Are Venus in aqua & Venus in Aries compatible?

Typically air & fire signs are suppose to go together but I’ve found it that air sign Venus are way to detached for me! I have an aqua moon but i always tend to lead with my Venus in Aries energy when dating and that makes me very passionate an impatient. I feel only fire every can rly handle a Venus in Aries.

All my big loves so far either had a Venus in fire as well or a fire sun. Any Venus in Aries dating an sign Venus?

Yea I think my aqua moon shows up a little later in a relationship. In the beginning when I’m interested in very Aries like! I get infatuated and want your attention lol then eventually I mellow out and my aqua moon shows up more. The guy I’m currently interested in is a cap sun Taurus moon aqua Venus cap Mars and cancer rising. I think some of that Taurus and cancer helps him be sweet but that cap and aqua energy seems to have him very distant and not a great communicator when we’re apart and that drives me crazy! my Venus in Aries wants to be stimulated and if you aren’t communicating with me then there’s no stimulation smh it’s unfortunate

I'm an Aqua venus and the one placement I've always dated is Aries venus, 3 in total.

It just clicks naturally and goes really well.

Will recommend. 👍🏻

"I feel only fire every can rly handle a Venus in Aries."

Handle is a verb implying action. So wouldn't the persons mars be more important here than their venus?

If the man is the one with Venus in Aries and the woman V in Aqua! The other way around scenario is highly likely to be wrought by frustration... to say the least!

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Yea I think my aqua moon shows up a little later in a relationship. In the beginning when I’m interested in very Aries like! I get infatuated and want your attention lol then eventually I mellow out and my aqua moon shows up more. The guy I’m currently interested in is a cap sun Taurus moon aqua Venus cap Mars and cancer rising. I think some of that Taurus and cancer helps him be sweet but that cap and aqua energy seems to have him very distant and not a great communicator when we’re apart and that drives me crazy! my Venus in Aries wants to be stimulated and if you aren’t communicating with me then there’s no stimulation smh it’s unfortunate

Ah..I think it's the squares in ur synastry (venus-moon) (mars-venus) that cause the problem and not the venus. Not to mention the fact that his mars is in your 1st too. If this relationship continues, you'd be highly critical of the little things he does.

Natally, using the whole sign house system, his mars is in his 7th and it's exalted in a saturn house. This person likes to be in control of the relationship and has a habit of doing power play. These things he's doing to you, if his asc is correct, is a power play move. He prefers a relationship where he dictates how, when and where it's going. And good luck trying to make that taurus moon budge lol.

Can I ask for research? Are you older than him or have a dark tone hair?

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Thank you for your feedback! You are already spot on I am very critical of everything he does already!! Lol and yes his rising is cancer and both of our ascendants are in each other’s 7th house. I am rly drawn to him but I just feel like the communication is always going to be on his terms and I can’t deal with that. Would this power play end or is he just this way? 😩 I am 4 years older then him and we both have black hair.

If you want the charts I’m not sure how to post a picture but mine is May 16, 1990 12:14am he is Jan 19, 1994 (I know his asc is cancer so I just used 4:00pm as the time)

Also-My birth place Bronx NY his Chicago Illinois

Fire Venus can be a bit much. I still like them a lot though. Leo is probably my fav

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Fire Venus can be a bit much. I still like them a lot though. Leo is probably my fav

Lol yes we are! It’s hard because I always fear my intensity will scare ppl away but I just love to love lol I always end up with other Venus in Aries or strong Leo placements because Leo’s tend to love being doted on so it feeds their ego 😂

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Yea I think my aqua moon shows up a little later in a relationship. In the beginning when I’m interested in very Aries like! I get infatuated and want your attention lol then eventually I mellow out and my aqua moon shows up more. The guy I’m currently interested in is a cap sun Taurus moon aqua Venus cap Mars and cancer rising. I think some of that Taurus and cancer helps him be sweet but that cap and aqua energy seems to have him very distant and not a great communicator when we’re apart and that drives me crazy! my Venus in Aries wants to be stimulated and if you aren’t communicating with me then there’s no stimulation smh it’s unfortunate

Ah..I think it's the squares in ur synastry (venus-moon) (mars-venus) that cause the problem and not the venus. Not to mention the fact that his mars is in your 1st too. If this relationship continues, you'd be highly critical of the little things he does.

Natally, using the whole sign house system, his mars is in his 7th and it's exalted in a saturn house. This person likes to be in control of the relationship and has a habit of doing power play. These things he's doing to you, if his asc is correct, is a power play move. He prefers a relationship where he dictates how, when and where it's going. And good luck trying to make that taurus moon budge lol.

Can I ask for research? Are you older than him or have a dark tone hair?

Thank you for your feedback! You are already spot on I am very critical of everything he does already!! Lol and yes his rising is cancer and both of our ascendants are in each other’s 7th house. I am rly drawn to him but I just feel like the communication is always going to be on his terms and I can’t deal with that. Would this power play end or is he just this way? 😩 I am 4 years older then him and we both have black hair.

If you want the charts I’m not sure how to post a picture but mine is May 16, 1990 12:14am he is Jan 19, 1994 (I know his asc is cancer so I just used 4:00pm as the time)

Lmao what have you gotten yourself into? 🤣

How long have you known him? You're a catalyst for him to sort out his shadow. Probably preparing him for his 5th house profection next year.

Anyway, being older than him and have a black hair, you're already his type.

Trust me, he feels this more than you do. I shouldve noticed this earlier when you mentioned cancer rising and aqua venus, but he wont be your typical aqua venus. His aqua venus is in the 8th. He's a fearful avoidant. Add this with sun,mars,uranus,neptune in 7th and the lord of 7th being in the 8th 🤪.

He craves intimacy but is fearful of getting hurt. Thus the "come here,go away" attitude.

In his mind he probably thinks that he wants intimacy and freedom at the same time but it's actually his fear that drives this.

1 tiny hint of you not being on the same level as him, he'll likely try so hard to keep you at bay.

Will probably try to sabotage this as well, depends on how much hes aware of his issues.

Keyword here is afraid of getting hurt.

Now your moon and rahu touches his venus and merc in the 8th. It has to be him that pursue, if he's brave enough and trust you enough.

Your DK is moon, i think youre attracted to him because of his rising and his taurus moon. Look into moon darakaraka. Thats for you.

I can't tell whats his as you dont have the exact birth time. His moon and venus is head to head when it comes to DK so 0,01 degree difference tells a whole lot different story when it comes to his darakaraka.

And about this power play, it will only stop once he can come to terms with his fears and be a more securely attached person. Otherwise he will always be in this cycle of leading people on and then pushing them away soon after. Getting himself and other people hurt in the process.

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You’re amazing you have such get insight! Unfortunately I think things are already over 😂😂. All in all we lasted about a week. 😂 So rundown of how it played out. We met on a Friday went to dinner and hung out Saturday. No sex or anything but it was a very intense connection and from little things that he said I could definitely pick up on that fear of being hurt you mentioned. He texted me right when I left and told me he missed me already. He went back home to chicago Sunday morning & texted me when he got back. mind you he’s already started calling me baby and everything as if we’re a thing. Then the texts get spacey. One could say oh he’s just busy but it was ridiculous like literally not responding or reading my text in 24 hour time frame and no text ever answered last then 3 hrs minimum I was trying my hardest to be patient. I even read his book and gave him a book review I was showing I was very interested and invested in supporting him etc but I run out of patience quick esp because I have fears of my own of not seeing red flags sooner. So his lack of communication made me crazy and I started looking for the exit. I took that as a sign of disinterest. I finally made a comment (on Thursday) about how texting wasn’t his strong suit so I won’t bother him and he FaceTimed me soon after but I didn’t get it for a few hours because I only turn on FT on my iPad and when I finally saw the FT I asked him did he mean to FT me he said yes and I explained to him that it only rang on my iPad and that I wasn’t trying to ignore him and again hours go by not reading or responding to my text so I’m just like what is the point of this. So I texted him telling him have a good night and he sent me “😒” I texted back asking why the face no answer so I just told him it’s cool I can take a hint. And that was the last time we spoke and that was Thursday night. I deleted his number and he hasn’t tried to contact me since and he probably won’t.

I think we both realized we aren’t on the same page so what’s the point of wasting time or getting attached. The connection felt so strong that in itself was scary so any sign that he isn’t on the same page as me I am running for the hills and maybe he feels the same. Because the fact that we felt that strongly and we don’t even know each other I can’t imagine how messy this could get if we get attached. He clearly doesn’t have time for me and I won’t allow myself to get any further with someone with such poor communication skills. I’ve done that before and it was an emotional roller coaster I won’t go there again! In that short amount of time I showed him affection, patience, support, care and attention and if that wasn’t enough for him to try harder then so be it! Idk if I will hear from him again esp if he does move here. A part of me hopes I do but then a part of me feels like what’s the point it will just be more of the same and although I’m sad this never took off like I hoped I’m happy for the nuisance to be over! 😔

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I knew a couple like that. They stayed together for a 3-4 years then broke up.

😂😂 he just texted me this morning asking me not to lose interest because he’s horrible at texting because he still wants to get to know me and I thought that was rly sweet because he could have just ignored me so I’m going to try not to take it personally and we’ll see if I can tap into some Taurus sun patience 😂😂

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I knew a couple like that. They stayed together for a 3-4 years then broke up.

😂😂 he just texted me this morning asking me not to lose interest because he’s horrible at texting because he still wants to get to know me and I thought that was rly sweet because he could have just ignored me so I’m going to try not to take it personally and we’ll see if I can tap into some Taurus sun patience 😂😂

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I am Taurus Sun, Venus in Aries girl dating Cap Sun, Venus in aqua guy. He is also not great with communication either. And his behavior is sometimes similar to what you faced in a week. Being distant and sending one word responses after hours etc. I was initially annoyed but then I realized that he is legit busy and it does not matter where he is, he ends his day talking to me. When he has time, he would give me 4-6 hours of continuous texting.

Once he was busy with work but he asked me to stay up late to talk. I did. But then his sister called and it took more than an hour. Obviously I slept by then! But he texted me about 73 times in a row to wake me up, I did not lol. I woke up in the morning and there was an sweet apology that he kept me waiting. Nevertheless, we spent the next night together.

So the key thing is to have patience, venus in aqua with cap sun is going to be aloof, he told me he is pretty bad with texting but he tries to give me his time. We are together since last 4 years but yours is just a week. We had multiple fights because of this problem about distant communication. But he proved multiple times that I am his priority too. At times I blamed him and yelled at him that if he is so busy then be with all of them. But to his defense, his reason was that he has set goals and he is not a romantic guy. He said he cannot be around anyone all the time. But he told me to always feel free to text multiple times and he would try to get back to me asap. Its a work around.

Venus in Aqua wants mind stimulation to make deeper connection. They get thrilled to see your knowledge and if you can give them independence to be distant and return to you. They want friendship as a base.

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Yea I think my aqua moon shows up a little later in a relationship. In the beginning when I’m interested in very Aries like! I get infatuated and want your attention lol then eventually I mellow out and my aqua moon shows up more. The guy I’m currently interested in is a cap sun Taurus moon aqua Venus cap Mars and cancer rising. I think some of that Taurus and cancer helps him be sweet but that cap and aqua energy seems to have him very distant and not a great communicator when we’re apart and that drives me crazy! my Venus in Aries wants to be stimulated and if you aren’t communicating with me then there’s no stimulation smh it’s unfortunate

Ah..I think it's the squares in ur synastry (venus-moon) (mars-venus) that cause the problem and not the venus. Not to mention the fact that his mars is in your 1st too. If this relationship continues, you'd be highly critical of the little things he does.

Natally, using the whole sign house system, his mars is in his 7th and it's exalted in a saturn house. This person likes to be in control of the relationship and has a habit of doing power play. These things he's doing to you, if his asc is correct, is a power play move. He prefers a relationship where he dictates how, when and where it's going. And good luck trying to make that taurus moon budge lol.

Can I ask for research? Are you older than him or have a dark tone hair?

Thank you for your feedback! You are already spot on I am very critical of everything he does already!! Lol and yes his rising is cancer and both of our ascendants are in each other’s 7th house. I am rly drawn to him but I just feel like the communication is always going to be on his terms and I can’t deal with that. Would this power play end or is he just this way? 😩 I am 4 years older then him and we both have black hair.

If you want the charts I’m not sure how to post a picture but mine is May 16, 1990 12:14am he is Jan 19, 1994 (I know his asc is cancer so I just used 4:00pm as the time)

Lmao what have you gotten yourself into? 🤣

How long have you known him? You're a catalyst for him to sort out his shadow. Probably preparing him for his 5th house profection next year.

Anyway, being older than him and have a black hair, you're already his type.

Trust me, he feels this more than you do. I shouldve noticed this earlier when you mentioned cancer rising and aqua venus, but he wont be your typical aqua venus. His aqua venus is in the 8th. He's a fearful avoidant. Add this with sun,mars,uranus,neptune in 7th and the lord of 7th being in the 8th 🤪.

He craves intimacy but is fearful of getting hurt. Thus the "come here,go away" attitude.

In his mind he probably thinks that he wants intimacy and freedom at the same time but it's actually his fear that drives this.

1 tiny hint of you not being on the same level as him, he'll likely try so hard to keep you at bay.

Will probably try to sabotage this as well, depends on how much hes aware of his issues.

Keyword here is afraid of getting hurt.

Now your moon and rahu touches his venus and merc in the 8th. It has to be him that pursue, if he's brave enough and trust you enough.

Your DK is moon, i think youre attracted to him because of his rising and his taurus moon. Look into moon darakaraka. Thats for you.

I can't tell whats his as you dont have the exact birth time. His moon and venus is head to head when it comes to DK so 0,01 degree difference tells a whole lot different story when it comes to his darakaraka.

And about this power play, it will only stop once he can come to terms with his fears and be a more securely attached person. Otherwise he will always be in this cycle of leading people on and then pushing them away soon after. Getting himself and other people hurt in the process.

You’re amazing you have such get insight! Unfortunately I think things are already over 😂😂. All in all we lasted about a week. 😂 So rundown of how it played out. We met on a Friday went to dinner and hung out Saturday. No sex or anything but it was a very intense connection and from little things that he said I could definitely pick up on that fear of being hurt you mentioned. He texted me right when I left and told me he missed me already. He went back home to chicago Sunday morning & texted me when he got back. mind you he’s already started calling me baby and everything as if we’re a thing. Then the texts get spacey. One could say oh he’s just busy but it was ridiculous like literally not responding or reading my text in 24 hour time frame and no text ever answered last then 3 hrs minimum I was trying my hardest to be patient. I even read his book and gave him a book review I was showing I was very interested and invested in supporting him etc but I run out of patience quick esp because I have fears of my own of not seeing red flags sooner. So his lack of communication made me crazy and I started looking for the exit. I took that as a sign of disinterest. I finally made a comment (on Thursday) about how texting wasn’t his strong suit so I won’t bother him and he FaceTimed me soon after but I didn’t get it for a few hours because I only turn on FT on my iPad and when I finally saw the FT I asked him did he mean to FT me he said yes and I explained to him that it only rang on my iPad and that I wasn’t trying to ignore him and again hours go by not reading or responding to my text so I’m just like what is the point of this. So I texted him telling him have a good night and he sent me “😒” I texted back asking why the face no answer so I just told him it’s cool I can take a hint. And that was the last time we spoke and that was Thursday night. I deleted his number and he hasn’t tried to contact me since and he probably won’t.

I think we both realized we aren’t on the same page so what’s the point of wasting time or getting attached. The connection felt so strong that in itself was scary so any sign that he isn’t on the same page as me I am running for the hills and maybe he feels the same. Because the fact that we felt that strongly and we don’t even know each other I can’t imagine how messy this could get if we get attached. He clearly doesn’t have time for me and I won’t allow myself to get any further with someone with such poor communication skills. I’ve done that before and it was an emotional roller coaster I won’t go there again! In that short amount of time I showed him affection, patience, support, care and attention and if that wasn’t enough for him to try harder then so be it! Idk if I will hear from him again esp if he does move here. A part of me hopes I do but then a part of me feels like what’s the point it will just be more of the same and although I’m sad this never took off like I hoped I’m happy for the nuisance to be over! 😔

I wont be that sure that this is over if i were you 🤪

He'll be back. The way you ended it by complaining about the emoji and saying you got the hint he's not interested etc actually gave him a sign that you're not playing around. He'll take it as a "safe to invest" sign.

So trust me, he'll be back 🤣

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You were right 😂 He texted me this morning a rly nice message asking me not to lose interest because he’s a horrible texter and that he want to get to know me more I just have to give him a chance etc. I thought that was rly sweet so I’m going to try not to take his texting personally and we’ll see how things progress! 🤞

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I knew a couple like that. They stayed together for a 3-4 years then broke up.

😂😂 he just texted me this morning asking me not to lose interest because he’s horrible at texting because he still wants to get to know me and I thought that was rly sweet because he could have just ignored me so I’m going to try not to take it personally and we’ll see if I can tap into some Taurus sun patience 😂😂

I am Taurus Sun, Venus in Aries girl dating Cap Sun, Venus in aqua guy. He is also not great with communication either. And his behavior is sometimes similar to what you faced in a week. Being distant and sending one word responses after hours etc. I was initially annoyed but then I realized that he is legit busy and it does not matter where he is, he ends his day talking to me. When he has time, he would give me 4-6 hours of continuous texting.

Once he was busy with work but he asked me to stay up late to talk. I did. But then his sister called and it took more than an hour. Obviously I slept by then! But he texted me about 73 times in a row to wake me up, I did not lol. I woke up in the morning and there was an sweet apology that he kept me waiting. Nevertheless, we spent the next night together.

So the key thing is to have patience, venus in aqua with cap sun is going to be aloof, he told me he is pretty bad with texting but he tries to give me his time. We are together since last 4 years but yours is just a week. We had multiple fights because of this problem about distant communication. But he proved multiple times that I am his priority too. At times I blamed him and yelled at him that if he is so busy then be with all of them. But to his defense, his reason was that he has set goals and he is not a romantic guy. He said he cannot be around anyone all the time. But he told me to always feel free to text multiple times and he would try to get back to me asap. Its a work around.

Venus in Aqua wants mind stimulation to make deeper connection. They get thrilled to see your knowledge and if you can give them independence to be distant and return to you. They want friendship as a base.

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Thank you for sharing! I don’t think my biggest issue is the distant thought of purse it’s be nice to talk more because I’m in that initial infatuation stage I think the big issue is that I was taking it as disinterest. Like he just wanted to to the bare minimum and string me along and I won’t do that. But if he rly is just that busy and not the best communicator I can try and work with that as long as there is compromise! Like with your situation ending the day talking I could do something like that I’m hoping if we continue to build that we find a good middle road. He prefers FaceTime I don’t but I’m willing to try and find a balance as long as the interest is mutual. I just don’t want to be trying to make something work with someone that’s not trying back. It sounds crazy to be saying all this after a week but our connection was so instant and so strong I rly believe there could be a lot of potential here. So I will try and be a little more understanding. My aqua moon gets it because I’m that way with my friends but when it comes to love relationships my Venus in Aries shows a lot more. But it’s refreshing to hear it’s not just him. I will try and see how much patience I can apply lol but the stubborn bull in me will keep trying until it’s hopeless lol