Taurus Wants To Breakup But Hasn't Done It?

So we had a few hiccups in the past but she came home angry around 2w ago and was irrational. Has been distant ever since but I finally got her to start talking about how she cares about me but she doesnt think she can be the one to accept me 100% .

Yet, she still hasn't shown to the world that we have broken up and we are still Facebook official. So she seems to be doing a slow fade and avoiding coming over yet wants to keep talking to me and be apart of my virtual life, I think?

Is she testing my perseverance? She has tried to brwak up before but removed the relationship status and did not do so this time.

Her parents are getting divorced and she needs to choose a career so seems to be under a lot of stress. Her current job she loathes too so I find it hard to take her wanting to split up seriously.

I'm more surprised than hurt right now because she has no friends, no job, her parents are splitting up and now she has no one else to hangout with.

Seems like a recipe for disaster.

All of her clothes are still at my place too.

Posted by piscesman707

I'm more surprised than hurt right now because she has no friends, no job, her parents are splitting up and now she has no one else to hangout with.

Seems like a recipe for disaster.

How free is that...?!

Her emoting and you labeling her as irrational. Ooof what a kick in the teeth.

No wonder she's been distant licking her wounds.

Posted by alexscaries

Taureans often go back even to bad relationships.

She had been in 3x 2- month relationships before we met. I am her longer and arguably best because we both grew in the 4~ years.

Posted by Piscivore

Just make sure someone else isn't in the background.

I was thinking that too but she kept in touch over the weekend and gave me her whole schedule for Saturday and then rested all day sunday.. so..?

Posted by piscesman707

but she came home angry around 2w ago and was irrational.

Has been distant ever since but I finally got her to start talking about how she cares about me but she doesnt think she can be the one to accept me 100% .

Her parents are getting divorced and she needs to choose a career so seems to be under a lot of stress. Her current job she loathes too so I find it hard to take her wanting to split up seriously.

She had been in 3x 2- month relationships before we met. I am her longer and arguably best because we both grew in the 4~ years.

I see a pattern.

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Posted by piscesman707

Posted by Piscivore

Just make sure someone else isn't in the background.

I was thinking that too but she kept in touch over the weekend and gave me her whole schedule for Saturday and then rested all day sunday.. so..?

What happened over one weekend means nothing.

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I last saw her a week ago at my place for our supper but she was busy with online classes both weekends, with intermittent reaching out. She seemed perfectly happy the last time I saw her, so her signing up for online courses that cannot be applied to college/university was surprisingly.

Her last day of work is Friday and almost no one is hiring under COVID-19 here.

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Posted by piscesman707

but she came home angry around 2w ago and was irrational.Has been distant ever since but I finally got her to start talking about how she cares about me but she doesnt think she can be the one to accept me 100% .

Her parents are getting divorced and she needs to choose a career so seems to be under a lot of stress. Her current job she loathes too so I find it hard to take her wanting to split up seriously.

She had been in 3x 2- month relationships before we met. I am her longer and arguably best because we both grew in the 4~ years.

I see a pattern.

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Yes, the pattern being that she often does not articulate her wants and needs and bottled things up, leading to an unhealthy and explosive outburst?

She was upset 2w ago but as I wrote earlier, she came over a week ago for supper and was totally fine and we had a decent night.

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Posted by piscesman707

but she came home angry around 2w ago and was irrational.Has been distant ever since but I finally got her to start talking about how she cares about me but she doesnt think she can be the one to accept me 100% .

Her parents are getting divorced and she needs to choose a career so seems to be under a lot of stress. Her current job she loathes too so I find it hard to take her wanting to split up seriously.

She had been in 3x 2- month relationships before we met. I am her longer and arguably best because we both grew in the 4~ years.

I see a pattern.

Yes, the pattern being that she often does not articulate her wants and needs and bottled things up, leading to an unhealthy and explosive outburst?

She was upset 2w ago but as I wrote earlier, she came over a week ago for supper and was totally fine and we had a decent night.

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Are you here seeking advice or validation?

Do you have advice to give?

oh no. this is very sad indeed. has she given you the engagement ring back?

Her clothes and the engagement rings are all here.

I finally got her to start talking about how she cares about me but she doesnt think she can be the one to accept me 100% .

So are you happy to accept that? ^^^

Seems to me it’s only a matter of time till she decides that she can’t accept you at all, more and more will start bugging her. The relationship is not moving forward but stagnant and will start going backwards from here.