Does Virgos plays mind games in order to make someone fall in love with them?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by smiley_smiles on Friday, January 15, 2021 and has 15 replies.

Do Virgos Play Mind Games to Make Someone Love Them

Virgos are generally sincere and detail-oriented. They may sometimes withdraw if overwhelmed, but they do not typically play mind games to manipulate love. Their actions usually reflect their desire for genuine connection rather than manipulative tactics. Understanding Virgo traits can clarify their behavior and improve communication in relationships.

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@smiley_smiles
5 Years

So this Virgo guy in my life shown me unbearable love and affection and when I was seeking unbearable love from him too, he cutted off ties with me. I don't know what happened. He suddenly disappeared from my life and not coming back still. Should I wait for him to come back or Should I approach him by myself?

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

He will be back if he misses you. All men come back. I have a Virgo who I cut off plenty of times cause he kept disappearing and now he wont leave me alone. And I know he will just keep doing it, if I let him.

Ain't nobody got time for the instability.

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@Lostthoughts
6 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by smiley_smiles

So this Virgo guy in my life shown me unbearable love and affection and when I was seeking unbearable love from him too, he cutted off ties with me. I don't know what happened. He suddenly disappeared from my life and not coming back still. Should I wait for him to come back or Should I approach him by myself?

Be more direct without ultimatums.

Ultimatums can be done much later when you have established a serious relationship & connection and have serious milestones under your belt....and being dodgy commuting still🙃

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

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Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

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If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

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@smiley_smiles
5 Years

Posted by Weeds

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Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

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Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

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@smiley_smiles
5 Years

Posted by MadTwins80

They do that disappearing thing to work out their feelings

When he comes back it will probably be with a new level of intimacy. So, yes, wait if you want him. I wouldn't try to contact him

Why he will block me on all social medias without any warning? Doesn't he fear losing me to someone else?

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@virgoOPPP
7 Years10,000+ Posts

if i leave my toothbrush over at your place

and i don't see it exactly where i left it when i come back,

i'll leave and block you everywhere, no explanation

nothing deep about my reasons or motivations

mind gaming requires staying for desired results

virgos are either devotees or trigger-happy to discard

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by smiley_smiles

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Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

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Nope.

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@smiley_smiles
5 Years

Posted by Weeds

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

Nope.

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What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?

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@Weeds
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

Nope.

What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?

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Literally dozens.

Virgos will take alot without saying anything.

Anything from lack of reciprocation of affection to being used. Maybe at some point he felt it was no longer worth the effort.

I am certain there is a bigger story here but does no good to speculate.

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@smiley_smiles
5 Years

Posted by Weeds

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Posted by Weeds

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

Should I contact him through other way and know the truths?

Nope.

What possibly the reason might be to cut me off without an explanation?

Literally dozens.

Virgos will take alot without saying anything.

Anything from lack of reciprocation of affection to being used. Maybe at some point he felt it was no longer worth the effort.

I am certain there is a bigger story here but does no good to speculate.

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Now what can I do? Wait for him or move on?

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Weeds

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by smiley_smiles

Posted by Weeds

Nobody leaves for no reason.

I know that there is a reason, He just disappeared without telling me any reason

What should I do now? Wait for him to come back or ask him for the reason?

If there was no communication explaining the reasoning there is no point in waiting because nothing is resolved and most likely won't ever be. It will be a constant cycle of issues.

Self reflection and keep it moving. Learn to encourage communication for the next person.

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this guy gets it