Moon square venus (man in natal chart and in synastry with me)

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I have it and strongly. Leoo moon squares Scorpio venus and they both aspect Pluto.



To the square tho, all I can say is when we get what we want it definitely isn't what we need. Im a man who truly loves affection and intimacy. That is something I sacrficed in past relationships. But thats what made me feel empty. My wants were met but not my needs. But also understanding what I need wont always come from fulfilling desires(Ive tried). It may come from just that, what I need.

My square is fixed. So consistency is extremely key for me. Being a fire moon, I need to see and feel emotions. I put mine on display and love to see my S/O put theirs on display. Venus in water is just unpredictable. It truly depends on the undercurrents of the relationship. If up this next wave, all I feel is tension and anxiety, then both my needs and wants suffer. Being a fixed aspect, once invested, I stay way past the expiring date. This leads to hurt feelings that could have been saved.



I learned to let go and express myself more. I learned never to sacrfice my needs in a relationship because affection is just huge for me. As is honesty and respect. My moon takes precident here at least for me. And I learned to recognize early on if a person is gonna change or not and too let go
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Posted by Argus

No idea how it may feel to have that placement, however, I do know how it feels to be in a relationship with one...or two! Definitely not a walk in the park. One of the two individuals mentioned had a dysfunctional relationship with his mother, but that comes as no surprise considering she was a clinical narcissist. Soooo...


I had a brief situationship with a person who had that placement and as said also in synastry. Also had moon/pluto in synastry.

His mother abandonned him when hé was 10. There is a lot of anger inside him
.

Very closed off
. But deep down a loving, Caring person.
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Posted by Libra4rmTX

I have it and strongly. Leoo moon squares Scorpio venus and they both aspect Pluto.



To the square tho, all I can say is when we get what we want it definitely isn't what we need. Im a man who truly loves affection and intimacy. That is something I sacrficed in past relationships. But thats what made me feel empty. My wants were met but not my needs. But also understanding what I need wont always come from fulfilling desires(Ive tried). It may come from just that, what I need.

My square is fixed. So consistency is extremely key for me. Being a fire moon, I need to see and feel emotions. I put mine on display and love to see my S/O put theirs on display. Venus in water is just unpredictable. It truly depends on the undercurrents of the relationship. If up this next wave, all I feel is tension and anxiety, then both my needs and wants suffer. Being a fixed aspect, once invested, I stay way past the expiring date. This leads to hurt feelings that could have been saved.



I learned to let go and express myself more. I learned never to sacrfice my needs in a relationship because affection is just huge for me. As is honesty and respect. My moon takes precident here at least for me. And I learned to recognize early on if a person is gonna change or not and too let go


I wondered why we have this placement in synastry and looked up my natal chart again
 i have it too
 Scorpio moon square Leo Venus .

Then I read your post. Thought I didn’t had problems with this placement. But I do when I think of it
 I was married for 27 years to a taurus man. He was wonderful but he was more like a friend then a husband so we divorced, he left.

It was hurtful but I could understand him. We never had arguments or anything.

You say “ once I invested, I stay wat past the expiring date” . So did I when I think of it


With my recent “ situationship” , so we both have it, I was head over heels and so was he. Saw a future with me, bombarded me


After a couple of dates he ended it. Abruptly
.

He let me go over a silly thing ( cant say what but thats what it was and even hé thought it was silly).

We were one hot mess 😉

His square is moon in Cancer / Venus in scorpio.

Well, glad I have learnt something about myself through your explantion what that placement meant for you.

( sorry for the typo’s, english is not my natal language)



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I have it and strongly. Leoo moon squares Scorpio venus and they both aspect Pluto.



To the square tho, all I can say is when we get what we want it definitely isn't what we need. Im a man who truly loves affection and intimacy. That is something I sacrficed in past relationships. But thats what made me feel empty. My wants were met but not my needs. But also understanding what I need wont always come from fulfilling desires(Ive tried). It may come from just that, what I need.

My square is fixed. So consistency is extremely key for me. Being a fire moon, I need to see and feel emotions. I put mine on display and love to see my S/O put theirs on display. Venus in water is just unpredictable. It truly depends on the undercurrents of the relationship. If up this next wave, all I feel is tension and anxiety, then both my needs and wants suffer. Being a fixed aspect, once invested, I stay way past the expiring date. This leads to hurt feelings that could have been saved.



I learned to let go and express myself more. I learned never to sacrfice my needs in a relationship because affection is just huge for me. As is honesty and respect. My moon takes precident here at least for me. And I learned to recognize early on if a person is gonna change or not and too let go

I wondered why we have this placement in synastry and looked up my natal chart again
 i have it too
 Scorpio moon square Leo Venus .

Then I read your post. Thought I didn’t had problems with this placement. But I do when I think of it
 I was married for 27 years to a taurus man. He was wonderful but he was more like a friend then a husband so we divorced, he left.

It was hurtful but I could understand him. We never had arguments or anything.

You say “ once I invested, I stay wat past the expiring date” . So did I when I think of it


With my recent “ situationship” , so we both have it, I was head over heels and so was he. Saw a future with me, bombarded me


After a couple of dates he ended it. Abruptly
.

He let me go over a silly thing ( cant say what but thats what it was and even hé thought it was silly).

We were one hot mess 😉

His square is moon in Cancer / Venus in scorpio.

Well, glad I have learnt something about myself through your explantion what that placement meant for you.

( sorry for the typo’s, english is not my natal language)
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Im glad that you could take something from it!!!
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Posted by ImperfectStorm

My moon squares my Venus but it’s a very wide orb (10 degrees) so I’m not sure that it counts. I also have other negative moon/Venus aspects such as moon square my Saturn/Jupiter/Venus conjunction, and Venus square Neptune so it’s hard to know what is what. I just know it’s never been easy for me to find love. 😑


Don’t know if it counts with a orb of 10 degrees. Ik looked up your Venus square neptune , isn’t easy also in read.

For me, it helps to know the aspects of my natal chart and in synastry when I am in a relationship to know myself and my behavior. We are never to old to learn about ourselves and others and how we behave. Never to old to grow and change where change is needed.