Posted by Sagicorn
Some Sun sign bias is simply never going away because it's a fact for every single invidual in that sign. But, it's insane to judge every person of same sign based on what one individual did that hurt your feelings. That person might not even be mean at all but some of their actions hurt you so it certainly applies only to that person and no other insividual in that sign. Besides, your Moon is way too easy to hurt so I would take with reserve those named signs as "bad". Bad sides of a person are more tied to certain aspects or positions in chart, Sun sign never. Sun signs are general characteristics of a person and never too specific. Here's an example: friend of mine and I have same sun, moon, mercury, and venus sign but different Mars. Her Mars makes her have ideas but be too lazy to take action, my Mars combined with Moon makes me a person of action. She has Sag ASC which makes her behave more loud and easy going, my ASC in Pisces makes me more quiet and reserved. Anyway, all people I ever known from same signs always have certain characteristics same but how they act towards each other person is a matter of synastry between them and those other persons. So memorize that as well, when someone is bad to you, it doesn't mean they'll be bad to everyone else, you two just don't vibe well. Both charts play role in that. Synastry isn't just about love matches, it's about matching with anyone you interact with, regardless on the form of relationship. I also know a Sag male that is like a copy of me, we think the same, we like same things, we hate same things...I mean it's ridiculous how similar we are. But our charts aren't even much alike, mine is most similar to the female Sag I mentioned above, yet her and I are very different in many aspects. And for the end, it's very likely that persons you mentioned have Moon that doesn't compliment yours at all so that part of astrology you shouldn't ignore.
Thank you, you've made some great points here

I feel like at least negative astrology bias just shouldn't be a thing, because exactly, even you realise how ridiculous it is to basically avoid a whole population of people, in this case, Sun Sign people just because you got burned by one or a few people from that Sun Sign. I've seen way too many people on different forums and on DXP do this so many times. Me being a Virgo Sun, I see people here literally openly admitting they are avoiding all Virgo Suns because they got burned by one or a few, it's ridiculous. But at the same time, I can see where they're coming from because the point of my post is me saying that's what I used to do too, and the reason behind it (and what is the same for many others who do the same) is because I had really bad unhealed trauma that I chose to keep alive in me which were caused by certain people of a certain Sun Sign.
It's only when The Universe sent me the loveliest people I got along with of that same Sun Sign, that I now realise it's truly all to do with our birth charts. This post was my awakening of that. And it's usually the people who aren't super educated enough about astrology or are casual about it and are so stubborn with holding grudges and their trauma who will have these sort of negative Sun Sign biased opinions. And I know I can't change the fact that this happens in the world, but that's why spreading awareness and truth exists doesn't it. To help more people be aware. And that's another reason why I've made this post, because if it can resonate with anyone else, I'm even more happy!
"That person might not even be mean at all but some of their actions hurt you so it certainly applies only to that person and no other insividual in that sign."
- Exactly what you said here is what I mean by unhealed past trauma. You are only offended or hurt by something when you put meaning to what they said or did through some reason in your mind. And usually that reason is because it's triggered a trauma response in you because it's reminded you about a certain traumatic event that's happened to you and caused by a certain person or people. And if that trauma isn't healed, you're probably gonna project your wounded emotions and lash out at the person who probably didn't even cause the original trauma that now you are projecting to them from, but they said or did something that triggered the unhealed trauma response within you. And sometimes, it can take years to become aware of what all of your trauma triggers and trauma responses are to truly heal them deeply. And that's why personally I think this part has nothing to do with astrology. Because abuse and trauma has nothing to do with astrology, other than how you express and deal with your trauma and emotions I guess.
so I would take with reserve those named signs as "bad".
- Not sure if there was a misunderstanding there, but just to clarify that my example and point I was making there is that these are the people from these certain Sun Signs whom I used to have huge trauma grudges on and that is what made me want to avoid people of those Sun Signs. But now that I'm in a much better place in my healing journey, again, the whole reason why I even made this post if people read it all is that now I don't hold these grudges anymore, nor do I desire revenge or want to avoid these Sun Signs in general. I'm giving people a chance from now on because now I realise the actions and words of these people who traumatised me do not reflect everyone else under that same Sun Sign. I am just doing forgiveness work now these days before 2021 is finally over. I just want to let go and move on from all of this old heavy baggage that doesn't help serve me being my best self.
Sun signs are general characteristics of a person and never too specific.
- I mean I would say that there are negative traits linked to a Sun Sign too, but it's no reason to avoid someone just based on that when we are who we are through our whole birth chart. Like I'm a perfectionist because of my Virgo Sun, and I know that bugs some people.
Lol is your friend Taurus or Leo Mars? I have Leo Mars so I can kinda relate to that, because my mind is a constant idea factory! but I also deal with anxiety/fear of the unknown leading to stalling/procrastination rather than laziness.
I totally agree, synastry is where it's at 🤟🏻 I would say the reason why you're not exactly like the girl with a similar chart to you could be because same placements don't guarantee you'll be a good or similar match. It's like two same sides of a magnet that repel instead of attract. Whereas having different placements to someone can guarantee there's better meshing of certain placements, and therefore making the match complementary with one another even if it looks different on paper.
And yeah, I think it's quite apparent why me and the Capricorn girl don't get along. I'm more reserved, soft spoken and gentle, whereas she is loud, aggressive and bold. I feel most calm with lofi and gentle meditation music and she feels most at calm with heavy/death metal music. We're a bit too different lol so Moon placements would make sense. And probably Rising and Mercury too. Because it's funny, right, how they say Virgo and Capricorn generally get along but me and her just repel each other so far lol
But I really get along and have a fun joyous time joking around with the Capricorn dude these days. We relate and bounce off of each other talking on a lot of topics too. He's more chill and outgoing with anybody. It's all in the birth charts, baby.