@creativelyconeigh
6 Years
Confused about Capricorn?
Even if he's not "playing" you, you're playing yourself.
You have given a dude permission to "date around and not rush into a relationship" while screwing you too. Who tf really knows if he meant what he said to you. He was drunk. If his actions, don't line up with his words of "loving you" and being "grateful to have you in his life" then, you'll truly have your answer. Dude says "he gets bored easily" LMAO & SMH! I think you should believe that since he "drops them after a month". Right? So.....maybe it's your turn?
I have been kind of on and off with this Capricorn male that I seem to connect with and he connects with me. I am a pisces/Aries cusp and we get along perfectly. We have mutual chemistry that is strong, magnetic and insane. He has been kind of screwing around with other girls, but he drops them after a month (he says he gets bored easily) and he hasn't let me go yet. We started out slowly, but romantic, then we became just friends. We would sit up and talk for hours about anything and I don't think I have laughed harder with anyone. On Valentines day, he was really trashed but he was at the bar we both frequent and met at. He kept looking at me and locking eyes with me and when I saw him, he just kept eye contact with this adorable and loving little smile. Long story short: He was super trashed and told me that night that he loved me, that he has never felt this kind of chemistry before, he feels incredibly balanced when we are together and then we basically made out in the middle of the bar. We hooked up the next morning and he took me to breakfast. It was amazing. I will also mention that he told me how grateful he is that I am in his life and how happy he is that I have been patient and let him date around and not rush him into a relationship.
Here is my question: After Saturday, he went distant. He never initiates texts but its always different when we are together. Well now he went cold and would barely respond. Did he mean what he said? Is he playing me? I am confused.
he mumbled a drunk I Love You and you're ready to get married - yes, he's going to run …
It was a situational "I love you". If you weren't in the room he would've said the same to the bar tender or the uber driver on the ride home.
He told you he gets bored after 1 month and after he fucks a girl.
Your a girl he just fucked and hasn't reached out to since.
Do you see the pattern here...
i believe in the capricorn/pisces connection
I think you'll hear from him again.
I had a similar pattern during my very first relationship, also with a Cap. It felt that we were made for eachother, but none of us were ready for a committed and exclusive relationship. We were both 19 when we met.
Are you 19....?
I have been kind of on and off with this Capricorn male that I seem to connect with and he connects with me. I am a pisces/Aries cusp and we get along perfectly. We have mutual chemistry that is strong, magnetic and insane. He has been kind of screwing around with other girls, but he drops them after a month (he says he gets bored easily) and he hasn't let me go yet. We started out slowly, but romantic, then we became just friends. We would sit up and talk for hours about anything and I don't think I have laughed harder with anyone. On Valentines day, he was really trashed but he was at the bar we both frequent and met at. He kept looking at me and locking eyes with me and when I saw him, he just kept eye contact with this adorable and loving little smile. Long story short: He was super trashed and told me that night that he loved me, that he has never felt this kind of chemistry before, he feels incredibly balanced when we are together and then we basically made out in the middle of the bar. We hooked up the next morning and he took me to breakfast. It was amazing. I will also mention that he told me how grateful he is that I am in his life and how happy he is that I have been patient and let him date around and not rush him into a relationship.
Here is my question: After Saturday, he went distant. He never initiates texts but its always different when we are together. Well now he went cold and would barely respond. Did he mean what he said? Is he playing me? I am confused.
He dates around despite knowing he shared strong chemistry with you so unfortunately he's just not ready.
He can only play you if you decide to be played by going along with his shenanigans ie allowing him to date around whilst sleeping with you going forward. Hit the reset button. Forget about a drunk I love you. Take it for what it was, a morning shag and breakfast. Go out and have fun on dates with other men who've shown interest in you. If you're initiating contact then you're CHASING him, chase a man and he will run so stop initiating contact, only respond after he contacts you and if he never initiates contact lose his number, forget him.
I have been kind of on and off with this Capricorn male that I seem to connect with and he connects with me. I am a pisces/Aries cusp and we get along perfectly. We have mutual chemistry that is strong, magnetic and insane. He has been kind of screwing around with other girls, but he drops them after a month (he says he gets bored easily) and he hasn't let me go yet. We started out slowly, but romantic, then we became just friends. We would sit up and talk for hours about anything and I don't think I have laughed harder with anyone. On Valentines day, he was really trashed but he was at the bar we both frequent and met at. He kept looking at me and locking eyes with me and when I saw him, he just kept eye contact with this adorable and loving little smile. Long story short: He was super trashed and told me that night that he loved me, that he has never felt this kind of chemistry before, he feels incredibly balanced when we are together and then we basically made out in the middle of the bar. We hooked up the next morning and he took me to breakfast. It was amazing. I will also mention that he told me how grateful he is that I am in his life and how happy he is that I have been patient and let him date around and not rush him into a relationship.
Here is my question: After Saturday, he went distant. He never initiates texts but its always different when we are together. Well now he went cold and would barely respond. Did he mean what he said? Is he playing me? I am confused.
He dates around despite knowing he shared strong chemistry with you so unfortunately he's just not ready.
He can only play you if you decide to be played by going along with his shenanigans ie allowing him to date around whilst sleeping with you going forward. Hit the reset button. Forget about a drunk I love you. Take it for what it was, a morning shag and breakfast. Go out and have fun on dates with other men who've shown interest in you. If you're initiating contact then you're CHASING him, chase a man and he will run so stop initiating contact, only respond after he contacts you and if he never initiates contact lose his number, forget him.
How are youu? ❤
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I'm good darling..
I’m dealing with this as well he said he wanted a 3 some and I’m not Into that. He says it’s nothing like new pussy. He’s hurt me & yet I stay around 🤡. It was like Tyler Perry’s new movie. He switched up and got angry and said he doesn’t wanna be with me or anyone but I’m confused as to why he’s nice to me I’m person and hits me up every blue moon. Maybe bored but has definitely taken me for granted. Should I leave quietly or tell him I’m leaving?
I’m dealing with this as well he said he wanted a 3 some and I’m not Into that. He says it’s nothing like new pussy. He’s hurt me & yet I stay around 🤡. It was like Tyler Perry’s new movie. He switched up and got angry and said he doesn’t wanna be with me or anyone but I’m confused as to why he’s nice to me I’m person and hits me up every blue moon. Maybe bored but has definitely taken me for granted. Should I leave quietly or tell him I’m leaving?
@creativelyconeigh im a Pisces too
I’m dealing with this as well he said he wanted a 3 some and I’m not Into that. He says it’s nothing like new pussy. He’s hurt me & yet I stay around 🤡. It was like Tyler Perry’s new movie. He switched up and got angry and said he doesn’t wanna be with me or anyone but I’m confused as to why he’s nice to me I’m person and hits me up every blue moon. Maybe bored but has definitely taken me for granted. Should I leave quietly or tell him I’m leaving?
That old saying a man will only treat you the way YOU ALLOW him to treat you. When you stick around for bad behavior and mistreatment you are actually giving him the greenlight to treat you poorly. He actually learn from you that as long as he's intermittently nice to you he can treat you like crap most of the time and show up every blue moon and you'll be available. This really isn't about him.
Figure out what you really need from a man albeit consistency, great sex without romantic attachments, a really great boyfriend that demonstrates interest and loving gestures and then compare that to what you've allowed yourself to have. Maybe deep down all you can handle is a man that takes you for granted and is only available every blue moon. Maybe deep down you don't believe you deserve a man that is really into you whom is available. Maybe deep down you don't believe you're good enough so you accept less. You really have to be honest with yourself first before you can reject the things that don't align itself with your needs and desires.
If all you can handle is a man like him then no don't leave, accept whatever is going on and get on with your life, maybe even consider dating other men who extend interest in you which will keep you from feeling unwanted and needy. If you want more then just move on, no need to give an explanation to a guy that treats you half ass and is in and out of your life. Men know when they're being dogs and they know they risk losing a good woman if he's not consistent and available, especially Capricorn men.
As a capricorn, I'd probably say that he's being distant so as not to hurt you. That's the only reason as to why I'd be distant with someone, other than not giving a fuck and going cold. Then again, as a Cap, I wouldn't mess with men that sleep around so..trust your intuition and don't get hurt? I know pisces give people second chances but evaluate whether he deserves them.. let him be the one to chase you if he really likes you.
I’m dealing with this as well he said he wanted a 3 some and I’m not Into that. He says it’s nothing like new pussy. He’s hurt me & yet I stay around 🤡. It was like Tyler Perry’s new movie. He switched up and got angry and said he doesn’t wanna be with me or anyone but I’m confused as to why he’s nice to me I’m person and hits me up every blue moon. Maybe bored but has definitely taken me for granted. Should I leave quietly or tell him I’m leaving?
That old saying a man will only treat you the way YOU ALLOW him to treat you. When you stick around for bad behavior and mistreatment you are actually giving him the greenlight to treat you poorly. He actually learn from you that as long as he's intermittently nice to you he can treat you like crap most of the time and show up every blue moon and you'll be available. This really isn't about him.
Figure out what you really need from a man albeit consistency, great sex without romantic attachments, a really great boyfriend that demonstrates interest and loving gestures and then compare that to what you've allowed yourself to have. Maybe deep down all you can handle is a man that takes you for granted and is only available every blue moon. Maybe deep down you don't believe you deserve a man that is really into you whom is available. Maybe deep down you don't believe you're good enough so you accept less. You really have to be honest with yourself first before you can reject the things that don't align itself with your needs and desires.
If all you can handle is a man like him then no don't leave, accept whatever is going on and get on with your life, maybe even consider dating other men who extend interest in you which will keep you from feeling unwanted and needy. If you want more then just move on, no need to give an explanation to a guy that treats you half ass and is in and out of your life. Men know when they're being dogs and they know they risk losing a good woman if he's not consistent and available, especially Capricorn men.
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This hit home
I’m dealing with this as well he said he wanted a 3 some and I’m not Into that. He says it’s nothing like new pussy. He’s hurt me & yet I stay around 🤡. It was like Tyler Perry’s new movie. He switched up and got angry and said he doesn’t wanna be with me or anyone but I’m confused as to why he’s nice to me I’m person and hits me up every blue moon. Maybe bored but has definitely taken me for granted. Should I leave quietly or tell him I’m leaving?
That old saying a man will only treat you the way YOU ALLOW him to treat you. When you stick around for bad behavior and mistreatment you are actually giving him the greenlight to treat you poorly. He actually learn from you that as long as he's intermittently nice to you he can treat you like crap most of the time and show up every blue moon and you'll be available. This really isn't about him.
Figure out what you really need from a man albeit consistency, great sex without romantic attachments, a really great boyfriend that demonstrates interest and loving gestures and then compare that to what you've allowed yourself to have. Maybe deep down all you can handle is a man that takes you for granted and is only available every blue moon. Maybe deep down you don't believe you deserve a man that is really into you whom is available. Maybe deep down you don't believe you're good enough so you accept less. You really have to be honest with yourself first before you can reject the things that don't align itself with your needs and desires.
If all you can handle is a man like him then no don't leave, accept whatever is going on and get on with your life, maybe even consider dating other men who extend interest in you which will keep you from feeling unwanted and needy. If you want more then just move on, no need to give an explanation to a guy that treats you half ass and is in and out of your life. Men know when they're being dogs and they know they risk losing a good woman if he's not consistent and available, especially Capricorn men.
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Yup & mine just started a new business with another woman 🤦🏽♀️
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I have been kind of on and off with this Capricorn male that I seem to connect with and he connects with me. I am a pisces/Aries cusp and we get along perfectly. We have mutual chemistry that is strong, magnetic and insane. He has been kind of screwing around with other girls, but he drops them after a month (he says he gets bored easily) and he hasn't let me go yet. We started out slowly, but romantic, then we became just friends. We would sit up and talk for hours about anything and I don't think I have laughed harder with anyone. On Valentines day, he was really trashed but he was at the bar we both frequent and met at. He kept looking at me and locking eyes with me and when I saw him, he just kept eye contact with this adorable and loving little smile. Long story short: He was super trashed and told me that night that he loved me, that he has never felt this kind of chemistry before, he feels incredibly balanced when we are together and then we basically made out in the middle of the bar. We hooked up the next morning and he took me to breakfast. It was amazing. I will also mention that he told me how grateful he is that I am in his life and how happy he is that I have been patient and let him date around and not rush him into a relationship.
Here is my question: After Saturday, he went distant. He never initiates texts but its always different when we are together. Well now he went cold and would barely respond. Did he mean what he said? Is he playing me? I am confused.