Strange Cap man

Posted by Vicktoria

He's hiding a wife, gf or dildo.

Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

"Something is off now." So....Let his ass fix it! After all, you've done your part. Fall back and *if* he WANTS you, LET him PROVE IT. He's a "man". Give him room to BE ONE. Good luck.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

What was so good communicating with him?

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

What was so good communicating with him?

He was extremely funny and witty, he made me laugh straight away while I was having a shitty day. I thought he was strange - in a positive, funny sense. We just seemed to 'click' really.

He was very interested, asked me a lot of stuff about me, very intense eye contact - which I guess is even stranger considering how he is acting online. He had the most startling, beautiful eyes I have ever seen. I'm not even the mushy kind - but if that old saying about eyes being the window to the soul, then yeah, damn..



I'm sort of a beginner at interpreting synastry - but seems to be a lot of Pluto stuff going on, but I am the Pluto person in almost every case?

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

What was so good communicating with him?

He was extremely funny and witty, he made me laugh straight away while I was having a shitty day. I thought he was strange - in a positive, funny sense. We just seemed to 'click' really.

He was very interested, asked me a lot of stuff about me, very intense eye contact - which I guess is even stranger considering how he is acting online. He had the most startling, beautiful eyes I have ever seen. I'm not even the mushy kind - but if that old saying about eyes being the window to the soul, then yeah, damn..



I'm sort of a beginner at interpreting synastry - but seems to be a lot of Pluto stuff going on, but I am the Pluto person in almost every case?

I had a very similar experience with a cap/scorpio moon. Wait until you two have sex! Then he will truly blow you away

But if you decide he should take all the steps you could wait a while... they take their sweet sweet time

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

What was so good communicating with him?

He was extremely funny and witty, he made me laugh straight away while I was having a shitty day. I thought he was strange - in a positive, funny sense. We just seemed to 'click' really.

He was very interested, asked me a lot of stuff about me, very intense eye contact - which I guess is even stranger considering how he is acting online. He had the most startling, beautiful eyes I have ever seen. I'm not even the mushy kind - but if that old saying about eyes being the window to the soul, then yeah, damn..



I'm sort of a beginner at interpreting synastry - but seems to be a lot of Pluto stuff going on, but I am the Pluto person in almost every case?

So grupovenus and see all the composite charts possible.

To me personally he seem nothing Cap but all Scorp and IF that’s the case he might recharging and showing you famous Scorpio disappearance act. Also him open to listen and not offering his own info...not until much later and again IF so at all.

Also I tend to play ‘what I have to lose’ game...Scorp will take challenge. 🤦‍♀️

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Posted by stillstillwater

Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

His secretiveness may come back to bite you in the ass. Proceed w caution. Feelings cloud sound judgement at times.

I agree with you completely.

I got a great, great overwhelming feeling about him when we met, he made me extremely happy the whole day through, very strange. But something is off now, definitely.

What was so good communicating with him?

He was extremely funny and witty, he made me laugh straight away while I was having a shitty day. I thought he was strange - in a positive, funny sense. We just seemed to 'click' really.

He was very interested, asked me a lot of stuff about me, very intense eye contact - which I guess is even stranger considering how he is acting online. He had the most startling, beautiful eyes I have ever seen. I'm not even the mushy kind - but if that old saying about eyes being the window to the soul, then yeah, damn..



I'm sort of a beginner at interpreting synastry - but seems to be a lot of Pluto stuff going on, but I am the Pluto person in almost every case?

So grupovenus and see all the composite charts possible.

To me personally he seem nothing Cap but all Scorp and IF that’s the case he might recharging and showing you famous Scorpio disappearance act. Also him open to listen and not offering his own info...not until much later and again IF so at all.

Also I tend to play ‘what I have to lose’ game...Scorp will take challenge. 🤦‍♀️

Oh wow, we have five planets in house 8... what does this mean? :O Feels pretty heavy.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

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Posted by virgoproblems

Update:

Checked both a lot of synastry and composite... it looks extremely promising, making this even more frustrating.

In composite, we have five planets in house 8 Scorpio, but we're both heavily Scorpionic and Plutonic in our natal charts..

In synastry (me being the first one, he is the second), we have a double whammy in Moon trine mars, a lovely Moon conjunct Venus, Jupiter Trine venus.. as well as Venus opposite Ascendant and Ascendant sextile Moon. Pluto trine Sun and Pluto opposite Ascendant.

A lot of Lilith stuff going on as well as North Node trine and squares..

The only negatives I see are Sun square Saturn and Mars Square North Node, Mars Square Uranus.

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Posted by stillstillwater

Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

Yeah, maybe so, and problem is, I feel like I need to know at least a little bit more about him before a date, but yeah.. chances are we are going to meet at other events soon anyway.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Aren’t you little bit over your head with determining woman’s ‘worth’ to have your attention?

Habits my ass! You want me - you fight for me or teach that sick how to suck itself. 🧐🤪

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Aren’t you little bit over your head with determining woman’s ‘worth’ to have your attention?

Habits my ass! You want me - you fight for me or teach that sick how to suck itself. 🧐🤪

It's not objective like what is your "worth" but it's subjective like are you "worth" it for me to accommodate you. It is not about a person's worth at all...but whether the compatibility or chemistry is worth getting to know that person.

You're explaining how YOU want things to be but not everyone is like that... some women like to pursue and some women want 50/50 and some want the men to pursue etc. I'm just explaining how Caps can be. OP is trying to learn about a Cap man ... not about an attention-crazy Gemini woman.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Aren’t you little bit over your head with determining woman’s ‘worth’ to have your attention?

Habits my ass! You want me - you fight for me or teach that sick how to suck itself. 🧐🤪

It's not objective like what is your "worth" but it's subjective like are you "worth" it for me to accommodate you. It is not about a person's worth at all...but whether the compatibility or chemistry is worth getting to know that person.

You're explaining how YOU want things to be but not everyone is like that... some women like to pursue and some women want 50/50 and some want the men to pursue etc. I'm just explaining how Caps can be. OP is trying to learn about a Cap man ... not about an attention-crazy Gemini woman.

You bet I am attention crazy! If I have a man I DEMAND an attention. And if it’s not given to me - there goes the man...OUT! Because I see my ‘worth’ as high as a sky and I am NOT putting up with ‘he doesn’t text back’ or any similar crap.

Live and learn kids...😇

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He's Cap Sun, Scorpio Moon and Venus like me, with Pisces in Mars and a Sag Mercury.

I’m a cap sun, Scorpio moon and Pisces mars. Though I am a female, maybe I can offer some insight. I am often told that I’m unusual and hard to read as well, partly because I don’t express myself to readily and my communication can be patchy at times. Just kinda keep myself busy with work and taking care of my daughter. Those are my priorities.

As far as texting, i will do it though I prefer face to face and phone conversations. I build a stronger connection this way. It’s just something magnetic about In person or phone conversations that draw me in, especially if i am interested. Texting often lacks the emotion needed to fulfill that.

I’m seeing an Aqua guy and 90% of our communication has been through text. We are both really interested in one another and i even feel a sense of budding love for him but lately I’m finding myself texting him less and less. when I do it’s kinda short like you described with your cap and it’s usually when he reaches out first.

I agree with Gemaniti. Caps are natural loners but are very social when we are happy. This guy is either conflicted, struggling with something in his life

Or

The connection maybe fading for him.

I know you don’t want to hear that, but the good news is if you feel he is worth the effort (caps always require some work, especially at first 😉), you can try another approach and move things in a more fulfilling direction.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Aren’t you little bit over your head with determining woman’s ‘worth’ to have your attention?

Habits my ass! You want me - you fight for me or teach that sick how to suck itself. 🧐🤪

It's not objective like what is your "worth" but it's subjective like are you "worth" it for me to accommodate you. It is not about a person's worth at all...but whether the compatibility or chemistry is worth getting to know that person.

You're explaining how YOU want things to be but not everyone is like that... some women like to pursue and some women want 50/50 and some want the men to pursue etc. I'm just explaining how Caps can be. OP is trying to learn about a Cap man ... not about an attention-crazy Gemini woman.

You bet I am attention crazy! If I have a man I DEMAND an attention. And if it’s not given to me - there goes the man...OUT! Because I see my ‘worth’ as high as a sky and I am NOT putting up with ‘he doesn’t text back’ or any similar crap.

Live and learn kids...😇

That's your preference and you have all the right to pursue it. I'm very happy for you that you know your needs and of course know what kind of communication/men work for you. Kudos.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

Right...may be he wants more "admiration" for his artwork. I don't know...

But these little curiosities you can ask him in person like about the symbols. Has he or have you tried to set up a coffee date or something casual to chat in-person?

I mean when he sends you his art you can even make a suggestion to go to some art gallery together because you'd love to his interpretation on things... or offer to come by to see his other art.

Yeah, that's the weird thing - he wanted to meet up already after three days. He invited me to an event he was going to, related to what he knows is my passion in life. It was the same day so I couldn't make it but told him I really would like to go to a similar event and that he should send me an event as soon as he sees it (he lives closer to those kind of things than me).

He was making a lot of effort contacting me as well, but that stopped a week ago, for some reason. I reached out again this weekend, he read it first, didn't reply (which has happened before) but then answered a day later but just with a smiley.

Then, no matter what I've said, it's been smileys so I feel like I'm not wanted for some reason. Though he could just ignore the messages, I suppose.

I'd like to see him again but I'm not feeling overly confident about asking him right now :/

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

Right...may be he wants more "admiration" for his artwork. I don't know...

But these little curiosities you can ask him in person like about the symbols. Has he or have you tried to set up a coffee date or something casual to chat in-person?

I mean when he sends you his art you can even make a suggestion to go to some art gallery together because you'd love to his interpretation on things... or offer to come by to see his other art.

Yeah, that's the weird thing - he wanted to meet up already after three days. He invited me to an event he was going to, related to what he knows is my passion in life. It was the same day so I couldn't make it but told him I really would like to go to a similar event and that he should send me an event as soon as he sees it (he lives closer to those kind of things than me).

He was making a lot of effort contacting me as well, but that stopped a week ago, for some reason. I reached out again this weekend, he read it first, didn't reply (which has happened before) but then answered a day later but just with a smiley.

Then, no matter what I've said, it's been smileys so I feel like I'm not wanted for some reason. Though he could just ignore the messages, I suppose.

I'd like to see him again but I'm not feeling overly confident about asking him right now :/

Awww I'm sorry to hear that love. I know that it's hard to pursue someone when you don't know have certainty or confidence that they feel the same way. You said you're going to see him at some event? So may be you can use that to set up another date in person.

May be he feels like since he asked you out the first time, now it's your turn to ask him out. Asking someone out to an event is pretty causal and not intimate. So it doesn't seem like you're asking them on a date but rather just some company to an event you're going to already.

Cap men are REALLY slow at the beginning but once they do warm up they're one of THE BEST!!! And this guy you have an amazing chart with him so...just stay positive and open minded. Don't let your insecurities get in the way.

Thanks, that helps 🙂 It's just such an unsually strong feeling and I have acted unusually confident as well - I liked how he made feel and it was the strangest thing; like I already knew him in some way. I'm not even the spiritual type.

Also.. I asked him a while back to send me a good song, and after a few hours, he did. It had a really nice vibe and I thanked him for it and said I enjoyed it a lot.

A few minutes later I paid more attention to the lyrics... I'm trying not to read anything in it to it, but since he is also a songwriter.. it had lyrics that said "We met today for a reason / I think I'm in love again", and repeats these lines a lot.

I might be overthinking it, it's possible he just likes the lyrics generally... but it stopped me in my tracks and I thought: "wow, that's a coincidence"..

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

Right...may be he wants more "admiration" for his artwork. I don't know...

But these little curiosities you can ask him in person like about the symbols. Has he or have you tried to set up a coffee date or something casual to chat in-person?

I mean when he sends you his art you can even make a suggestion to go to some art gallery together because you'd love to his interpretation on things... or offer to come by to see his other art.

Yeah, that's the weird thing - he wanted to meet up already after three days. He invited me to an event he was going to, related to what he knows is my passion in life. It was the same day so I couldn't make it but told him I really would like to go to a similar event and that he should send me an event as soon as he sees it (he lives closer to those kind of things than me).

He was making a lot of effort contacting me as well, but that stopped a week ago, for some reason. I reached out again this weekend, he read it first, didn't reply (which has happened before) but then answered a day later but just with a smiley.

Then, no matter what I've said, it's been smileys so I feel like I'm not wanted for some reason. Though he could just ignore the messages, I suppose.

I'd like to see him again but I'm not feeling overly confident about asking him right now :/

Awww I'm sorry to hear that love. I know that it's hard to pursue someone when you don't know have certainty or confidence that they feel the same way. You said you're going to see him at some event? So may be you can use that to set up another date in person.

May be he feels like since he asked you out the first time, now it's your turn to ask him out. Asking someone out to an event is pretty causal and not intimate. So it doesn't seem like you're asking them on a date but rather just some company to an event you're going to already.

Cap men are REALLY slow at the beginning but once they do warm up they're one of THE BEST!!! And this guy you have an amazing chart with him so...just stay positive and open minded. Don't let your insecurities get in the way.

Thanks, that helps 🙂 It's just such an unsually strong feeling and I have acted unusually confident as well - I liked how he made feel and it was the strangest thing; like I already knew him in some way. I'm not even the spiritual type.

Also.. I asked him a while back to send me a good song, and after a few hours, he did. It had a really nice vibe and I thanked him for it and said I enjoyed it a lot.

A few minutes later I paid more attention to the lyrics... I'm trying not to read anything in it to it, but since he is also a songwriter.. it had lyrics that said "We met today for a reason / I think I'm in love again", and repeats these lines a lot.

I might be overthinking it, it's possible he just likes the lyrics generally... but it stopped me in my tracks and I thought: "wow, that's a coincidence"..

It sounds like you two might have some Pluto aspects which bring that "fated" or "karmic" feeling especially since you mentioned feeling more "confident" than usual. Have fun...feel it out... but if it is Pluto aspects between you guys and you continue investing into this, I HAVE to warn you these type of aspects are about transformation and growth which means you'll be triggered by this relationship like every other day.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

Right...may be he wants more "admiration" for his artwork. I don't know...

But these little curiosities you can ask him in person like about the symbols. Has he or have you tried to set up a coffee date or something casual to chat in-person?

I mean when he sends you his art you can even make a suggestion to go to some art gallery together because you'd love to his interpretation on things... or offer to come by to see his other art.

Yeah, that's the weird thing - he wanted to meet up already after three days. He invited me to an event he was going to, related to what he knows is my passion in life. It was the same day so I couldn't make it but told him I really would like to go to a similar event and that he should send me an event as soon as he sees it (he lives closer to those kind of things than me).

He was making a lot of effort contacting me as well, but that stopped a week ago, for some reason. I reached out again this weekend, he read it first, didn't reply (which has happened before) but then answered a day later but just with a smiley.

Then, no matter what I've said, it's been smileys so I feel like I'm not wanted for some reason. Though he could just ignore the messages, I suppose.

I'd like to see him again but I'm not feeling overly confident about asking him right now :/

Awww I'm sorry to hear that love. I know that it's hard to pursue someone when you don't know have certainty or confidence that they feel the same way. You said you're going to see him at some event? So may be you can use that to set up another date in person.

May be he feels like since he asked you out the first time, now it's your turn to ask him out. Asking someone out to an event is pretty causal and not intimate. So it doesn't seem like you're asking them on a date but rather just some company to an event you're going to already.

Cap men are REALLY slow at the beginning but once they do warm up they're one of THE BEST!!! And this guy you have an amazing chart with him so...just stay positive and open minded. Don't let your insecurities get in the way.

Thanks, that helps 🙂 It's just such an unsually strong feeling and I have acted unusually confident as well - I liked how he made feel and it was the strangest thing; like I already knew him in some way. I'm not even the spiritual type.

Also.. I asked him a while back to send me a good song, and after a few hours, he did. It had a really nice vibe and I thanked him for it and said I enjoyed it a lot.

A few minutes later I paid more attention to the lyrics... I'm trying not to read anything in it to it, but since he is also a songwriter.. it had lyrics that said "We met today for a reason / I think I'm in love again", and repeats these lines a lot.

I might be overthinking it, it's possible he just likes the lyrics generally... but it stopped me in my tracks and I thought: "wow, that's a coincidence"..

It sounds like you two might have some Pluto aspects which bring that "fated" or "karmic" feeling especially since you mentioned feeling more "confident" than usual. Have fun...feel it out... but if it is Pluto aspects between you guys and you continue investing into this, I HAVE to warn you these type of aspects are about transformation and growth which means you'll be triggered by this relationship like every other day.

Hmm, yeah, maybe he is not into that then..

We have Pluto Sextile Sun, Pluto Sextile Neptune, Pluto trine Lilith, Pluto sextile IC, Pluto Opposite Ascendant/Conjunct Descendant...

I'm the Pluto person in every case - what's the difference there? I've read different interpretations on this. Maybe he goes more unaffected by it than me?

Also, in the composite chart we have Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio 8th house, as well as Sun Conjunct Pluto.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

Right...may be he wants more "admiration" for his artwork. I don't know...

But these little curiosities you can ask him in person like about the symbols. Has he or have you tried to set up a coffee date or something casual to chat in-person?

I mean when he sends you his art you can even make a suggestion to go to some art gallery together because you'd love to his interpretation on things... or offer to come by to see his other art.

Yeah, that's the weird thing - he wanted to meet up already after three days. He invited me to an event he was going to, related to what he knows is my passion in life. It was the same day so I couldn't make it but told him I really would like to go to a similar event and that he should send me an event as soon as he sees it (he lives closer to those kind of things than me).

He was making a lot of effort contacting me as well, but that stopped a week ago, for some reason. I reached out again this weekend, he read it first, didn't reply (which has happened before) but then answered a day later but just with a smiley.

Then, no matter what I've said, it's been smileys so I feel like I'm not wanted for some reason. Though he could just ignore the messages, I suppose.

I'd like to see him again but I'm not feeling overly confident about asking him right now :/

Awww I'm sorry to hear that love. I know that it's hard to pursue someone when you don't know have certainty or confidence that they feel the same way. You said you're going to see him at some event? So may be you can use that to set up another date in person.

May be he feels like since he asked you out the first time, now it's your turn to ask him out. Asking someone out to an event is pretty causal and not intimate. So it doesn't seem like you're asking them on a date but rather just some company to an event you're going to already.

Cap men are REALLY slow at the beginning but once they do warm up they're one of THE BEST!!! And this guy you have an amazing chart with him so...just stay positive and open minded. Don't let your insecurities get in the way.

Thanks, that helps 🙂 It's just such an unsually strong feeling and I have acted unusually confident as well - I liked how he made feel and it was the strangest thing; like I already knew him in some way. I'm not even the spiritual type.

Also.. I asked him a while back to send me a good song, and after a few hours, he did. It had a really nice vibe and I thanked him for it and said I enjoyed it a lot.

A few minutes later I paid more attention to the lyrics... I'm trying not to read anything in it to it, but since he is also a songwriter.. it had lyrics that said "We met today for a reason / I think I'm in love again", and repeats these lines a lot.

I might be overthinking it, it's possible he just likes the lyrics generally... but it stopped me in my tracks and I thought: "wow, that's a coincidence"..

It sounds like you two might have some Pluto aspects which bring that "fated" or "karmic" feeling especially since you mentioned feeling more "confident" than usual. Have fun...feel it out... but if it is Pluto aspects between you guys and you continue investing into this, I HAVE to warn you these type of aspects are about transformation and growth which means you'll be triggered by this relationship like every other day.

Hmm, yeah, maybe he is not into that then..

We have Pluto Sextile Sun, Pluto Sextile Neptune, Pluto trine Lilith, Pluto sextile IC, Pluto Opposite Ascendant/Conjunct Descendant...

I'm the Pluto person in every case - what's the difference there? I've read different interpretations on this. Maybe he goes more unaffected by it than me?

Also, in the composite chart we have Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio 8th house, as well as Sun Conjunct Pluto.

Your Pluto synastry is quite light, actually. Since you are Pluto, you have the upper hand.

Your composite is far more intense (but will manifest only when you are in a proper relationship, apparently)...

Are you sure about the 8th house? You need to know his time of birth for that!

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

Right...may be he wants more "admiration" for his artwork. I don't know...

But these little curiosities you can ask him in person like about the symbols. Has he or have you tried to set up a coffee date or something casual to chat in-person?

I mean when he sends you his art you can even make a suggestion to go to some art gallery together because you'd love to his interpretation on things... or offer to come by to see his other art.

Yeah, that's the weird thing - he wanted to meet up already after three days. He invited me to an event he was going to, related to what he knows is my passion in life. It was the same day so I couldn't make it but told him I really would like to go to a similar event and that he should send me an event as soon as he sees it (he lives closer to those kind of things than me).

He was making a lot of effort contacting me as well, but that stopped a week ago, for some reason. I reached out again this weekend, he read it first, didn't reply (which has happened before) but then answered a day later but just with a smiley.

Then, no matter what I've said, it's been smileys so I feel like I'm not wanted for some reason. Though he could just ignore the messages, I suppose.

I'd like to see him again but I'm not feeling overly confident about asking him right now :/

Awww I'm sorry to hear that love. I know that it's hard to pursue someone when you don't know have certainty or confidence that they feel the same way. You said you're going to see him at some event? So may be you can use that to set up another date in person.

May be he feels like since he asked you out the first time, now it's your turn to ask him out. Asking someone out to an event is pretty causal and not intimate. So it doesn't seem like you're asking them on a date but rather just some company to an event you're going to already.

Cap men are REALLY slow at the beginning but once they do warm up they're one of THE BEST!!! And this guy you have an amazing chart with him so...just stay positive and open minded. Don't let your insecurities get in the way.

Thanks, that helps 🙂 It's just such an unsually strong feeling and I have acted unusually confident as well - I liked how he made feel and it was the strangest thing; like I already knew him in some way. I'm not even the spiritual type.

Also.. I asked him a while back to send me a good song, and after a few hours, he did. It had a really nice vibe and I thanked him for it and said I enjoyed it a lot.

A few minutes later I paid more attention to the lyrics... I'm trying not to read anything in it to it, but since he is also a songwriter.. it had lyrics that said "We met today for a reason / I think I'm in love again", and repeats these lines a lot.

I might be overthinking it, it's possible he just likes the lyrics generally... but it stopped me in my tracks and I thought: "wow, that's a coincidence"..

It sounds like you two might have some Pluto aspects which bring that "fated" or "karmic" feeling especially since you mentioned feeling more "confident" than usual. Have fun...feel it out... but if it is Pluto aspects between you guys and you continue investing into this, I HAVE to warn you these type of aspects are about transformation and growth which means you'll be triggered by this relationship like every other day.

Hmm, yeah, maybe he is not into that then..

We have Pluto Sextile Sun, Pluto Sextile Neptune, Pluto trine Lilith, Pluto sextile IC, Pluto Opposite Ascendant/Conjunct Descendant...

I'm the Pluto person in every case - what's the difference there? I've read different interpretations on this. Maybe he goes more unaffected by it than me?

Also, in the composite chart we have Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio 8th house, as well as Sun Conjunct Pluto.

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Caps aren't too much into texting... try to see each other in person more often.

It's not about making time at all. It's about communication style s. I can tell you many times i've been into a guy or I know cap guys who are into that girl but they're not into texting ESPECIALLY at the beginning and ithas nothing to do with "making time". Mostly Caps are untrusting so even if they are that into you they do not know yet if you are worth all that effort for them to go out of their comfort zone and change their communication habits just for you.

Now before you bring up your Cap ex... i said *mostly*. At the end of the day there's more to it than Sun sign and even more to people than astrology period.

Yeah, fair enough. I honestly don't know any Caps at all and have never dated one either.

He is a visual artist and prefers to communicate with imagery and that's cool with me - it's just that a symbol or a smiley is kind of hard sometimes for me to respond to, especially if I've asked him a direct question and he responds in that way. Very strange, but I would lie if I said it didn't fascinate me as well.

One thing that did happen over a week ago; we hadn't talked for a while and out of the blue, in the morning, he sends me two romantic symbols. He wrote something as well but deleted it before I could see it.

Later on, he showed me some of his newest work and I gave some feedback - I only got symbols as a reply so I stopped replying and we didn't talk for a whole week after that. Since then, it's been very quiet and he hardly says anything when I try to communicate. That is literally the only thing I can imagine he could have reacted to - it seemed he was opening up before that. Maybe he regretted sending me that stuff, I don't know.

Right...may be he wants more "admiration" for his artwork. I don't know...

But these little curiosities you can ask him in person like about the symbols. Has he or have you tried to set up a coffee date or something casual to chat in-person?

I mean when he sends you his art you can even make a suggestion to go to some art gallery together because you'd love to his interpretation on things... or offer to come by to see his other art.

Yeah, that's the weird thing - he wanted to meet up already after three days. He invited me to an event he was going to, related to what he knows is my passion in life. It was the same day so I couldn't make it but told him I really would like to go to a similar event and that he should send me an event as soon as he sees it (he lives closer to those kind of things than me).

He was making a lot of effort contacting me as well, but that stopped a week ago, for some reason. I reached out again this weekend, he read it first, didn't reply (which has happened before) but then answered a day later but just with a smiley.

Then, no matter what I've said, it's been smileys so I feel like I'm not wanted for some reason. Though he could just ignore the messages, I suppose.

I'd like to see him again but I'm not feeling overly confident about asking him right now :/

Awww I'm sorry to hear that love. I know that it's hard to pursue someone when you don't know have certainty or confidence that they feel the same way. You said you're going to see him at some event? So may be you can use that to set up another date in person.

May be he feels like since he asked you out the first time, now it's your turn to ask him out. Asking someone out to an event is pretty causal and not intimate. So it doesn't seem like you're asking them on a date but rather just some company to an event you're going to already.

Cap men are REALLY slow at the beginning but once they do warm up they're one of THE BEST!!! And this guy you have an amazing chart with him so...just stay positive and open minded. Don't let your insecurities get in the way.

Thanks, that helps 🙂 It's just such an unsually strong feeling and I have acted unusually confident as well - I liked how he made feel and it was the strangest thing; like I already knew him in some way. I'm not even the spiritual type.

Also.. I asked him a while back to send me a good song, and after a few hours, he did. It had a really nice vibe and I thanked him for it and said I enjoyed it a lot.

A few minutes later I paid more attention to the lyrics... I'm trying not to read anything in it to it, but since he is also a songwriter.. it had lyrics that said "We met today for a reason / I think I'm in love again", and repeats these lines a lot.

I might be overthinking it, it's possible he just likes the lyrics generally... but it stopped me in my tracks and I thought: "wow, that's a coincidence"..

It sounds like you two might have some Pluto aspects which bring that "fated" or "karmic" feeling especially since you mentioned feeling more "confident" than usual. Have fun...feel it out... but if it is Pluto aspects between you guys and you continue investing into this, I HAVE to warn you these type of aspects are about transformation and growth which means you'll be triggered by this relationship like every other day.

Hmm, yeah, maybe he is not into that then..

We have Pluto Sextile Sun, Pluto Sextile Neptune, Pluto trine Lilith, Pluto sextile IC, Pluto Opposite Ascendant/Conjunct Descendant...

I'm the Pluto person in every case - what's the difference there? I've read different interpretations on this. Maybe he goes more unaffected by it than me?

Also, in the composite chart we have Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio 8th house, as well as Sun Conjunct Pluto.

hmm i dont know about Pluto aspects ot the Sun... the ones I've had were Pluto aspecting Venus/Mars and I've been the Pluto person and the personal planet in different relationships.

I can tell you that my experience being "Pluto" is that of being the chaser and wanting more, and more and more. My experience being the Venus/Mars person is that of being controlled or Pluto being too demanding/harsh. So Pluto seems harsher in those type of relationships than reality. As Pluto I've been told I'm harsh and demanding etc.

In my experience, for the woman it's always nicer to be the personal planet rather than Pluto... because Pluto is the one comes on strong.

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Posted by virgoproblemsI don't understand how you can have such a heavy, intense reaction to someone you've completely ignored for months?

Did you meet him IRL - re the initial attraction before the withdrawal? Have you ever had a conversation with him IRL? I'm confused about your recount. Why are you continuing to message him on a app or online (or whatever) when you have met IRL? He rushed at you when he saw you, he must like you somehow.

He may not like screen time, it can be pretty impersonal.

I think you need to be clever on how to trap this animal 🙂

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Ok uhm, found out that he has some mental health issues - how do I go about this? I want to reconnect but I don't want to scare him off.

Obviously he doesn't like writing.. but with social anxiety, will he be terrified if I show up where he works? He knows we have the same interest already.

This is so weird. I can't let this connection go just yet. Thought he didn't care, but apparently he does, and now I feel like I hurt him in some way..

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girl don't give up

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what do you find so hot about this dude.

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what do you find so hot about this dude.

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what do you find so hot about this dude.

Also, I'm really intrigued as to why he's so damn excited to see me all the time - the closest I can describe it as like a kid at christmas. Who doesn't like making someone feel like that? 🙂

just tell him what you have on the hearth with no regret,

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