Im 35 and just now figuring out that cap man is where its at

I spent my life dating little girls that look like men. Ive been with my cap man for a few months now and it is hands down the most perfect relationship ive ever been in.

When we have argued, finding solutions together has brought us closer.

The way this man never gets tired of me (im sassy) he always calls me, checks in with me. Loves my input, my opinion, makes me feel extremely valid and says he loves how I show him perspective on things. We both agree that life has only gotten better since being together.

We both push each other to be our best individual selves and I believe in that strongly as an Aquarius.

I feel like my life has all been stepping blocks but also a scam because ive never dated a cap man before. Im cap stelium. Cap venus/mercury.

He is cap stelium too. Cap sun/rising/venus.

I used to think it was 5th house to go after (virgo for me) virgo men are sweet but this guy takes the metal. Go for stelium. Id love to hear other peoples experiences. If I dont marry this man it will be a shame.

Lovemenowihateit

Cap people love martians

My cap ex mistreated me bc im too insecure & emotionally needy. We went to a Halloween party at his friends' & every person there was aries, scorp or Leo. I was terrified

I have never met a cap man out in the wild! I know a few cap women though.

I wish one day people would grasp that the 5th and 7th Houses do not deal with partners -- they deal with relationships.

I have a stellium, too, but people of my stellium do not even notice me.

Posted by HateMeNowIloveit

I used to think it was 5th house to go after (virgo for me) virgo men are sweet but this guy takes the metal. Go for stelium. Id love to hear other peoples experiences. If I dont marry this man it will be a shame.

Aquarius after 10 years of relationship with Cap - this is where I don't do astrology, because my cap ex which is father of my daughter never was open, had massive problems with closeness and it lead us to end.

I found my person I Aquarius with Aqua dominant (and I'm cap stellium).

Conclusion - you have chance in good one if your synastry is balanced.

Posted by Overthinker
Why would you think your 5th house is what you should go for? It literally makes no sense in terms of the everything I know about astrology so far. It shows your romance children and pre-marital relationships - it most certainly does not reflect the needs of your partnership - nor does your stellium

What you're saying is you're attracted to same energy you have within yourself and it doesn't work like that. Our partners are supposed to be our mirrors (dsc) not us or our own energy. Your 7th house represents what kind of partners you attract but to see what you need is where you look at your Juno placement in sign and house and some even claim Jupiter...but Jupiter for me explains it less cause it's more complicated to relate to real life people and it's not literal description of a partner ss your Juno is

We dont have the same energy

Posted by Overthinker
And also another thing about 5th house - it's not a committed relationship! It's a fun based relationship, it's pre-marital, it's civil union or anything else but it's never an image your life long partner. Take it from someone with composite heavy 5th stellium

I've got a working theory that may apply to what you said,

There are 2 ways to do a relationship with strong synasty...that magnetic pull and chemistry. Expend the generated energy from your interactions with each other on each other( up each other's ass) OR encourage each other in a way that stimulates more of that energy for each other.

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Posted by Overthinker
And also another thing about 5th house - it's not a committed relationship! It's a fun based relationship, it's pre-marital, it's civil union or anything else but it's never an image your life long partner. Take it from someone with composite heavy 5th stellium

I've got a working theory that may apply to what you said,

There are 2 ways to do a relationship with strong synasty...that magnetic pull and chemistry. Expend the generated energy from your interactions with each other on each other( up each other's ass) OR encourage each other in a way that stimulates more of that energy for each other.

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Me and him are def encouraging of each other. Background cheer leaders too. Weve been up each others asses about stuff too but we both agree that it makes us feel closer. Im eating this man up.

Posted by HateMeNowIloveit

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by Overthinker
And also another thing about 5th house - it's not a committed relationship! It's a fun based relationship, it's pre-marital, it's civil union or anything else but it's never an image your life long partner. Take it from someone with composite heavy 5th stellium

I've got a working theory that may apply to what you said,
There are 2 ways to do a relationship with strong synasty...that magnetic pull and chemistry. Expend the generated energy from your interactions with each other on each other( up each other's ass) OR encourage each other in a way that stimulates more of that energy for each other.

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Me and him are def encouraging of each other. Background cheer leaders too. Weve been up each others asses about stuff too but we both agree that it makes us feel closer. Im eating this man up.

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🙂 You guys prayers for my own relationship like that would be helpful.

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by HateMeNowIloveit

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by Overthinker
And also another thing about 5th house - it's not a committed relationship! It's a fun based relationship, it's pre-marital, it's civil union or anything else but it's never an image your life long partner. Take it from someone with composite heavy 5th stellium

I've got a working theory that may apply to what you said,
There are 2 ways to do a relationship with strong synasty...that magnetic pull and chemistry. Expend the generated energy from your interactions with each other on each other( up each other's ass) OR encourage each other in a way that stimulates more of that energy for each other.
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Me and him are def encouraging of each other. Background cheer leaders too. Weve been up each others asses about stuff too but we both agree that it makes us feel closer. Im eating this man up.
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🙂 You guys prayers for my own relationship like that would be helpful.

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Will keep you in my prayers

Posted by Overthinker

Posted by HateMeNowIloveit

Posted by Overthinker
Why would you think your 5th house is what you should go for? It literally makes no sense in terms of the everything I know about astrology so far. It shows your romance children and pre-marital relationships - it most certainly does not reflect the needs of your partnership - nor does your stellium
What you're saying is you're attracted to same energy you have within yourself and it doesn't work like that. Our partners are supposed to be our mirrors (dsc) not us or our own energy. Your 7th house represents what kind of partners you attract but to see what you need is where you look at your Juno placement in sign and house and some even claim Jupiter...but Jupiter for me explains it less cause it's more complicated to relate to real life people and it's not literal description of a partner ss your Juno is

We dont have the same energy
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Cap stellium IS the same energy. You don't have to use it the same - but it IS the same. How you use it will depend on houses and planets involved, along with aspects to that stellium from other planets.

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What ever it is, its the stuff heaven is made of 🥰

Posted by Moon4
Capricorn and Aquarius is really underrated!!

Team effort is 2000+%