Posted by AneemA11Posted by tiki33
Unfortunately for you you're stuck in what I call an imaginary relationship. This happens when a man creates a firm boundary ie primarily physical relationship while YOU haven't set any boundaries to protect yourself from falling for an unavailable guy. In his mind he's made it clear it's primarily physical so he's free to give you parts and pieces of himself on his terms whereas you're falling into a relationship trap by being completely available with an open heart. You're adding meaning to these parts and pieces of himself that he shares with you. Now you're a year in and stuck. So it's really up to you to get clear about YOUR needs and desires for yourself because this isn't about him. What do you want? How do you feel about allowing yourself for whatever reason to be strung along? Why is his boundaries more important than your own boundaries? It may feel like you're making progress because of the time you've invested but unless you get clear on what you're doing you're going to end up very disappointed and hurt.
Very viral, it is cannot be broken no more. Have The Creator in me, I am left blindfolded.
When she did unfold the facts, she is left with a stick on.
Casualties are in but that is what it takes if you are left blindfolded.click to expand
Posted by OneMePosted by thinktankPisces
Libra maybe rude but fair. And i like fair people.
Though perhaps its gonna be complicated if its in relationship.
I mean, i dont mind giving something for my lover without asking for return because they are my lover but maybe when they give someone to me they gonna ask the same in return ? because they are fair ?
But yeah, you know what i mean.
I solely believe in the principal of reciprocity. It must be a fair deal in everything and all the time.click to expand