All I read was: I'm not feeling it, he's not making a move, all he wants is cuddling and getting close.

Uhm... the cuddling n getting close is making a move. Especially for a shy guy.

He's probably wondering if you like him enough before he makes another move...

The Bull I was seeing, I hadnt spoken to since November 2020. Few weeks ago he started to chat again. Saying he misses me ect. I called him out tho cause I know he's seeing someone. One of his earlier exesvthat is. Told him that I refuse to get into a triangle and if he did miss me, he shouldve thought of that sooner and be straight up with the lady he is seeing now. He chats every now n then, each time saying he misses me. When he gets into that mood, I'll thank him and close the text. And go about doing my thing.

Caucasian with Jewish Armanian and German anchestors. I started to relate more n more to our Jewish Armanian background tbh.

I'd date with whomever I feel comfortable, relaxed and trusted.

I dont see race or color.

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Posted by PiscesGal76
Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dont feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

I just need someone with good conversation, loyalty and good sex 😂🤷‍♂️

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Dont we all? 🤭🤣🤣

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Posted by PiscesGal76
Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dobt feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

...or even a personality 😂🥴

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Hahahahaaa yes!

But even in the medieval times (the time I was refering to), personality was a rare thing cause society demanded certain behaviours from men and women which allowed very little room for a personality.

Its the new courtshipping. Instead of trying to impress you with wealth, countryside mansions, horse n carriages ect, they try to court you with their masculinity cause thats what it suposed to represent.

Your so called friend didnt value your clear set boundary tho so dont feel bad and dont apologize to him. He should be the one feeling bad and apologizing to you.

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Posted by Lostthoughts
Lol Virgo and Libra with personal insecurities and doubts about the relationship.
You fight and threaten each other with breaking up to get your way?

Is this the way you both treat the people you love and value in your life( ex-boyfriends, friends, family) too? Or just each other?

No way I know how to love and treat people right I don’t threaten my friends nor anybody in my life. I’m the person who’s always putting myself under and everybody else even above me making sure everybody is okay first and then myself. So no and I wasn’t treating him like this even on bad terms I’m still supportive of him still listen when he needs help.

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Time to put yourself first instead of lowering your standards to please everyone else.

You are in an unhealthy relationship with this Libra, people here are trying to tell you this but you dont listen because its not what you want to hear from us. Your relationship is toxic & unhealthy. He acts this way because he knows he can and gets away with it too. You let him (and others) walk all over you, even tho you are on here blowing out steam and trying to convince us thats not case. It is! And he wont improve his game with you. Start living your life for you instead of pleasing everyone else and putting others first. There is only one you, time to put yourself first and start learning to set clear boundaries. Even for family and friends!!

Good luck!

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Posted by PiscesGal76
Virgo men are very toxic for Pisces women, especially when the Pisces woman has a Virgo moon! Because of my Virgo moon, I always seem to attract Virgo men and each and every single one of them, turn out to be very toxic.

The hot n cold behaviour is a Virgo thing tbh and yes, they can go days without reaching out, on that department, they are similar to Taurus men...
But the arrange to call is an indicator that he's seeing other women and he doesnt want them (and you) mixed up with eachother. With the possible chance that his other fling sees you calling or her (gawd forbid) even answering his phone n gets to talk to you. Also, if a Virgo man is no longer interested in the physical touch, you're about done n over with and its time to move on.

You do not need to apologise, you stood up for your own feelings and you have every right to do so. Him acting this way tho, is uncalled for. And very immature n childish. Do yourself a favor and move on. Find yourself a Scorpion, Cancerian or a Cap man.
Cancerians can be a bit clingy and physical when they are into you. Also no stranger to a bit of possesiveness but not in a bad way at all. Its merely to let the world know you are his and to remind you that he is there. They thrive on that validation. Very soft hearted btw!

Scorpions are very much the family man, hardworking and often give it their all to the woman they love, forgetting themselves. They can be stubborn as heck tho and wont budge during arguements. They can be very physical and show you new worlds in the bedroom! I've always found Scorpions the best sexual match for us Pisces women.

Caps men are quite the homey guys, hard working, believes in a good, harmonious marriage or something similar. Very laid back but witty. Quite the money man too and loves nice, quality things. Cares for his true love deeply and can be quite the loner after she passed away. A bit like Taurus but without the "leave me alone" moodswings...

Ofcourse, each n every one are formed by what they have experienced in life but these are the main things that I see in those particular men around me.

Thank you for this, very much appreciate your response.

I am a Pisces Sun, Scorpio moon, Pisces Mercury. Ascendant = Virgo! Lately, I have been attracting a lot of Virgo Men, in fact my ex bf is a Virgo. Whilst we got on ok, and did not argue, I walked away from him because of his stubbornness, and being on different pages. Because that relationship was relatively ok, I thought I would give this guy a go - however, his behaviour just did not match up to what I previously had. Ok, yes two different men, but the pursuit from my ex in comparison to this guy, completely different which is why I called him out for it!

Yes, I got suspicious then when he mentioned arranging a time to call, yet he was the one that said ''I hate texting''! It just did not add up. Part of my reason for wanting to talk on the phone is because I am Dyslexic - so talking verbally helps me to convey what I am trying to say, but also understand the other person better. However, not once in the 3 months did he ever call, it was all text, apart from the occasions (7 times in total we met) we had a face to face, and even then - he would constantly talk about himself, now and then asking me the odd surface level question. I will never forget when I said to him ''You can ask me Qs'', and he responded with ''It is too early for that?!'' how can it be too early to know someone you have said you're interested in?! Make it make sense!?
I even gave him the opportunity to walk away, after asking him if he was interested, because his behaviour did not add up, make sense, and he said no, he did not want to.

I just feel really annoyed, upset, given how strong he came on, and made me believe that he was invested in the whole thing. When in reality, I was someone he was trying to get a leg over, and he did not succeed. (I told him from day one that I was not interested in casual flings). Instead he tried to ''buy me'' with sweet words, gifts, dinner in the hope I would fall for it. But, it is what it is, and time to move on.

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Sounds exactly how a Virgo would behave when they have moved on mentally.

I fully understand your reasoning for wanting to call, he shouldve been considerate about that.

Any person who is interested in someone, will ask loads of questions. Just to get to know the person.

All I can say is, you dodged a bullet!

Diesel

Virgo men are very toxic for Pisces women, especially when the Pisces woman has a Virgo moon! Because of my Virgo moon, I always seem to attract Virgo men and each and every single one of them, turn out to be very toxic.

The hot n cold behaviour is a Virgo thing tbh and yes, they can go days without reaching out, on that department, they are similar to Taurus men...
But the arrange to call is an indicator that he's seeing other women and he doesnt want them (and you) mixed up with eachother. With the possible chance that his other fling sees you calling or her (gawd forbid) even answering his phone n gets to talk to you. Also, if a Virgo man is no longer interested in the physical touch, you're about done n over with and its time to move on.

You do not need to apologise, you stood up for your own feelings and you have every right to do so. Him acting this way tho, is uncalled for. And very immature n childish. Do yourself a favor and move on. Find yourself a Scorpion, Cancerian or a Cap man.
Cancerians can be a bit clingy and physical when they are into you. Also no stranger to a bit of possesiveness but not in a bad way at all. Its merely to let the world know you are his and to remind you that he is there. They thrive on that validation. Very soft hearted btw!

Scorpions are very much the family man, hardworking and often give it their all to the woman they love, forgetting themselves. They can be stubborn as heck tho and wont budge during arguements. They can be very physical and show you new worlds in the bedroom! I've always found Scorpions the best sexual match for us Pisces women.

Caps men are quite the homey guys, hard working, believes in a good, harmonious marriage or something similar. Very laid back but witty. Quite the money man too and loves nice, quality things. Cares for his true love deeply and can be quite the loner after she passed away. A bit like Taurus but without the "leave me alone" moodswings...

Ofcourse, each n every one are formed by what they have experienced in life but these are the main things that I see in those particular men around me.

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An Aquarius once had a crush on me, but looking back the signs weren't very obvious. We were friends and classmates first and foremost, and I never saw him as a potential partner, but as a great friend. Until one day he confessed his feelings and I was a bit shocked because I never saw it coming. Things felt a bit weird and awkward after that, but we stayed friends until we left school. Decades later he found me on Facebook and confessed (again) that I was his type and that he wanted to make it work between us back then. So in my experience, they befriend you first, and then confess if they feel safe enough. And if you made an impact on them they won't forget you.

Thanks!

I do feel that I made an impact on him because before he had no problems speaking his words fluently but since we met, he seems to stumble over his words. Also when I make certain comments, I notice how he tries to keep his composure but at same time, trying to meet my remarks.

Just wondering if him going quiet in text, is something I should worry about. Phonecalls are "normal" like before. He also tends to make lots of jokes n funny remarks.

Some people rather speak in person instead of texting. I wouldn"t worry about it. He shows signs of liking you. Perhaps just go with the flow....

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When we met, he talked a lot 🤭

Thanks, I'm taking it one day at a time.

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An Aquarius once had a crush on me, but looking back the signs weren't very obvious. We were friends and classmates first and foremost, and I never saw him as a potential partner, but as a great friend. Until one day he confessed his feelings and I was a bit shocked because I never saw it coming. Things felt a bit weird and awkward after that, but we stayed friends until we left school. Decades later he found me on Facebook and confessed (again) that I was his type and that he wanted to make it work between us back then. So in my experience, they befriend you first, and then confess if they feel safe enough. And if you made an impact on them they won't forget you.

Thanks!

I do feel that I made an impact on him because before he had no problems speaking his words fluently but since we met, he seems to stumble over his words. Also when I make certain comments, I notice how he tries to keep his composure but at same time, trying to meet my remarks.

Just wondering if him going quiet in text, is something I should worry about. Phonecalls are "normal" like before. He also tends to make lots of jokes n funny remarks.

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It's a thing called novelty and I'm afraid most aquas like novel things at first. Is it bad? sure it is. That doesn't necessarily mean anything it just means you haven't made it into his inner circle yet (and those can be extremely small).

is he developing a crush? no I wouldn't say so, Aquarius are known for being infatuated in 'interests', having said that I wouldn't count out that he might be interested in you maybe he has other things going on. Stumbling on words who knows about that really and just take my word for it at face value when I say there's very little point in analysing what aquas do because fucked if we know why ourselves.

Thanks!

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Who is initiating the phone calls since you met now?

We both are. Goes back n forth

Question for you Aquarians!

For a few months I've been talking to an Aquarian male. He's very witty and always joking around. When someone gives me grief, he seems eager to step in and sort it. We've met and the whole of that meeting, he kept looking at me. The other day, he sorta asked me if I would mind something cause he didn't want me to feel passed off. All this seems good n all. After we met, he gone all quiet in texting (reads all tho) but when we speak on the phone, its all normal like before we met. Same for social medias, he's still liking my posts n comments on them. When we speak on the phone, I can hear his voice making jumps. And when I make a witty comment to him, it kinda throws him off and he starts stumbling over his words while he is otherwise very vocal and very good in expressing himself verbally.

How should I take this? Is this Aquarian developing a crush? Is it normal behaviour for them?

He has Libra moon, Pisces venus. We have a lot of conjuctions in our synastry.

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Posted by PiscesGal76
Basically, only another Pisces can fully understand us.

All other signs only understand as much as we want them to understand.

So you only ever felt understood by other Pisces? What about other water signs?

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I dont mix well with Cancer sign, their ignore game is strong af and I totally hate that.
Scorpio is explosive, I feel highly misunderstood by Scorpio.

So yeah, out of the watersigns, I feel most understood by Pisces as we only need a few words.

Basically, only another Pisces can fully understand us.

All other signs only understand as much as we want them to understand.

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Honestly i find pisces to be more open than any other sign when i think about it- they are actually pretty open with no hidden agendas - maybe cause i'm a crab?

and if they hate you can see it in their face

yes they are elusive, but you can sometimes tell whats up plus they're fortright

We're only as open as we want to be. We can tell a lot without actually giving anything away, if we choose to.