodiac sun-sign pairings that are deemed to be 'Incompatible' can actually work well?
Virgo sun Scorpio moon Leo Mercury/Ascendant Cancer Venus Libra Mars/Jupiter
emotionally and mentally abusive. very good at manipulating. gaslighting. anything negative- he did it. we were young, but it definitely damaged me. I never had healthy functional relationships until... 2016. That relationship had ended in 2011. It lasted from 2008-2011, because he would manipulate me back into the relationship by threatening suicide amongst other things. He once told me he stabbed himself in the stomach because I wanted to leave him. The next day I asked to see it, and he changed the subject. I knew it was a lie. He also was a pathological liar. He lied to me telling me his mom was dead as an example. Low and behold... not dead. Many other lies like this were told throughout the relationship. Once we broke up and he tried a new tactic and said to me that he hoped I’d get hit by a bus and die so he could go to my funeral drunk and laugh because I was pathetic and ugly. Good times. 3 years of that.
NEXT UP: Aquarius Sun/Mercury Capricorn Moon/Ascendant Aries Venus/Jupiter Sagittarius Mars
Used to think he was the love of my life. Just unhealthy for me. He was a user. Or at least he used me. I’d give him money. He was really... just a good hustler realistically. Overall he’s not a bad person. Just not good in relationships. Well... not good with me anyways. He had a weird power over me. My Sun conjunct his Pluto. It was definitely felt in this relationship. Not a good feeling. It can be a good feeling though. I have that aspect with my current boyfriend, and he doesn’t abuse it. Thankfully.
I added outer planets since he was significantly younger than me. Well... 4 years. He lied to me about his age. He had narcissistic tendencies. Definitely would gaslight me. If I was upset about something he’d make it about him. One time I talked about how I felt like he never wanted to hang out during the day and do weird, fun activities like I like to do. He told me I was trying to make him feel inferior and “how dare I.” I was the one who felt inferior. It was a mess. He made me feel bad once saying I didn’t check on him during a family emergency, and when I mentioned it to someone else they said “he didn’t have an emergency, it was a family event. Not an emergency.” So there was that. Also when I confronted him about that and his age he denied both. He made the lie bigger about his age actually and created a new string of lies. A couple of friends of mine got him to tell the truth though. This was after I had blocked him and cut him out of my life. There was a lot more to it than this, but it was two months of extreme emotional pain. I really liked him. But my Venus was square his Neptune. I definitely do NOT recommend this as a woman w a Man’s Neptune in hard aspect to my Venus. It might be easier the other way around, but it was an exact square for us... and very apparent. He was certainly the deceiver. I don’t think he meant it as bad as it turned out. I think his goal was to impress me with some of his lies. As for others it was just a test to see if i cared. He had Moon conjunct Pluto natally. He’s not a bad guy. Just not a good guy for me.
These are my most toxic relations/hookups. Whatever we want to call them. The Pisces was from April-June of 2018. It took months to get over that short period. i really liked him. It was... very painful.
Now I have my Gemini, and I love him. He is the light of my life
Posted by neves The ASC is our outer-shell. The persona. The Ego (that concinnous side of the human nature that's concerned with our image - with our survival - also responsible for defense mechanisms). That's usually - how most people perceive us while knowing us for a short-while (at that point they still see what you want them to see). I say usually, becasue if the first encounter takes places in unusual circumstances - when we're not in control (since the ASC has a lot to do with self-control) - they could see other sides of us first. For example: "when we're drunk/intoxicated" - since alcohol can numb the ASC/Ego (at such times most people tend loose control over themselves - over their image). It's the gate to our inner world. Cause after you spend some time in their presence (while living with the one in question - or even while working together - if you get close enough to let them inside) - you get to see the other sides as well. The ASC is still there - but you get to know them on a different level (as some would put it).
That being said... the Ascendant's astro-sign and the ruling planet - can reveal some clues in this regard - but to a big extent it's also shaped by our human condition (all the events in our life up to this point - starting with the close environment and the people from our entourage). As far as i know - there's only one context where an Aquarius could end-up a victim, as in: if he/she happens to be the underdog (odd one out) - and get bullied for its differences. But even then it's not cause of Aquarius. That's not what makes one the victim. I mean, if someone was heavy in Aquarius traits - he/she might appear somehow unstable (would have this really crazy vibe). Unpredictable. And even violent people or bullies - tend to keep away from people like that. Worst case scenario - that Aquarius could even be a serial killer - somehow artistic (the kind that collects its victim's eyeballs to make a necklace). But that's an extreme example ofc - cause again... ones uprising has a big saying - from this point of view (who he/she ends-up to be).
The main negative trait about Aquarius could be its fixed nature. It's one of the 4 - one of the stubborn signs (Aquarius, Taurus, Leo and Scorpio). And since it's an air sign - it's usually the most verbal about it (the others are more physical or emotional). As in... it's more common for an Aquarius to adopt a certain mindset and verbalize it almost on a daily basis - till it becomes a fixation, and... there's nothing anyone could say or do/prove - that could change their mind. Even more than that - they are the ones who try to convert others to their way of thinking - and they don't seem to take so well - the differences in opinion. Can make one rebellious (after all Aquarius is representative for this trait). Change can only come from them - in their own terms.
For people with Aquarius rising - what i mentioned above can be seen in their personality. The part they reveal that is (even unconsciously). Here's a long list with celebrities that happen to have Aquarius ASC:
Tho, it's not about the ASC. Since this is someone who has ALL the personal planets in Aquarius + the ASC (as mentioned above, people heavy on Aquarius - could even end-up to be the ones who prey on others - especially if they're born in a bad place).
But you ignore the fact that the rising sign is also the chart ruler.
And all the examples I mention, it can’t be coincidence.
About Aquarius being serial killers, no this is not aqua trait.
Maybe more like fire signs, especially Aries.
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The chart ruler is a Planet - not a zodiac sign. Each zodiac sign has a ruling planet (Gemini/Virgo = Mercury, Taurus/Libra = Venus, Leo = Sun, Cancer = Moon, Aries = Mars, Scorpio = Pluto, Sagittarius = Jupiter, Pisces = Neptune, Capricorn = Saturn and Aquarius = Uranus). Thus, the ruling planet of the zodiac sign which happens to be the ASC - is known as the ruler of the chart. Uranus in this case. Each house has a zodiac sign and each zodiac sign has a ruling planet. Wherever that planet falls (House + Zodiac signs) - shows what can be the most impactfull for this area of our life. For example: If someone has the ASC in Aquarius and in their chart - Uranus falls in 6th House/Cancer... their Ego - their personality - is heavily influenced by daily routines, by work and being of service to others (someone that picks up a job from an early age - probably as a babysitter - if she's a female / while latter on she might even become a nurse or a doctor in child care facility). This is who she is. Especially since the ruling planet - is also the chart ruler. Thus it's the most impactfull planet. Tho, every house/zodiac sign has a ruling planet - and in a similar way (at a lesser influence) - those too have a saying.
Becoming a serial killer is not a trait - that's an outcome. 😐 And that's not that what i said (that was an extreme example for a chart that really heavy on Aquarius). On the positive side - Aquarius can actually be defined by humanitarianism (caring for humanity at large). This is an air sign - and since the ruling planet is Uranus - there can be some unpredictability to ones nature, but also - coldness (if taken to extremes). For example: someone who has multiple planets in Aquarius (Sun, Mars, Mercury, Moon and Uranus - all in conjunction)/9th house - might come of us as cold natured (aloof) - yet quite intellectual (even a strike of Genius). And also, unusual. An inventor maybe - but also an innovator. Some of this people were born with a mental disorder (mainly autism) - which in this regard - seems to work in their favor since it gives them a different/unusual outlook on the world around them. They might have a hard time understanding people (empathizing) - on the other hand... math, music, colors - could come naturally to them. Mozart for example - had the Sun, Mercury, Venus and Saturn in Aquarius. Sun, Mercury and Saturn in 5th House (among other things - the house of the child - the house of entertainment) and Venus in 6th House (daily routines and work, being of service to others). That's not to say that - every person with this placements is a Genius - but if someone has to many personal planets in Aquarius - ones over all personality can be more or less aloof, butshocking - and not always in a positive way. That's probably - how/why they chose that date for the Anti-Christ - since having all personal planets in Aquarius - could make one void of empathy.
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