Could this Cap be the one or is he playing with me?!

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by TaurusCap323 on Thursday, February 18, 2021 and has 7 replies.

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@TaurusCap323
11 Years

So I just recently met a cap man. Little backstory I felt his energy the moment I laid eyes on him idk why I was so drawn to him. I was pleasantly surprised when he asked for my number. We went to dinner the next day and it just confirmed everything I felt. On paper he seems to have all the qualities I’m looking for. Our synastry & chemistry is pretty intense. One major point being the fact that out ascendants oppose one another and are both in each other’s 7th house. (Ascendant conjunction descendant) just to give some more placements

Me-Taurus Sun Him- Cap Sun

Me-Aqua Moon Him-Taurus Moon

Me-Aries Venus Him-Aqua Venus

Me-Pisces Mars Him-Cap Mars

Me-Cap Rising Him-Cancer Rising

Now to the down side! Being a cap man he is extremely ambitious and focused which I love but my Venus in Aries makes me pretty impatient and I tend to have shiny new toy syndrome and although he’s sweet and affectionate he is a bit unavailable and that drives me crazy. We met while we was visiting and he went back to Illinois where he’s from and will be moving to Georgia next month. He’s very seeet tells me he misses me all the time when we were together he was very affectionate but I just don’t understand why his communication is so bad. I’m trying to give him the benefit of the doubt but I can’t help but interrupt the extreme gaps inbetween texts as a sign of disinterest. He is testing the patience my Venus in Aries doesn’t even have but I’m trying to contain it because I feel like he could be worth it but only if this improved!! Maybe once he moves and he could hang out in person that would be better idk.

Caps please help me out! Should I be offended my his poor communication and is this something that can get better or do you guys tend to just not be great communicators?

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@TaurusCap323
11 Years

Well he’s not moving to my state for me he was already planning on moving when I met him. But I’m hoping he isn’t as distant even once he’s here 😕

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Posted by saggurl88

You don’t have to worry too much with Capricorn’s when it comes to communication. 😅

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😂😂 I’ve never dated a cap before! I’m very used to fire sign men( or heavy fire placements) so they appeal to my Venus in Aries very well all passion straight out the gate but things never last. And that’s why I feel like a stable earth sign could be good for me but boy is it tough!! 😩😂 I rly want to see where things could go with him I’m hoping my impatience doesn’t make me run away. I don’t complain to him about the communication but inside I’m dying 😩😂😂

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Posted by LadyNeptune

I'm low key a little teensiest bit jelly of people like you who can feel emotion after 1 meeting, 1 look. That is and forever will be foreign to me.

Lol don’t be!! it’s a blessing and a curse! Makes you inexplicably attached to ppl and that tends to cause a lot of confusion it’s exhausting 😂

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Posted by virgoOPPP

idk but if a guy texts me too much, i think it's annoying and fake

you can take caps on their word

they're straightforward and don't waste time

See and I feel not texting enough shows lack of interest so it makes me question his authenticity! I hope he means what he says...what is your Venus and Mars?