sad when some friends just kinda drift off. like nothing really BAD happened and they just grow distant. you've tried to reach out at times but you don't wanna come off like you're too pushy/needy. a wound to my 11th house 😔😔
- Sometimes it seems like it's the ones you wouldn't expect to drift off do, while other ones have somehow stuck around lol. At least for me
I have Mars in the 11th and it's square Jupiter in my 2nd house. So it's starting to feel like no friendship of mine is really meant to last, which sucks sometimes. Even with the old friends that I still consider good friends, life is so busy for everyone we hardly end up talking or seeing each other very often (also combined with not wanting to seem like the needy one), and I start to get in my head too much like...are we even still friends?
Idk. I also have a problem sometimes with seeing/focusing on the negative in people and then not having a problem with cutting ties with the person. But that gets old, makes it feel like it was all a waste of time and energy - i have venus in the 11th and sometimes it hurts even more than romantic fallouts. i have few friends coz i just stick around people i've known for years. and all i could really do is send an occasional chat and seasonal greetings to give them the space they need. but i feel a pang every cheery emoji i send them.
- As I get older, I learn to not take it personally unless I had something to do with the fallout.
People just go through their own shit sometimes. - or maybe i'm just greedy coz i've noticed that most people tend to just rely on their romantic partners for everything.
- O me too. O totally get that since my opposite suns house is 11th, I usually befriend Leos who I hide from then their pride doesn't allow them to reconcile.
Live the life you love. Love the life you live. -Bob Marley38 years old female from Sacramento area, CAJoined dxpnet on August 07, 2013.Sometimes people just grow apart. Practice the mantra “It’s nothing personal.”
- This happened with literally every Virgo in my life. And not in a million years could I think of a single reason why we grew apart. I was actually thinking about this lately. In fact, few years ago, I thought of this cause I always had Virgos as best friends since childhood, several of them, and then thought will it also happen with my Virgo bestie, and yep it did. I tried reaching out on occasions and it was useless. I would absolutely understand that someone has less time when they have a baby and I would never be offended if they can't catch up as we used to, but seeing she can catch up with other friends just makes me sad to realize she in fact doesn't want to. After all, Gems and Sags (rest of my friends are all these signs) have kids too and they can make time to catch up so...
- i don't think i've met too many sag women but they oddly seemed so codependent with the guy they're with that literally they can't do nor go anywhere without the guys.
- Been a constant in my life, zero planets in the 11th. I move on and revisiting the past seems awkward, if say I met someone I was friends with when I was 14, now we are strangers again.
