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Probably not fighting hard enough to carve-out some kind of career in music.

Back then, there wasn't any internet and I faced so many hurdles just to get started as a musician (and a good mixture of -isms didn't help matters either). Also, anyone who recognised my potential, as a youngster, never bothered pushing me in the right direction.

There was also the odd missed opportunity to get my foot in the door, in the music industry, but I was young and the opportunities were presented to me 'in code'.

Also, I'm a bit of an anomaly - most people who meet me make the wrong assumptions about my music tastes, solely based on my ethnicity, so finding the right music circles has been extremely difficult.

Since then, attitudes have changed a great deal but I'm too weary of people now. Exploring and collecting music in my spare time is where the remnants of my music aspirations now reside.

It's never too late to start something new. Do some gigs on the weekend and look up the right people.
Two friends begun in their 20s and are getting quite big right now. They started abroad instead of their home base. Go for it Gobbie!

No regrets.

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

Yes. I don’t usually ask for trouble but if someone wants to start with me, they’ll get theirs and then some.

I have a hot temper but usually it’s controlled. Do you have a temper?

Not really. People very rarely see me angry until I'm totally maxed out. They are shocked when I am and know they should start running for the hills.

Lol. Sounds about right.

How do men deal with your anger, if they even see you angry? Some men love it, others not. Usually fire signs do and deal well with it.

Ugh, sometimes when I am angry I get all red in the face. The other day I was returning something to the store and cashier was giving me attitude. I was just waiting for that thin-lipped woman to say one wrong word and to unleash my anger. Luckily, she sensed it and stayed in her lane. There was lots of eye-rolling though and coughing. So dramatic, lol!

Fire signs don't have a problem with it. They WANT to get a reaction out of me. I ignore.
Air signs just back off and say "Let's agree to disagree" or wait until I calmed down for a clear dialogue.
Water signs unspoken understanding, don't really need to hash it over.
Earth signs just apologize and tell me I'm right 😂

In that scenario I would do some deep death glaring and eye rolling. Can't do drama lol

Water signs usually back down like the pu $ $ y they are.
Earth signs just shrug and leave the convo.
Air signs joke or turn to philosophy.
Fire signs (men) go for break-up and make-up angry sex.

What sign did you say your boyfriend is?

My ex Leo…there was a certain line I didn’t cross with him. Not because I couldn’t, but because I didn’t want to disrespect him like that. Always throwing tantrums. He was a good guy. Never ever offended me or hurt me. Not even one bad word ever. Unbelievable. That man had the nerves of steel.

Both Aries exes were the make up sex kinda peeps. Passionate, yet exhausting. No more please! Throwing tantrums for nothing as well.

As OP said (no idea how he/she knows that, but whatever), I'm polyamorous, so my partners are a Scorpio and a Libra.

How does this polyamory work? Does everyone know about each other and do you all sleep together at the same time or what?

If you don’t wanna talk about it, that’s ok. I will just google it, lol.

I have a Kitchen Table setup (KTP), so everyone can hangout with everyone, but does not necessarily sleep together as they have their own partners/metamours with their own rules and boundaries, but for the most part my polycule is pretty chill.
We don't really all sleep at the same time, sometimes, sometimes not. We also do holidays etc and things can get juicy.

There are so many models. They're endless. It really depends.

I mean - I respect it. But wow.

You don't get territorial? No worries about STDs?

Honestly, one guy just needs to fuck you really well. Sorry for being vulgar, but a satisfied woman should have no desire to see someone else. Sorry for being vulgar.

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Nope. Don't get territorial, if any. I love when partners go seek out a new loved one. It's called 'compersion'. That's what polyamory is literally many loves.
It's not about the sex, that's not what polyamory is about. Plus, STD's are not a stranger in monogamy dating so don't understand your approach here.

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

Yes. I don’t usually ask for trouble but if someone wants to start with me, they’ll get theirs and then some.

I have a hot temper but usually it’s controlled. Do you have a temper?

Not really. People very rarely see me angry until I'm totally maxed out. They are shocked when I am and know they should start running for the hills.

Lol. Sounds about right.

How do men deal with your anger, if they even see you angry? Some men love it, others not. Usually fire signs do and deal well with it.

Ugh, sometimes when I am angry I get all red in the face. The other day I was returning something to the store and cashier was giving me attitude. I was just waiting for that thin-lipped woman to say one wrong word and to unleash my anger. Luckily, she sensed it and stayed in her lane. There was lots of eye-rolling though and coughing. So dramatic, lol!

Fire signs don't have a problem with it. They WANT to get a reaction out of me. I ignore.
Air signs just back off and say "Let's agree to disagree" or wait until I calmed down for a clear dialogue.
Water signs unspoken understanding, don't really need to hash it over.
Earth signs just apologize and tell me I'm right 😂

In that scenario I would do some deep death glaring and eye rolling. Can't do drama lol

Water signs usually back down like the pu $ $ y they are.
Earth signs just shrug and leave the convo.
Air signs joke or turn to philosophy.
Fire signs (men) go for break-up and make-up angry sex.

What sign did you say your boyfriend is?

My ex Leo…there was a certain line I didn’t cross with him. Not because I couldn’t, but because I didn’t want to disrespect him like that. Always throwing tantrums. He was a good guy. Never ever offended me or hurt me. Not even one bad word ever. Unbelievable. That man had the nerves of steel.

Both Aries exes were the make up sex kinda peeps. Passionate, yet exhausting. No more please! Throwing tantrums for nothing as well.

As OP said (no idea how he/she knows that, but whatever), I'm polyamorous, so my partners are a Scorpio and a Libra.

How does this polyamory work? Does everyone know about each other and do you all sleep together at the same time or what?

If you don’t wanna talk about it, that’s ok. I will just google it, lol.

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I have a Kitchen Table setup (KTP), so everyone can hangout with everyone, but does not necessarily sleep together as they have their own partners/metamours with their own rules and boundaries, but for the most part my polycule is pretty chill.
We don't really all sleep at the same time, sometimes, sometimes not. We also do holidays etc and things can get juicy.

There are so many models. They're endless. It really depends.

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

Yes. I don’t usually ask for trouble but if someone wants to start with me, they’ll get theirs and then some.

I have a hot temper but usually it’s controlled. Do you have a temper?

Not really. People very rarely see me angry until I'm totally maxed out. They are shocked when I am and know they should start running for the hills.

Lol. Sounds about right.

How do men deal with your anger, if they even see you angry? Some men love it, others not. Usually fire signs do and deal well with it.

Ugh, sometimes when I am angry I get all red in the face. The other day I was returning something to the store and cashier was giving me attitude. I was just waiting for that thin-lipped woman to say one wrong word and to unleash my anger. Luckily, she sensed it and stayed in her lane. There was lots of eye-rolling though and coughing. So dramatic, lol!

Fire signs don't have a problem with it. They WANT to get a reaction out of me. I ignore.
Air signs just back off and say "Let's agree to disagree" or wait until I calmed down for a clear dialogue.
Water signs unspoken understanding, don't really need to hash it over.
Earth signs just apologize and tell me I'm right 😂

In that scenario I would do some deep death glaring and eye rolling. Can't do drama lol

Water signs usually back down like the pu $ $ y they are.
Earth signs just shrug and leave the convo.
Air signs joke or turn to philosophy.
Fire signs (men) go for break-up and make-up angry sex.

What sign did you say your boyfriend is?

My ex Leo…there was a certain line I didn’t cross with him. Not because I couldn’t, but because I didn’t want to disrespect him like that. Always throwing tantrums. He was a good guy. Never ever offended me or hurt me. Not even one bad word ever. Unbelievable. That man had the nerves of steel.

Both Aries exes were the make up sex kinda peeps. Passionate, yet exhausting. No more please! Throwing tantrums for nothing as well.

As OP said (no idea how he/she knows that, but whatever), I'm polyamorous, so my partners are a Scorpio and a Libra.

I am too territorial for polyamory. My woman is not to be shared.

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

Yes. I don’t usually ask for trouble but if someone wants to start with me, they’ll get theirs and then some.

I have a hot temper but usually it’s controlled. Do you have a temper?

Not really. People very rarely see me angry until I'm totally maxed out. They are shocked when I am and know they should start running for the hills.

Lol. Sounds about right.

How do men deal with your anger, if they even see you angry? Some men love it, others not. Usually fire signs do and deal well with it.

Ugh, sometimes when I am angry I get all red in the face. The other day I was returning something to the store and cashier was giving me attitude. I was just waiting for that thin-lipped woman to say one wrong word and to unleash my anger. Luckily, she sensed it and stayed in her lane. There was lots of eye-rolling though and coughing. So dramatic, lol!

Fire signs don't have a problem with it. They WANT to get a reaction out of me. I ignore.
Air signs just back off and say "Let's agree to disagree" or wait until I calmed down for a clear dialogue.
Water signs unspoken understanding, don't really need to hash it over.
Earth signs just apologize and tell me I'm right 😂

In that scenario I would do some deep death glaring and eye rolling. Can't do drama lol

Water signs usually back down like the pu $ $ y they are.
Earth signs just shrug and leave the convo.
Air signs joke or turn to philosophy.
Fire signs (men) go for break-up and make-up angry sex.

What sign did you say your boyfriend is?

My ex Leo…there was a certain line I didn’t cross with him. Not because I couldn’t, but because I didn’t want to disrespect him like that. Always throwing tantrums. He was a good guy. Never ever offended me or hurt me. Not even one bad word ever. Unbelievable. That man had the nerves of steel.

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Both Aries exes were the make up sex kinda peeps. Passionate, yet exhausting. No more please! Throwing tantrums for nothing as well.

As OP said (no idea how he/she knows that, but whatever), I'm polyamorous, so my partners are a Scorpio and a Libra.

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

Yes. I don’t usually ask for trouble but if someone wants to start with me, they’ll get theirs and then some.

I have a hot temper but usually it’s controlled. Do you have a temper?

Not really. People very rarely see me angry until I'm totally maxed out. They are shocked when I am and know they should start running for the hills.

Lol. Sounds about right.

How do men deal with your anger, if they even see you angry? Some men love it, others not. Usually fire signs do and deal well with it.

Ugh, sometimes when I am angry I get all red in the face. The other day I was returning something to the store and cashier was giving me attitude. I was just waiting for that thin-lipped woman to say one wrong word and to unleash my anger. Luckily, she sensed it and stayed in her lane. There was lots of eye-rolling though and coughing. So dramatic, lol!

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Fire signs don't have a problem with it. They WANT to get a reaction out of me. I ignore.
Air signs just back off and say "Let's agree to disagree" or wait until I calmed down for a clear dialogue.
Water signs unspoken understanding, don't really need to hash it over.
Earth signs just apologize and tell me I'm right 😂

In that scenario I would do some deep death glaring and eye rolling. Can't do drama lol

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

Yes. I don’t usually ask for trouble but if someone wants to start with me, they’ll get theirs and then some.

I have a hot temper but usually it’s controlled. Do you have a temper?

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Not really. People very rarely see me angry until I'm totally maxed out. They are shocked when I am and know they should start running for the hills.

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

Ah yes.

The polyamorous Crab of DXP has the Mars in Leo.

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Who are you?

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Virgo Venus

What's wrong with Virgo Venus?
Give me some secrets please

The least romantic Venus sign I've ever met. Very different from my Leo Venus.

I'm seeing a Virgo Venus in 9th house and is way more romantic than me. Like he jumped out of Jane Austen novel.
What sun and moon did you date it with?

Virgo Sun with Virgo Venus both in 11th house. Nothing romantic about any of that. 😂

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I can tell you it's not the Virgo, it's the 11th house.
I have 11th house placements and I laugh at all the sappy romance that's coming of Virgo Venus his mouth😂

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Now that I think about it. Leo mars is pretty unpleasant. Angry, confrontational, egoistic, self righteous, fixed, arrogant, condescending.

Only when we are provoked though?

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Virgo Venus

What's wrong with Virgo Venus?
Give me some secrets please

The least romantic Venus sign I've ever met. Very different from my Leo Venus.

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I'm seeing a Virgo Venus in 9th house and is way more romantic than me. Like he jumped out of Jane Austen novel.
What sun and moon did you date it with?

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Virgo Venus

What's wrong with Virgo Venus?
Give me some secrets please

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The difference between fun and wifee material is how willing you are to baby your man. Are you gonna cook, clean, and wipe their ass? They are looking for a mom replacement lmao.

Shout out to the men who do know how to operate a washing machine. Y'all are a rare breed.

With marriages declining, it’s also increasingly common of girlfriends to cook, clean and do all these “wifely duties” without the ring. Even TikTok has a bunch of content encouraging the younger generation to stop until he puts a ring on it !! I personally barely cook and we get house cleaning services periodically.

And no shade for women who want that stay at home life. Its not for me cause I want to be paid for my labor.

I was raised in a household that had that traditional gender roles outlook and it shows. Me and my sister are successful in life, we own property... we have careers, not jobs. While my brothers are living that struggle life month to month. Is it because they were taught that women's purpose in life is to cater to their needs? IDK. I keep telling them having your mom do your laundry is not cute when you hit 30.

I know the lesson was supposed to be that our purpose as women is to be a help mate. But nope, main character energy only. Now that I think about it, a lot of the childhood indoctrination backfired in a big way. They tried tho.

I don't see how your brothers not succeeding has anything to do with them being raised traditionally. Makes no sense.

Because they were raised in an environment where they did not have to lift a finger, they were catered too and taught that this is the way it is. Real life is not like this.
Lost out on important life lessons like time management and self sufficiency to name a few.

The boys in Irish culture are raised the same way...the girls do all the work. I remember our kid saying what useless mammy’s boys his peers were. When he left home at 18 he could cook, clean, wash, iron etc and has never asked me how to do anything. Women spoil their sons not realizing how useless they render them...

Ugh thats what I hated about the Aries. He expected me to work part-time to take care of our imaginary kids. Thank god I didn't marry him😂

Lucky escape girl 🥴

Good to know it's an Irish thing, and not an Aries thing lol

My Irish ex when he first came to my home asked if we could play a game where i was the “woman of the house”
Lol. I asked him why, so i got to do all the domestic chores like his mother ... no way. He is an Aries ...

Ew. So it is an Aries thing?

Well my Dad was an Aries and my mum used to baby him 🥴

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I know a Scorpio/Aries with the same dynamic. Treating Aries like a child😖

Hmmmmmmm

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The difference between fun and wifee material is how willing you are to baby your man. Are you gonna cook, clean, and wipe their ass? They are looking for a mom replacement lmao.

Shout out to the men who do know how to operate a washing machine. Y'all are a rare breed.

With marriages declining, it’s also increasingly common of girlfriends to cook, clean and do all these “wifely duties” without the ring. Even TikTok has a bunch of content encouraging the younger generation to stop until he puts a ring on it !! I personally barely cook and we get house cleaning services periodically.

And no shade for women who want that stay at home life. Its not for me cause I want to be paid for my labor.

I was raised in a household that had that traditional gender roles outlook and it shows. Me and my sister are successful in life, we own property... we have careers, not jobs. While my brothers are living that struggle life month to month. Is it because they were taught that women's purpose in life is to cater to their needs? IDK. I keep telling them having your mom do your laundry is not cute when you hit 30.

I know the lesson was supposed to be that our purpose as women is to be a help mate. But nope, main character energy only. Now that I think about it, a lot of the childhood indoctrination backfired in a big way. They tried tho.

I don't see how your brothers not succeeding has anything to do with them being raised traditionally. Makes no sense.

Because they were raised in an environment where they did not have to lift a finger, they were catered too and taught that this is the way it is. Real life is not like this.
Lost out on important life lessons like time management and self sufficiency to name a few.

The boys in Irish culture are raised the same way...the girls do all the work. I remember our kid saying what useless mammy’s boys his peers were. When he left home at 18 he could cook, clean, wash, iron etc and has never asked me how to do anything. Women spoil their sons not realizing how useless they render them...

Ugh thats what I hated about the Aries. He expected me to work part-time to take care of our imaginary kids. Thank god I didn't marry him😂

Lucky escape girl 🥴

Good to know it's an Irish thing, and not an Aries thing lol

My Irish ex when he first came to my home asked if we could play a game where i was the “woman of the house”
Lol. I asked him why, so i got to do all the domestic chores like his mother ... no way. He is an Aries ...

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Ew. So it is an Aries thing?

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The difference between fun and wifee material is how willing you are to baby your man. Are you gonna cook, clean, and wipe their ass? They are looking for a mom replacement lmao.

Shout out to the men who do know how to operate a washing machine. Y'all are a rare breed.

With marriages declining, it’s also increasingly common of girlfriends to cook, clean and do all these “wifely duties” without the ring. Even TikTok has a bunch of content encouraging the younger generation to stop until he puts a ring on it !! I personally barely cook and we get house cleaning services periodically.

And no shade for women who want that stay at home life. Its not for me cause I want to be paid for my labor.

I was raised in a household that had that traditional gender roles outlook and it shows. Me and my sister are successful in life, we own property... we have careers, not jobs. While my brothers are living that struggle life month to month. Is it because they were taught that women's purpose in life is to cater to their needs? IDK. I keep telling them having your mom do your laundry is not cute when you hit 30.

I know the lesson was supposed to be that our purpose as women is to be a help mate. But nope, main character energy only. Now that I think about it, a lot of the childhood indoctrination backfired in a big way. They tried tho.

I don't see how your brothers not succeeding has anything to do with them being raised traditionally. Makes no sense.

Because they were raised in an environment where they did not have to lift a finger, they were catered too and taught that this is the way it is. Real life is not like this.
Lost out on important life lessons like time management and self sufficiency to name a few.

The boys in Irish culture are raised the same way...the girls do all the work. I remember our kid saying what useless mammy’s boys his peers were. When he left home at 18 he could cook, clean, wash, iron etc and has never asked me how to do anything. Women spoil their sons not realizing how useless they render them...

Ugh thats what I hated about the Aries. He expected me to work part-time to take care of our imaginary kids. Thank god I didn't marry him😂

Lucky escape girl 🥴

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Good to know it's an Irish thing, and not an Aries thing lol

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The difference between fun and wifee material is how willing you are to baby your man. Are you gonna cook, clean, and wipe their ass? They are looking for a mom replacement lmao.

Shout out to the men who do know how to operate a washing machine. Y'all are a rare breed.

With marriages declining, it’s also increasingly common of girlfriends to cook, clean and do all these “wifely duties” without the ring. Even TikTok has a bunch of content encouraging the younger generation to stop until he puts a ring on it !! I personally barely cook and we get house cleaning services periodically.

And no shade for women who want that stay at home life. Its not for me cause I want to be paid for my labor.

I was raised in a household that had that traditional gender roles outlook and it shows. Me and my sister are successful in life, we own property... we have careers, not jobs. While my brothers are living that struggle life month to month. Is it because they were taught that women's purpose in life is to cater to their needs? IDK. I keep telling them having your mom do your laundry is not cute when you hit 30.

I know the lesson was supposed to be that our purpose as women is to be a help mate. But nope, main character energy only. Now that I think about it, a lot of the childhood indoctrination backfired in a big way. They tried tho.

I don't see how your brothers not succeeding has anything to do with them being raised traditionally. Makes no sense.

Because they were raised in an environment where they did not have to lift a finger, they were catered too and taught that this is the way it is. Real life is not like this.
Lost out on important life lessons like time management and self sufficiency to name a few.

The boys in Irish culture are raised the same way...the girls do all the work. I remember our kid saying what useless mammy’s boys his peers were. When he left home at 18 he could cook, clean, wash, iron etc and has never asked me how to do anything. Women spoil their sons not realizing how useless they render them...

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Ugh thats what I hated about the Aries. He expected me to work part-time to take care of our imaginary kids. Thank god I didn't marry him😂

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Forget about it lady. That Aquarius is never coming back. Especially if he will sense you could "use" someone like him

LOL

I am hoping he doesn’t see me “that way” anyway. He is also old now. He was always too old for me. 20 years older or so.
It’s not like that. I didn’t mean literally use him. I don’t need his money or favors. I just need his social connections.

Ah ok. You could just open a conversation with him and tell him your situation. Aquas love honesty and to be of service. So atleast give him that when you connect again.

That takes swallowing my massive Leo ego and pride 😔

And Geminis hate being vulnerable. I am getting anxiety just thinking about it :/

Suck it up kiddo.

What should I even say?

“Hey, I am here and I am new. I need your help. And if you have a cousin my age, tell him about me”
LOL. Jeez.

Oh man. All this time and I can’t find the words. Fucking unbelievable 🤦‍♀️

Just talk to him like you talk to someone you haven't seen in a long time. If things flow and he's wanting to hear you out you could explain your situation yes.
He's an Aqua, they want to know everything.

Okay. I will reach out and see what happens!
I will keep it light and maybe mention some mutual people we both know. He was born in the same city as my father. So at least an ice breaker.

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Just start with: "Hey, how are you?"

That's it. Keep it simple.

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Forget about it lady. That Aquarius is never coming back. Especially if he will sense you could "use" someone like him

LOL

I am hoping he doesn’t see me “that way” anyway. He is also old now. He was always too old for me. 20 years older or so.
It’s not like that. I didn’t mean literally use him. I don’t need his money or favors. I just need his social connections.

Ah ok. You could just open a conversation with him and tell him your situation. Aquas love honesty and to be of service. So atleast give him that when you connect again.

That takes swallowing my massive Leo ego and pride 😔

And Geminis hate being vulnerable. I am getting anxiety just thinking about it :/

Suck it up kiddo.

What should I even say?

“Hey, I am here and I am new. I need your help. And if you have a cousin my age, tell him about me”
LOL. Jeez.

Oh man. All this time and I can’t find the words. Fucking unbelievable 🤦‍♀️

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Just talk to him like you talk to someone you haven't seen in a long time. If things flow and he's wanting to hear you out you could explain your situation yes.
He's an Aqua, they want to know everything.