Cap sun, aqua moon

Please tell me more about this combo. Have been seeing each other for about 3 months now.

Typical cap in the way she’s passionate about her work and seems like she wants to advance in her career.

We seemed to click really well initially and the attraction was off the charts. I find her really attractive and dominant although she has stated she likes to be dominated (including the bedroom). Has gone cold lately. Seems like she wants to start fights and arguments then when i get heated up and ask for space before trying to resolve things, i get crucified for it. Doesn’t seem to understand having space can be a healthy thing. Find her to be a bit cynical at times. Unsure whether it’s worth sticking around, seems like there’s lots of potential.

I’m a pisces sun, virgo moon.

Cap sun/Aqua moon isn’t the easiest of combos or the warmest 🥶

Yes she could crucify your sensitive Pisces sun and offend your perfectionist Virgo moon

She went from like wanting to get married and shit to being cold asf. I don’t understand haha

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She went from like wanting to get married and shit to being cold asf. I don’t understand haha

I lived with an Aqua moon for years

He swung from lukewarm to cold lol

Never did understand him

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Posted by iamlanaxxx
She went from like wanting to get married and shit to being cold asf. I don’t understand haha

I lived with an Aqua moon for years

He swung from lukewarm to cold lol

Never did understand him

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Is it an aqua moon thing?

I move slow when it comes to matters of the heart. Think that’s my virgo moon.

So i felt a bit rushed and felt like i had to “match her feelings” but now she’s gone cold and now i think oh shit i don’t know what i’m supposed to do haha

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She went from like wanting to get married and shit to being cold asf. I don’t understand haha

I lived with an Aqua moon for years
He swung from lukewarm to cold lol
Never did understand him
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Is it an aqua moon thing?

I move slow when it comes to matters of the heart. Think that’s my virgo moon.

So i felt a bit rushed and felt like i had to “match her feelings” but now she’s gone cold and now i think oh shit i don’t know what i’m supposed to do haha

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Aquarius energy can disengage quickly … as I said I’ve never understood it or rather never felt comfortable with it. Like you, I’m a water sign so I need connection not detachment

Aqua moon will shut down when they feel the need to protect themselves. Perhaps cuz you asked for space?

Honestly Virgo moon was tough for me. I take awhile to commit also but I’d attribute that to my venus. Want to get married by 3 months? That’s pretty quick.

What is her Venus?

Posted by iamlanaxxx
Please tell me more about this combo. Have been seeing each other for about 3 months now.

Typical cap in the way she’s passionate about her work and seems like she wants to advance in her career.

We seemed to click really well initially and the attraction was off the charts. I find her really attractive and dominant although she has stated she likes to be dominated (including the bedroom). Has gone cold lately. Seems like she wants to start fights and arguments then when i get heated up and ask for space before trying to resolve things, i get crucified for it. Doesn’t seem to understand having space can be a healthy thing. Find her to be a bit cynical at times. Unsure whether it’s worth sticking around, seems like there’s lots of potential.

I’m a pisces sun, virgo moon.

I have some Cap girlfriends with aqua placements. Aqua might come off as rebelious but deep down they want to succeed in relationships. And they might like being bossy or argumentative but it's how they flirt sometimes lol. Just be consistent and make plans with her that don't look too cheap and don't take anything too personal, they just like seeming bossy and I have heard them say to me that it's hard to open up emotionally. You have to make them feel safe and loved.

I’m an Aqua stellium and her behaviour is of someone who is detached from emotions. Let me explain this behaviour because I was guilty of it when I was younger. We love our freedom and having a new person in our life causes adjustment issues for us. It’s unsettling for us because when we start to like someone, we feel like we are losing our freedom, ourself and it frightens us. We panic. Some even self-sabotage the relationship. It takes a patient person to put up with us during this initial phase. However, if you can get through this difficult period where she’s restless and argumentative, she’ll settle down eventually.

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Please tell me more about this combo. Have been seeing each other for about 3 months now.
Typical cap in the way she’s passionate about her work and seems like she wants to advance in her career.
We seemed to click really well initially and the attraction was off the charts. I find her really attractive and dominant although she has stated she likes to be dominated (including the bedroom). Has gone cold lately. Seems like she wants to start fights and arguments then when i get heated up and ask for space before trying to resolve things, i get crucified for it. Doesn’t seem to understand having space can be a healthy thing. Find her to be a bit cynical at times. Unsure whether it’s worth sticking around, seems like there’s lots of potential.
I’m a pisces sun, virgo moon.

I have some Cap girlfriends with aqua placements. Aqua might come off as rebelious but deep down they want to succeed in relationships. And they might like being bossy or argumentative but it's how they flirt sometimes lol. Just be consistent and make plans with her that don't look too cheap and don't take anything too personal, they just like seeming bossy and I have heard them say to me that it's hard to open up emotionally. You have to make them feel safe and loved.

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Spot on analysis. I agree with this. It’s hard to open up emotionally to a person as we fear being hurt or that we are opening up to the wrong person.

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She went from like wanting to get married and shit to being cold asf. I don’t understand haha

I lived with an Aqua moon for years

He swung from lukewarm to cold lol

Never did understand him

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Aqua and Cap placements feel love from a distance. I would find my ex so endearing when he was being distant; however when he was affectionate and loving towards me, I would go cold. We are eccentric that way. LOL

A pithy expression that really resonates with me is “absence makes the heart grow fonder.”

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She went from like wanting to get married and shit to being cold asf. I don’t understand haha

I lived with an Aqua moon for years
He swung from lukewarm to cold lol
Never did understand him
click to expand

Aqua and Cap placements feel love from a distance. I would find my ex so endearing when he was being distant; however when he was affectionate and loving towards me, I would go cold. We are eccentric that way. LOL

A pithy expression that really resonates with me is “absence makes the heart grow fonder.”

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😃

Absence being the operative word

😂

Hmmm I have cap & aqua ( cap mercury, venus & mars, aqua moon & Saturn) placements plus a Sag Sun. For me it’s more like I don’t like excessive loving & affectionate aka clingy. I want to have my free time too, but I do like cuddling, affection, pda, holding hands and being together. It’s like if I’m feeling like I’m not allowed to have some alone time I feel a smothered. But I do NOT like distance.

I think my Pisces is a lot more affectionate than I am but with an aqua Venus he doesn’t have a problem with space too. Also an Aries Mercury/mars probably helps some too. I do far better with Aries/leo mars than water mars or air mars. They are too clingy or too distant.