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Posted by LadyNeptune
Correcting a new employee on where they are wrong is one thing, but being verbally aggressive is never ok.Can you give us an example of the verbal aggression?
Also is she your superior or in a management role?
She never corrected me, I have 7 years of experience in the field I studied and she’s a recent graduate. My superior is another guy and I have a correct relationship with him. There is so much work that I am concentrated on finishing my tasks because that’s what I am paid for at the end of the month. Well examples - when we chat at the office she always has something negative to say after I share something.
click to expandShe has something negative to say about the thing you shared? Or just being negative in general.
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About everything I say. For example I gave another coworker vitamins because he was coughing ( now I got it from him ) and she started babbling how medicines are bad. I told another female coworker that I sent her a fr on IG and she asked me who are you, meaning my nickname but in my language it could have sounded as “who do you think you are” and she burst into laughter. She has no respect for me even though I am older and more experienced. In a nutshell she acts like a hostile asshole towards me. Anyway I am mostly interested in figuring out why she is the way she is, that’s why I stated her Sun/Ascendant combination
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Just comfort yourself with the most likely reality that with your experience and her being straight out of school you are making more than her.
Collect your coins.
I'd be overly nice. Really amp up the contrast so she looks like more of the AH
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Mm the kill her with kindness approach lol
Posted by LadyNeptune
Correcting a new employee on where they are wrong is one thing, but being verbally aggressive is never ok.Can you give us an example of the verbal aggression?
Also is she your superior or in a management role?
She never corrected me, I have 7 years of experience in the field I studied and she’s a recent graduate. My superior is another guy and I have a correct relationship with him. There is so much work that I am concentrated on finishing my tasks because that’s what I am paid for at the end of the month. Well examples - when we chat at the office she always has something negative to say after I share something.
click to expandShe has something negative to say about the thing you shared? Or just being negative in general.
click to expand
About everything I say. For example I gave another coworker vitamins because he was coughing ( now I got it from him ) and she started babbling how medicines are bad. I told another female coworker that I sent her a fr on IG and she asked me who are you, meaning my nickname but in my language it could have sounded as “who do you think you are” and she burst into laughter. She has no respect for me even though I am older and more experienced. In a nutshell she acts like a hostile asshole towards me. Anyway I am mostly interested in figuring out why she is the way she is, that’s why I stated her Sun/Ascendant combination
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She's immaturely projecting her insecurities for how jealous she is of you, your kindness and capabilities at the job. She doesn't want you to overshadow her feeling of superiority and importance. Sounds like a narcissist on that front.
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this had me cackling to bits! I'm sooo doing that to problematic people in my own life hahahaha