Her Pluto sextile my Moon and my Pluto Conjuct her Moon

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I know pluto/moon in synastry is a very strong aspect and I've read about how powerful it can be so i was wondering, in this case which one is more powerful and who feels more this aspect because I (pluto person conjunct her moon) sometimes feel like obsessed with her.

Her pluto is in scorpio 8th house and my moon is in cap 4th house. My pluto is in sag 9th house and her moon is in scorpio 8th house.
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You both will feel it but in different ways. The conjunction is stronger than sextile, but the degree of the orb also matters. Moon person will want to open up to Pluto person even if they typically are more emotionally reserved and closed off.. Pluto is obsessive and wants to control moon persons emotions and so they can resort to controlling or manipulative behavior if they feel that moon person is losing interest.

Pluto basically wants to possess, control, and know what the moon person is feeling or thinking, and the moon person feels vulnerable and open with Pluto in ways that they don’t feel vulnerable or open with anyone else. So they both feel it but in different ways.

my pluto conjunct her moon is at 4°28' and I know i said i feel like obsessed with her but it's never something serious it's like i daydream about us that's it, i don't want to control her nor anything that's why i was asking because i feel like she's the one who wants to control me because the 2nd week we met she was already jealous of me making a new friendship. Her Pluto sextile my Moon is at 0° 38'. She also has Pluto in scorpio conjunct my Mars in scorpio at 1° 45' and my Pluto in sag sextile her Venus in libra at 0°18'. What do you think?
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You both will feel it but in different ways. The conjunction is stronger than sextile, but the degree of the orb also matters. Moon person will want to open up to Pluto person even if they typically are more emotionally reserved and closed off.. Pluto is obsessive and wants to control moon persons emotions and so they can resort to controlling or manipulative behavior if they feel that moon person is losing interest.

Pluto basically wants to possess, control, and know what the moon person is feeling or thinking, and the moon person feels vulnerable and open with Pluto in ways that they don’t feel vulnerable or open with anyone else. So they both feel it but in different ways.

my pluto conjunct her moon is at 4°28' and I know i said i feel like obsessed with her but it's never something serious it's like i daydream about us that's it, i don't want to control her nor anything that's why i was asking because i feel like she's the one who wants to control me because the 2nd week we met she was already jealous of me making a new friendship. Her Pluto sextile my Moon is at 0° 38'. She also has Pluto in scorpio conjunct my Mars in scorpio at 1° 45' and my Pluto in sag sextile her Venus in libra at 0°18'. What do you think?

Yeah you guys have a lot of Pluto contacts on both sides.. buckle up! Lol it should be exciting to say the least if one of you don’t sabotage it first lol 😅 you both probably feel drawn to each other.
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I think I already did sabotage it lmao because i distanced myself from her, I'm afraid of commitment and now she's just there.. once in a while we text but it's awkward..I feel like our connection it's always going to be there so I just need more time of healing from other stuff and I'll go back to her and hopefully she'll be there. if it's meant to be it'll be. anyway thank you so much for your time explaining it 😁
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You both will feel it but in different ways. The conjunction is stronger than sextile, but the degree of the orb also matters. Moon person will want to open up to Pluto person even if they typically are more emotionally reserved and closed off.. Pluto is obsessive and wants to control moon persons emotions and so they can resort to controlling or manipulative behavior if they feel that moon person is losing interest.

Pluto basically wants to possess, control, and know what the moon person is feeling or thinking, and the moon person feels vulnerable and open with Pluto in ways that they don’t feel vulnerable or open with anyone else. So they both feel it but in different ways.

my pluto conjunct her moon is at 4°28' and I know i said i feel like obsessed with her but it's never something serious it's like i daydream about us that's it, i don't want to control her nor anything that's why i was asking because i feel like she's the one who wants to control me because the 2nd week we met she was already jealous of me making a new friendship. Her Pluto sextile my Moon is at 0° 38'. She also has Pluto in scorpio conjunct my Mars in scorpio at 1° 45' and my Pluto in sag sextile her Venus in libra at 0°18'. What do you think?

Yeah you guys have a lot of Pluto contacts on both sides.. buckle up! Lol it should be exciting to say the least if one of you don’t sabotage it first lol 😅 you both probably feel drawn to each other.

I think I already did sabotage it lmao because i distanced myself from her, I'm afraid of commitment and now she's just there.. once in a while we text but it's awkward..I feel like our connection it's always going to be there so I just need more time of healing from other stuff and I'll go back to her and hopefully she'll be there. if it's meant to be it'll be. anyway thank you so much for your time explaining it 😁

I recently walked away from a situation with a lot of Pluto contacts going both ways.. it’s hard to walk away from, it’s very magnetic. A lot of push/pull.. when one person runs, the other chases and vice versa.

However it ends, it will likely transform you both in one way or another. With Pluto, the biggest lesson you have to learn is to relinquish the need to control the situation and each other, and avoid manipulation tactics in an effort to get a response from the person etc. Pluto doesn’t like to relinquish control or to be vulnerable, so on a subconscious level we try to maintain control (over our emotions or over the situation).
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That was deep, i appreciate it. I mean we just met a few months ago, I've never felt so drawn to someone before like I feel with her, this is all new to me and I'm afraid of things going all wrong, afraid of getting hurt once I get vulnerable..can I ask you something since you had a similar experience what do you suggest i do?
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You both will feel it but in different ways. The conjunction is stronger than sextile, but the degree of the orb also matters. Moon person will want to open up to Pluto person even if they typically are more emotionally reserved and closed off.. Pluto is obsessive and wants to control moon persons emotions and so they can resort to controlling or manipulative behavior if they feel that moon person is losing interest.

Pluto basically wants to possess, control, and know what the moon person is feeling or thinking, and the moon person feels vulnerable and open with Pluto in ways that they don’t feel vulnerable or open with anyone else. So they both feel it but in different ways.

my pluto conjunct her moon is at 4°28' and I know i said i feel like obsessed with her but it's never something serious it's like i daydream about us that's it, i don't want to control her nor anything that's why i was asking because i feel like she's the one who wants to control me because the 2nd week we met she was already jealous of me making a new friendship. Her Pluto sextile my Moon is at 0° 38'. She also has Pluto in scorpio conjunct my Mars in scorpio at 1° 45' and my Pluto in sag sextile her Venus in libra at 0°18'. What do you think?

Yeah you guys have a lot of Pluto contacts on both sides.. buckle up! Lol it should be exciting to say the least if one of you don’t sabotage it first lol 😅 you both probably feel drawn to each other.

I think I already did sabotage it lmao because i distanced myself from her, I'm afraid of commitment and now she's just there.. once in a while we text but it's awkward..I feel like our connection it's always going to be there so I just need more time of healing from other stuff and I'll go back to her and hopefully she'll be there. if it's meant to be it'll be. anyway thank you so much for your time explaining it 😁

I recently walked away from a situation with a lot of Pluto contacts going both ways.. it’s hard to walk away from, it’s very magnetic. A lot of push/pull.. when one person runs, the other chases and vice versa.

However it ends, it will likely transform you both in one way or another. With Pluto, the biggest lesson you have to learn is to relinquish the need to control the situation and each other, and avoid manipulation tactics in an effort to get a response from the person etc. Pluto doesn’t like to relinquish control or to be vulnerable, so on a subconscious level we try to maintain control (over our emotions or over the situation).

That was deep, i appreciate it. I mean we just met a few months ago, I've never felt so drawn to someone before like I feel with her, this is all new to me and I'm afraid of things going all wrong, afraid of getting hurt once I get vulnerable..can I ask you something since you had a similar experience what do you suggest i do?

I wish I had a suggestion but I don’t fully understand it myself either. I just read up on it a lot, because like you said, I needed to know what it was about him that had me so hooked because I had never been like that either.
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Yeah it's tough...anyway thank you so much for your understanding. sending good vibes your way.