First time looking up this word, and I immediately thought about geminis
Gaslighting
Nah you mean moonlighting don't you?
All signs can do this. Comes naturally to mutuables. Each do it in there own style . A positive expression on this is spinning and reframing something to find and look at the bright side of things or find the opportunity in the misfortune of the situation.
Edit: the difference between positive and negative is 1 part intent and 3 parts effect/consequence.
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions".
Edit: the difference between positive and negative is 1 part intent and 3 parts effect/consequence.
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions".
Posted by 7thHousePosted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by xXxAliiciaXxX
What water signs do best.
I'd say what air signs do best.
Water signs don't give a crap wether you're ok with what they have to say or not. Air signs like to maintain a perfect picture of themselves so gasligting would be more beneficial for them. Air signs are sneakier in general.
Have you watched Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Look up Lisa Rinna.click to expand
i hate how she's so mean to LVP
@7thHouse
oh and another thing about RHOBH, they've got a lot of cancer energy on there
that's why i think everyone gets offended over every little thing, gets extremely emotional but also manipulative (i still like cancers though, i mean even LVP though a virgo sun is also a cancer moon)
like everybody on there either had a cancer sun or a cancer moon
isn't that weird? lol
oh and another thing about RHOBH, they've got a lot of cancer energy on there
that's why i think everyone gets offended over every little thing, gets extremely emotional but also manipulative (i still like cancers though, i mean even LVP though a virgo sun is also a cancer moon)
like everybody on there either had a cancer sun or a cancer moon
isn't that weird? lol
Posted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by 7thHousePosted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by xXxAliiciaXxX
What water signs do best.
I'd say what air signs do best.
Water signs don't give a crap wether you're ok with what they have to say or not. Air signs like to maintain a perfect picture of themselves so gasligting would be more beneficial for them. Air signs are sneakier in general.
Have you watched Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Look up Lisa Rinna.
Wow so Lisa rinna represents all water signs đ. They're all nuts on that show anyway so use a healthier person as an example why dont you.
Trump =all geminis I guess đclick to expand
every sign can do it
Posted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by virgoOPPP
@7thHouse
oh and another thing about RHOBH, they've got a lot of cancer energy on there
that's why i think everyone gets offended over every little thing, gets extremely emotional but also manipulative (i still like cancers though, i mean even LVP though a virgo sun is also a cancer moon)
like everybody on there either had a cancer sun or a cancer moon
isn't that weird? lol
Thats interesting. I relate more to Erika Jayne who isn't a drama queen. I share the same birthday as her too I loved her on that show.
But it's true theres a lot of cancer energy in there.click to expand
yeah i love erika jayne coz i favor aqua energy
with all that cancer energy, it was interesting how she manages
but now i understand, it's coz aquas don't give a crap
she'd do whatever she likes
she will tell yolanda about what rinna said and she will NOT wear underwear L O L
and nobody can tell her what to do
Isnât it basically lying to another person? I donât know how this would work and how someone would just believe a liar and go crazy over it, especially when it happens consistently.
Posted by PhangusPosted by saggurl88
Isnât it basically lying to another person? I donât know how this would work and how someone would just believe a liar and go crazy over it, especially when it happens consistently.
It's refusing to acknowledge a truth someone knows. A mild version would be constantly saying you're not mad when you are in fact mad as hell.click to expand
I donât think itâs happened to me. But maybe because I donât argue with people. Iâd just end up calling them a liar and wouldnât go in circles about it.
I would also cut them off pretty quickly. I hate liars.
Everyone is capable I guess but I have only experienced this personally with the Virgo/Pisces axis. Toxic.
Posted by AbbyNormal
Everyone is capable I guess but I have only experienced this personally with the Virgo/Pisces axis. Toxic.
jedi mind tricks
Posted by akitu
I do think itâs a Gemini trait most commonly too... but crazily the person I see gaslighted the most here is a Gemini lol!
You probably quietly thinking of me. If anything, I gets gaslighted the most.
I think the op really mean to say moonlighting. Ain't that right @777
Posted by akituPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by akitu
I do think itâs a Gemini trait most commonly too... but crazily the person I see gaslighted the most here is a Gemini lol!
You probably quietly thinking of me. If anything, I gets gaslighted the most.
I think the op really mean to say moonlighting. Ain't that right @777
No not you, and isnât moonlighting just a night job you donât tell anyone about?click to expand
Riiiight! Geminis loves moonlighting. They always have another job right under their current employer's nose.
Do people gaslight when they get questioned a lot? Is the gaslighting the answer/lie? I can see how this can start arguments.
Does this happen in relationships and friendships?
And is the point to keep trying to prove the other person is lying or try to make someone believe what they are saying?
Does this happen in relationships and friendships?
And is the point to keep trying to prove the other person is lying or try to make someone believe what they are saying?
Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88
Do people gaslight when they get questioned a lot? Is the gaslighting the answer/lie? I can see how this can start arguments.
Does this happen in relationships and friendships?
And is the point to keep trying to prove the other person is lying or try to make someone believe what they are saying?
Itâs based on a movie, you could watch the movie and see?click to expand
I didn't know there was a movie. I thought he was talking about the term.
What's the movie called?
Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88
Do people gaslight when they get questioned a lot? Is the gaslighting the answer/lie? I can see how this can start arguments.
Does this happen in relationships and friendships?
And is the point to keep trying to prove the other person is lying or try to make someone believe what they are saying?
Itâs based on a movie, you could watch the movie and see?
I didn't know there was a movie. I thought he was talking about the term.
What's the movie called?
âGaslightâ đ itâs a really good old classic movie and itâs where the term comes from lolclick to expand
1944!!!!! I may try to watch it. Thanks
I'm gonna try lovebombing, gaslighting, then ghosting. Seems like a legit toxic cycle of push/pull đ
Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88
Do people gaslight when they get questioned a lot? Is the gaslighting the answer/lie? I can see how this can start arguments.
Does this happen in relationships and friendships?
And is the point to keep trying to prove the other person is lying or try to make someone believe what they are saying?
Itâs based on a movie, you could watch the movie and see?
I didn't know there was a movie. I thought he was talking about the term.
What's the movie called?
âGaslightâ đ itâs a really good old classic movie and itâs where the term comes from lol
1944!!!!! I may try to watch it. Thanks
Haha! I love an oldie I think itâs good, but tldw; guy messes with her head makes her think sheâs imagining stuff tries to get her committed or something, actually I canât remember how it ends lol but thatâs the jist đ¤ˇââď¸click to expand
Thanks, seems like it works with people who love mind games. Some actually enjoy a good mind fuck as a form of interest.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88
Do people gaslight when they get questioned a lot? Is the gaslighting the answer/lie? I can see how this can start arguments.
Does this happen in relationships and friendships?
And is the point to keep trying to prove the other person is lying or try to make someone believe what they are saying?
Itâs based on a movie, you could watch the movie and see?
I didn't know there was a movie. I thought he was talking about the term.
What's the movie called?
âGaslightâ đ itâs a really good old classic movie and itâs where the term comes from lol
1944!!!!! I may try to watch it. Thanks
Haha! I love an oldie I think itâs good, but tldw; guy messes with her head makes her think sheâs imagining stuff tries to get her committed or something, actually I canât remember how it ends lol but thatâs the jist đ¤ˇââď¸
Thanks, seems like it works with people who love mind games. Some actually enjoy a good mind fuck as a form of interest.click to expand
imagine if a guy thinks you're boring coz you don't play mind games
when he's like a 4 and you're not even really that into him yet
i've noticed guys around 3-6 act more manipulative than guys above that number
#compensation
Basing this off of interactions I have had on here, itâs all across the board. The worst offenders Iâve noticed from dxpnet is a Pisces, by a long shot, and a Cancer. Thereâs a Taurus who does this a lot too. Just based on a few observations lol.
Posted by akituPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by akituPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by akitu
I do think itâs a Gemini trait most commonly too... but crazily the person I see gaslighted the most here is a Gemini lol!
You probably quietly thinking of me. If anything, I gets gaslighted the most.
I think the op really mean to say moonlighting. Ain't that right @777
No not you, and isnât moonlighting just a night job you donât tell anyone about?
Riiiight! Geminis loves moonlighting. They always have another job right under their current employer's nose.
Yeah theyâd be likely to have a side hustle tbf, donât think thatâs what op meant but ur rightclick to expand
Yeah deep down I know that's not what he meant. I just like to mess with Virgo men's head most of the times.
Just like the op I had to Google gaslight too before I quoted you the first time. And for the manifistation of the topic I agree with what I red from some of the others. Anybody can gaslight anybody. All signs are guilty of it.
Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88Posted by akituPosted by saggurl88
Do people gaslight when they get questioned a lot? Is the gaslighting the answer/lie? I can see how this can start arguments.
Does this happen in relationships and friendships?
And is the point to keep trying to prove the other person is lying or try to make someone believe what they are saying?
Itâs based on a movie, you could watch the movie and see?
I didn't know there was a movie. I thought he was talking about the term.
What's the movie called?
âGaslightâ đ itâs a really good old classic movie and itâs where the term comes from lol
1944!!!!! I may try to watch it. Thanks
Haha! I love an oldie I think itâs good, but tldw; guy messes with her head makes her think sheâs imagining stuff tries to get her committed or something, actually I canât remember how it ends lol but thatâs the jist đ¤ˇââď¸
Thanks, seems like it works with people who love mind games. Some actually enjoy a good mind fuck as a form of interest.
I think some idiots just think theyâre clever đ¤ˇââď¸click to expand
lol Probably. I'm gonna start lying to guys that I don't communicate with.
"I texted you 2 days ago, yesterday and today and you didn't text me back, whyâ?!!!!"
"I left you a voicemail, are you ignoring me?? I don't understand. I've been so good at trying to reach out and you don't care about me, you wont return my calls or texts!"
All the while sitting on my ass and doing none of it. LMAO
Well, yeah, there are quite a few signs that in their negative expression can and will gaslight you. People gaslight others all the time. I find it to be a very insidious and almost undetectable thing at times because the truth is that people who are actually gaslighting you will never, ever admit it. IMO, its also is not something they are aware of themselves - most narcissists believe themselves to be just. They don't think they're gaslighting, they're just trying to convince you of the truth - their truth - the only truth that matters to them.
This, I find, is a mindset that we are being socialized with. It would follow that a society pushing narcissism as individuality and that individuality is good would have a surplus of people whose primary form of interaction is narcissistic. Monkey see monkey do.
This, I find, is a mindset that we are being socialized with. It would follow that a society pushing narcissism as individuality and that individuality is good would have a surplus of people whose primary form of interaction is narcissistic. Monkey see monkey do.
Posted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by xXxAliiciaXxX
What water signs do best.
I'd say what air signs do best.
Water signs don't give a crap wether you're ok with what they have to say or not. Air signs like to maintain a perfect picture of themselves so gasligting would be more beneficial for them. Air signs are sneakier in general.
Have you watched Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Look up Lisa Rinna.
i hate how she's so mean to LVP
Yup. And she lies. All the time.click to expand
she acts like a villain and looks like one
Posted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by xXxAliiciaXxX
What water signs do best.
I'd say what air signs do best.
Water signs don't give a crap wether you're ok with what they have to say or not. Air signs like to maintain a perfect picture of themselves so gasligting would be more beneficial for them. Air signs are sneakier in general.
Have you watched Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Look up Lisa Rinna.
i hate how she's so mean to LVP
Yup. And she lies. All the time.
she acts like a villain and looks like one
Yup. Remember that episode with Yolanda. She lied about not starting the gossip that Yolanda isn't sick and then pointed a finger at LVP lolclick to expand
i actually feel bad for yolanda
but she's no innocent with her favoritism amongst her children
and she's a sag moon so she's all about the self-victimizing schtick
not wearing makeup isn't a crime against humanity though
and LVP and Ken are so sweet, you seen that one where Ken walked out and LVP got so upset and followed him? so cute đđ
the one where yolanda got mad
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by xXxAliiciaXxX
What water signs do best.
I'd say what air signs do best.
Water signs don't give a crap wether you're ok with what they have to say or not. Air signs like to maintain a perfect picture of themselves so gasligting would be more beneficial for them. Air signs are sneakier in general.
Have you watched Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Look up Lisa Rinna.
i hate how she's so mean to LVP
Yup. And she lies. All the time.
she acts like a villain and looks like one
Yup. Remember that episode with Yolanda. She lied about not starting the gossip that Yolanda isn't sick and then pointed a finger at LVP lol
i actually feel bad for yolanda
but she's no innocent with her favoritism amongst her children
and she's a sag moon so she's all about the self-victimizing schtick
not wearing makeup isn't a crime against humanity though
and LVP and Ken are so sweet, you seen that one where Ken walked out and LVP got so upset and followed him? so cute đđ
the one where yolanda got madclick to expand
Pisces moon claiming sag moon are self victimizing..........
Posted by nanorobot
I think men use this tactic a lot more than women, at least in my experience
âI never said thatâ
âI never did thatâ
âYou arenât remembering it rightâ
âI DID do/say that.... donât you remember??â
âYou must be imagining thingsâ
It is a gross tactic. My gem does it all the time regarding things he doesnât like to acknowledge or things that he wish he could go back and change. It must have worked well on his exes or something. But I notice that his mom does it a lot too.
This doesnât work on me, because I know that simply saying something does not make it true. And I have the memory of an elephant. You canât go back and alter interactions that already took place to fit your needs at the moment
Iâve known many men (esp Scorpio moons) to use these psychological maneuvers on women
My guy friend who is a Gemini has done this and deflection. Ugh, drives me nuts.
Posted by WateryGemPosted by nanorobot
I think men use this tactic a lot more than women, at least in my experience
âI never said thatâ
âI never did thatâ
âYou arenât remembering it rightâ
âI DID do/say that.... donât you remember??â
âYou must be imagining thingsâ
It is a gross tactic. My gem does it all the time regarding things he doesnât like to acknowledge or things that he wish he could go back and change. It must have worked well on his exes or something. But I notice that his mom does it a lot too.
This doesnât work on me, because I know that simply saying something does not make it true. And I have the memory of an elephant. You canât go back and alter interactions that already took place to fit your needs at the moment
Iâve known many men (esp Scorpio moons) to use these psychological maneuvers on women
My guy friend who is a Gemini has done this and deflection. Ugh, drives me nuts.click to expand
He is also a Taurus Moon, Mercury and Venus with Leo Mars. I honestly think it might all that Taurus energy bc my mom used to be this way.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by xXxAliiciaXxX
What water signs do best.
I'd say what air signs do best.
Water signs don't give a crap wether you're ok with what they have to say or not. Air signs like to maintain a perfect picture of themselves so gasligting would be more beneficial for them. Air signs are sneakier in general.
Have you watched Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Look up Lisa Rinna.
i hate how she's so mean to LVP
Yup. And she lies. All the time.
she acts like a villain and looks like oneclick to expand
lol @ looks like one too! đ
Posted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by 7thHousePosted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by xXxAliiciaXxX
What water signs do best.
I'd say what air signs do best.
Water signs don't give a crap wether you're ok with what they have to say or not. Air signs like to maintain a perfect picture of themselves so gasligting would be more beneficial for them. Air signs are sneakier in general.
Have you watched Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Look up Lisa Rinna.
i hate how she's so mean to LVP
Yup. And she lies. All the time.
she acts like a villain and looks like one
Yup. Remember that episode with Yolanda. She lied about not starting the gossip that Yolanda isn't sick and then pointed a finger at LVP lol
i actually feel bad for yolanda
but she's no innocent with her favoritism amongst her children
and she's a sag moon so she's all about the self-victimizing schtick
not wearing makeup isn't a crime against humanity though
and LVP and Ken are so sweet, you seen that one where Ken walked out and LVP got so upset and followed him? so cute đđ
the one where yolanda got mad
Yeah I remember that hahaha. Between Yolanda and Lisa R. I'm all for Yolanda. Between LVP and Lisa R. I'm all for LVP and between LVP and Yolanda I'm all for LVP. Although Yolanda is sick, I don't sense that she's very genuine towards her friends.
But.... My ultimate favorite are Eileen and Erika hahahahahclick to expand
it's annoying though how everyone got manipulated into hating LVP
mahh poor queen đđđđ
Kyle's a real traitor and you see her trying to imitate LVP's hair?
sad
the women are nosy asf
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i feel like people don't focus much on placements like this
but i have to say it's so real
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This is my second thread about this but I guess the 1st one was too long for people to read it đ
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I left my Gemini last year in December. We were close friends and we really enjoyed each others company. So I left town on short notice because I was going for a job. I told her brother about the short notice.
Then almost a year later I came to my home
Gemini flaked for the second week in a row.
Should I just burn her gift? Block her number?
I'm that mad.
Mostly because I lost all of the data on my computer .
Apple replaced my hard rive when all I needed was a new MagSafe base.
So Next Wednesday is the last day of real class that the gemini and I will have together and I've decided to move forward and officially ask her is she would be down to be friends with benefits.
I need tips on how I should do this
I'm thinking about passi
I always start my posts with hello, but well Hello đ. If youâre familiar with my account you may know I was involved with a Pisces in a very casual way, well Iâve decided to call things off.
Iâm currently talking to a few guys, the main ones Iâm interest
Okay guys, so I am getting the last of the details of my wedding done, and now it comes to jewelry.
Mind you, I am not someone who actively wears jewelry at all. I only wear my engagement ring, and prior to that, nothing.
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that you hate most
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tnx
mine is Dejanira in the 3rd aka asteroid #157
"Dejanira in the 3rd house/Gemini may be a person victimized by GOSSIP, by their siblings or by otherâs words in general; mental abuse."
I was wondering if Lucifer is a Sag but thought maybe more a Gemini. What do you think?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsEFhWKDQF4
Not sure if this was done already and more embarrassingly by me but I really like to know what is it that you like about being a Gemini? I wanna know the full details. Also if there is anything you hate about it you can spill that too.
This is a friendly
What are the signs?
You guys are flirty and chatty with everyone.
I have my 12th House in Gemini. I have found over the last three or so years, that I am highly attracted to Geminis. Itâs like a feeling inside, that I will end up being with a Gem Sun, or some other personal Gemini placement. This was also after I fell i
From my observation...
Suns: Aquarius
Moons: Scorpio
Honorable mention (most misunderstood but it's their own fault): Pisces Moon & Gemini Sun