Taurus guy silent treatment

Really don’t know if this would be categorized as silent treatment but oh well.

Was supposed to have a date with Taurus guy friday, i forgot i was supposed to go out with a friend that night as well, but since we were going clubbing it wouldn’t interrupt my date. Anyways i ask taurus if he wants to join us to the club that night that he is more than welcome... after I tell him he completely goes silent( totally not how he would normally act since we call eachother on the phone literally every day.

Friday comes and he still is silent. I send him a text asking if something is wrong and he immediately responds with ‘every time i want to hang out with you you have something planned, its always this or that’. I tell him that my clubbing plans wouldnt interrupt our date since we wouldve met up early and would have more than enough time to talk. Anyways he goes completely silent again and now im like?? This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent.

Should I give him his space till he’s not pissed anymore or is he completely checked out?

Writing this after a few glasses of wine so excuse any weird sentences/spelling mistakes

Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

Posted by GeminiFanAccount

Really don’t know if this would be categorized as silent treatment but oh well.

Was supposed to have a date with Taurus guy friday, i forgot i was supposed to go out with a friend that night as well, but since we were going clubbing it wouldn’t interrupt my date. Anyways i ask taurus if he wants to join us to the club that night that he is more than welcome... after I tell him he completely goes silent( totally not how he would normally act since we call eachother on the phone literally every day.

Friday comes and he still is silent. I send him a text asking if something is wrong and he immediately responds with ‘every time i want to hang out with you you have something planned, its always this or that’. I tell him that my clubbing plans wouldnt interrupt our date since we wouldve met up early and would have more than enough time to talk. Anyways he goes completely silent again and now im like?? This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent.

Should I give him his space till he’s not pissed anymore or is he completely checked out?

Writing this after a few glasses of wine so excuse any weird sentences/spelling mistakes

For a small payment of $ 25.99, I can unsilent your Taurus. Money back guaranteed.

Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

As we speak

Posted by VenusX

Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

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Just expected him to have the decency to talk about whats bothering him. Taking your advise and moving on

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Really don’t know if this would be categorized as silent treatment but oh well.

Was supposed to have a date with Taurus guy friday, i forgot i was supposed to go out with a friend that night as well, but since we were going clubbing it wouldn’t interrupt my date. Anyways i ask taurus if he wants to join us to the club that night that he is more than welcome... after I tell him he completely goes silent( totally not how he would normally act since we call eachother on the phone literally every day.

Friday comes and he still is silent. I send him a text asking if something is wrong and he immediately responds with ‘every time i want to hang out with you you have something planned, its always this or that’. I tell him that my clubbing plans wouldnt interrupt our date since we wouldve met up early and would have more than enough time to talk. Anyways he goes completely silent again and now im like?? This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent.

Should I give him his space till he’s not pissed anymore or is he completely checked out?

Writing this after a few glasses of wine so excuse any weird sentences/spelling mistakes

For a small payment of $ 25.99, I can unsilent your Taurus. Money back guaranteed.

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Does that make his dick grow too?

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Really don’t know if this would be categorized as silent treatment but oh well.

Was supposed to have a date with Taurus guy friday, i forgot i was supposed to go out with a friend that night as well, but since we were going clubbing it wouldn’t interrupt my date. Anyways i ask taurus if he wants to join us to the club that night that he is more than welcome... after I tell him he completely goes silent( totally not how he would normally act since we call eachother on the phone literally every day.

Friday comes and he still is silent. I send him a text asking if something is wrong and he immediately responds with ‘every time i want to hang out with you you have something planned, its always this or that’. I tell him that my clubbing plans wouldnt interrupt our date since we wouldve met up early and would have more than enough time to talk. Anyways he goes completely silent again and now im like?? This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent.

Should I give him his space till he’s not pissed anymore or is he completely checked out?

Writing this after a few glasses of wine so excuse any weird sentences/spelling mistakes

For a small payment of $ 25.99, I can unsilent your Taurus. Money back guaranteed.

Does that make his dick grow too?

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I like to get paid first.

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Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

Just expected him to have the decency to talk about whats bothering him. Taking your advise and moving on

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but he did lmao

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Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

Just expected him to have the decency to talk about whats bothering him. Taking your advise and moving on

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Moving on as supposed to make up by cancelling your freaking group meeting? Soooo...you didn’t need him on a first place and he was right to check out! He doesn’t need THAT!!!

No men does...

Are you that self absorbent? Good luck giving Gemini bad name as if we need more of it...👿

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Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

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I want to stick up for my sign. We ARE get stuck in a rut as other signs...

She apparently doesn’t care about Taurus enough to understand his needs. Otherwise she would not even considered other plans. That’s not Gem character. It’s more than that!

Awwww he wanted to spend time with you...his way and you wanted to spend time with him...in your way.

Neither saw the value in the other option.

I'm actually proud of the mutable sign in this scenario.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

My thoughts exactly 100% .. 8-10 dates one on one to know each other better and after that meeting with others if its still going fine.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

"This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent." first date?

Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

"This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent." first date?

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I'm thinking this too. Sounds like it's a first date AND she's kinda nonchalant about it 🤷 I'd go silent too. Additionally, if this is the first date, why would the OP suggest that her date meet her friends? That's lame. #justsayin'

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

Me going to a party with my friend(that was already planned weeks ahead) wouldnt have interfered with our date. It would’ve been a date during the day so how would me going out late at night mess up our date ‘time’.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

First date btw

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

"This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent." first date?

I'm thinking this too. Sounds like it's a first date AND she's kinda nonchalant about it 🤷 I'd go silent too. Additionally, if this is the first date, why would the OP suggest that her date meet her friends? That's lame. #justsayin'

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Again my other plans wouldn’t have interfered with our date. Since when is it not allowed to plan several meetings in one day, especially when they dont overlap.

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Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

Just expected him to have the decency to talk about whats bothering him. Taking your advise and moving on

but he did lmao

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He never cancelled the date or responded to what I had to say after he told me he was annoyed with the whole date thing. To me that’s rude.

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Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

I want to stick up for my sign. We ARE get stuck in a rut as other signs...

She apparently doesn’t care about Taurus enough to understand his needs. Otherwise she would not even considered other plans. That’s not Gem character. It’s more than that!

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I’m surprised how everyone is saying i dont give a shit about the guy. Obviously i did otherwise I wouldnt meet up or open a topic on here. I keep repeating myself since when is it not allowed to have multiple meet ups in one day?

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

Me going to a party with my friend(that was already planned weeks ahead) wouldnt have interfered with our date. It would’ve been a date during the day so how would me going out late at night mess up our date ‘time’.

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maybe it was a misunderstanding. if you were seeing him during the day, why did you feel the need to bring your plans that evening up?

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

Me going to a party with my friend(that was already planned weeks ahead) wouldnt have interfered with our date. It would’ve been a date during the day so how would me going out late at night mess up our date ‘time’.

maybe it was a misunderstanding. if you were seeing him during the day, why did you feel the need to bring your plans that evening up?

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We were always talking about how we should go partying together. So in my head i was like great I’ll invite him to join us to go to the party. I’m thinking im being nice and he takes it completely the wrong way.

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

"This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent." first date?

I'm thinking this too. Sounds like it's a first date AND she's kinda nonchalant about it 🤷 I'd go silent too. Additionally, if this is the first date, why would the OP suggest that her date meet her friends? That's lame. #justsayin'

Again my other plans wouldn’t have interfered with our date. Since when is it not allowed to plan several meetings in one day, especially when they dont overlap.

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Your response to me addressed NOTHING I mentioned 🤦 I couldn't care less about your other plans.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

"This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent." first date?

I'm thinking this too. Sounds like it's a first date AND she's kinda nonchalant about it 🤷 I'd go silent too. Additionally, if this is the first date, why would the OP suggest that her date meet her friends? That's lame. #justsayin'

Again my other plans wouldn’t have interfered with our date. Since when is it not allowed to plan several meetings in one day, especially when they dont overlap.

Your response to me addressed NOTHING I mentioned 🤦 I couldn't care less about your other plans.

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Your saying im nonchalant about it. How? Sidenote he already met some of my friends thats how i got to know him.

u can't put a time limit on a date tho......

u have a lot of appointments and it seems that ur used to dates since u can squeeze it in so tightly around other important plans. it makes u seem like a serial dater (not a bad thing, but this dude might have serious ideals in mind), and it also makes u seem unexcited/unnervous which means he's just another guy (which he probably is but ur not supposed to say that)

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

"This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent." first date?

I'm thinking this too. Sounds like it's a first date AND she's kinda nonchalant about it 🤷 I'd go silent too. Additionally, if this is the first date, why would the OP suggest that her date meet her friends? That's lame. #justsayin'

Again my other plans wouldn’t have interfered with our date. Since when is it not allowed to plan several meetings in one day, especially when they dont overlap.

Your response to me addressed NOTHING I mentioned 🤦 I couldn't care less about your other plans.

Your saying im nonchalant about it. How? Sidenote he already met some of my friends thats how i got to know him.

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Here's the thing; You seem to have the answers already. Right? So....what are you really looking for here? I don't get it.

Again, sounds like a first date. It also sounds like he's over you 🤷

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Posted by jeane

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@VenusX nailed it. To me a date is one on one time. He probably feels you’re not prioritising him. You could pull it back if you emphasised it would just be the two of you.

You don’t say how many dates it has been though. I’d want it to be one on one the first, say, 8-10 dates but after that happy to meet with friends part way through. Just depends on the relationship status.

"This guy asked me out so many times and now it was supposed to happen and he goes completely silent." first date?

I'm thinking this too. Sounds like it's a first date AND she's kinda nonchalant about it 🤷 I'd go silent too. Additionally, if this is the first date, why would the OP suggest that her date meet her friends? That's lame. #justsayin'

Again my other plans wouldn’t have interfered with our date. Since when is it not allowed to plan several meetings in one day, especially when they dont overlap.

Your response to me addressed NOTHING I mentioned 🤦 I couldn't care less about your other plans.

Your saying im nonchalant about it. How? Sidenote he already met some of my friends thats how i got to know him.

Here's the thing; You seem to have the answers already. Right? So....what are you really looking for here? I don't get it.

Again, sounds like a first date. It also sounds like he's over you 🤷

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Well obviously he is otherwise he wouldn’t have gone silent. A girl can’t open a damn topic just to vent?

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Posted by ArrogantWanderer

gemini go bye bye

Yup. Bad move. Taurus likes to feel special - exclusive, and Gem doesn't really understand this part of the Taurus mindset. He wanted to be with YOU, not you and a bunch of other people. If he's giving you the silent treatment, his silence is speaking for him. Honestly, I'd just move on and learn from the experience. Gems always move ahead easily and rarely get stuck in rut. It's the beauty of the twins.

I want to stick up for my sign. We ARE get stuck in a rut as other signs...

She apparently doesn’t care about Taurus enough to understand his needs. Otherwise she would not even considered other plans. That’s not Gem character. It’s more than that!

I’m surprised how everyone is saying i dont give a shit about the guy. Obviously i did otherwise I wouldnt meet up or open a topic on here. I keep repeating myself since when is it not allowed to have multiple meet ups in one day?

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Have I told you that you don’t give a shit about this guy?

I think it's admirable that you didn't decide to forgo your prior arrangements with your friend and instead, invited the Taurus to come along. Some people would've opted to ditch the friend.

That being said, he mentioned that this wasn't the first time something coincidentally interrupted your plans, so it sounds like the accumulation of past events leading up to this one resulted in a (wrongly) perceived lack of interest from your end. The fact that it wasn't a 1-on-1 date was just the straw that broke the camel's back. Your casual demeanor probably conveyed that you're not too invested and treating him as an after-thought.

If that were the case, I don't think all hope is lost, but it's definitely going to require a lot more effort on your part.

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I think it's admirable that you didn't decide to forgo your prior arrangements with your friend and instead, invited the Taurus to come along. Some people would've opted to ditch the friend.

That being said, he mentioned that this wasn't the first time something coincidentally interrupted your plans, so it sounds like the accumulation of past events leading up to this one resulted in a (wrongly) perceived lack of interest from your end. The fact that it wasn't a 1-on-1 date was just the straw that broke the camel's back. Your casual demeanor probably conveyed that you're not too invested and treating him as an after-thought.

If that were the case, I don't think all hope is lost, but it's definitely going to require a lot more effort on your part.

From what I understand, the date was scheduled first. I would take this behavior as the person not being very into me, which would be fine if I was screwing around, but not if I was hoping to date.

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It reads to me as though she had made plans with the Taurus, then later recalled having already made plans with a friend on the same day.

I understand how that could be misconstrued as a lack of effort, although in this case, it really is just a matter of bad timing and miscommunication.