Met a Virgo male last weekend on my birthday. He pulled my arm as I was leaving the bar. He put his number in my phone. He seems to be on and off like communication and he texts short texts. He does work different hours due to being a barber but just curious.
What are the signs a VIRGO male likes you?
Posted by thatlibralife
They start off friendly and somewhat aloof. Sort of like dealing with an Aquarius. It’s really early days here though. Give it some time.
Aloof as in nonchalant and unaware?
Posted by WarAngel
If/when he tries to 'fix' you. 🤭
Yikes not fix me

Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
They switch up like that?
He gave you his number. That's the start. The next would be he picks up your calls and discuss ideas with you. Truth be told he's going to meet you on your level... Meaning whatever you give initially, he will mirror you. That's the first stages... Most don't make it past Stage 1 so just be yourself...
Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?

If this tells you anything....
I recently had a date with a virgo (I'm also a virgo). He hit me up, couple back n forth texts then he said he was totally shooting his shot here and asked me out (leo mars which I am too). We planned it on Sun...didn't speak to each other again til he asked if we were still on for that night which was Weds. Had dinner etc. He texted me right around the time I'd be home...saying he had fun and he hoped I did too. Talked about doing it again soon...like really soon...like next day soon lol. We both got caught up with stuff and couldn't get together. So, we discussed our up coming schedules....he said the only day he has free free is next Weds but Sun later in the evening might work. I told him Sun (today) worked for me and he said he'd keep me posted today. We both said sounds good sent a couple of 😏😏😏 and havent talked since then on Thurs. Lol.
Take that as you will. Very aloof, very nonchalant go with the slow flow vibes.
I recently had a date with a virgo (I'm also a virgo). He hit me up, couple back n forth texts then he said he was totally shooting his shot here and asked me out (leo mars which I am too). We planned it on Sun...didn't speak to each other again til he asked if we were still on for that night which was Weds. Had dinner etc. He texted me right around the time I'd be home...saying he had fun and he hoped I did too. Talked about doing it again soon...like really soon...like next day soon lol. We both got caught up with stuff and couldn't get together. So, we discussed our up coming schedules....he said the only day he has free free is next Weds but Sun later in the evening might work. I told him Sun (today) worked for me and he said he'd keep me posted today. We both said sounds good sent a couple of 😏😏😏 and havent talked since then on Thurs. Lol.
Take that as you will. Very aloof, very nonchalant go with the slow flow vibes.

Pisces x Virgo usually goes well, especially if the Pisces is female and Virgo is male so I'd say go ahead. 👍🏻
Don't reveal all your feelings but remember to give subtle hints every now and then so he picks up the crumbs.
Don't reveal all your feelings but remember to give subtle hints every now and then so he picks up the crumbs.
Posted by SitusInversus27
Pisces x Virgo usually goes well, especially if the Pisces is female and Virgo is male so I'd say go ahead. 👍🏻
Don't reveal all your feelings but remember to give subtle hints every now and then so he picks up the crumbs.
Thank you, I noticed he followed me again on ig at like 3:00 this morning so I said let me see if he’s up, he responded instantly and was just talking. I’m wondering if he did it to get my attention once more. Then said TTYL just like this.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
If this tells you anything....
I recently had a date with a virgo (I'm also a virgo). He hit me up, couple back n forth texts then he said he was totally shooting his shot here and asked me out (leo mars which I am too). We planned it on Sun...didn't speak to each other again til he asked if we were still on for that night which was Weds. Had dinner etc. He texted me right around the time I'd be home...saying he had fun and he hoped I did too. Talked about doing it again soon...like really soon...like next day soon lol. We both got caught up with stuff and couldn't get together. So, we discussed our up coming schedules....he said the only day he has free free is next Weds but Sun later in the evening might work. I told him Sun (today) worked for me and he said he'd keep me posted today. We both said sounds good sent a couple of 😏😏😏 and havent talked since then on Thurs. Lol.
Take that as you will. Very aloof, very nonchalant go with the slow flow vibes.
Definitely go with the flow and slowly. Set a gym date whenever he can fit it into his schedule.
Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
They switch up like that?click to expand
Why is that?

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by SitusInversus27
Pisces x Virgo usually goes well, especially if the Pisces is female and Virgo is male so I'd say go ahead. 👍🏻
Don't reveal all your feelings but remember to give subtle hints every now and then so he picks up the crumbs.
Thank you, I noticed he followed me again on ig at like 3:00 this morning so I said let me see if he’s up, he responded instantly and was just talking. I’m wondering if he did it to get my attention once more. Then said TTYL just like this.click to expand
They are like this. They poke you to check on you, be prepared for more subtle tests like these all along the course.
This is why I don't like to get involved in any romantic relationships with Virgo sun or venus. Not my type!
Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by SitusInversus27
Pisces x Virgo usually goes well, especially if the Pisces is female and Virgo is male so I'd say go ahead. 👍🏻
Don't reveal all your feelings but remember to give subtle hints every now and then so he picks up the crumbs.
Thank you, I noticed he followed me again on ig at like 3:00 this morning so I said let me see if he’s up, he responded instantly and was just talking. I’m wondering if he did it to get my attention once more. Then said TTYL just like this.
They are like this. They poke you to check on you, be prepared for more subtle tests like these all along the course.
This is why I don't like to get involved in any romantic relationships with Virgo sun or venus. Not my type!click to expand
Yikes, what do you mean subtle tests? I seeeeee omg. Are they loyal and trustworthy?

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by SitusInversus27
Pisces x Virgo usually goes well, especially if the Pisces is female and Virgo is male so I'd say go ahead. 👍🏻
Don't reveal all your feelings but remember to give subtle hints every now and then so he picks up the crumbs.
Thank you, I noticed he followed me again on ig at like 3:00 this morning so I said let me see if he’s up, he responded instantly and was just talking. I’m wondering if he did it to get my attention once more. Then said TTYL just like this.
They are like this. They poke you to check on you, be prepared for more subtle tests like these all along the course.
This is why I don't like to get involved in any romantic relationships with Virgo sun or venus. Not my type!
Yikes, what do you mean subtle tests? I seeeeee omg. Are they loyal and trustworthy?click to expand
Once you pass their 1 million 'subtle tests'...yes.
Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by SitusInversus27Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by SitusInversus27
Pisces x Virgo usually goes well, especially if the Pisces is female and Virgo is male so I'd say go ahead. 👍🏻
Don't reveal all your feelings but remember to give subtle hints every now and then so he picks up the crumbs.
Thank you, I noticed he followed me again on ig at like 3:00 this morning so I said let me see if he’s up, he responded instantly and was just talking. I’m wondering if he did it to get my attention once more. Then said TTYL just like this.
They are like this. They poke you to check on you, be prepared for more subtle tests like these all along the course.
This is why I don't like to get involved in any romantic relationships with Virgo sun or venus. Not my type!
Yikes, what do you mean subtle tests? I seeeeee omg. Are they loyal and trustworthy?
Once you pass their 1 million 'subtle tests'...yes.click to expand
Omg😳

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?click to expand
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.
Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.click to expand
So do I bring it up that I noticed he friended then unfriended?
Posted by MareInfame
IME:
- They follow you for a few months and try to make it look like it’s a coincidence that your in the same places together. 🤨
-They ask others about you.
-Once you start talking, they keep it chill but you can still tell they make efforts to make events happen with you, they ask a lot about you.
-once they are comfy, they are pretty direct. Clearly state what they want from you then and there. They want a kiss, they’ll ask for it, they want to be with you, they’ll ask. I wouldn’t say they are shy...
-they get territorial of you. They’ll make fun of your guy friends and are pretty observant and accurate at seeing their faults...lmao!
Oh wow really, so all this is coming? As of now we’re friends on social media and we text.

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.
So do I bring it up that I noticed he friended then unfriended?click to expand
Yes!
Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.
So do I bring it up that I noticed he friended then unfriended?
Yes!click to expand
What is bringing it up doing?

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.
So do I bring it up that I noticed he friended then unfriended?
Yes!
What is bringing it up doing?click to expand
It's a test. If you communicate that you observed and acknowledge his actions that is validation for him on your level of interest. It's one way virgos filter ppl in or out.
Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.
So do I bring it up that I noticed he friended then unfriended?
Yes!
What is bringing it up doing?
It's a test. If you communicate that you observed and acknowledge his actions that is validation for him on your level of interest. It's one way virgos filter ppl in or out.click to expand
Ohhhh ok makes sense so is it safe to say Virgo males like attention?

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.
So do I bring it up that I noticed he friended then unfriended?
Yes!
What is bringing it up doing?
It's a test. If you communicate that you observed and acknowledge his actions that is validation for him on your level of interest. It's one way virgos filter ppl in or out.
Ohhhh ok makes sense so is it safe to say Virgo males like attention?click to expand
Moderate. They are still loners. So it takes a bit of practice to time when they need alone time and when the need attention.
Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by WeedsPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by Weeds
Last weekend? A little early.. give him a couple years...come back here and let us know if he is friending then unfriending you on social media.
When he does that, then what?
At that point it's a good indication of interest but it's also important on how you respond to it.
So do I bring it up that I noticed he friended then unfriended?
Yes!
What is bringing it up doing?
It's a test. If you communicate that you observed and acknowledge his actions that is validation for him on your level of interest. It's one way virgos filter ppl in or out.
Ohhhh ok makes sense so is it safe to say Virgo males like attention?
Moderate. They are still loners. So it takes a bit of practice to time when they need alone time and when the need attention.click to expand
Yes definitely and reminds me of myself but I know myself. Like we were texting earlier. This is his off day so I’m giving him the day to himself, if he responds back he does, if not it’s okay.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by MareInfame
IME:
- They follow you for a few months and try to make it look like it’s a coincidence that your in the same places together. 🤨
-They ask others about you.
-Once you start talking, they keep it chill but you can still tell they make efforts to make events happen with you, they ask a lot about you.
-once they are comfy, they are pretty direct. Clearly state what they want from you then and there. They want a kiss, they’ll ask for it, they want to be with you, they’ll ask. I wouldn’t say they are shy...
-they get territorial of you. They’ll make fun of your guy friends and are pretty observant and accurate at seeing their faults...lmao!
Oh wow really, so all this is coming? As of now we’re friends on social media and we text.
Oh, none of my experiences were through SM😕. They were in HS, College and work. I’m not sure how this might play out on SM. Might take longer for them to really show desire/interest.
I think it’s easier to get a ball rolling when you are often in shared spaces. More of their senses take place, therefore more interest will spark.
Did you mention you were a Pisces? Maybe that will be enough since opposites usually have a stronger charge of energy between them!click to expand
I see what your saying, yep I’m a Pisces! Today he took the initiative to actually call and we talking for about a hour and he called right back and didn’t want to hang up. He let me into a lot about his personal life and talked to his kids while on the phone so who knows? Then he also revealed how hurt he has been in his past marriage and any relationship he tried to have so we shall see. He’s coming on stronger though.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by MareInfamePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by MareInfame
IME:
- They follow you for a few months and try to make it look like it’s a coincidence that your in the same places together. 🤨
-They ask others about you.
-Once you start talking, they keep it chill but you can still tell they make efforts to make events happen with you, they ask a lot about you.
-once they are comfy, they are pretty direct. Clearly state what they want from you then and there. They want a kiss, they’ll ask for it, they want to be with you, they’ll ask. I wouldn’t say they are shy...
-they get territorial of you. They’ll make fun of your guy friends and are pretty observant and accurate at seeing their faults...lmao!
Oh wow really, so all this is coming? As of now we’re friends on social media and we text.
Oh, none of my experiences were through SM😕. They were in HS, College and work. I’m not sure how this might play out on SM. Might take longer for them to really show desire/interest.
I think it’s easier to get a ball rolling when you are often in shared spaces. More of their senses take place, therefore more interest will spark.
Did you mention you were a Pisces? Maybe that will be enough since opposites usually have a stronger charge of energy between them!
I see what your saying, yep I’m a Pisces! Today he took the initiative to actually call and we talking for about a hour and he called right back and didn’t want to hang up. He let me into a lot about his personal life and talked to his kids while on the phone so who knows? Then he also revealed how hurt he has been in his past marriage and any relationship he tried to have so we shall see. He’s coming on stronger though.
Oh wow, he sounds like a man with a kind heart. This is very promising! Just seems at ease, communicative, open and vulnerable. I really like that👌🏼.
Plus you are a Pisces. Let if flow. Try not too overthink and sabotage. I see a healthy potential for you both🤗👍🏼click to expand
Really ok— So just keep doing what we’re both doing? He texted me good morning my friend, the sun is shining
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