You have to pick at max 3 whether its house overlays or aspects, as in if a synastry has these 3 house overlays and aspects then it is bound to have hot sex oozing from it.
Synastry that screams hot sex between people, list at max 3 overlays/aspects.

Mars in 8th house
Mars square Pluto
Venus sextile Venus
Mars square Pluto
Venus sextile Venus

Sun, Venus, Mars in an 8th house WITH the other person having Pluto in the 8th house as well...š§²
Sun, Mars (man), particularly Venus ( the woman) in the other person's 1st house. Mix in natural rulership of sign....š§²
Sun, Mars (man), particularly Venus ( the woman) in the other person's 1st house. Mix in natural rulership of sign....š§²

If your a emotional type moon(emotional) aspects to personal placements.
In general Mars and Venus connects.
Pluto, lilth, Eros, 8th and 5th house connections bring different but strong spices to chemistry.
Houses are weird though. The placement person stimulates the house person in that area.
I have a theory about house synastry I never fully explored. The better the house person is developed in that area the stronger the attraction. I would have to become a total manwhore to test it out beyond my previous relationships. So I'm stuck in the theory stage.
Venus in the first house. Gives some nice raw attraction.
Juno does some weird stuff.
In general Mars and Venus connects.
Pluto, lilth, Eros, 8th and 5th house connections bring different but strong spices to chemistry.
Houses are weird though. The placement person stimulates the house person in that area.
I have a theory about house synastry I never fully explored. The better the house person is developed in that area the stronger the attraction. I would have to become a total manwhore to test it out beyond my previous relationships. So I'm stuck in the theory stage.
Venus in the first house. Gives some nice raw attraction.
Juno does some weird stuff.
8th house Mars (double whammy)
Pluto conjunct Venus
Mars conjunct Pluto
Pluto conjunct Venus
Mars conjunct Pluto

Venus Mars
Venus Pluto
Sun Mars
Venus Pluto
Sun Mars
So what are more important, aspects or house overlays?
Posted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
For mars and sun, how tight of an aspect are we talking?

Posted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
Been there
Done that
š„“


Posted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
Been there
Done that
š„“
š¤£
I feel you.. so hard to sober up from this one, i keep relapsing šclick to expand
You keep going back for more? š„“

Posted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
Been there
Done that
š„“
š¤£
I feel you.. so hard to sober up from this one, i keep relapsing š
You keep going back for more? š„“
Hahaha yes ikr š
I've dealt with the same thing about a decade ago, idk why i fell for the same thing again š
Deep down i want him to mess up so bad so i can automatically got turned off. But he knows me too well to not do what i dislike the most.. shouldnt have told him my life story šclick to expand
The same guy or a diff one?
Posted by SagoxaPosted by deckedandeckerPosted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
For mars and sun, how tight of an aspect are we talking?
Treat it like horaryclick to expand
huh?

Wish I could post pics in threads so yāall can look over this synastry and tell me why the sex was so off the charts!!!!

Posted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormal
Wish I could post pics in threads so yāall can look over this synastry and tell me why the sex was so off the charts!!!!
Please do! I'm really curious..
Try use this site
https://imgbb.com/<div class="bqfade">click to expand
https://ibb.co/yPzH4QT

Posted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormal
Wish I could post pics in threads so yāall can look over this synastry and tell me why the sex was so off the charts!!!!
Please do! I'm really curious..
Try use this site
https://imgbb.com/
https://ibb.co/yPzH4QT
Cant open it. It says the page doesnt exist šššclick to expand
https://imgur.com/a/x65D2YN

Posted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
Been there
Done that
š„“
š¤£
I feel you.. so hard to sober up from this one, i keep relapsing š
You keep going back for more? š„“
Hahaha yes ikr š
I've dealt with the same thing about a decade ago, idk why i fell for the same thing again š
Deep down i want him to mess up so bad so i can automatically got turned off. But he knows me too well to not do what i dislike the most.. shouldnt have told him my life story š
The same guy or a diff one?
A totally different one š
What's your story with this aspect? You still with him now? š¤£click to expand
š
I had two also, just to make sure lol
No, Iām single now ... I saw the light lol
It was crazy with both of them....i turn into a mad woman where sex is concerned. Iām surprised the poor buggers got out alive...
Overkill lol
Posted by SagoxaPosted by deckedandeckerPosted by SagoxaPosted by deckedandeckerPosted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
For mars and sun, how tight of an aspect are we talking?
Treat it like horary
huh?
Horary astrology?
It's easier to see though but nevermind then. 17 degrees. 8-17° is better, the sexual tension is still there but less power struggle. The agression and danger zone is 0'17° - 8°.
Especially if the mars person happens to be the male.
0'00° - 0'17° being highly favorable.
I'm always the sun person. Idk how it is like to be the mars person..click to expand
This is all super super new to me.

Posted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormal
Wish I could post pics in threads so yāall can look over this synastry and tell me why the sex was so off the charts!!!!
Please do! I'm really curious..
Try use this site
https://imgbb.com/
https://ibb.co/yPzH4QT
Cant open it. It says the page doesnt exist ššš
https://imgur.com/a/x65D2YN
Are you the one in blue or red?
See! Mars conjunct sun lol lol lol š
Not only you have mars conjunct sun but conjunct moon also. That's overkill š
I wanted to write mars conjunct moon too but mars conjunct/opposite sun is still my favorite. Because it doesnt fuck up with my heart that much š¤£š¤£ besides mars conjunct moon intensity tends to die down because of resentment or the sulking behavior done by the moon person.
Usually the mars person would be willing to do anything for the moon person but the moon person will always feel unloved š¤£click to expand
Sounds about right. Iām the one in blue. This type of intensity Ive never experienced before.... since the day we met until the day we parted. Iāve never wanted someone so much in my life!! But Iāve never wanted to protect someone more either.... thatās why I ended up leaving. I just donāt think Iāve ever really loved anyone else after a love like this. This was it. I donāt think Iāll see another one in this lifetime like this.

Posted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagoxa
Mars conjunct/opposite sun
Venus square pluto
Mars conjunct venus
The most intoxicating aspects of all time.. where the sex is so good you dont care if it's toxic or dangerous š
Been there
Done that
š„“
š¤£
I feel you.. so hard to sober up from this one, i keep relapsing š
You keep going back for more? š„“
Hahaha yes ikr š
I've dealt with the same thing about a decade ago, idk why i fell for the same thing again š
Deep down i want him to mess up so bad so i can automatically got turned off. But he knows me too well to not do what i dislike the most.. shouldnt have told him my life story š
The same guy or a diff one?
A totally different one š
What's your story with this aspect? You still with him now? š¤£
š
I had two also, just to make sure lol
No, Iām single now ... I saw the light lol
It was crazy with both of them....i turn into a mad woman where sex is concerned. Iām surprised the poor buggers got out alive...
Overkill lol
š¤£š¤£š¤£ i feel you..
I'm surprised both of us got out alive š¤£š¤£ i remember one day after finishing up i just stared at him and wondered "what was that?". And we always keep on asking each other "what are you doing to me?" Idk how to explain but it's just craaazyyy š¤£š¤£
I'm hungry and thirsty in a literal sense š¤£click to expand
I get you on all this š
The āwhat are you doing to meā is very familiair
š„“šš

Posted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormal
Wish I could post pics in threads so yāall can look over this synastry and tell me why the sex was so off the charts!!!!
Please do! I'm really curious..
Try use this site
https://imgbb.com/
https://ibb.co/yPzH4QT
Cant open it. It says the page doesnt exist ššš
https://imgur.com/a/x65D2YN
Are you the one in blue or red?
See! Mars conjunct sun lol lol lol š
Not only you have mars conjunct sun but conjunct moon also. That's overkill š
I wanted to write mars conjunct moon too but mars conjunct/opposite sun is still my favorite. Because it doesnt fuck up with my heart that much š¤£š¤£ besides mars conjunct moon intensity tends to die down because of resentment or the sulking behavior done by the moon person.
Usually the mars person would be willing to do anything for the moon person but the moon person will always feel unloved š¤£
Sounds about right. Iām the one in blue. This type of intensity Ive never experienced before.... since the day we met until the day we parted. Iāve never wanted someone so much in my life!! But Iāve never wanted to protect someone more either.... thatās why I ended up leaving. I just donāt think Iāve ever really loved anyone else after a love like this. This was it. I donāt think Iāll see another one in this lifetime like this.
Wow, if youre the blue it mustve been so intense.
This is why mars conjunct moon is my least favourite aspect in synastry. Ive seen a few people became a victim of this. Both people ended up getting hurt.
The mars will subconsciously want to do everything for the moon person, including protecting. The moon person will always be displeased and feel unloved and become the saboteur. My ex husband and I, we had this. I was the moon person. Only after some self contemplating journey I know I was the saboteur lol šclick to expand
Our situation was quite different. We had a really lovey dovey relationship. However, when we met, it was just two people with no/low self esteem forming a codependent relationship. I wonāt say it wasnāt love, but it wasnāt exactly healthy because we werenāt exactly healthy. It too long of a story to get into but it only ended because I up and left to make myself better. I was lost spiritually and still in grief, making terrible decisions for myself, getting fucked up and making worse decisions..... I didnāt want to put him through it anymore, and I knew I needed to leave to get better. So Iām getting better now, gaining self esteem and trying to break the codependent cycle. He jumped right into another serious relationshipāliterally got engaged months after I left. Theyāve been engaged for 5 years like he and I were, and itās another completely toxic codependent relationship for him. Sheās a severe alcoholic, and heās really impressionable and lost. So now theyāre both alcoholics, heās unhappy but wonāt leave. And Iām just here like, I wish I wouldāve gotten my shit together earlierābut Iād take him back in a heartbeat! It hurts me to think heās still hurting.... I thought I was sparing him by leaving, but I really just left him in the hands of someone just as bad off. Now I can only pray she straightens up to take care of him like he deserves. That or he gains some self esteem and dumps her.
Did anyone else not pick up on the intense 5th house overlay into AbbyNormal?
MY GOD!
MY GOD!

sun moon
moon venus
venus pluto
moon venus
venus pluto

Posted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by SagoxaPosted by AbbyNormal
Wish I could post pics in threads so yāall can look over this synastry and tell me why the sex was so off the charts!!!!
Please do! I'm really curious..
Try use this site
https://imgbb.com/
https://ibb.co/yPzH4QT
Cant open it. It says the page doesnt exist ššš
https://imgur.com/a/x65D2YN
Are you the one in blue or red?
See! Mars conjunct sun lol lol lol š
Not only you have mars conjunct sun but conjunct moon also. That's overkill š
I wanted to write mars conjunct moon too but mars conjunct/opposite sun is still my favorite. Because it doesnt fuck up with my heart that much š¤£š¤£ besides mars conjunct moon intensity tends to die down because of resentment or the sulking behavior done by the moon person.
Usually the mars person would be willing to do anything for the moon person but the moon person will always feel unloved š¤£
Sounds about right. Iām the one in blue. This type of intensity Ive never experienced before.... since the day we met until the day we parted. Iāve never wanted someone so much in my life!! But Iāve never wanted to protect someone more either.... thatās why I ended up leaving. I just donāt think Iāve ever really loved anyone else after a love like this. This was it. I donāt think Iāll see another one in this lifetime like this.
Wow, if youre the blue it mustve been so intense.
This is why mars conjunct moon is my least favourite aspect in synastry. Ive seen a few people became a victim of this. Both people ended up getting hurt.
The mars will subconsciously want to do everything for the moon person, including protecting. The moon person will always be displeased and feel unloved and become the saboteur. My ex husband and I, we had this. I was the moon person. Only after some self contemplating journey I know I was the saboteur lol š
Our situation was quite different. We had a really lovey dovey relationship. However, when we met, it was just two people with no/low self esteem forming a codependent relationship. I wonāt say it wasnāt love, but it wasnāt exactly healthy because we werenāt exactly healthy. It too long of a story to get into but it only ended because I up and left to make myself better. I was lost spiritually and still in grief, making terrible decisions for myself, getting fucked up and making worse decisions..... I didnāt want to put him through it anymore, and I knew I needed to leave to get better. So Iām getting better now, gaining self esteem and trying to break the codependent cycle. He jumped right into another serious relationshipāliterally got engaged months after I left. Theyāve been engaged for 5 years like he and I were, and itās another completely toxic codependent relationship for him. Sheās a severe alcoholic, and heās really impressionable and lost. So now theyāre both alcoholics, heās unhappy but wonāt leave. And Iām just here like, I wish I wouldāve gotten my shit together earlierābut Iād take him back in a heartbeat! It hurts me to think heās still hurting.... I thought I was sparing him by leaving, but I really just left him in the hands of someone just as bad off. Now I can only pray she straightens up to take care of him like he deserves. That or he gains some self esteem and dumps her.
Wow good for you. This is the first time Ive ever seen the mars person to be the one who walks away, usually it is always the moon person. The mars will be there for the moon person forever. Good for you to recognize it isnt healthy and walk away.click to expand
I left to protect him from myself, only to leave him to make the same choices lol. I left because I had finally told him I had cheated on him and threw up my guts over what I had become. I had to get better, and I didnāt feel like I could do that there.... in a lot of ways he did help me to become the best partner I can be now. I canāt say I donāt miss him bc I love him dearly still. But he thinks Iām the devil now and wants nothing to do with me. Tells me a lot about the relationship in itself. It was always intenseāeither good or bad. Itās heartbreaking for me, but I taking all the lessons I can from this to better myself. Legit reborn from all this shit.... getting clean, no longer codependent, moving on the next stage of life without him. I had never really pictured a future with someone until him. But I can say at least I know what love is for me so I can recognize it if Iām ever lucky enough to find it again.
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