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As a Virgo guy, How do u react for getting friendzoned by a girl you like?
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Won't you fight for her
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
Won't you at least fight for her?
judging from the previous thread I'm not sure the OP really knows what "friendzoning" means
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
Won't you at least fight for her?
No, I wouldn't fight for her, because I respect her boundaries and her words, also I don't want to make my crush my opponent.
I don't think it should have to be said that fighting your crush for them to like you is NOT a pathway to fulfillment.
Consider this, the implication of "fighting for her" would mean that I would have to fight against her because she is the force here who is "preventing" a relationship.
Of course (and in truth) she isn't preventing anything, she has no obligation to be available to me or anyone just because I or they want her.
You really shouldn't want to pressure someone into developing feelings...choose people who choose you back, and are enthusiastic about deepening the connection.
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no, I like a Virgo guy, but I friendzoned him
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
Won't you at least fight for her?
No, I wouldn't fight for her, because I respect her boundaries and her words, also I don't want to make my crush my opponent.
I don't think it should have to be said that fighting your crush for them to like you is NOT a pathway to fulfillment.
Consider this, the implication of "fighting for her" would mean that I would have to fight against her because she is the force here who is "preventing" a relationship.
Of course (and in truth) she isn't preventing anything, she has no obligation to be available to me or anyone just because I or they want her.
You really shouldn't want to pressure someone into developing feelings...choose people who choose you back, and are enthusiastic about deepening the connection.
no, I like a Virgo guy, but I friendzoned him
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And it's a shame he does not like you though. Move on already.
I celebrate with a glass of champagne before being reunited with my true love, the smartphone 💓📲
Won't you fight for her
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No one should
You should Mean what you say
See...virgo men are prideful and they won’t debase themselves by asking a second time.
See...virgo men are prideful and they won’t debase themselves by asking a second time.
Why the games? If you like him and he likes you then what is the issue...
Real life isn't a telenovela. You don't need Romeo and Juliet type problems to overcome to make the love real. And they both died... so
Don’t really care.
It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.
And she’ll be even more of a challenge.
It’s all about my confidence.
Not her games of rejection.
I’m a face value type of person.
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.
You let go and just live with it. If it's deep and will not go away, you use it as fuel. A lesson you to drive you forward and correct the issues yo not let that happen again.
Don’t really care.
It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.
And she’ll be even more of a challenge.
It’s all about my confidence.
Not her games of rejection.
I’m a face value type of person.
"Not her games of rejection."
"I’m a face value type of person."
No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.
It's not a game, she don't like you.
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When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.
I guess you never had the “no means yes” mindfuck type of chick.
Follow along young child.
Don’t really care.
It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.
And she’ll be even more of a challenge.
It’s all about my confidence.
Not her games of rejection.
I’m a face value type of person.
"Not her games of rejection."
"I’m a face value type of person."
No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.
It's not a game, she don't like you.
When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.
I guess you never had the “no means yes” mindfuck type of chick.
Follow along young child.
Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.
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Op isn’t even friendzoning.
She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll “fight for her”.
Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters “will fight for her”.
That’s what I’m responding to.
This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
Don’t really care.
It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.
And she’ll be even more of a challenge.
It’s all about my confidence.
Not her games of rejection.
I’m a face value type of person.
"Not her games of rejection."
"I’m a face value type of person."
No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.
It's not a game, she don't like you.
When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.
I guess you never had the “no means yes” mindfuck type of chick.
Follow along young child.
Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.
Op isn’t even friendzoning.
She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll “fight for her”.
Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters “will fight for her”.
That’s what I’m responding to.
This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
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under unavoidable circumstances i kept him in friendzone so that his family should not be harsh in break us apart
Don’t really care.
It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.
And she’ll be even more of a challenge.
It’s all about my confidence.
Not her games of rejection.
I’m a face value type of person.
"Not her games of rejection."
"I’m a face value type of person."
No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.
It's not a game, she don't like you.
When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.
I guess you never had the “no means yes” mindfuck type of chick.
Follow along young child.
Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.
Op isn’t even friendzoning.
She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll “fight for her”.
Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters “will fight for her”.
That’s what I’m responding to.
This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
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Lol what else do you expect from a Cancer?
That's why I always say "fuck them and toss them".
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Don’t really care.
It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.
And she’ll be even more of a challenge.
It’s all about my confidence.
Not her games of rejection.
I’m a face value type of person.
"Not her games of rejection."
"I’m a face value type of person."
No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.
It's not a game, she don't like you.
When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.
I guess you never had the “no means yes” mindfuck type of chick.
Follow along young child.
Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.
Op isn’t even friendzoning.
She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll “fight for her”.
Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters “will fight for her”.
That’s what I’m responding to.
This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
Lol what else do you expect from a Cancer?
That's why I always say "fuck them and toss them".
She’s playing “unaccountable” and it’s irritating me.
Don’t really care.
It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.
And she’ll be even more of a challenge.
It’s all about my confidence.
Not her games of rejection.
I’m a face value type of person.
"Not her games of rejection."
"I’m a face value type of person."
No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.
It's not a game, she don't like you.
When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.
I guess you never had the “no means yes” mindfuck type of chick.
Follow along young child.
Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.
Op isn’t even friendzoning.
She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll “fight for her”.
Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters “will fight for her”.
That’s what I’m responding to.
This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
under unavoidable circumstances i kept him in friendzone so that his family should not be harsh in break us apart
Well, the whole friendzone thing probably just convinced his family that they're doing the right thing for him.
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if i didn't do, issue would have became as a threat to my life
Fight or flight that’s the plight.
Id choose flight if I was you. Your a guy you can literally get married in 3 months to any women. She may be able to find sex with any guy, but love...Nope. And that’s the difference. Men can find love women can find sex but be we both want the opposite.
Fight or flight that’s the plight.
Id choose flight if I was you. Your a guy you can literally get married in 3 months to any women. She may be able to find sex with any guy, but love...Nope. And that’s the difference. Men can find love women can find sex but be we both want the opposite.
you are wrong. even woman needs love
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.
I disagree about being able to force your will.
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whatever it is, love means force, love means wanting to be with another person and looking after them, love means being there for each other
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.
I disagree about being able to force your will.
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Look at it this way and most Virgo men understand this naturally. Soldiers and maybe even generals need to raise their voices and press the issues. Kings don't have a reason to raise their voices. As a matter of fact, if a King lift his finger towards you, you're dead where you stand. We Virgos have no need to force anything because inside the fiber of our being we know the world is already ours...
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.
I disagree about being able to force your will.
whatever it is, love means force, love means wanting to be with another person and looking after them, love means being there for each other
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Flat out.. You're mistaken about your ideas about love. Love is not about self or want. Love is a selfless sacrifice for another human being. Love wants nothing other than to be able to be freely given. It expects nothing in return and exists in an ever hopeful mindset. Maturity teaches us all that this is true.
What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.
Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.
Won't you at least fight for her?
No, I wouldn't fight for her, because I respect her boundaries and her words, also I don't want to make my crush my opponent.
I don't think it should have to be said that fighting your crush for them to like you is NOT a pathway to fulfillment.
Consider this, the implication of "fighting for her" would mean that I would have to fight against her because she is the force here who is "preventing" a relationship.
Of course (and in truth) she isn't preventing anything, she has no obligation to be available to me or anyone just because I or they want her.
You really shouldn't want to pressure someone into developing feelings...choose people who choose you back, and are enthusiastic about deepening the connection.
no, I like a Virgo guy, but I friendzoned him
Virgos are logical and intuitive. He most likely knows this is a manipulation tactic.
What is your sign?
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cancer
After first reaction she wasn't all I thought she was cracked up to be
I'm probably better than her anyways
Her boyfriends probably lame asf
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As a Virgo guy, How do u react for getting friendzoned by a girl you like?