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Posted by Parilicium
I have both sun and venus and hate classic romantic rituals

Posted by MareInfamePosted by allrounder
Now let's go to the romantic side of things š
I read Taurus people are known to be great lovers generally (obviously everything depends on everything in your chart, especially Venus sign when it comes to romance).
Preferably the positive experiences, please š
cause PSA, people who have trauma by certain sun signs shouldn't blanket statement and hate on one whole Sun sign when we have to consider everything in someone's chart.
I would say most are similar to me in that we hate going out on dates.
Having said that though, I have been on two with different Taurus that fit the traditional meaning.
Both men approached it indirectly.
1. High school - Taurus and I had mutual friend (female Cancer). He told her he was crushing on me and wanted to take me to Prom. So⦠she set up lots of events where he and I would be together and naturally get to know one another. Then he asked me.
Prom was awkward. Itās a social event and I knew a lot of people. He would shut down or get grumpy when I talked for too long. So, I felt THAT pressureā¦lol.
But it was amazing when we had our 1:1 moments - dinner sitting so close to one another and talking in each otherās ears, dancing together, going outside for a walk, sitting on the sofa. He was very affected by me and I liked how he reacted to me, it turned me on⦠and by getting turned on, it would turn him on to see me turned on. That part wasš„ really nice š„.
2. A friend of my Pisces sister saw me at a party and he told her he had to meet me.
I think she told me too much so I wasnāt interested. But then he came to me and his approach was very disarming so I accepted to go out with him.
At the dinner, we ran into a huge group of admins from my work. They and we ended up waiting for our tables together and they all took over asking him a million questions and then me. Then they were telling me āomg, Iām so excited for you, he adores you, heās the one, donāt mess it up⦠bla bla blaā. I felt PRESSURED.
Then at dinner he reinforces what the admins were saying and he said I was marriage material and that is where he wanted to head with me.
It was too much too soon. Too much pressure from the outside world that I could see or desire anything except to escape and runaway.
I felt bad because he was very sweet and had the approach been differently, I think the outcome might have been differently.
I told him I was overwhelmed and he waited for me for a year to see if I would change my mind. But I didnāt.
Non dates are more successful than dates I believe.click to expand
Posted by MareInfamePosted by RollergirlOrc
IMO, Taurus is the least romantic of the romantic signs. They are more sensual than anything and like to express themselves that way. You might not see or experience anything earth shattering at first.. theirs is more of a slow burn.
Yeah, IME most romantic have been Pisces and Cancer. Romantic, sweet, creative⦠wanting to connect with your soul š„°
Taurus love to make you feel comfortable - but it isnāt about romance, itās truly about having an orgy of the senses. š¬šš¼click to expand



Posted by LentoBull91
A date with a Taurusā¦
Posted by MareInfamePosted by allrounderPosted by MareInfamePosted by allrounder
Now let's go to the romantic side of things š
I read Taurus people are known to be great lovers generally (obviously everything depends on everything in your chart, especially Venus sign when it comes to romance).
Preferably the positive experiences, please š
cause PSA, people who have trauma by certain sun signs shouldn't blanket statement and hate on one whole Sun sign when we have to consider everything in someone's chart.
I would say most are similar to me in that we hate going out on dates.
Having said that though, I have been on two with different Taurus that fit the traditional meaning.
Both men approached it indirectly.
1. High school - Taurus and I had mutual friend (female Cancer). He told her he was crushing on me and wanted to take me to Prom. So⦠she set up lots of events where he and I would be together and naturally get to know one another. Then he asked me.
Prom was awkward. Itās a social event and I knew a lot of people. He would shut down or get grumpy when I talked for too long. So, I felt THAT pressureā¦lol.
But it was amazing when we had our 1:1 moments - dinner sitting so close to one another and talking in each otherās ears, dancing together, going outside for a walk, sitting on the sofa. He was very affected by me and I liked how he reacted to me, it turned me on⦠and by getting turned on, it would turn him on to see me turned on. That part wasš„ really nice š„.
2. A friend of my Pisces sister saw me at a party and he told her he had to meet me.
I think she told me too much so I wasnāt interested. But then he came to me and his approach was very disarming so I accepted to go out with him.
At the dinner, we ran into a huge group of admins from my work. They and we ended up waiting for our tables together and they all took over asking him a million questions and then me. Then they were telling me āomg, Iām so excited for you, he adores you, heās the one, donāt mess it up⦠bla bla blaā. I felt PRESSURED.
Then at dinner he reinforces what the admins were saying and he said I was marriage material and that is where he wanted to head with me.
It was too much too soon. Too much pressure from the outside world that I could see or desire anything except to escape and runaway.
I felt bad because he was very sweet and had the approach been differently, I think the outcome might have been differently.
I told him I was overwhelmed and he waited for me for a year to see if I would change my mind. But I didnāt.
Non dates are more successful than dates I believe.
I'm so glad you could leave both situations cause I'd probably be running away too lool I think it's the Universe's way of telling you they aren't the Ones either. Clearly. I cannot believe the first one already tried to have control over you by getting all grumpy frumpy about you just talking. That tells me he's not a great listener. So good dodge on that one.
I also had a Pisces dude who also said stuff that was like too much too soon too. So I guess it depends on your placements. But at least the second Taurus was honest about where he saw you guys going quick enough that you didn't have to waste any more of your time and energy on him and could just move on?
Well⦠Pisces do tend to say too much too quickly but for some reason that just gives me the giggles because I donāt know⦠I guess I donāt always believe themā¦lol. But I do love them - so sweet š„°
Taurus sometimes scare me because I feel the seriousness and meaning behind the words. I know theyāre not fooling around⦠and that feaks me out sometimes. Iāve had a few people call me a āWild Birdā sometimes⦠just because the approach to me needs to be very indirect at first.
Maybe itās how we take the energy of our opposites š²š³š¤š¤ā¦ since Pisces IS YOUR opposite and Taurus mine š¤š¤š¤
Anyway⦠I donāt remember running away from the high schools Taurus. I just remember feeling that in order to be with him, I would need to sacrifice some of āmeā⦠but I did enjoy pleasing him. I loved how I could make the frown upside down and lived that it wasnāt so easy to accomplishā¦lol.
It was also my last year and then I moved away after I graduated. But I remember my Pisces sister running into him a year later and he was pissed at me for some reason. So, I guess he thought I wasnāt into him because I needed take more initiative towards him?!? Like he expected me to be chasing after him?!? That was odd to me at the time and when I found out I was quite shocked. Never knew he was upset either š¤·š»āāļøclick to expand
Posted by MareInfamePosted by allrounderPosted by MareInfamePosted by RollergirlOrc
IMO, Taurus is the least romantic of the romantic signs. They are more sensual than anything and like to express themselves that way. You might not see or experience anything earth shattering at first.. theirs is more of a slow burn.
Yeah, IME most romantic have been Pisces and Cancer. Romantic, sweet, creative⦠wanting to connect with your soul š„°
Taurus love to make you feel comfortable - but it isnāt about romance, itās truly about having an orgy of the senses. š¬šš¼
Maybe I'm just unclear about the difference between sensuality and romance because in my mind, they go hand in hand. Also I don't know whether to be more scared or amused by "having an orgy of the senses" š
Lol⦠ok let me see if I could explain š¤š¤
Pisces & Cancer - Romantic: Unexpected. Casually invite you to their house, you are in normal clothes, when you come in you see candle lit room. A massage table laid out. Lovely smells from the kitchen as he is cooking a meal for you from scratch. And he has it all planned out when you expected nothing.
Or he casually starts playing the guitar and itās a piece he wrote up a few days ago. Itās about you. Details that make it uniquely about you.
Last minute, leave the party and go on a trip somewhere romantic - not planned.
Love letters, flowers, music, painting, dancing everywhere.
Taurus - sensual: The way they touch you, grab you⦠hand behind your lower back or back of the neck. You want to melt there and let them take over. They want you liking good and want you taken care of⦠have you eaten? No? Well Iāll make sure we go somewhere and have a feast⦠order two of everything on the menu. Luxurious cars to make you feel like your ride is heaven, casually get you expensive jewelry so you could sparkle. You WILL be taken care of and they will make sure you know that your well being concerns them.
I hope I wasnāt too confusing. I can clearly feel the difference but perhaps not as accurate at verbally expressing it.click to expand
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I read Taurus people are known to be great lovers generally (obviously everything depends on everything in your chart, especially Venus sign when it comes to romance).
Preferably the positive experiences, please š
cause PSA, people who have trauma by certain sun signs shouldn't blanket statement and hate on one whole Sun sign when we have to consider everything in someone's chart.