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Are we naturally loners?
Are People Naturally Lone or Social
Many individuals experience fluctuating feelings about relationships due to personal and astrological factors. Some signs are more independent and prefer solitude, while others seek connection. Understanding your astrological chart can offer insights into your natural tendencies toward loneliness or sociability.
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Scorpio moon
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Scorpio moon
She has awesome placements. They're nearly the same as mine.
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Modest lol 😂
Scorpio moon
She has awesome placements. They're nearly the same as mine.
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I assume that’s the culprit vs anything in Taurus.
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
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I hear you.. but is anyone deserving? ... I know it's what you do when you are in love, which I'm not sure that I'm capable of anymore..
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
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been with Leo ... the arrogance is crazy but still they are the kindest!
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
You don`t want drama and expectations, but you would enjoy the bond right? We need people who also need alone time.
Scorpio moon
She has awesome placements. They're nearly the same as mine.
I assume that’s the culprit vs anything in Taurus.
Idk I have Venus in Taurus and I'm happily a lonely bitch
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Moon and mars?
Scorpio moon
She has awesome placements. They're nearly the same as mine.
I assume that’s the culprit vs anything in Taurus.
Idk I have Venus in Taurus and I'm happily a lonely bitch
Moon and mars?
Virgo and Gemini
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I mean… lol
It’s still not something I’d associate with Taurus.
I’m a Scorp Moon with a Libra Venus and shouldn’t exist outside of a romantic relationship. 😂
I have my Lilith in Scorpio I think that can be one of the loneliest placements as you age. I'm gettin there.
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
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Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
been with Leo ... the arrogance is crazy but still they are the kindest!
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Yes. Even after a fight, I asked him kindly “did I offend you?” and he says “it’s all good”. Or he’ll tell me to take good care of myself, to make sure I eat well and rest well. Kind and caring.
Makes it impossible to truly hate them Leos! 😹
Scorpio moon
She has awesome placements. They're nearly the same as mine.
I assume that’s the culprit vs anything in Taurus.
Idk I have Venus in Taurus and I'm happily a lonely bitch
Moon and mars?
Virgo and Gemini
I mean… lol
It’s still not something I’d associate with Taurus.
I’m a Scorp Moon with a Libra Venus and shouldn’t exist outside of a romantic relationship. 😂
😟 Don't laugh at my lonely placements.
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I just know mercurials don’t casually get into romantic relationships regardless of what astrologers say. lol
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
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I don’t know. It’s hard out there. Hard to meet someone new who you’re into and they are into you.
I think every relationship is a bit dysfunctional.
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
I don’t know. It’s hard out there. Hard to meet someone new who you’re into and they are into you.
I think every relationship is a bit dysfunctional.
They're not so hard people should put up with abuse. If anything it is incredibly easy for even average looking women to date. Incredibly difficult for even good looking men if they've got no bants or can't play the game. It's a sausage fest out there people.
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I agree. No abuse. But if chemistry is still there and it’s going good for the most part, then it’s reasonable and much easier to just stay.
I’ve gone out with few men lately and felt nothing. It’s a terrible feeling of void and null 😬
“You’re never alone when you have DXP”
- The Ands
“You’re never alone when you have DXP”
- The Ands
I've got that polo shirt.
Psycho Bunny 😅
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Ahem…*bunnysport
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
I don’t know. It’s hard out there. Hard to meet someone new who you’re into and they are into you.
I think every relationship is a bit dysfunctional.
They're not so hard people should put up with abuse. If anything it is incredibly easy for even average looking women to date. Incredibly difficult for even good looking men if they've got no bants or can't play the game. It's a sausage fest out there people.
I agree. No abuse. But if chemistry is still there and it’s going good for the most part, then it’s reasonable and much easier to just stay.
I’ve gone out with few men lately and felt nothing. It’s a terrible feeling of void and null 😬
Pointless waste of time. Emasculating to men, demeaning to women. There's a reason why you or him left the relationship in the first place and all the arguments and animosity resurfaces. I've seen people make up and break up multiple times in a year, it's pathetic and tedious to watch.
It's good fun meeting new people, even better if you fuck them on the first date.
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Not all relationships ended because of terrible arguments and animosity. Some people thrive on drama and uncertainty. Sometimes people move away and then they reconnect again. Sometimes sex is irreplaceable.
It’s good and fun to meet the right kind of new people you actually want to have sex with….
But it’s pure suffering going out with someone with no chemistry or lukewarm at the best.
i thought it was: "are we naturally losers?"
I have no idea honestly because I've been alone for years even though some of the time was spent in a relationship. Meaning that I've gotten so accustomed to being alone that even a coffee with someone I know can be burdensome for me. I mostly space out. I would love to have someone to share my life with, but even though I might find someone who rocks my world, I'd be paranoid about how things could go sour. Don't know if it's worth the hassle in the end...
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Taurus woman?
You just need a Scorp man.
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Never been there ... thought about it though
i thought it was: "are we naturally losers?"
We are losers and winners
it feels like i won something when a scorpio moon told me:
"i trust you 100% ."
it feels like i won something when a scorpio moon told me:
"i trust you 100% ."
A whistle. 😏
it feels like i won something when a scorpio moon told me:
"i trust you 100% ."
A whistle. 😏
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I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
I don’t know. It’s hard out there. Hard to meet someone new who you’re into and they are into you.
I think every relationship is a bit dysfunctional.
They're not so hard people should put up with abuse. If anything it is incredibly easy for even average looking women to date. Incredibly difficult for even good looking men if they've got no bants or can't play the game. It's a sausage fest out there people.
I agree. No abuse. But if chemistry is still there and it’s going good for the most part, then it’s reasonable and much easier to just stay.
I’ve gone out with few men lately and felt nothing. It’s a terrible feeling of void and null 😬
Pointless waste of time. Emasculating to men, demeaning to women. There's a reason why you or him left the relationship in the first place and all the arguments and animosity resurfaces. I've seen people make up and break up multiple times in a year, it's pathetic and tedious to watch.
It's good fun meeting new people, even better if you fuck them on the first date.
Not all relationships ended because of terrible arguments and animosity. Some people thrive on drama and uncertainty. Sometimes people move away and then they reconnect again. Sometimes sex is irreplaceable.
It’s good and fun to meet the right kind of new people you actually want to have sex with….
But it’s pure suffering going out with someone with no chemistry or lukewarm at the best.
You're missing my point get back with someone and they will remember why you left them or them you. I think you are trying to justify your own choices. If it ended in the first place it wasn't solid.
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They will remember, of course. But it’s not that important to some people. I don’t hold grudges if it’s just minor misdemeanors.
And it doesn’t mean that the relationship is doomed forever and ever. Look at Ben Affleck and Jen Lopez, they just got married again after 20 years apart. They look overjoyed.
I am taking a small break from dating, for the time being. Unless it hits me like lightning ⚡️ on bright, clear day!
All I know is that whoever ends up with me, will be one lucky guy…🥰
I’m the total opposite. I’ve always been a loner since I was a child and it wasn’t very exciting. For some reason I’m at my best when in a relationship. Apparently they inspire me or ignite something within me. As I grow older, I cherish having limited, quality people around me, appreciate building a life together with a partner. It wasn’t always this easy but somehow I was able to turn everything around. I just kind of always believed things will work out the way I want no matter what and it does. Mindset is literally everything.
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I can relate and I have always and still feel that way and I'm married. And, the feeling has worsened with age. So, every time he does anything I say to myself, "look, that's something you don't have to do." And, U thank him.
I don't trust anyone. Never have. Don't feel it's logical or that you are supposed to. I don't go around acting suspicious though, lol. I just don't care.
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
I don’t know. It’s hard out there. Hard to meet someone new who you’re into and they are into you.
I think every relationship is a bit dysfunctional.
They're not so hard people should put up with abuse. If anything it is incredibly easy for even average looking women to date. Incredibly difficult for even good looking men if they've got no bants or can't play the game. It's a sausage fest out there people.
I agree. No abuse. But if chemistry is still there and it’s going good for the most part, then it’s reasonable and much easier to just stay.
I’ve gone out with few men lately and felt nothing. It’s a terrible feeling of void and null 😬
Pointless waste of time. Emasculating to men, demeaning to women. There's a reason why you or him left the relationship in the first place and all the arguments and animosity resurfaces. I've seen people make up and break up multiple times in a year, it's pathetic and tedious to watch.
It's good fun meeting new people, even better if you fuck them on the first date.
Not all relationships ended because of terrible arguments and animosity. Some people thrive on drama and uncertainty. Sometimes people move away and then they reconnect again. Sometimes sex is irreplaceable.
It’s good and fun to meet the right kind of new people you actually want to have sex with….
But it’s pure suffering going out with someone with no chemistry or lukewarm at the best.
You're missing my point get back with someone and they will remember why you left them or them you. I think you are trying to justify your own choices. If it ended in the first place it wasn't solid.
They will remember, of course. But it’s not that important to some people. I don’t hold grudges if it’s just minor misdemeanors.
And it doesn’t mean that the relationship is doomed forever and ever. Look at Ben Affleck and Jen Lopez, they just got married again after 20 years apart. They look overjoyed.
I am taking a small break from dating, for the time being. Unless it hits me like lightning ⚡️ on bright, clear day!
All I know is that whoever ends up with me, will be one lucky guy…🥰
I don't take celebrity relationships seriously, especially how many people are in the closet.
We just have different ideas. I can't see the point in going back to a broken relationship. It's the same shit over and over.
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I am hoping to prove you wrong 🙂
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I don't understand how Taurus can pride itself on being "logical" and "no nonsense" when it ponders crap like this.
You have less need for a partner, yet you want a partner. Are YOU a natural born loner? Well, if, according to you, you "don't want the troubles that come" with looking for a partner, I guess you already answered your own question with a resounding "yes," didn't you?
Now there's something no nonsense and logical that you can process, I'm sure. Taurus does better at eating and being lazy as shit. Leave logic to the soulless Virgos and Geminis.
Yes. Lol
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
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This is a very refreshing sentiment.
Scorpio moon
She has awesome placements. They're nearly the same as mine.
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I do? 😂😂😂
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
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Isn’t this thread for Tauruses?
Because if it was for EVERYBODY - it would be in ForEverybody forum…
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
You don`t want drama and expectations, but you would enjoy the bond right? We need people who also need alone time.
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I had pretty easy time with Aries in the same place without speaking a whole day except
- Breakfast? (Lunch, dinner or just…Hungry?)
Our dynamic was perfect. Then I got tired.
But it was a good 4 year run…
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
I hear you.. but is anyone deserving? ... I know it's what you do when you are in love, which I'm not sure that I'm capable of anymore..
Yeah if you think no-one is good enough it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It just takes time and it's so rare to find a connection with someone when you do it is amazing. Love takes time, I don't believe in love at first sight.
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Believe it!
I saw Aries picture and I was done!
We said to meet and couldn’t for 3 weeks and he asked for face time and he was like - check!
After first date in hotel room - divorce and I am yours. Done!
Virgo - same scenario. He fell for my faceless picture. I fell for his voice.
I am opposite. I do not believe in ‘love will come’ after some time…
Not for me. If I am not feeling it right away - I am not feeling it. Period!
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
I hear you.. but is anyone deserving? ... I know it's what you do when you are in love, which I'm not sure that I'm capable of anymore..
Yeah if you think no-one is good enough it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It just takes time and it's so rare to find a connection with someone when you do it is amazing. Love takes time, I don't believe in love at first sight.
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What about lust in first sight? 😜
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
I don’t know. It’s hard out there. Hard to meet someone new who you’re into and they are into you.
I think every relationship is a bit dysfunctional.
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I agree. It's very difficult.
“You’re never alone when you have DXP”
- The Ands
What is freak was banned for?
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I don't understand how Taurus can pride itself on being "logical" and "no nonsense" when it ponders crap like this.
You have less need for a partner, yet you want a partner. Are YOU a natural born loner? Well, if, according to you, you "don't want the troubles that come" with looking for a partner, I guess you already answered your own question with a resounding "yes," didn't you?
Now there's something no nonsense and logical that you can process, I'm sure. Taurus does better at eating and being lazy as shit. Leave logic to the soulless Virgos and Geminis.
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I loved everything you said except (of course) the last sentence. Care to elaborate?
I had been called cold hearted bitch but soulless…not yet. Well…I guess now I am. And I can’t care less but Virgo? My beautiful soul Virgo? WHY— He is the most soulful and amazing…and he promised to fix shower. Today!!! 🤷♀️
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
This is a very refreshing sentiment.
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If you haven’t noticed - Alex as Aries representative is very refreshing himself so it is only logical that he makes refreshing comments like this one…that makes me truly hate him…because it makes me thinking of Aries fondly. Oh da pain!!! 🤦♀️
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
I hear you.. but is anyone deserving? ... I know it's what you do when you are in love, which I'm not sure that I'm capable of anymore..
Yeah if you think no-one is good enough it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It just takes time and it's so rare to find a connection with someone when you do it is amazing. Love takes time, I don't believe in love at first sight.
What about lust in first sight? 😜
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YESSS! 💪
That’s how you know sex will be good!!!
And you peel your clothes off…wait…you didn’t ask THAT did you? Sorry 😂😂😂
I consider myself a loner, but I desire closeness. Skin to skin contact and cuddles are as important to me as the time I need alone.
You need to be locked up together with another loner and…have that skin on skin…24/7 until you both exhausted and parted until next time you want to be locked up alone together…mmm
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
I hear you.. but is anyone deserving? ... I know it's what you do when you are in love, which I'm not sure that I'm capable of anymore..
Yeah if you think no-one is good enough it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It just takes time and it's so rare to find a connection with someone when you do it is amazing. Love takes time, I don't believe in love at first sight.
What about lust in first sight? 😜
YESSS! 💪
That’s how you know sex will be good!!!
And you peel your clothes off…wait…you didn’t ask THAT did you? Sorry 😂😂😂
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I think Alex has a lot of lust at first sights.🤣 But yeh I believe in lust at first sights. If I'm not feeling it there's not going to be any love growing over time. 😅
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
I've gone in the opposite directions. I will put up with all the trouble for someone meaningful.
I hear you.. but is anyone deserving? ... I know it's what you do when you are in love, which I'm not sure that I'm capable of anymore..
Yeah if you think no-one is good enough it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It just takes time and it's so rare to find a connection with someone when you do it is amazing. Love takes time, I don't believe in love at first sight.
What about lust in first sight? 😜
YESSS! 💪
That’s how you know sex will be good!!!
And you peel your clothes off…wait…you didn’t ask THAT did you? Sorry 😂😂😂
I think Alex has a lot of lust at first sights.🤣 But yeh I believe in lust at first sights. If I'm not feeling it there's not going to be any love growing over time. 😅
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Exactly! We ARE visual creatures. Growing love is a mystery to me. If you didn’t like them before - what happened that you like them later? They saved a kitten or baked the cake?
Or had implants? There we go…😂😂😂
I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?
Yes, I can relate. Spent all my weekend arguing with Leo back and forth.
I would like to be with that special someone, but sometimes I just enjoy being by myself.
Why do people stay in miserable relationships.
I don’t know. It’s hard out there. Hard to meet someone new who you’re into and they are into you.
I think every relationship is a bit dysfunctional.
I agree. It's very difficult.
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Who would understand better than my air-y 🐱 sister? 😻😹
Yes, you guys are loners for a deep need for closeness and affection.
The ones that are loners and like to go to the woods / be in nature are my absolute weakness. Such PEACEFUL and loving beings 🥹💖.
-raises hand-
tis me.
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My Moon and Mars in Taurus rasie their hands too 😃
Yes, you guys are loners for a deep need for closeness and affection.
The ones that are loners and like to go to the woods / be in nature are my absolute weakness. Such PEACEFUL and loving beings 🥹💖.
-raises hand-
tis me.
My Moon and Mars in Taurus rasie their hands too 😃
I have no Taurus in my chart but am also the same way. For me, it’s an axis thing.
You with so much of both… must just be VERY strong…. Extreme to its core. E.G - me, needed once a week. You, needed every other hour…lol. Something like that 😅
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Yes, very strong for sure!
Needed every other hour for what Marę?
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I wonder cause I have mixed feelings about relationships as I grow older ... I feel less need for a partner.. and at the same time I know that I want a partner.. but I don't want the troubles that come with it and I can't trust anyone so easily now..
Can anyone relate?