Tips on how to really get to know a Taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by christinelovessnickers on Friday, August 21, 2020 and has 37 replies.

Effective Ways to Understand a Taurus Better

To truly get to know a Taurus, spend time with them consistently, listen carefully to their preferences, and show patience. Building trust and understanding their values helps deepen your connection. Taurus individuals appreciate honesty, loyalty, and comfort, so being genuine and reliable is key.

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@christinelovessnickers
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Redbull

Oh man its a timing thing. Personally Im Not trying to meet anybody new right now but you'll know...or at least I think its pretty clear. Or is it? Somehow it can get overwhelming with the people if we dont stay careful. Hence low key mode commencing. I dont think there is any one answer beyond timing and individual...ness as your asking. Not necessarily an easy question to answer sorry with an easy abc answer. I know it can be crazy for people but it has to be how it is is the best answer I can come with.

It's a fair answer ☺️.

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@Taureanguy
7 Years

Persistence is what I'll notice, as taureans are slow to move in most circumstances, so most people tend to get bored around me, and leave. This also means you can slow yourself down too, as we're generally laid back. Can't go wrong with figuring out common interests.

It took a few months for me to warm up to one of my co-workers, to the point where we tease the Hell out of each other. It helps he finds my dry, sarcastic assholeness rather hilarious. So anything you two can connect with will help, anything more specific than that, and you're asking details specific to your taurus.

Good luck! o7

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@christinelovessnickers
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Taureanguy

Persistence is what I'll notice, as taureans are slow to move in most circumstances, so most people tend to get bored around me, and leave. This also means you can slow yourself down too, as we're generally laid back. Can't go wrong with figuring out common interests.

It took a few months for me to warm up to one of my co-workers, to the point where we tease the Hell out of each other. It helps he finds my dry, sarcastic assholeness rather hilarious. So anything you two can connect with will help, anything more specific than that, and you're asking details specific to your taurus.

Good luck! o7

Thanks! Sounds like good chemistry with your coworker! Nice to have people you can work with like that.

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@RollergirlOrc
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Have no pressure to draw anything out of them. Or seek them out. If you make them feel comfortable and at ease, no drama or fuss, they'll let themselves known far and wide. You'll know everything because most times, they're opinionated Af.

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by HippeeGem

Posted by christinelovessnickers

Any tips or suggestions?

Be outgoing like a Sag, lol. I've never been with a Taurus, but I see the way my sons gf is so similar to him, yet also helps him grow as a person and makes him want to step out of his comfort zone to make her happy, which winds up making him happier as well.

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That ties into be nice, fire signs can get us in a state we cannot reach on our own, cause they are so friendly and cheerful,

shy cancers can make us feel comfy, we need good vibes.

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@PiscesGal76
7 Years500+ Posts

Lots n lots of patiences!

Dont rush anything with them, bring food or offer to cook for them.

Ask questions.

But biggest tip: do not rush! And stock up on your patiences, have a long breath.

Often they run off when things get very intense and serious, they'll need their solitude then to recap everything and think things over a million times before they come back in the game.

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@GemCurioThe1
6 Years

Posted by PiscesGal76

Lots n lots of patiences!

Dont rush anything with them, bring food or offer to cook for them.

Ask questions.

But biggest tip: do not rush! And stock up on your patiences, have a long breath.

Often they run off when things get very intense and serious, they'll need their solitude then to recap everything and think things over a million times before they come back in the game.

Everything said here I agree with. My best friend for 20 years is a Taurus and he's the most loyal and sarcastic person I know outside of myself. The only thing I can add is dress to impress if you want to keep his attention. At least manage to be clean and your own sense of style . Good Hygiene is a must. Another thing is they don't like phonies or indecisive people. The more genuine you are in your conversations, the closer he will grow to you...

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14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

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Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

lol they are! You have spent much time on this side I see. Bulls are difficult in general. Not easy people at all.

Well they are guarded for good damn reason. Unless they sees something good in you then they'll opened up. Simple as that.

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I’d call it stubborn for no dam reason

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by MrNobody

Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

Cause it sounds like a woman who wants to emotionally connect as in us opening up. We are easy if you just do stuff with us

or ask simple not to deep questions like normal people do. It should be natural progression. And if we vibe it`ll progress. But yeah we can date woman for a long time and still be detached, guilty as charged. I just read the other day this about the relationship between two taurusses:

I think Taurus and Taurus match is one of most gentle and slow relationship ever. it is almost impossible to fight because one understands the other quite well. and one of the best thing is that he does not force me to express anything. He accepts the way I am and I feel so safe. No push no rush flow togather on the water.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Parkourler

Posted by MrNobody

Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

Cause it sounds like a woman who wants to emotionally connect as in us opening up. We are easy if you just do stuff with us

or ask simple not to deep questions like normal people do. It should be natural progression. And if we vibe it`ll progress. But yeah we can date woman for a long time and still be detached, guilty as charged. I just read the other day this about the relationship between two taurusses:

I think Taurus and Taurus match is one of most gentle and slow relationship ever. it is almost impossible to fight because one understands the other quite well. and one of the best thing is that he does not force me to express anything. He accepts the way I am and I feel so safe. No push no rush flow togather on the water.

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getting a taurus to open up can be a very slow process. i think i was with my taurus for about a year before i really hit the soft centre however once we got to that stage, the flood gates opened. ironically as you describe, it happened once i stopped pushing.

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Posted by MrNobody

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Posted by MrNobody

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Posted by MrNobody

Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

lol they are! You have spent much time on this side I see. Bulls are difficult in general. Not easy people at all.

Well they are guarded for good damn reason. Unless they sees something good in you then they'll opened up. Simple as that.

I’d call it stubborn for no dam reason

Feels bad for you.

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Ok thanks

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by DonnaLibra

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Posted by DonnaLibra

Invite them to dinner and be sure to make dessert.

Fixed it for you. Invite them to dinner and be sure to BE the dessert. We are connoisseurial carnivores.

Yeah you guys certainly love that kind of dessert but having a slice of homemade lemon meringue pie on hand afterwards will please them.

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Great, You are specific, you wouldn`t be if you did not care.

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@bkbella86
14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

Posted by TheFalange

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Posted by MrNobody

Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

lol they are! You have spent much time on this side I see. Bulls are difficult in general. Not easy people at all.

Lol i fault mainstream horoscope for paint us as easy going and as long you cook is ok, is not like that

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Lmaoooo I appreciate your honesty. My bff is one too, I’ve known her for 25 years, plus the countless Taurus men I almost dated. I know y’all a lil bit.

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Posted by TheFalange

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MrNobody

Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

lol they are! You have spent much time on this side I see. Bulls are difficult in general. Not easy people at all.

Lol i fault mainstream horoscope for paint us as easy going and as long you cook is ok, is not like that

Lmaoooo I appreciate your honesty. My bff is one too, I’ve known her for 25 years, plus the countless Taurus men I almost dated. I know y’all a lil bit.

Your moon venus mars?

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Pisces moon, taurus venus and Capricorn mars

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Posted by TheFalange

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by TheFalange

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MrNobody

Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

lol they are! You have spent much time on this side I see. Bulls are difficult in general. Not easy people at all.

Lol i fault mainstream horoscope for paint us as easy going and as long you cook is ok, is not like that

Lmaoooo I appreciate your honesty. My bff is one too, I’ve known her for 25 years, plus the countless Taurus men I almost dated. I know y’all a lil bit.

Your moon venus mars?

Pisces moon, taurus venus and Capricorn mars

March or april?

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Lmaoooo look at you

You know your stuff

4/7

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by TheFalange

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by TheFalange

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by MrNobody

Why is this questions sounds like that Taurus are to over complicated to get to know them?

lol they are! You have spent much time on this side I see. Bulls are difficult in general. Not easy people at all.

Lol i fault mainstream horoscope for paint us as easy going and as long you cook is ok, is not like that

Lmaoooo I appreciate your honesty. My bff is one too, I’ve known her for 25 years, plus the countless Taurus men I almost dated. I know y’all a lil bit.

Your moon venus mars?

Pisces moon, taurus venus and Capricorn mars

March or april?

Lmaoooo look at you

You know your stuff

4/7

Lol just because i think april aries go instead for scorpio or even pisces(for some reason) i bond better with march ram

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Hell no to pisces

And Scorpios tend to be liars and obsessive in a bad way. Never dated one but I’ve encountered two who have similar temperaments and it wasn’t for me. I actually would love to date a Taurus, i think they’re perfect me honestly.