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@Boots1313
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Be Direct...
Posted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
you're right. things only started moving in my direction when i put all my cards on the table.
Posted by jeanePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
you're right. things only started moving in my direction when i put all my cards on the table.click to expand
I've just noticed through trial and error that my taurus doesn't understand subtle hints...i really have to just say straight up what im thinking.
I think it helps trust too.
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96
YES!! I agree with you! I am no better though! TEE HEE!! I ask advice on here ll of the time! I understand people at times need a third person perspective. When you have rose colored glasses on, it can be difficult to make a logical decision. Asking third party individuals with no direct link to the issue can give the person clarity on what to do. I'm not judging or anything, However, I've seen a lot of posts from women in relationships, engaged, or married asking how to get/see/talk to another man. When they receive advice, they decide to ignore the advice because they soooo badly want that person. Like I said, this does not come from a place of hatred in my heart; however, it does make me sad that people look for validation for their issues. When they do not receive validation, they decide to just ignore or twist the advice. I've seen this a lot lately pertaining to scorpio men.
Listen, i ask advice all the time. Not judging lol.
But not when it comes to being direct with my man.
Im not afraid of vulnerability and I know where I stand in my relationship.
Good, bad and indifferent.
I mostly just ask if i have valid reasons to be upset with responses.
But im never afraid to state what I want.
And sometimes we disagree and get into an arguement. But there aren't any questions on my mind on.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Does this also apply to Taurus women? 🤔
Yes, i appreciate brutal direct honesty.
I dont always get hints.
Posted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Bingo! Being direct is effective indeed 😏
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Does this also apply to Taurus women? 🤔
Yes, i appreciate brutal direct honesty.
I dont always get hints.
Yep, I’m useless with hints.click to expand
I want a direct question.
So I can give a direct answer, vise versa...
At least when it comes to serious matters.
Joking and flirtations are a different story.
That can be ambigious and cheeky.
But also they can't go on forever. Eventually someone has to DTR.
Posted by SarapisPosted by Boots1313Posted by Alameda
Either do or do not, there is no try.
Lol.
Thanks Yoda
Lol that's Sadguruclick to expand
Oh, my bf watches him...
Sorry for the mistake
Posted by SarapisPosted by -DamousPosted by SarapisPosted by Boots1313Posted by Alameda
Either do or do not, there is no try.
Lol.
Thanks Yoda
Lol that's Sadguru
Uhhh...
That was a serendipitous typo, should have said Sadhguru .. I like SadGuru better. @Alameda will understandclick to expand
Lmao I always refer to him as SADguru...
My bf shakes his head at me.
Agree, be straightforward and ask directly so I can also answer open, honest and directly.. I hate thinking, hints and guessing games. That way you and I both know whats up and which way we can go!
Posted by Majin
Agree, be straightforward and ask directly so I can also answer open, honest and directly.. I hate thinking, hints and guessing games. That way you and I both know whats up and which way we can go!
Exactly.
Btw nice to see you again.
Hope all is well!
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Majin
Agree, be straightforward and ask directly so I can also answer open, honest and directly.. I hate thinking, hints and guessing games. That way you and I both know whats up and which way we can go!
Exctally.
Btw nice to see you again.
Hope all is well!click to expand
Yes, all is going fine. Was a bit busy with work and home decoration. Great to see you too!
People aren't looking for advice I've realized. They are looking for validation.
Posted by LadyNeptune
People aren't looking for advice I've realized. They are looking for validation.
This is true.
I've seen basically the same post from the same person 3xs on this forum, this week.
Everyone is giving advice and when people start being too honest and brutal;
She makes a new thread. As if she will get different results....
Posted by Boots1313Posted by jeanePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
you're right. things only started moving in my direction when i put all my cards on the table.
I've just noticed through trial and error that my taurus doesn't understand subtle hints...i really have to just say straight up what im thinking.
I think it helps trust too.click to expand
i don't know if that is a taurus thing or perhaps just an xy thing.
Posted by SarapisPosted by LadyNeptune
People aren't looking for advice I've realized. They are looking for validation.
I think the inverse of that is true also. I see a lot of people offering shitty advice as a way to justify their own shitty choices and/or philosophies.
Sometimes I think DXP should give away free cats with membership purchase. That's where a lot of this advice will end up anyway, a house full of cats and a platinum DXP account.click to expand
i think this is important. i learnt early on to look at the life of the person you take advice from. if they have a life you want to emulate then take the advice. if their business is in the toilet too, then it's advice best ignored or at least questioned.
Posted by jeanePosted by Boots1313Posted by jeanePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
you're right. things only started moving in my direction when i put all my cards on the table.
I've just noticed through trial and error that my taurus doesn't understand subtle hints...i really have to just say straight up what im thinking.
I think it helps trust too.
i don't know if that is a taurus thing or perhaps just an xy thing.click to expand
I think all around its solid advice. Not just specific to taurus men.
My ex scorpio loved games and beating around the bush, and he did pick up on hints well.
But he was cheating on me and was never able to say how he really felt etc...
Which lead to our ultimate demise.
But comparing my current relationship.
I prefer there not being any unanswered questions. Being able to ask a question forthright, and knowing im recieving the same in return.
Basically, no b.s.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Lol... reading this rant, I get the impression you are trying to give advice to yourself in some way. Seems very emotional and personal 🤔click to expand
No,
Just annoying that i have read the same post here from the same person 3 times.
I give very blunt advice which is simple and concise. She never responds to it.
But then the next week writes another thread about the same thing expecting to get new or different advice.
Basiclaly what others have said, validation.
It happens quite often on this forum.
And the answer and advice is always the same.
"Be direct and tell them this, not us."
Posted by Skeleton
Yeah, be fucking direct and straightfoward. We can't read your fucking mind. I'm also sick and tired with all those guessing, hints and games shits..
Ofcourse be truthful too. Plz.
I'm sick of reading threads that say... "Was seeing a guy for three months and he ghosted me. I haven't texted or called cuz I don't want to seem desperate or clingy. "... Just call the guy! If you want to talk to him call him stop playing stupid little head games.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Lol... reading this rant, I get the impression you are trying to give advice to yourself in some way. Seems very emotional and personal 🤔
No,
Just annoying that i have read the same post here from the same person 3 times.
I give very blunt advice which is simple and concise. She never responds to it.
But then the next week writes another thread about the same thing expecting to get new or different advice.
Basiclaly what others have said, validation.
It happens quite often on this forum.
Ans the answer and advice is always the same.
Be direct and tell them this, not us.
Ok... well, that sucks that she/he had such an affect on you.click to expand
Lol not about me.
If you read the Taurus threads its the same thing over and over...
It's just exhausting and it seems so obvious...
🙄
So as a general rule of thumb "be direct" is the best advice i can give.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Lol... reading this rant, I get the impression you are trying to give advice to yourself in some way. Seems very emotional and personal 🤔
No,
Just annoying that i have read the same post here from the same person 3 times.
I give very blunt advice which is simple and concise. She never responds to it.
But then the next week writes another thread about the same thing expecting to get new or different advice.
Basiclaly what others have said, validation.
It happens quite often on this forum.
Ans the answer and advice is always the same.
Be direct and tell them this, not us.
Ok... well, that sucks that she/he had such an affect on you.
Lol not about me.
If you read the Taurus threads its the same thing over and over...
It's just exhausting and it seems so obvious...
🙄
Yeah... DXP is what I read when I have time off. So, I’m not going to read anything to point of exhaustion or frustration. I’m not that invested.
Those types of emotions are ones I get in much more serious settings where I really have little control, like: work, family, emergencies, doctors dealing with loved ones. Stuff like that 🤷🏼♀️
So, it’s interesting to see your reaction. Quite opposite of me...lolclick to expand
Lol in my day to day life in pretty calm about everything.
Maybe work is the only thing that triggers me in that way IRL
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Lol... reading this rant, I get the impression you are trying to give advice to yourself in some way. Seems very emotional and personal 🤔
No,
Just annoying that i have read the same post here from the same person 3 times.
I give very blunt advice which is simple and concise. She never responds to it.
But then the next week writes another thread about the same thing expecting to get new or different advice.
Basiclaly what others have said, validation.
It happens quite often on this forum.
Ans the answer and advice is always the same.
Be direct and tell them this, not us.
Ok... well, that sucks that she/he had such an affect on you.
Lol not about me.
If you read the Taurus threads its the same thing over and over...
It's just exhausting and it seems so obvious...
🙄
Yeah... DXP is what I read when I have time off. So, I’m not going to read anything to point of exhaustion or frustration. I’m not that invested.
Those types of emotions are ones I get in much more serious settings where I really have little control, like: work, family, emergencies, doctors dealing with loved ones. Stuff like that 🤷🏼♀️
So, it’s interesting to see your reaction. Quite opposite of me...lol
Lol in my day to day life in pretty calm about everything.
Maybe work is the only thing that triggers me in that way IRL
hahaha... this is your DXP persona then, huh? Very funny!!click to expand
People in shitty relationships trigger me.
I get heated over my friends too when they be bitching about the same thing over and over with their boyfriend.
"Dump the fucking loser, jeeze"
"But i loveeeeeee him"
"You've known him a week, drunk ass cokehead"
I would love to help or give/share my advices or tips if needed, thats not the point. Most are in search of a validation/confirmation of their situation on what to do next or what they are already doing is the right thing or not indeed.
I do open a topic too now and then because of those reasons (at the moment a Leo topic is active). All goes perfectly fine with me without drama, its the fun to share my experience and eventually being confirmed by another Leo woman that makes me even feel better that we are on the right path.
But anyway.. The thing that bothers me the most is the long story behind it. "Past year.. Out of nowhere we started talking again.." kinda things. Do not hesitate to ask straight to the person himself.
But as a Taurus I prefer to be asked directly. Go ahead and ask him/her, no need to be scared or whatever. You will get your answer whenever its good or bad, you will hear the truth atleast.
I do open a topic too now and then because of those reasons (at the moment a Leo topic is active). All goes perfectly fine with me without drama, its the fun to share my experience and eventually being confirmed by another Leo woman that makes me even feel better that we are on the right path.
But anyway.. The thing that bothers me the most is the long story behind it. "Past year.. Out of nowhere we started talking again.." kinda things. Do not hesitate to ask straight to the person himself.
But as a Taurus I prefer to be asked directly. Go ahead and ask him/her, no need to be scared or whatever. You will get your answer whenever its good or bad, you will hear the truth atleast.
Posted by Majin
I would love to help or give/share my advices or tips if needed, thats not the point. Most are in search of a validation/confirmation of their situation on what to do next or what they are already doing is the right thing or not indeed.
I do open a topic too now and then because of those reasons (at the moment a Leo topic is active). All goes perfectly fine with me without drama, its the fun to share my experience and eventually being confirmed by another Leo woman that makes me even feel better that we are on the right path.
But anyway.. The thing that bothers me the most is the long story behind it. "Past year.. Out of nowhere we started talking again.." kinda things. Do not hesitate to ask straight to the person himself.
But as a Taurus I prefer to be asked directly. Go ahead and ask him/her, no need to be scared or whatever. You will get your answer whenever its good or bad, you will hear the truth atleast.
Yes, this is what im getting at.
You summed it up perfectly!
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Lol... reading this rant, I get the impression you are trying to give advice to yourself in some way. Seems very emotional and personal 🤔
No,
Just annoying that i have read the same post here from the same person 3 times.
I give very blunt advice which is simple and concise. She never responds to it.
But then the next week writes another thread about the same thing expecting to get new or different advice.
Basiclaly what others have said, validation.
It happens quite often on this forum.
Ans the answer and advice is always the same.
Be direct and tell them this, not us.
Ok... well, that sucks that she/he had such an affect on you.
Lol not about me.
If you read the Taurus threads its the same thing over and over...
It's just exhausting and it seems so obvious...
🙄
Yeah... DXP is what I read when I have time off. So, I’m not going to read anything to point of exhaustion or frustration. I’m not that invested.
Those types of emotions are ones I get in much more serious settings where I really have little control, like: work, family, emergencies, doctors dealing with loved ones. Stuff like that 🤷🏼♀️
So, it’s interesting to see your reaction. Quite opposite of me...lol
Lol in my day to day life in pretty calm about everything.
Maybe work is the only thing that triggers me in that way IRL
hahaha... this is your DXP persona then, huh? Very funny!!
People in shitty relationships trigger me.
I get heated over my friends too when they be bitching about the same thing over and over with their boyfriend.
"Dump the fucking loser, jeeze"
"But i loveeeeeee him"
"You've known him a week, drunk ass cokehead "
😳... you have some interesting friends...
Strangers that have no affect on my personal life have no affect on me.
But... I’ve definitely gotten impatient and annoyed by some of my friends/family members decisions, constant complaining and not doing anything to make their situation better. Obviously, I care more about them and want the best for them... so, emotions are invested.
I don’t like to complain and do nothing. If I complain, it’s mostly because I am frustrated to find a solution - once present, I take action. So, yeah... it’s hard for me to understand people that repeatedly do the same thing that cause them ill.
Maybe they subconsciously like living in insanity and in pain 🤔. Once you figure that out, all you can do is: not take their pleas so seriously or just avoid seeing them too often. Because if you are constantly going on the rollercoaster with them, you are also living in insanity.click to expand
I have definitely begun to distance myself from most of my friends. Because they all love to play the victim and have that same mentality. Like what you said in the last paragraph hold so much truth.
At one point in time I wanted to be a guidance counselor / therapist. But that never exactly panned out, so I think that's why I get emotionally invested in strangers sometimes.
What's your sign?
Posted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313Posted by MareInfamePosted by Boots1313
So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Lol... reading this rant, I get the impression you are trying to give advice to yourself in some way. Seems very emotional and personal 🤔
No,
Just annoying that i have read the same post here from the same person 3 times.
I give very blunt advice which is simple and concise. She never responds to it.
But then the next week writes another thread about the same thing expecting to get new or different advice.
Basiclaly what others have said, validation.
It happens quite often on this forum.
Ans the answer and advice is always the same.
Be direct and tell them this, not us.
Ok... well, that sucks that she/he had such an affect on you.
Lol not about me.
If you read the Taurus threads its the same thing over and over...
It's just exhausting and it seems so obvious...
🙄
Yeah... DXP is what I read when I have time off. So, I’m not going to read anything to point of exhaustion or frustration. I’m not that invested.
Those types of emotions are ones I get in much more serious settings where I really have little control, like: work, family, emergencies, doctors dealing with loved ones. Stuff like that 🤷🏼♀️
So, it’s interesting to see your reaction. Quite opposite of me...lol
Lol in my day to day life in pretty calm about everything.
Maybe work is the only thing that triggers me in that way IRL
hahaha... this is your DXP persona then, huh? Very funny!!
People in shitty relationships trigger me.
I get heated over my friends too when they be bitching about the same thing over and over with their boyfriend.
"Dump the fucking loser, jeeze"
"But i loveeeeeee him"
"You've known him a week, drunk ass cokehead "
😳... you have some interesting friends...
Strangers that have no affect on my personal life have no affect on me.
But... I’ve definitely gotten impatient and annoyed by some of my friends/family members decisions, constant complaining and not doing anything to make their situation better. Obviously, I care more about them and want the best for them... so, emotions are invested.
I don’t like to complain and do nothing. If I complain, it’s mostly because I am frustrated to find a solution - once present, I take action. So, yeah... it’s hard for me to understand people that repeatedly do the same thing that cause them ill.
Maybe they subconsciously like living in insanity and in pain 🤔. Once you figure that out, all you can do is: not take their pleas so seriously or just avoid seeing them too often. Because if you are constantly going on the rollercoaster with them, you are also living in insanity.
I have definitely begun to distance myself from most of my friends. Because they all love to play the victim and have that same mentality. Like what you said in the last paragraph hold so much truth.
At one point in time I wanted to be a guidance counselor / therapist. But that never exactly panned out, so I think that's why I get emotionally invested in strangers sometimes.
And yea, i call a spade, a spade. Thats who my associates are sadly 🙄
What's your sign?click to expand
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So many posts lately on "How to get a taurus man" or "Does this guy like me"? Or" Do you think I messed up"?
Asking a bunch of strangers online.
There is only so much advice we can give you without knowing the parties involved.
In all these cases above, plus many more...here is the best advice:
"BE DIRECT! JUST ASK STRAIGHT UP? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO COY AND BEATING AROUND THE BUSH?"
It accomplishes absolutely nothing and you are left with so many unanswered questions.
And if YOU can't answer the questions. You think we can?
Yes an outside perspectives are good...
But open honest communication is better.
Stop being afraid. Get your answer, take it as truth and do whatever steps need to be done after.
Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.
Lol... reading this rant, I get the impression you are trying to give advice to yourself in some way. Seems very emotional and personal 🤔
No,
Just annoying that i have read the same post here from the same person 3 times.
I give very blunt advice which is simple and concise. She never responds to it.
But then the next week writes another thread about the same thing expecting to get new or different advice.
Basiclaly what others have said, validation.
It happens quite often on this forum.
Ans the answer and advice is always the same.
Be direct and tell them this, not us.
Ok... well, that sucks that she/he had such an affect on you.
Lol not about me.
If you read the Taurus threads its the same thing over and over...
It's just exhausting and it seems so obvious...
🙄
Yeah... DXP is what I read when I have time off. So, I’m not going to read anything to point of exhaustion or frustration. I’m not that invested.
Those types of emotions are ones I get in much more serious settings where I really have little control, like: work, family, emergencies, doctors dealing with loved ones. Stuff like that 🤷🏼♀️
So, it’s interesting to see your reaction. Quite opposite of me...lol
Lol in my day to day life in pretty calm about everything.
Maybe work is the only thing that triggers me in that way IRL
hahaha... this is your DXP persona then, huh? Very funny!!
People in shitty relationships trigger me.
I get heated over my friends too when they be bitching about the same thing over and over with their boyfriend.
"Dump the fucking loser, jeeze"
"But i loveeeeeee him"
"You've known him a week, drunk ass cokehead "
😳... you have some interesting friends...
Strangers that have no affect on my personal life have no affect on me.
But... I’ve definitely gotten impatient and annoyed by some of my friends/family members decisions, constant complaining and not doing anything to make their situation better. Obviously, I care more about them and want the best for them... so, emotions are invested.
I don’t like to complain and do nothing. If I complain, it’s mostly because I am frustrated to find a solution - once present, I take action. So, yeah... it’s hard for me to understand people that repeatedly do the same thing that cause them ill.
Maybe they subconsciously like living in insanity and in pain 🤔. Once you figure that out, all you can do is: not take their pleas so seriously or just avoid seeing them too often. Because if you are constantly going on the rollercoaster with them, you are also living in insanity.
I have definitely begun to distance myself from most of my friends. Because they all love to play the victim and have that same mentality. Like what you said in the last paragraph hold so much truth.
At one point in time I wanted to be a guidance counselor / therapist. But that never exactly panned out, so I think that's why I get emotionally invested in strangers sometimes.
And yea, i call a spade, a spade. Thats who my associates are sadly 🙄
What's your sign?
-missed this add in-
Yeah, it sounds like a very healthy option to distance yourself. Maybe find friends that inspire you and motivate you. Or that are just fun to be around and easy going.click to expand
Eh, i dont really get attached to people, except my S.O.
Don't really need friends.
Im 30, much to hard to make friends now.
Plus im very routine...dont have much time.
And i like it that way
I told my Taurus the other day that I don’t want anyone else and I just want to be with him!
Think that was clear enough. Felt good to say it. He’s gone away on a business trip now and I’m super busy so we haven’t spoken but that’s ok. I know they need time to process information
Think that was clear enough. Felt good to say it. He’s gone away on a business trip now and I’m super busy so we haven’t spoken but that’s ok. I know they need time to process information
I find bulls anything but direct and when you’re direct with them they can get offended and extremely sensitive and ignore you. I dealt with this with a Taurus friend but also have experienced a huge lack of communication with the few Taurus men I’ve tried something with. So I don’t think this is the way personally. I don’t know the way lol but this ain’t it.
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Trust me it will save you alot of time, overthinking and heartache.
Done rant.