TMV
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Dude is making me lose my mind
Posted by ImperfectStorm
And let’s not forget he already has a girlfriend.
I definitely haven't forgotten. Been avoiding him because of that. Never alone together anymore, avoiding eye contact, speaking as little as possible. Internally chanting thou shalt not F with other people's relationships.
But that's the kind of good advice that I needed so thank you. I have a compulsive need to verify my own sanity before I start actively pushing him away.
Did I mis read!
A gf he lives with.
A gf he lives with.
You're both in relationship so don't entertain the idea. 🙊
With that synastry connection is legit so is he. Who said you needed to be romantic?
Lol why play games? Tell him what's up. See what happens.
Because that ghosting... You know connections like that don't grow on trees right?
Synastry like that this isn't a random connection.
There is a reason.
Thinking about it more, the fact you both feel a temptation makes me question your current relationships.
But again This kind of synastry screams something. There is a reason for it.
Lol why play games? Tell him what's up. See what happens.
Because that ghosting... You know connections like that don't grow on trees right?
Synastry like that this isn't a random connection.
There is a reason.
Thinking about it more, the fact you both feel a temptation makes me question your current relationships.
But again This kind of synastry screams something. There is a reason for it.
Posted by Lostthoughts Who said you needed to be romantic?
I don't think it could not be. Not at the present anyway, but I'm VERY wary of Neptune lurking in there. Feels like a road to hell paved with good intentions.
I'm thinking I'll just keep my distance, hands to myself and mouth shut. Let the universe work its will, and if it's meant to be, it will be.
Posted by alexscaries
3) he wants to know you better. Don't mistake it for respect.
4) Lame AF and suboptimal. It's like a man who sees a pretty girl and asks jer the time when he should just be honest.
Duly noted. I think it's an awkward situation for both of us. I'm going through a divorce, but they had only moved in together a month before we met. Also, he's technically my superior on this job. If I'm wrong, I lose nothing. If he's wrong, he could lose everything.
I think it's just doomed before the start.
Both in a relationship already—never ends well when it starts like this. You’d rather your stories be later on how you just knew the person you were with wasn’t right once you met ____ and dumped them, or something to the fact. Not: we met at work and had an affair and now we’re together bc our partners left us. 🤷♀️
Posted by Maxian
This reeks of Bored at Home, Girlfriend Nags and need Attention from Potential Work Wife.
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Textbook
Posted by TMVPosted by Lostthoughts Who said you needed to be romantic?
I don't think it could not be. Not at the present anyway, but I'm VERY wary of Neptune lurking in there. Feels like a road to hell paved with good intentions.
I'm thinking I'll just keep my distance, hands to myself and mouth shut. Let the universe work its will, and if it's meant to be, it will be.click to expand
I'll let you know a secret about Neptune in synastry.
Yes you can get inspelled and enthralled by the Neptune person however it's not bullshit if they are serious. it can seem like a form of love bombing if they are too forward too soon and the other person doesn't fit the bill. Think cloud 9 stage of the relationship when the bubble pops.
All connections are 2 way streets. You can actually trigger someones Neptune and draw them in rather be drawn in yourself.
Neptune and Jupiter are one of the most powerful manifesters of people.
That Neptune square Jupiter is supported by that Jupiter sextile Saturn aspect.
And Sun trine.
Which are you in these aspects?
Posted by Lostthoughts
That Neptune square Jupiter is supported by that Jupiter sextile Saturn aspect.
And Sun trine.
Which are you in these aspects?
In Neptune Square Jupiter, I'm the Neptune person, and then I'm Jupiter vs his Saturn.
Ignoring his friend for a girl he just met = disloyal and thirsty. I’m just saying, not the gold star you think it is. Especially if your the friend 🙃
Posted by alexscariesPosted by LadyNeptune
Ignoring his friend for a girl he just met = disloyal and thirsty. I’m just saying, not the gold star you think it is. Especially if your the friend 🙃
TBF he's also got a wife.click to expand
Yeah I know 😂 but even dudes who sleep around still have some sort of base loyalty to their bros.
Guy is both a bad partner and bad friend, double strike.
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