@Luxhc
10 Years
Taurus Man... Clingy?
Does he not work?
No we actually met because we both work for the same company but he works in sales and he makes a ton of money, but yeah this is something maybe I would have done younger and been into. Now I am just like, I need time to think! And not text you ever fucking sec. Lol.
Seems clingy indeed.
Did you try to slowdown the texting by responding later or something?
Posted by MajinSeems clingy indeed.
Did you try to slowdown the texting by responding later or something?
yeah, I feel like I totally have a few times, when we first started texting I would even go a few days without replying! But he will just give it a few hours and be like "I miss you" or something sweet. Which is kinda cute and totally kinda irritating, we aren't together - I'm not looking for anything right now, I've told him this.
Not in my expierence. In the beginning maybe not clingy but a little obsessive.
My guy and i talked for a week straight on fb messanger. Literally like 60+ hours straight.
But it quickly relaxed and that obviously isnt sustainable
@boots1313 "obsessive" - that is like the perfect word for his behavior!
Posted by Luxhc@boots1313 "obsessive" - that is like the perfect word for his behavior!
I never had my guy say "i miss you" if 3 hours passed tho (even now). That made me cringe when i read it. And listen im clingy af
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Luxhc@boots1313 "obsessive" - that is like the perfect word for his behavior!
I never had my guy say "i miss you" if 3 hours passed tho (even now). That made me cringe when i read it. And listen im clingy af
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Lol, yeah it's kinda bizarre. I've been trying to tell him I'm not that great... haha it's not working!
Posted by LuxhcPosted by Boots1313Posted by Luxhc@boots1313 "obsessive" - that is like the perfect word for his behavior!
I never had my guy say "i miss you" if 3 hours passed tho (even now). That made me cringe when i read it. And listen im clingy af
Lol, yeah it's kinda bizarre. I've been trying to tell him I'm not that great... haha it's not working!
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Well if you aren't interested, do not entertain him. Just tell him that straight up and then block him. Dont play with his heart, Taurus get wounded ...but they do a lot better with direct intentions.
I'm interested in him, it's the clinginess that is sort of making me feel weird. I'm going to slow it down the next few days in hopes he catches on. I think as I've gotten older, I'm just very slow with approaching relationships and opening up. I want to get to know someone first and make sure we can even be friends.
I'm working on it, and definitely not intending to play with his feelings, and if it comes down to me being very direct I will be.
Posted by LuxhcI'm interested in him, it's the clinginess that is sort of making me feel weird. I'm going to slow it down the next few days in hopes he catches on. I think as I've gotten older, I'm just very slow with approaching relationships and opening up. I want to get to know someone first and make sure we can even be friends.
I'm working on it, and definitely not intending to play with his feelings, and if it comes down to me being very direct I will be.
Good plan
yeah, I agree, it's a little suffocating! Cap moon for sure, which makes me think I am going to be alone forever - mostly because I prefer it that way. I like my space. I need my space in all honestly! Sounds very similar indeed!
Posted by DrinkWaterDon't worry, anytime now he will withdraw for no reason whatsoever an you'll be left wondering where all that attention went.
Lmfao this ☝🏼 You’ve been warned
My ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
Posted by ImpulsvAll you have to do is text
I’ll talk to you after work 🙂
Its really this simple.
Okhams razor
If he has a lot of 'fire' in his chart, it can either indicate two things.....
1. He's quite passionate and wants to expedite the process in getting into your pants.
2. He enjoys the 'thrill' of the chase....which means this might mellow out once he gets used to you.
What are his placements?
Most Bulls prefer to move slow...cautiously...the initial interest is like a fire burning out (quite the opposite of a fire-charged Bull)....it burns slowly, and then it burns out....routine sets in....and the possessivness shows it colors.
Not true for all Bulls of course.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
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Because he was an insecure piece of shit who constantly cheated on me. Dxp saw it go down that day haha 😅😭
Jokes aside, we both had our faults. I’m not very affectionate, and I’m pretty detached. I need lots of space. He was very very insecure and that detachment just made it worse. He lowkey liked women who are on his ass chasing him all the time, but I’m not that girl. So he’d cheat on me. It took a long time for me to leave for good.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
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Lol I just realized, you have his same personal planet placements except his Ascendant lol he was an Aqua rising.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
Because he was an insecure piece of shit who constantly cheated on me. Dxp saw it go down that day haha 😅😭
Jokes aside, we both had our faults. I’m not very affectionate, and I’m pretty detached. I need lots of space. He was very very insecure and that detachment just made it worse. He lowkey liked women who are on his ass chasing him all the time, but I’m not that girl. So he’d cheat on me. It took a long time for me to leave for good.
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Thats sad. Im sorry. Dont blame yourself and not being affectionate. Different love languages and obviously he couldn't communicate.
Hope yoi are happier now 🙂
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
Lol I just realized, you have his same personal planet placements except his Ascendant lol he was an Aqua rising.
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Lmao and im pretty insecure.
What are you placements? My guy sounds like you, and i sound like your ex ...🙁😓😜
Posted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
Because he was an insecure piece of shit who constantly cheated on me. Dxp saw it go down that day haha 😅😭
Jokes aside, we both had our faults. I’m not very affectionate, and I’m pretty detached. I need lots of space. He was very very insecure and that detachment just made it worse. He lowkey liked women who are on his ass chasing him all the time, but I’m not that girl. So he’d cheat on me. It took a long time for me to leave for good.
Thats sad. Im sorry. Dont blame yourself and not being affectionate. Different love languages and obviously he couldn't communicate.
Hope yoi are happier now 🙂
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Thank you!! I’m definitely happier and completely over him 😊
Posted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
Lol I just realized, you have his same personal planet placements except his Ascendant lol he was an Aqua rising.
Lmao and im pretty insecure.
What are you placements? My guy sounds like you, and i sound like your ex ...🙁😓😜
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Lol! Uh oh 👀 I’m Virgo sac, Taurus sun, cancer moon, Aries Merc, Gemini Venus, cancer mars.
My ex was insecure because he was short lmao. He had short man syndrome 😅
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by Boots1313Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy ex and I barely texted each other, especially when we were at work. We’re both Taurus
Oit of curiosity as a taurus dating another taurus, why did you break up? I dont see rhe combo here often (you can PM me if personal)
Lol I just realized, you have his same personal planet placements except his Ascendant lol he was an Aqua rising.
Lmao and im pretty insecure.
What are you placements? My guy sounds like you, and i sound like your ex ...🙁😓😜
Lol! Uh oh 👀 I’m Virgo sac, Taurus sun, cancer moon, Aries Merc, Gemini Venus, cancer mars.
My ex was insecure because he was short lmao. He had short man syndrome 😅
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My bf has your placements except hes libra moon, sag asc .
My experience with Taurus.. it seems to work out in the beginning, clingy there are, but somehow we always clash.
I like my space too, and extra clingininess is not attractive at all.
I too have a Cap moon and I'm a Taurus and I like my space but appreciate the balance I have with my guy. He's an avid outdoorsman and can go out for long periods of time - daily. If you can find someone you can balance that with - it's ideal.
why don't you try to tell him how you feel - be direct but gentle - I think he might just get it ? it's worth a shot . what placement makes him a clinger - I didn't think Taurus was like that but with my Cap Moon that may have been overlooked
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Ladies, question - if you've dated a Taurus man were they clingy? I kinda like this guy, but he wants to text back and forth literally aalllll day long. I'm almost 30, I don't even do this with my best friend. Not going to fly. What is your experience with Taurus man? Thanks!