Mercury sextile Jupiter

Hello everyone, I need some help regarding my retrograde mercury in sag in the 6th. From what I've read having a planet retrograde in the natal changes quite a few things. My mercury also squares my Mc which definitely corroborates the fact that I have issues speaking mostly stage fright, but even when I'm having a good flow in conversation I somehow stutter or stammer and it kinda ruins the flow like if people were interested then they loose some interest. Can anyone help me with my retrogade mercury aspects or links to some sites that I can use. Or experience with these aspects. How does a retrogade mercury affect these aspects
Ascendant in gemini 28°
Mercury sextile Jupiter orb -0°09'
Mercury square Lilith orb +0°04'
Mercury square Midheaven orb +3°14'
Moon trine Mercury orb +8°12'
Mercury sextile Saturn orb +5°37'

Mercury in Leo - 6th House

Mercury Conjunct Saturn
Mercury Opposition Ascendant
Mercury Trine Midheaven
Mercury Trine Neptune
Mercury Sextile Moon
Mercury Sextile Jupiter
Mercury Sextile Venus

Ascendant in Capricorn 20° 12' 15"
Sun in Libra 19° 11' 44"
Leo 10° 01' 40"
Mercury in Libra 12° 23' 35"
Venus in Libra 14° 05' 32"
Mars in Gemini 14° 06' 10"
Jupiter in Leo 10° 03' 15"
Saturn in Capricorn 19° 01' 14"
Uranus in Capricorn 5° 56' 03"
Neptune in Capricorn 11° 53' 51"
Pluto in Scorpio 16° 35' 13"
Chiron in Cancer 26° 47' 13"
Black Moon Lilith in Sagittarius 8° 17' 29"
North Node in Aquarius 4° 21' 27"
Rx Part of Fortune in Scorpio 11° 02' 12"
Vertex in Leo 25° 51' 57"
Midheaven in Scorpio 16° 22' 44"

Sun in Ninth House
Moon in Seventh House
Mercury in Eighth House
Venus in Eighth House
Mars in Fifth House
Jupiter in Seventh House
Saturn in Twelfth House
/!\ NOTE: Since Saturn is very close to the next house cusp, the next item is also relevant.
Saturn in First House
Uranus in Twelfth House
Neptune in Twelfth House
Pluto in Tenth House
Chiron in Seventh House
Black Moon Lilith in Tenth House
/!\ NOTE: Since Black Moon Lilith is very close to the next house cusp, the next item is also relevant. Black Moon Lilith in Eleventh House
North Node in First House
Part of Fortune in Ninth House
Vertex in Seventh House
Aspects Sun Conjunction Mercury (orb 6°48')
Sun Conjunction Venus (orb 5°6')
Sun Trine Mars (orb 5°6')
Sun Square Saturn (orb 0°10')
Sun Square Ascendant (orb 1°1')
Moon Sextile Mercury (orb 2°22')
Moon Conjunction Jupiter (orb 0°2')
Moon Quincunx Neptune (orb 1°52')
Moon Square Pluto (orb 6°34')
Moon Trine Black Moon Lilith (orb 1°44')
Moon Opposition North Node (orb 5°40')
Moon Square Part of Fortune (orb 1°1')
Moon Square Midheaven (orb 6°21')
Mercury Conjunction Venus (orb 1°42')
Mercury Trine Mars (orb 1°43')
Mercury Sextile Jupiter (orb 2°20')
Mercury Square Saturn (orb 6°38')
Mercury Square Uranus (orb 6°28')
Mercury Square Neptune (orb 0°30')
Venus Trine Mars (orb 0°1')
Venus Square Saturn (orb 4°56')
Venus Square Neptune (orb 2°12')
Venus Square Ascendant (orb 6°7')
Mars Quincunx Neptune (orb 2°12')
Mars Quincunx Pluto (orb 2°29')
Mars Opposition Black Moon Lilith (orb 5°49')
Mars Quincunx Midheaven (orb 2°17')
Jupiter Quincunx Neptune (orb 1°51')
Jupiter Square Pluto (orb 6°32')
Jupiter Trine Black Moon Lilith (orb 1°46')
Jupiter Opposition North Node (orb 5°42')
Jupiter Square Part of Fortune (orb 0°59')
Jupiter Square Midheaven (orb 6°19')
Saturn Conjunction Neptune (orb 7°7')
Saturn Sextile Pluto (orb 2°26')
Saturn Opposition Chiron (orb 7°46')
Saturn Conjunction Ascendant (orb 1°11')
Saturn Sextile Midheaven (orb 2°38')
Uranus Conjunction Neptune (orb 5°58')
Neptune Sextile Part of Fortune (orb 0°52')
Neptune Conjunction Ascendant (orb 8°18')
Pluto Conjunction Part of Fortune (orb 5°33')
Pluto Sextile Ascendant (orb 3°37')
Pluto Conjunction Midheaven (orb 0°12')
Chiron Opposition North Node (orb 7°34')
Chiron Opposition Ascendant (orb 6°35')
Black Moon Lilith Sextile North Node (orb 3°56')
North Node Square Part of Fortune (orb 6°41')
Part of Fortune Conjunction Midheaven (orb 5°21')
Ascendant Sextile Midheaven (orb 3°50')

If you need me to post a chart I will do so later.

Thanks!

Mine are friggin massive:

Sun conjunct Venus 0.11
Venus conjunct Venus 0.1
Mars sextile Venus 0.4
Jupiter sextile Venus 1.25
Pluto conj Venus 0.43

Sun trine Mars 0.23
Venus trine Mars 0.14
Mars sextile mars 0.16
Jupiter sextile mars 1.38
Pluto trine mars 0.56

Moon conj Jupiter 1.3
Mercury sextile Jupiter 1.27

Sun sq Saturn 0.56
Venus sq Saturn 1.6
Pluto sq Saturn 0.24

Uranus trine Neptune 0.47
Uranus opp Pluto 1.9

Sun sextile midheaven 1.26
Venus sextile midheaven 1.35
Mars trine midheaven 1.33
Jupiter trine midheaven 0.11
Pluto sextile midheaven 0.54

I have seen guys saying it feels weird for them if the woman's Mars aspects his Moon, especially if they have a Moon sign that likes to dominate (which this guy's Scorpio Moon does). I've also seen some guys saying the opposite (that it's even better if the woman is the Mars in this aspect), so I don't know what to think. I have my Mars in Cancer trine this guy's Moon in Scorpio, 3 degree orb.

What I want to know is whether our other aspects will change the way this feels for him. We also have his Mars square my Venus, and in my experience, this is one of the hottest sex aspects. All the guys who have pursued me the most relentlessly had either their Mars square my Venus or their Mars square my Moon. He also had a tight Mars square Venus with an ex that lasted for a long time. Will this help to offset the weird-ness of my Mars aspecting his Moon?

Also, the fact that his Mars is in Aquarius (I've heard they lack physical passion and can seem asexual to some), is it possible it could be a good thing that my warmer Mars aspects his Moon? Would it put a damper on the passion if it was only his Aquarius Mars aspecting everything?

His Mars is quincunx my Moon, the orb is wide though. I've felt wide quincunxes in the past, they seem great for creativity/friendship in synastry. I know he likes powerful, independent women, but he probably doesn't like them to dominate.

We also have tons of other aspects, including:
0 degree Moon trine Moon
0 degree Sun trine Sun
Mercury sextile Jupiter
Sun trine Saturn
double whammy tight Venus Moon Opposition (we both do well with oppositions in synastry)
Sun trine Jupiter
Mercury trine Mercury
Venus trine Venus
His North Node 0 degree conjunct my Ascendant
His Eros trine my Venus
Moon conjunct Pluto
His sun in my 8th house, his Moon in my 4th house
My Venus in his 4th house, my Moon in his 7th house, my Sun in his 5th house
and more.

This guy has:

Sun - Aquarius
Moon- Scorpio
Mercury - Aquarius
Mars - Aquarius
Venus - Capricorn

Me:

Sun - Gemini
Moon - Cancer
Mercury - Cancer
Mars - Cancer
Venus - Taurus

I know it seems like a lot of Aqua for a Cancer dominant woman, but Aquarius is one of the best signs for me in friendships/relationships.