Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by MaxianPosted by TaurianDevilPosted by poppyflower
Should've hassled him over the phone. That would've been better than what you actually did.
I was trying to get my item from him for days prior to the unannounced pop up.
This makes it even worse. You could have just bought or used a different bra. This sounds obsessed.
Situation doesn't look good imo...
I’m not a fan of the “leave behind” tactic myself. But if your gonna do it choose an earring or something and say it’s got emotional significance like a gift from your dead grams.
Needing to retrieve a bra doesn’t have the same sense of urgency.click to expand
Posted by TaurianDevilPosted by poppyflower
Should've hassled him over the phone. That would've been better than what you actually did.
I was trying to get my item from him for days prior to the unannounced pop up.click to expand
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Maxian
Do I let go? (Applies to a few things in life, not just a person)
Thanks in advance for when you're able to answer =)
5 of Cups.
Shadow side: not letting go of past trauma, crying over spilt milk, rooting deeply into shadow work without healing and letting go, old stories that become a part of you, callousness, becoming jaded
The illusion is lifting and you may suddenly find yourself in the middle of a reality that is painfully disappointing. If your dark night was a result of someone else’s deception, you will need to find the seeds of forgiveness in order to avoid a confused heart.
Release yourself from the guilt around the situation. When we realize that the future we working toward is no longer an option, it’s easy to focus on the loss and allow our energy to stagnate and spiral into self-pity.
Don’t allow your life force to drain away with the things you once loved. Allow your tender heart to navigate toward the curative magic of finding faith in your future. If you are having a hard time letting go, unhook your heart from your fragmented dreams and give yourself permission to envision a brighter future. Dismantle your grief, reclaim your happiness, and consciously step back onto a path filled with hope.
“My tender heart helps me navigate toward my bright future”.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
Sorry is said a lot in Ireland even when people have done no wrong ....
Posted by Wizardz_
Get on your knees and beg for him to take you back?
Posted by pooface222Posted by Maxian
I think it's pretty easy. If someone really wants to be there, he/she would be. Why waste more time on a coward after those 7 wasted years already?
I know.
And I'm missing my married life.
I miss having a man who actually built a life with me and had vibrant energy and worked towards the future.
Told me he loved me. Showed me he loved me.
And the worst thing is. I KNEW I regret leaving him.click to expand
Posted by GobbiePosted by MaxianPosted by GobbiePosted by Maxian
Aquilo - A safe place to be (Aries and Scorpio)
Matthias Eick - When we leave (Gemini)
Hiatus Kaiyote - Mood Valiant (Taurus/ ???)
Bedouin - Waysides (Cancer)
Arab Strap - As days get dark (Aries and Capricorn)
Piers Faccini - Shapes of the fall (Aries)
Hammock - Elsewhere (???)
Reigning Sound - A little more time with Reigning Sound (Pisces/ ???)
I don't have a top 10, but I noticed I listened to a lot of Aries artists this year.
I love coming across a list of potentially interesting stuff I've never heard of. 😉
Many thanks for your contribution. I'll check them all out over the next few days. 👍
Finding new music is better than drugs :p
After much consideration, Matthias Eick's When We Leave is now in my personal top ten, knocking out Marissa Nadler. I'd probably position Matthias Eick in 5th place, with all the remaining lower entries going down a position.
2011's Skala is also another gem.
Many thanks for bringing him to my attention. 😊click to expand