Yes he does actually work for a law firm😊
Another confused woman
I used to date an attorney that worked for a law firm who put in major hours but still always found time for me. This guy was only marginally interested in the first place. It looks like you were the one doing most of the contacting and him just replying when he got around to it. I think he had you over expecting sex since you were so persistent of his time. When that didn't happen he was respectful but realized he didn't want a relationship with you so he said he didn't have the "mental space" for a relationship (blah, blah) crap. You have been dropped and it would be best to stop stalking his social media so you can move on and heal from this. Looking at what he's doing now will only hurt you. BTW, was that date at his house the first time he saw you in person?
You are chasing someone desperately. Someone who was only marginally interested, even during the novelty phase. Someone who is now just paying you lip service, entertained by your inability to control yourself, while having his ego stroked by your obsession with him.
LOL at you attending job interviews in his hometown, while he went into hiding!
You seem to want to believe everything he says, even bypassing your gut instincts and every bit of common sense!
What exactly are you trying to achieve through your behaviour....?
Stop. Just stop. Get a grip on yourself!
LOL at you attending job interviews in his hometown, while he went into hiding!
You seem to want to believe everything he says, even bypassing your gut instincts and every bit of common sense!
What exactly are you trying to achieve through your behaviour....?
Stop. Just stop. Get a grip on yourself!
Yes, the first date was at his house. No I am not stalking him, I only observed he was online a lot the night after he wrote he had no time for a relationship.
I usually never stalk people.
I have already deleted his phone number and do not intend to contact him further.
You are right I guess, I have been dumped, and this "we can still see each other" is nothing but the nice packaging around that central message "I dont want anything with you"
I usually never stalk people.
I have already deleted his phone number and do not intend to contact him further.
You are right I guess, I have been dumped, and this "we can still see each other" is nothing but the nice packaging around that central message "I dont want anything with you"
Posted by Undine
You are chasing someone desperately. Someone who was only marginally interested, even during the novelty phase. Someone who is now just paying you lip service, entertained by your inability to control yourself, while having his ego stroked by your obsession with him.
LOL at you attending job interviews in his hometown, while he went into hiding!
You seem to want to believe everything he says, even bypassing your gut instincts and every bit of common sense!
What exactly are you trying to achieve through your behaviour....?
Stop. Just stop. Get a grip on yourself!
I dont understand, sorry. The job interview was for me, it was part of my life plan. And after him disappearing, I told him to sodder off. He came back for a second chance
Don’t worry in a couple of months he’ll probably reappear someway somehow.
A cap I used to talk to sometime around this time last year texted me like a month and a half ago and had the audacity to word it like “almost forgot about you” or some bs like that LMFAOO. Cap code word for “imy”. Don’t entertain it though, theres always an ulterior motive to them “checking up” on you.
They communicate super weird lol
A cap I used to talk to sometime around this time last year texted me like a month and a half ago and had the audacity to word it like “almost forgot about you” or some bs like that LMFAOO. Cap code word for “imy”. Don’t entertain it though, theres always an ulterior motive to them “checking up” on you.
They communicate super weird lol
‼️‼️Warning : too busy. Really busy =
not interested for more than the casual hook-up. 🤷♀️
If there's genuine feelings... ☝️trust this guy would be calling / texting you & planning / booking future dates left and right, he wouldn't risk you losing interest or meeting someone else.
not interested for more than the casual hook-up. 🤷♀️
If there's genuine feelings... ☝️trust this guy would be calling / texting you & planning / booking future dates left and right, he wouldn't risk you losing interest or meeting someone else.
Posted by Basorexia
‼️‼️Warning : too busy. Really busy =
not interested for more than the casual hook-up. 🤷♀️
If there's genuine feelings... ☝️trust this guy would be calling / texting you & planning / booking future dates left and right, he wouldn't risk you losing interest or meeting someone else.
Thank you all, I have my confirmation of something I suspected. I will put this down to inexperience, since I come out of a long marriage and this was my first date. Lesson learned, this is over for me.
I can't see your comment where you're describing the situation and I really want to. Feel like I can give an input. You mind copy pasting it??
Posted by bad_at_usernames
I can't see your comment where you're describing the situation and I really want to. Feel like I can give an input. You mind copy pasting it??
Its ok, I had my answers, the lesson is learned😉
Thank you anyway for wanting to give an input. I already cut him off and do not intend to ever contact him again. And I dont think, I would ever chase a man again😁
Posted by Moonlight_3434Posted by bad_at_usernames
I can't see your comment where you're describing the situation and I really want to. Feel like I can give an input. You mind copy pasting it??
Its ok, I had my answers, the lesson is learned😉
Thank you anyway for wanting to give an input. I already cut him off and do not intend to ever contact him again. And I dont think, I would ever chase a man again😁click to expand
Good for you! 💪
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