@Ali2080
5 Years
Virgo Man in action when in LOVE
What a Virgo Man Does When He Likes a Woman
A Virgo man when he likes a woman usually shows it by texting more, remembering details, and finding practical ways to help. In real situations, he may act a little cautious or reserved at first, but he keeps showing up and keeps the conversation going. If his effort is consistent, that usually matters more than big romantic talk.
When I was with mine he wined, dined, concerts galore, floor seats at basketball games, football games, you name it. They spoil you rotten when they are in love. He was also the best kisser I've ever had.
Oh wow! Was it at the beginning to the end— Like he was in love from the start?
When my sister's Virgo was pursuing her he was all the way up her ass. 😉 He's Gemini rising and moon too, though.
My husband is a Gemini sun, moon and rising and you're right I can't get him out of my ass.
Probably need to look more at his Venus and Mars to really get an indication on how a certain person loves.
His Venus is in Leo 🥰 Mars in Libra...
His Venus is in Leo 🥰 Mars in Libra...
Venus in Leo I have this placement. I have a tendency to give small thoughtful gifts. I'm also a hard core romantic. If I really like you I will want to talk to you every day.
Yes we did and thank you so much for clarifying that with me yesterday 🥰
The question is if he is not really opening up about his feelings bc I rushed him to relationship before and broke up for no reason. How would I know if he has a feeling for me. Although I asked and he said that he has feelings for me but I didn’t elaborate on that at that time.
Well he does things for me , and I’m really picky girl so he said I’m complicated and he said that he likes that about me. He very thoughtful and every time we are together ( usually I weekend) not every weekend though. He remembers every lit thing about me and what I like. But we are not talking every day though...;(
Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Virgo mercury
Libra Venus
Sag mars
I'll tell you how I acted in the past. Even before astrology. I catered and spoiled.
If you had a problem, I would set my mind to it and solve it. One time she was upset about her hair. So I spent my free time for days learning how to dye and beech hair in LAYERS for different shades. We couldn't afford a salon at that time. Took me hours to actually do standing in the kitchen while she sat and watched tv from there.
When I was at the mall the only reason I would be checking out another woman was to picture what they are wearing on her.
I was very supportive of her hobbies and went without to make them happen.
If she had a bad day with the kids while I was at work, I'd draw a bath for her and cooked dinner and cleaned up the house when I got home.
Incoming rant:
In hindsight, unfortunately I went too far and gave her no boundries or expectations for myself. She had issues as well that I didn't put in check and she spiraled out of control. So that went to shit and I learned somethings the hard way it seems😒
Yes my ex did have issues but there is one thing I took away from that experience that is universal. People in general get suspicious or take it for granted when something comes too easy from some one. Not everyone is working a angle. Sometimes people do nice shit for you because they can and want to. Seems like you are only happy if you are made to work for it or there is clear recipication. Over board givers attract overboard takers too.
None of this is just my imagination either. Their is clear behavior and psychological research to back up that assumption in a few branches of psychology. It's like you have to feel like you earned it or won it to appreciate it. I have to do this stupid song and dance before I can just be myself and do me. People like me have to hold back and piece meal themselves out to basically trick you or something😒
Btw ,This psychological mechanic/tactic is blindly taught in dating guides and layer out specifically from scholars with actual degrees giving dating and relationship advice as well. It's why some people have to date a bunch of shitty people to learn what to really value in relationships🤷
Lmao we humans are a amazing species when you think about it but really stupid at the same time.
What do you mean by “ I am sure your intimate actions with him are more helpful to you ” ? Like sex we have?
Also, he said it and after mentioned that he “doesn’t need a gf” so what is this?
We are seeing each other more then a year and after he revealed that he has feelings- we decided to “see where it go”
Nothing after that was said. Although I said that I don’t need to be his gf to get to know him and he said that I know him pretty well. I said that he is not ready to be my bf yet . That was it. We didn’t discuss in person regarding that txt conversation. The thing is that I don’t need anyone but I want a partner I can share my life with. He is 27 maybe he is too young...
Since you have Leo in Venus and sun in Virgo . What qualities in women make you fall for her?
Nothing after that was said. Although I said that I don’t need to be his gf to get to know him and he said that I know him pretty well. I said that he is not ready to be my bf yet . That was it. We didn’t discuss in person regarding that txt conversation. The thing is that I don’t need anyone but I want a partner I can share my life with. He is 27 maybe he is too young...
I'm starting to see a problem here. And from the very little you have said (and I am not saying this is what is, just what it appears to be) it seems that there are mixed signals coming from you, that would definitely cause any guy even thinking of committing to you hesitant to do so.
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Oh really? Ah I don’t want to show my feelings all way as well and look like I’m all for him (my ego) bc I don’t see him open up for me... maybe that’s the problem? I didn’t reveal my feelings for him. But he knows I care about him. Why would I have still continuing to see him. And he is the same only bc sex is good—
When I was with mine he wined, dined, concerts galore, floor seats at basketball games, football games, you name it. They spoil you rotten when they are in love. He was also the best kisser I've ever had.
Donna you get all the good guys lol love it
Thank you for sharing... that’s a quiet long list jk
I’m Pisces sun and moon cancer
Venus Aquarius
Mars Gemini
Idk what I am doing with him. Feeling that this is not going anywhere... sad
That’s is very helpful that you said about “ Concealing emotions...” I was trying to hide bc I thought Virgo will run from emotional women... ahh
Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Virgo mercury
Libra Venus
Sag mars
I'll tell you how I acted in the past. Even before astrology. I catered and spoiled.
If you had a problem, I would set my mind to it and solve it. One time she was upset about her hair. So I spent my free time for days learning how to dye and beech hair in LAYERS for different shades. We couldn't afford a salon at that time. Took me hours to actually do standing in the kitchen while she sat and watched tv from there.
When I was at the mall the only reason I would be checking out another woman was to picture what they are wearing on her.
I was very supportive of her hobbies and went without to make them happen.
If she had a bad day with the kids while I was at work, I'd draw a bath for her and cooked dinner and cleaned up the house when I got home.
Incoming rant:
In hindsight, unfortunately I went too far and gave her no boundries or expectations for myself. She had issues as well that I didn't put in check and she spiraled out of control. So that went to shit and I learned somethings the hard way it seems😒
Yes my ex did have issues but there is one thing I took away from that experience that is universal. People in general get suspicious or take it for granted when something comes too easy from some one. Not everyone is working a angle. Sometimes people do nice shit for you because they can and want to. Seems like you are only happy if you are made to work for it or there is clear recipication. Over board givers attract overboard takers too.
None of this is just my imagination either. Their is clear behavior and psychological research to back up that assumption in a few branches of psychology. It's like you have to feel like you earned it or won it to appreciate it. I have to do this stupid song and dance before I can just be myself and do me. People like me have to hold back and piece meal themselves out to basically trick you or something😒
Btw ,This psychological mechanic/tactic is blindly taught in dating guides and layer out specifically from scholars with actual degrees giving dating and relationship advice as well. It's why some people have to date a bunch of shitty people to learn what to really value in relationships🤷
Lmao we humans are a amazing species when you think about it but really stupid at the same time.
i'm so confused, thought you're a pisces
Yes I am Pisces Sun lol
Was born on March 10, dragon
When I was with mine he wined, dined, concerts galore, floor seats at basketball games, football games, you name it. They spoil you rotten when they are in love. He was also the best kisser I've ever had.
Donna you get all the good guys lol love it
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Oh no honey, they started off great and it always ended in a shit storm. Cheating, lying and violence always shows up towards the end. I don't know if my Scorpio venus is to blame or just my fucked up ways. I've evolved, I hope.
Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Virgo mercury
Libra Venus
Sag mars
I'll tell you how I acted in the past. Even before astrology. I catered and spoiled.
If you had a problem, I would set my mind to it and solve it. One time she was upset about her hair. So I spent my free time for days learning how to dye and beech hair in LAYERS for different shades. We couldn't afford a salon at that time. Took me hours to actually do standing in the kitchen while she sat and watched tv from there.
When I was at the mall the only reason I would be checking out another woman was to picture what they are wearing on her.
I was very supportive of her hobbies and went without to make them happen.
If she had a bad day with the kids while I was at work, I'd draw a bath for her and cooked dinner and cleaned up the house when I got home.
Incoming rant:
In hindsight, unfortunately I went too far and gave her no boundries or expectations for myself. She had issues as well that I didn't put in check and she spiraled out of control. So that went to shit and I learned somethings the hard way it seems😒
Yes my ex did have issues but there is one thing I took away from that experience that is universal. People in general get suspicious or take it for granted when something comes too easy from some one. Not everyone is working a angle. Sometimes people do nice shit for you because they can and want to. Seems like you are only happy if you are made to work for it or there is clear recipication. Over board givers attract overboard takers too.
None of this is just my imagination either. Their is clear behavior and psychological research to back up that assumption in a few branches of psychology. It's like you have to feel like you earned it or won it to appreciate it. I have to do this stupid song and dance before I can just be myself and do me. People like me have to hold back and piece meal themselves out to basically trick you or something😒
Btw ,This psychological mechanic/tactic is blindly taught in dating guides and layer out specifically from scholars with actual degrees giving dating and relationship advice as well. It's why some people have to date a bunch of shitty people to learn what to really value in relationships🤷
Lmao we humans are a amazing species when you think about it but really stupid at the same time.
i'm so confused, thought you're a pisces
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Oh? what gave you that impression?
I think Lostthouths might read my other posts ... I might be wrong... lol
I meant VirgoOpp
Also, I forgot to mention that I have my toothbrush and he bought slippers for me when I come over to his place... not sure if this means anything regarding how he feels about me. What do you think? Also he said he doesn’t have any guests but me ☺️
All Virgos are not at the same stages in their lives. Some are immature, mature, dark and some are light. It all depends, but we do have one thing in common. We cater to people we care for in the ways that matter and on different levels. We will make breakfast, fix your car, help you study, and become massage therapists. On another level we're fine dining (not takeout), aquariums, VIP concert tickets, and weekend getaways. If we are around you, we like you. We have a very low tolerance for people we do not like and X out people without thought.
It all depends on who you are to us, what you are offering or giving, and what mutual values are placed on the relationship.
If it's not mutual, don't expect any of this. THOTS are fun, but same as we would never use a napkin a 2nd time, if we share you, you X'ed yourself off the roster. People are people and we get that, but who you are with us we understand that's who you are right now. That's real. Also, we can be very loving. That's just the default of our nature, but that doesn't mean that we are in love or that you should take our natural love founded in integrity for a weakness, because we will also cut off our nose to spite our face... If you know what that means..
That is all make sense 👆
Thank you for sharing...
How Virgo man is acting when in LOVE?
Lately all I have attracted was Virgos !!! Aside from finally 1 Scorpio yay!
They shower you with gifts and actions they text you they talk to you they take you out they visit you they try to impress you with the best places they are gentlemen, funny and try to truly just try to impress you. Shower you with their time and big on communication
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