Do Capricorn men change their ways?

I am dating this cap for 4 months, last 2 months he was too distant, not talking or chatting, does not share important milestones in his life or share anything really...like he used to. And even leaving my message on read for days... calls 10 days later like nothing happened and everything's normal.

He was giving me mixed signals, plus we never expressed any feelings, so no emotions involved even when we both stated it's important, and that marriage can't depend solely on what is rational (like good wife/husband material as they call it)

I understood from his actions that he wanted to end it, and sort of waiting on it or waiting for me to end things. So, I decided to end it cause it started feeling bitter for the past 2 months.

Only to find that he does not want to break up? He insisted so much to my father that he will fix it and that he did not know how to treat me. Now, I am expecting a call to discuss, but I am standing my ground to end things as I was unhappy with his ways (which I have expressed to him before and he did not change and he apologized and repeated it)

I think I gave it enough time, but could capricorns be that slow? Do they change their ways for real?

Ugh 🙄🙄🙄 such a pain. Life is better when you don’t have to worry about all this overthinking.

I don't think so.

Read RooSagicorns story (I think that's the right name).

They will say sorry, act like they understand, but nothing will change, because their ego is still the most important thing and so they will act accordingly.

This getting you back is probably also about his ego and not about love. From my experience a cap guy will stop at nothing to satisfy his ego. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Saturn.....🌚😬🌚😬🌚

Posted by MyStarsShine

Saturn.....🌚😬🌚😬🌚

What's this supposed to mean? 😂

Posted by Skeleton

Posted by starlord

I don't think so.

Read RooSagicorns story (I think that's the right name).

They will say sorry, act like they understand, but nothing will change, because their ego is still the most important thing and so they will act accordingly.

This getting you back is probably also about his ego and not about love. From my experience a cap guy will stop at nothing to satisfy his ego. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I was thinking the same when he suddenly wants it back that it has to do with his ego than heart. o.O Like his possesion is running away from him.

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Yeah I mean it's just a theory🤷🏼‍♀️

I know of one aries that had a cap guy who mistreated her. They were apart but not really for a while, then got back together, and I think they are saying, he has changed his ways, so.. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I always thought he seemed dry as hell, but if it works it works.

Posted by starlord

Posted by MyStarsShine

Saturn.....🌚😬🌚😬🌚

What's this supposed to mean? 😂

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It means no lol

Saturn doesn’t change it just “tries” to teach others a lesson or two

Fun, fun, fun

🙄

Posted by MissKrabs

do try to talk to him if you think there is something. and how the hell is your father involved in it—? lmao

well it is strange and different .. he is my brother's friend and he took the serious way from the beginning, proposing and asking my father, THEN we started dating. It is even LDR for the most part.

complicated I know

Posted by starlord

I don't think so.

Read RooSagicorns story (I think that's the right name).

They will say sorry, act like they understand, but nothing will change, because their ego is still the most important thing and so they will act accordingly.

This getting you back is probably also about his ego and not about love. From my experience a cap guy will stop at nothing to satisfy his ego. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I deleted, hopefully she won’t find it anymore.

I’m not going to sit here and say my situation is the same as every Cap. I’m not sure I totally agree as to the reason you give, all I’m saying is you have to choose yourself and not cater to him. If he wants to make it work, he will. Nothing you do matters.

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Posted by starlord

I don't think so.

Read RooSagicorns story (I think that's the right name).

They will say sorry, act like they understand, but nothing will change, because their ego is still the most important thing and so they will act accordingly.

This getting you back is probably also about his ego and not about love. From my experience a cap guy will stop at nothing to satisfy his ego. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I deleted, hopefully she won’t find it anymore.

I’m not going to sit here and say my situation is the same as every Cap. I’m not sure I totally agree as to the reason you give, all I’m saying is you have to choose yourself and not cater to him. If he wants to make it work, he will. Nothing you do matters.

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Ah okay. Fair enough ☺️ Totally agree with the nothing you do can make him change his mind, so I second that. For me that's what's hard to accept, but that's my own issue. 🤷🏼‍♀️☺️