Pluto - Mars vs. Pluto - Venus in synastry, which is more intense and attractive?

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If I date my generation, I run into this synastry.

Initially, its all rose colored glasses.

The more grounded I am, the less susceptible I am to feeding into the games.

Take emotion out of it and much like Dazed’s thread, I watch and wait for the other person to tick off some

Boxes.

I used to get so excited about meeting someone new and feeling the butterflies, but nope, i got to stay grounded and make sure that this is truly something i want
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If I date my generation, I run into this synastry.

Initially, its all rose colored glasses.

The more grounded I am, the less susceptible I am to feeding into the games.

Take emotion out of it and much like Dazed’s thread, I watch and wait for the other person to tick off some

Boxes.

I used to get so excited about meeting someone new and feeling the butterflies, but nope, i got to stay grounded and make sure that this is truly something i want

Libra pluto?
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Yup 😁
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Jupiter, neptune, uranus and pluto are not real astrology planets imo, since got added very recently

Really....do tell more?

Classic astrology listed only from moon to saturn because they didnt even know the planets existed (?)

It also doesnt feel right saying like 'well... now aquarius is ruled by uranus too' like why? they just fit the new discovered planets on random signs, this messes the whole balance up, taurus and libra still share venus only, gemini and virgo still share mercury only, aquarius and capricorn should still be the saturn bros because kinda means 2 signs on zodiac will be the planet bros, idk
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Astro without those outer planets is like fish and chips without mushy peas .....incomplete

I’m keeping hold of them 😀
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Mars /Pluto is crude, almost violent sex

This aqua guy has it with me and he enjoyed smacking me across the face, in and out of sex. He always wanted to play fight. I almost called the cops one night. Cutie tho

Venus/pluto is 3rd parties in your relationship, whether that be dog, mom, job, etc. There’s always going to be interference, competition causing insecurity and distrust. I had this with a Scorpio and a whole slew of people before I stopped dating my Pluto generation. Nonstop drama
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Mars /Pluto is crude, almost violent sex

This aqua guy has it with me and he enjoyed smacking me across the face, in and out of sex. He always wanted to play fight. I almost called the cops one night. Cutie tho

Venus/pluto is 3rd parties in your relationship, whether that be dog, mom, job, etc. There’s always going to be interference, competition causing insecurity and distrust. I had this with a Scorpio and a whole slew of people before I stopped dating my Pluto generation. Nonstop drama

god I hate dramatic people...very passive aggressive generation for sure. I guess I'm lucky that my venus libra overrides my libra Pluto.
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Posted by ImperfectStorm

Call me crazy but now that I’ve caught a glimpse of the potential of intensity that the **easy** aspects can bring (trine/sextile double whammy) between mars/Pluto, I probably will look for those aspects in my future partner. Lol I need that type of heat in my life after a long, unfulfilled drought. Not the hard aspects though


describe that glimpse, I have it with my girl
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Ran into Pisces ex (his Pluto/my Venus) while out with my Aries (his Pluto/my Sun & Mars)

Pisces steals a couple glances at me from across the room. Aries sees this and pulls me behind him, obstructing Pisces view and keeps me there until the Pisces leaves. He’s never done anything like that before in the year I’ve known him. Aries didn’t know who he was, no words were spoken during or after.. but man he fucked me like he owned me that night.

I stupid loved my ex Pisces to the point I was uncomfortable around him, my emotions were always running on high. Like @DMV said his friends, family and even strangers always came first.

I have Sun & Mars/Pluto natally and am more comfortable and secure with this energy but you have to understand it. It really comes out when warranted.. when passionate, threatened or sensing danger. The same is true in synastry.
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Ran into Pisces ex (his Pluto/my Venus) while out with my Aries (his Pluto/my Sun & Mars)

Pisces steals a couple glances at me from across the room. Aries sees this and pulls me behind him, obstructing Pisces view and keeps me there until the Pisces leaves. He’s never done anything like that before in the year I’ve known him. Aries didn’t know who he was, no words were spoken during or after.. but man he fucked me like he owned me that night.

I stupid loved my ex Pisces to the point I was uncomfortable around him, my emotions were always running on high. Like @DMV said his friends, family and even strangers always came first.

I have Sun & Mars/Pluto natally and am more comfortable and secure with this energy but you have to understand it. It really comes out when warranted.. when passionate, threatened or sensing danger. The same is true in synastry.


Hard aspects or easier ones?
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Ran into Pisces ex (his Pluto/my Venus) while out with my Aries (his Pluto/my Sun & Mars)

Pisces steals a couple glances at me from across the room. Aries sees this and pulls me behind him, obstructing Pisces view and keeps me there until the Pisces leaves. He’s never done anything like that before in the year I’ve known him. Aries didn’t know who he was, no words were spoken during or after.. but man he fucked me like he owned me that night.

I stupid loved my ex Pisces to the point I was uncomfortable around him, my emotions were always running on high. Like @DMV said his friends, family and even strangers always came first.

I have Sun & Mars/Pluto natally and am more comfortable and secure with this energy but you have to understand it. It really comes out when warranted.. when passionate, threatened or sensing danger. The same is true in synastry.

Hard aspects or easier ones?
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Venus sextile Pluto

Sun square Pluto / Mars Opposite Pluto- natal and synastry

Astrology has strong opinions on these placements but I think they're over sensationalized
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Ran into Pisces ex (his Pluto/my Venus) while out with my Aries (his Pluto/my Sun & Mars)

Pisces steals a couple glances at me from across the room. Aries sees this and pulls me behind him, obstructing Pisces view and keeps me there until the Pisces leaves. He’s never done anything like that before in the year I’ve known him. Aries didn’t know who he was, no words were spoken during or after.. but man he fucked me like he owned me that night.

I stupid loved my ex Pisces to the point I was uncomfortable around him, my emotions were always running on high. Like @DMV said his friends, family and even strangers always came first.

I have Sun & Mars/Pluto natally and am more comfortable and secure with this energy but you have to understand it. It really comes out when warranted.. when passionate, threatened or sensing danger. The same is true in synastry.

Hard aspects or easier ones?

Venus sextile Pluto

Sun square Pluto / Mars Opposite Pluto- natal and synastry

Astrology has strong opinions on these placements but I think they're over sensationalized
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I really don’t like the squares
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I avoid forming intimate relationships with Pluto/Mars hard aspects in Synastry chart like a plague. My Mars is in Cancer, so Pluto in Libra generation squares it.

This is probably why I get into arguments with people on this site - guarantee that my Mars is squaring their damn Pluto.

I wonder what happened if mars both squared sun and pluto tightly.

Mars square Sun - They try to dominate one another. One sets rules while the other rebels.

What sign are you?
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Whatever you do feisty, don't stop being yourself. Miss getting into minor arguments with you, just like with my Aries gal in real life. She gets mad and I just kiss her until she calms down, so many Aries women are like that lol.