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Should I burn her gift?
Should I Burn Her Gift or Block Her Number
Deciding to burn her gift or block her number depends on your feelings and the situation. It may be best to communicate your frustrations calmly first. Acting impulsively can escalate conflict. Consider taking time to cool down before making a decision that reflects your true feelings.
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You should try to get a check from Apple, that was some derpy shit. Fucks not doing their job right.
Might be fighting your case for a year, but it's worth it.
That would cheer that ass up, babes.
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
Wow. I was assuming she got her a gift. I didn’t even think of it being the other way around.
But I’m naturally a giver.
Are you naturally a taker? (no shade, just curious in the thought process)
Whatever you do..
Keep your emotions in check. Don't display to her how mad you are.. Worst mistake you'll ever make, if you still want her.
If you don't want her, you can let her know how that made you feel.. Call her a bitch. Don't expect her to ever talk to you again though.
Just not worth letting a girl know how butthurt you are.. Whether it's passive agression or aggression.
She'll know you're being passive if you block her # and shit.
This won't concern a woman, a bitch won't cry about it, she won't feel bad about flaking, she doesn't care how it made you feel.. Shelly just laugh if she found out you're butthurt.
But listen, stop asking her out.. Let HER ask YOU out. Let her initiate contact. Let her ask what you're up to.
Even if she's simply texting a conversation.. Anytime a woman contacts you, assume she wants to see you. It's most likely that she does.
Maybe you're too available and she's taking you for granted. She knows she can link up with you anytime..
Prove her wrong, cuz I know that's not true. Everybody has a life and not just waiting on some girl to kick it with them.
It's ways to founder out if she's truly interested in a hang out or date..
The most simplest way is to notice if she has counter-acted another date and time. Has she? Has she said "I can't today, but I can this day"
If she said "I can't today.." and nothing else further, then that's obvious where her interest is.
If you ask her "So when else do you wanna go out" and she says "Idk.." "I have to think about it. I'll let you know". Instead of answering the question.. Then that's another sign.
Also, only accept dates when the date is planned. If she can't make it at 6:30 LIKE WHAT WAS PLANNED, but says she can make it at 8:00.. CANCEL IT. Tell her you two can try another time.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
Wow. I was assuming she got her a gift. I didn’t even think of it being the other way around.
But I’m naturally a giver.
Are you naturally a taker? (no shade, just curious in the thought process)
I just assumed but could be the other way.
I’m very generous to a fault (loads of 5th house) but I’ve been very fortunate in my life to not go for wanting which attracts a lot of prosperity.
Men love giving to women who get excited over coffee 😂😂😂
Wbu
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I don’t get excited about gifts so I don’t get them 😩😩😩😭😭😭😭
I was the type to open gifts as a kid and throw them to the side until I found what I really wanted 😆
But I do like buying gifts for people and seeing their faces light up. It happens rarely though. Has to be a special occasion.
Whatever you do..
Keep your emotions in check. Don't display to her how mad you are.. Worst mistake you'll ever make, if you still want her.
If you don't want her, you can let her know how that made you feel.. Call her a bitch. Don't expect her to ever talk to you again though.
Just not worth letting a girl know how butthurt you are.. Whether it's passive agression or aggression.
She'll know you're being passive if you block her # and shit.
This won't concern a woman, a bitch won't cry about it, she won't feel bad about flaking, she doesn't care how it made you feel.. Shelly just laugh if she found out you're butthurt.
But listen, stop asking her out.. Let HER ask YOU out. Let her initiate contact. Let her ask what you're up to.
Even if she's simply texting a conversation.. Anytime a woman contacts you, assume she wants to see you. It's most likely that she does.
Maybe you're too available and she's taking you for granted. She knows she can link up with you anytime..
Prove her wrong, cuz I know that's not true. Everybody has a life and not just waiting on some girl to kick it with them.
It's ways to founder out if she's truly interested in a hang out or date..
The most simplest way is to notice if she has counter-acted another date and time. Has she? Has she said "I can't today, but I can this day"
If she said "I can't today.." and nothing else further, then that's obvious where her interest is.
If you ask her "So when else do you wanna go out" and she says "Idk.." "I have to think about it. I'll let you know". Instead of answering the question.. Then that's another sign.
Also, only accept dates when the date is planned. If she can't make it at 6:30 LIKE WHAT WAS PLANNED, but says she can make it at 8:00.. CANCEL IT. Tell her you two can try another time.
Wow. Great advice!
It sucks about people being too available. I’m always available to someone that I like, when it’s planned. It sucks that this is something others take for granted.
And last minute dates are always a no no for me as well. Their time isn’t more important than mine.
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
I don't feel I was chasing her at any point to be honest.
I was just following through with her open invitation.
The Monday before last she told me she was getting work done everyday and I was invited to join her.....
on Wednesday after class she she texted me about getting work done again /invited me to do so with her
she had friend zoned me the night before
so I wasn't really feeling her that day especially so I didn't hang with her
especially since I had a test to study for
Thursday night I asked her if she was getting work done
she said yes but made it really clear she needed her space
she was in a mood and was making me feel like I was imposing by asking to come over to get work done
like we had discussed earlier in the week.
I made other plans and told her it wasn't a big deal.
all the while texts have slowed down but she and I have been in contact still since most days.
I initiated a couple of times. she has initiated other times as well.
I saw her agin this Wednesday ....I sat right behind her.
the energy between us was pretty light and playful.
she acknowledged she was in a bad mood that day
but we walked a little together after class and I got her to laugh a couple of times.
she invited me to get work done this weekend off campus together
but flaked.
she texted me a 4 am asking to leave a little bit later.....which turned into her not willing to leaver her spot at all
because "it's cold" this weather "makes her more of a homebody"
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
no I was in the process of giving her something.
I actually ordered it weeks ago....when things were still good.
things have turned since I've ordered the actual gift
You should try to get a check from Apple, that was some derpy shit. Fucks not doing their job right.
Might be fighting your case for a year, but it's worth it.
That would cheer that ass up, babes.
I signed the liability thing
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
I don't feel I was chasing her at any point to be honest.
I was just following through with her open invitation.
The Monday before last she told me she was getting work done everyday and I was invited to join her.....
on Wednesday after class she she texted me about getting work done again /invited me to do so with her
she had friend zoned me the night before
so I wasn't really feeling her that day especially so I didn't hang with her
especially since I had a test to study for
Thursday night I asked her if she was getting work done
she said yes but made it really clear she needed her space
she was in a mood and was making me feel like I was imposing by asking to come over to get work done
like we had discussed earlier in the week.
I made other plans and told her it wasn't a big deal.
all the while texts have slowed down but she and I have been in contact still since most days.
I initiated a couple of times. she has initiated other times as well.
I saw her agin this Wednesday ....I sat right behind her.
the energy between us was pretty light and playful.
she acknowledged she was in a bad mood that day
but we walked a little together after class and I got her to laugh a couple of times.
she invited me to get work done this weekend off campus together
but flaked.
she texted me a 4 am asking to leave a little bit later.....which turned into her not willing to leaver her spot at all
because "it's cold" this weather "makes her more of a homebody"
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Well I’m reading this way differently then you are writing it. She seems to keep inviting you over and you don’t go- you aren’t reciprocating at all with her, which leads to her trying and being bitchy about it because you seem like the flake.
What happened to make you think she friend zoned you? It could’ve been easy to figure it out if you would’ve went over to her house and had some alone time with her. Things would’ve been a little clearer. All I’m reading is a bunch of cancelled plans and side stepping on both sides.
You guys seem to be pissing each other off with it. Communication is getting crossed somewhere.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
she didn't get me anything.
it was the other way around.
I got her a gift because of all of the shyt she had been doing for me these past couple of weeks....but also as a test of her sexual attraction for me.
I got my answer though. I don't have to give her a gift to find out how she feels about me : p
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
Wow. I was assuming she got her a gift. I didn’t even think of it being the other way around.
But I’m naturally a giver.
Are you naturally a taker? (no shade, just curious in the thought process)
I just assumed but could be the other way.
I’m very generous to a fault (loads of 5th house) but I’ve been very fortunate in my life to not go for wanting which attracts a lot of prosperity.
Men love giving to women who get excited over coffee 😂😂😂
Wbu
I don’t get excited about gifts so I don’t get them 😩😩😩😭😭😭😭
I was the type to open gifts as a kid and throw them to the side until I found what I really wanted 😆
But I do like buying gifts for people and seeing their faces light up. It happens rarely though. Has to be a special occasion.
I get excited by food so I’m constantly eating out and I get so worked up I end up having over the top conversations with the chef who I insisted on meeting. 🤷🏽♀️ Weird for my date but so normal for me.
But yeah the gift thing is a bit redundant and can be embarrassing.
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Awwww that’s so cute. I guess it’s an ego boost for the guy if he picks the restaurant’s. They probably are flattered.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
she didn't get me anything.
it was the other way around.
I got her a gift because of all of the shyt she had been doing for me these past couple of weeks....but also as a test of her sexual attraction for me.
I got my answer though. I don't have to give her a gift to find out how she feels about me : p
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Pm what happened if you aren’t comfortable with saying it here. You seem to be taking things the wrong way. But I don’t know the whole scenario.
Edited to add. I’m talking about the friend zoning part.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
I'm also more mad at myself . I let her violate my boundaries and I let my guard down. I should have turned some of those hangout invites down....to keep my emotional distance.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
Wow. I was assuming she got her a gift. I didn’t even think of it being the other way around.
But I’m naturally a giver.
Are you naturally a taker? (no shade, just curious in the thought process)
I just assumed but could be the other way.
I’m very generous to a fault (loads of 5th house) but I’ve been very fortunate in my life to not go for wanting which attracts a lot of prosperity.
Men love giving to women who get excited over coffee 😂😂😂
Wbu
I don’t get excited about gifts so I don’t get them 😩😩😩😭😭😭😭
I was the type to open gifts as a kid and throw them to the side until I found what I really wanted 😆
But I do like buying gifts for people and seeing their faces light up. It happens rarely though. Has to be a special occasion.
I get excited by food so I’m constantly eating out and I get so worked up I end up having over the top conversations with the chef who I insisted on meeting. 🤷🏽♀️ Weird for my date but so normal for me.
But yeah the gift thing is a bit redundant and can be embarrassing.
Awwww that’s so cute. I guess it’s an ego boost for the guy if he picks the restaurant’s. They probably are flattered.
The Sag I’m seeing says the same thing that I’m cute ✨ and he picks the restaurants very cautiously 😂 and asks if I’m going to ask the chef what was in the sauce this time 😂
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Awww I bet he loves seeing you happy about it. He probably scours all the reviews of the restaurants in private to make sure you will like it!
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
I don't feel I was chasing her at any point to be honest.
I was just following through with her open invitation.
The Monday before last she told me she was getting work done everyday and I was invited to join her.....
on Wednesday after class she she texted me about getting work done again /invited me to do so with her
she had friend zoned me the night before
so I wasn't really feeling her that day especially so I didn't hang with her
especially since I had a test to study for
Thursday night I asked her if she was getting work done
she said yes but made it really clear she needed her space
she was in a mood and was making me feel like I was imposing by asking to come over to get work done
like we had discussed earlier in the week.
I made other plans and told her it wasn't a big deal.
all the while texts have slowed down but she and I have been in contact still since most days.
I initiated a couple of times. she has initiated other times as well.
I saw her agin this Wednesday ....I sat right behind her.
the energy between us was pretty light and playful.
she acknowledged she was in a bad mood that day
but we walked a little together after class and I got her to laugh a couple of times.
she invited me to get work done this weekend off campus together
but flaked.
she texted me a 4 am asking to leave a little bit later.....which turned into her not willing to leaver her spot at all
because "it's cold" this weather "makes her more of a homebody"
Well I’m reading this way differently then you are writing it. She seems to keep inviting you over and you don’t go- you aren’t reciprocating at all with her, which leads to her trying and being bitchy about it because you seem like the flake.
What happened to make you think she friend zoned you? It could’ve been easy to figure it out if you would’ve went over to her house and had some alone time with her. Things would’ve been a little clearer. All I’m reading is a bunch of cancelled plans and side stepping on both sides.
You guys seem to be pissing each other off with it. Communication is getting crossed somewhere.
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I only turned her down twice for legitimate reasons.
I was out of town one day.
The other day I had a test to study for. I wasn't doing any writing....plus like I said she friend zoned me.
"she thanked me the night before for being a refreshing friend"
that is also after I texted her I thought she was cute the Friday before which I didn't receive any reply.
I feel like if she was feeling it she would have said something flirty back.
she has only given me occasional glances , as well as other other stuff I told you about... that made me think she was "feeling me" in addition to all of attention that came out of nowhere for those first initial weeks
maybe she is just attracted to my ideas but not me the physical person.
or is stringing me along for attention.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
she didn't get me anything.
it was the other way around.
I got her a gift because of all of the shyt she had been doing for me these past couple of weeks....but also as a test of her sexual attraction for me.
I got my answer though. I don't have to give her a gift to find out how she feels about me : p
Pm what happened if you aren’t comfortable with saying it here. You seem to be taking things the wrong way. But I don’t know the whole scenario.
Edited to add. I’m talking about the friend zoning part.
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I can't send and receive DMs.
I get the account verification message and I can't verify the account.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
no I was in the process of giving her something.
I actually ordered it weeks ago....when things were still good.
things have turned since I've ordered the actual gift
That gift is for someone else. Hold onto it.
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hmmm I don't think it's something I can gift someone else lol.
it's related to a peculiar fetish.
I doubt I will find someone again with the same fetish that is also willing to tell me about it lol
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
she didn't get me anything.
it was the other way around.
I got her a gift because of all of the shyt she had been doing for me these past couple of weeks....but also as a test of her sexual attraction for me.
I got my answer though. I don't have to give her a gift to find out how she feels about me : p
Pm what happened if you aren’t comfortable with saying it here. You seem to be taking things the wrong way. But I don’t know the whole scenario.
Edited to add. I’m talking about the friend zoning part.
I can't send and receive DMs.
I get the account verification message and I can't verify the account.
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Damn 😒 We’ll ok.
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
I don't feel I was chasing her at any point to be honest.
I was just following through with her open invitation.
The Monday before last she told me she was getting work done everyday and I was invited to join her.....
on Wednesday after class she she texted me about getting work done again /invited me to do so with her
she had friend zoned me the night before
so I wasn't really feeling her that day especially so I didn't hang with her
especially since I had a test to study for
Thursday night I asked her if she was getting work done
she said yes but made it really clear she needed her space
she was in a mood and was making me feel like I was imposing by asking to come over to get work done
like we had discussed earlier in the week.
I made other plans and told her it wasn't a big deal.
all the while texts have slowed down but she and I have been in contact still since most days.
I initiated a couple of times. she has initiated other times as well.
I saw her agin this Wednesday ....I sat right behind her.
the energy between us was pretty light and playful.
she acknowledged she was in a bad mood that day
but we walked a little together after class and I got her to laugh a couple of times.
she invited me to get work done this weekend off campus together
but flaked.
she texted me a 4 am asking to leave a little bit later.....which turned into her not willing to leaver her spot at all
because "it's cold" this weather "makes her more of a homebody"
Well I’m reading this way differently then you are writing it. She seems to keep inviting you over and you don’t go- you aren’t reciprocating at all with her, which leads to her trying and being bitchy about it because you seem like the flake.
What happened to make you think she friend zoned you? It could’ve been easy to figure it out if you would’ve went over to her house and had some alone time with her. Things would’ve been a little clearer. All I’m reading is a bunch of cancelled plans and side stepping on both sides.
You guys seem to be pissing each other off with it. Communication is getting crossed somewhere.
I only turned her down twice for legitimate reasons.
I was out of town one day.
The other day I had a test to study for. I wasn't doing any writing....plus like I said she friend zoned me.
"she thanked me the night before for being a refreshing friend"
that is also after I texted her I thought she was cute the Friday before which I didn't receive any reply.
I feel like if she was feeling it she would have said something flirty back.
she has only given me occasional glances , as well as other other stuff I told you about... that made me think she was "feeling me" in addition to all of attention that came out of nowhere for those first initial weeks
maybe she is just attracted to my ideas but not me the physical person.
or is stringing me along for attention.
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Gemini’s don’t really string people along. They leave when there isn’t interest.
Yeah I remember the refreshing friend thing.
I wouldn’t even hold any weight in that cause you guys are playing and no one knows if there is attraction. It a safe phrase to use to make someone else comfortable or get them to force their hand.
She’s inviting you into her private space and being flirty and or bitchy with you. That seems like interest.
She could’ve said the friend thing because you said she was cute. What does cute mean? Like a sister? Friend? That’s not really screaming interest from you especially if you are the older one and she is wondering if you see her as some young kid.
There is no obvious interest being shown. The flirting goes no where and the conversations are just as bad. Lol. They all stay in a safe and friendly area.
I can see why Gemini’s need fire now lol.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
no I was in the process of giving her something.
I actually ordered it weeks ago....when things were still good.
things have turned since I've ordered the actual gift
That gift is for someone else. Hold onto it.
hmmm I don't think it's something I can gift someone else lol.
it's related to a peculiar fetish.
I doubt I will find someone again with the same fetish that is also willing to tell me about it lol
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You gonna give her that gift and finally use it?? I hope it’s something for 2 people to share! 😩😂😂
nah just ignore her
from what i know geminis hate to be ignored
Whatever you do..
But listen, stop asking her out.. Let HER ask YOU out. Let her initiate contact. Let her ask what you're up to.
Even if she's simply texting a conversation.. Anytime a woman contacts you, assume she wants to see you. It's most likely that she does.
Maybe you're too available and she's taking you for granted. She knows she can link up with you anytime..
Prove her wrong, cuz I know that's not true. Everybody has a life and not just waiting on some girl to kick it with them.
It's ways to founder out if she's truly interested in a hang out or date..
The most simplest way is to notice if she has counter-acted another date and time. Has she? Has she said "I can't today, but I can this day"
If she said "I can't today.." and nothing else further, then that's obvious where her interest is.
If you ask her "So when else do you wanna go out" and she says "Idk.." "I have to think about it. I'll let you know". Instead of answering the question.. Then that's another sign.
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ok...well I don't think I've ever officially asked to to join me somewhere to do something.
it's always been the other way around.
I sometimes linger/make an impromptu hangout session happen after class. once or twice I walked wither to get food or back to her dorm. Other times she asked me overtly if I wanted to walk with her.
She texts me almost everyday. grant it not as much as a few weeks ago..which I like but still almost everyday.
if she wanted to truly see me then why would she flake today?
she makes plans , invites me and changes her mind...
that's been the pattern these last two weeks.
she always proposes an alternative but not a Defined one.
I'm not going to chase her. If she really wanted to see me she would make the time and effort.
again I'm just made at myself for starting to take her seriously
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
I don't feel I was chasing her at any point to be honest.
I was just following through with her open invitation.
The Monday before last she told me she was getting work done everyday and I was invited to join her.....
on Wednesday after class she she texted me about getting work done again /invited me to do so with her
she had friend zoned me the night before
so I wasn't really feeling her that day especially so I didn't hang with her
especially since I had a test to study for
Thursday night I asked her if she was getting work done
she said yes but made it really clear she needed her space
she was in a mood and was making me feel like I was imposing by asking to come over to get work done
like we had discussed earlier in the week.
I made other plans and told her it wasn't a big deal.
all the while texts have slowed down but she and I have been in contact still since most days.
I initiated a couple of times. she has initiated other times as well.
I saw her agin this Wednesday ....I sat right behind her.
the energy between us was pretty light and playful.
she acknowledged she was in a bad mood that day
but we walked a little together after class and I got her to laugh a couple of times.
she invited me to get work done this weekend off campus together
but flaked.
she texted me a 4 am asking to leave a little bit later.....which turned into her not willing to leaver her spot at all
because "it's cold" this weather "makes her more of a homebody"
Well I’m reading this way differently then you are writing it. She seems to keep inviting you over and you don’t go- you aren’t reciprocating at all with her, which leads to her trying and being bitchy about it because you seem like the flake.
What happened to make you think she friend zoned you? It could’ve been easy to figure it out if you would’ve went over to her house and had some alone time with her. Things would’ve been a little clearer. All I’m reading is a bunch of cancelled plans and side stepping on both sides.
You guys seem to be pissing each other off with it. Communication is getting crossed somewhere.
I only turned her down twice for legitimate reasons.
I was out of town one day.
The other day I had a test to study for. I wasn't doing any writing....plus like I said she friend zoned me.
"she thanked me the night before for being a refreshing friend"
that is also after I texted her I thought she was cute the Friday before which I didn't receive any reply.
I feel like if she was feeling it she would have said something flirty back.
she has only given me occasional glances , as well as other other stuff I told you about... that made me think she was "feeling me" in addition to all of attention that came out of nowhere for those first initial weeks
maybe she is just attracted to my ideas but not me the physical person.
or is stringing me along for attention.
Gemini’s don’t really string people along. They leave when there isn’t interest.
Yeah I remember the refreshing friend thing.
I wouldn’t even hold any weight in that cause you guys are playing and no one knows if there is attraction. It a safe phrase to use to make someone else comfortable or get them to force their hand.
She’s inviting you into her private space and being flirty and or bitchy with you. That seems like interest.
She could’ve said the friend thing because you said she was cute. What does cute mean? Like a sister? Friend? That’s not really screaming interest from you especially if you are the older one and she is wondering if you see her as some young kid.
There is no obvious interest being shown. The flirting goes no where and the conversations are just as bad. Lol. They all stay in a safe and friendly area.
I can see why Gemini’s need fire now lol.
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I said she was cute Friday.
the text about being a refreshing thing wasn't immediately afterwards.
she doesn't like dominant females...which was a greenlight in my head.
also she hasn't invited me to her personal space...concretely.
she once gave me an open invitation to crash on her couch and another time to come over to see her lizards
but when I invited myself over last week to get work done she seemed annoyed/like she needed space.
she literally asked how long I was planning on staying if I was going to come over......
which to me is a sign that it's a no go.I saw a movie instead.
I need to feel wanted and pursued. Words have to be followed up with actions.
She said we should do a lot of stuff....because Geminis do that...make lots of plans but rarely follow through.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
I'm also more mad at myself . I let her violate my boundaries and I let my guard down. I should have turned some of those hangout invites down....to keep my emotional distance.
You did nothing wrong, you liked her she didn't appreciate that, she could have been as open as you were with her and let you know how she thinks of the whole thing, but instead she just flaked on you. Too ashamed to admit but this is actually an air sign trait.
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yeah I need a nice taurus with a fire moon for spice.
also someone with my chart.....I'm a pretty consistent pisces. I like that a lot about myself .
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
I'm also more mad at myself . I let her violate my boundaries and I let my guard down. I should have turned some of those hangout invites down....to keep my emotional distance.
You did nothing wrong, you liked her she didn't appreciate that, she could have been as open as you were with her and let you know how she thinks of the whole thing, but instead she just flaked on you. Too ashamed to admit but this is actually an air sign trait.
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I did though in a way...because I know that about you air signs...also similar to fire signs.
you guys love the chase even when you say you don't.
I only get offers from members in your group because I don't take those offers seriously/to heart...always keeping my distance...so I won't get hurt.
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
I don't feel I was chasing her at any point to be honest.
I was just following through with her open invitation.
The Monday before last she told me she was getting work done everyday and I was invited to join her.....
on Wednesday after class she she texted me about getting work done again /invited me to do so with her
she had friend zoned me the night before
so I wasn't really feeling her that day especially so I didn't hang with her
especially since I had a test to study for
Thursday night I asked her if she was getting work done
she said yes but made it really clear she needed her space
she was in a mood and was making me feel like I was imposing by asking to come over to get work done
like we had discussed earlier in the week.
I made other plans and told her it wasn't a big deal.
all the while texts have slowed down but she and I have been in contact still since most days.
I initiated a couple of times. she has initiated other times as well.
I saw her agin this Wednesday ....I sat right behind her.
the energy between us was pretty light and playful.
she acknowledged she was in a bad mood that day
but we walked a little together after class and I got her to laugh a couple of times.
she invited me to get work done this weekend off campus together
but flaked.
she texted me a 4 am asking to leave a little bit later.....which turned into her not willing to leaver her spot at all
because "it's cold" this weather "makes her more of a homebody"
Well I’m reading this way differently then you are writing it. She seems to keep inviting you over and you don’t go- you aren’t reciprocating at all with her, which leads to her trying and being bitchy about it because you seem like the flake.
What happened to make you think she friend zoned you? It could’ve been easy to figure it out if you would’ve went over to her house and had some alone time with her. Things would’ve been a little clearer. All I’m reading is a bunch of cancelled plans and side stepping on both sides.
You guys seem to be pissing each other off with it. Communication is getting crossed somewhere.
I only turned her down twice for legitimate reasons.
I was out of town one day.
The other day I had a test to study for. I wasn't doing any writing....plus like I said she friend zoned me.
"she thanked me the night before for being a refreshing friend"
that is also after I texted her I thought she was cute the Friday before which I didn't receive any reply.
I feel like if she was feeling it she would have said something flirty back.
she has only given me occasional glances , as well as other other stuff I told you about... that made me think she was "feeling me" in addition to all of attention that came out of nowhere for those first initial weeks
maybe she is just attracted to my ideas but not me the physical person.
or is stringing me along for attention.
Gemini’s don’t really string people along. They leave when there isn’t interest.
Yeah I remember the refreshing friend thing.
I wouldn’t even hold any weight in that cause you guys are playing and no one knows if there is attraction. It a safe phrase to use to make someone else comfortable or get them to force their hand.
She’s inviting you into her private space and being flirty and or bitchy with you. That seems like interest.
She could’ve said the friend thing because you said she was cute. What does cute mean? Like a sister? Friend? That’s not really screaming interest from you especially if you are the older one and she is wondering if you see her as some young kid.
There is no obvious interest being shown. The flirting goes no where and the conversations are just as bad. Lol. They all stay in a safe and friendly area.
I can see why Gemini’s need fire now lol.
I said she was cute Friday.
the text about being a refreshing thing wasn't immediately afterwards.
she doesn't like dominant females...which was a greenlight in my head.
also she hasn't invited me to her personal space...concretely.
she once gave me an open invitation to crash on her couch and another time to come over to see her lizards
but when I invited myself over last week to get work done she seemed annoyed/like she needed space.
she literally asked how long I was planning on staying if I was going to come over......
which to me is a sign that it's a no go.I saw a movie instead.
I need to feel wanted and pursued. Words have to be followed up with actions.
She said we should do a lot of stuff....because Geminis do that...make lots of plans but rarely follow through.
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Just don’t reach out at all to her anymore. The lines are too blurred. You can be a little rude to Gemini’s and be direct.
The next time she contacts you to hang out, let her know that she keeps flaking and wasting your time. That you had something to give her but she seems too busy. Ask her if she’s making a solid plan or just bullshitting.
Gems are natural flakers.
If you’re just annoyed then you’ll get over it easily but if you’re hurt that involves abit of time and shyt.
What did she give you?
no I was in the process of giving her something.
I actually ordered it weeks ago....when things were still good.
things have turned since I've ordered the actual gift
That gift is for someone else. Hold onto it.
hmmm I don't think it's something I can gift someone else lol.
it's related to a peculiar fetish.
I doubt I will find someone again with the same fetish that is also willing to tell me about it lol
You gonna give her that gift and finally use it?? I hope it’s something for 2 people to share! 😩😂😂
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me too.
I got a cute tens machine to go with the needle set too. ( as she's also into electro play)
we could have played doctor patient.
it would have been hot
Stop reaching out to her and why did you get her a gift?
This is where 2 signs that are chasers don’t work.
Gemini’s lose interest quicker when they are chased. Pisces tend to just leave it till later and come back around once the chasing stops.
Aside from all that. What happened the last day of class and what was the context of her flaking twice?
I don't feel I was chasing her at any point to be honest.
I was just following through with her open invitation.
The Monday before last she told me she was getting work done everyday and I was invited to join her.....
on Wednesday after class she she texted me about getting work done again /invited me to do so with her
she had friend zoned me the night before
so I wasn't really feeling her that day especially so I didn't hang with her
especially since I had a test to study for
Thursday night I asked her if she was getting work done
she said yes but made it really clear she needed her space
she was in a mood and was making me feel like I was imposing by asking to come over to get work done
like we had discussed earlier in the week.
I made other plans and told her it wasn't a big deal.
all the while texts have slowed down but she and I have been in contact still since most days.
I initiated a couple of times. she has initiated other times as well.
I saw her agin this Wednesday ....I sat right behind her.
the energy between us was pretty light and playful.
she acknowledged she was in a bad mood that day
but we walked a little together after class and I got her to laugh a couple of times.
she invited me to get work done this weekend off campus together
but flaked.
she texted me a 4 am asking to leave a little bit later.....which turned into her not willing to leaver her spot at all
because "it's cold" this weather "makes her more of a homebody"
Well I’m reading this way differently then you are writing it. She seems to keep inviting you over and you don’t go- you aren’t reciprocating at all with her, which leads to her trying and being bitchy about it because you seem like the flake.
What happened to make you think she friend zoned you? It could’ve been easy to figure it out if you would’ve went over to her house and had some alone time with her. Things would’ve been a little clearer. All I’m reading is a bunch of cancelled plans and side stepping on both sides.
You guys seem to be pissing each other off with it. Communication is getting crossed somewhere.
I only turned her down twice for legitimate reasons.
I was out of town one day.
The other day I had a test to study for. I wasn't doing any writing....plus like I said she friend zoned me.
"she thanked me the night before for being a refreshing friend"
that is also after I texted her I thought she was cute the Friday before which I didn't receive any reply.
I feel like if she was feeling it she would have said something flirty back.
she has only given me occasional glances , as well as other other stuff I told you about... that made me think she was "feeling me" in addition to all of attention that came out of nowhere for those first initial weeks
maybe she is just attracted to my ideas but not me the physical person.
or is stringing me along for attention.
Gemini’s don’t really string people along. They leave when there isn’t interest.
Yeah I remember the refreshing friend thing.
I wouldn’t even hold any weight in that cause you guys are playing and no one knows if there is attraction. It a safe phrase to use to make someone else comfortable or get them to force their hand.
She’s inviting you into her private space and being flirty and or bitchy with you. That seems like interest.
She could’ve said the friend thing because you said she was cute. What does cute mean? Like a sister? Friend? That’s not really screaming interest from you especially if you are the older one and she is wondering if you see her as some young kid.
There is no obvious interest being shown. The flirting goes no where and the conversations are just as bad. Lol. They all stay in a safe and friendly area.
I can see why Gemini’s need fire now lol.
I said she was cute Friday.
the text about being a refreshing thing wasn't immediately afterwards.
she doesn't like dominant females...which was a greenlight in my head.
also she hasn't invited me to her personal space...concretely.
she once gave me an open invitation to crash on her couch and another time to come over to see her lizards
but when I invited myself over last week to get work done she seemed annoyed/like she needed space.
she literally asked how long I was planning on staying if I was going to come over......
which to me is a sign that it's a no go.I saw a movie instead.
I need to feel wanted and pursued. Words have to be followed up with actions.
She said we should do a lot of stuff....because Geminis do that...make lots of plans but rarely follow through.
Just don’t reach out at all to her anymore. The lines are too blurred. You can be a little rude to Gemini’s and be direct.
The next time she contacts you to hang out, let her know that she keeps flaking and wasting your time. That you had something to give her but she seems too busy. Ask her if she’s making a solid plan or just bullshitting.
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lol okay. I think that's the best advice you've given me haha
Gems are not like cancers. If a cancer uses the word 'friend', you bet you are friendzoned. If a gem uses the word 'friend' it has nothing to do with being friendzoned. For us being friends is a wonderful basis to move on from there. You are not friendzoned, unless you have made a move then she will tell you straight in your face; I am sorry I see you as JUST a friend. We don't step sideways on these issues or use a theme to tell you indirectly how we feel about you.
Uhm...but on the other hand I hate using the word 'friend' to someone I am madly in love with. It becomes a dirty word, but I am cancer dominated 🙂
I love Pisces women. They are passionate, strong and warm women with a beautiful sensitive side. Sometimes they confuse me though. They can be very private and have this cool, serious and collected side to them. I guess Gem and Pisces continously have their mutable sides interact with each other. Constantly gauging each others interest. In the beginning it's fun, but then it gets confusing. The Gemini gets bored and the Pisces thinks the hell with it.
Tell her straight up you don't like flakes. Don't keep quiet about that. You can even tell her that you have bought her the gift, but that you hate being flaked on and also why she does that. Show her your strong boss lady Pisces side with that edge of sexiness. I love straightforwardness. It shows me that you are on to me and that I need to watch my steps. Do not sidestep with a Gemini. We like the in your face attitude.
I'm glad I'm flying to Morocco next week.
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
You are going to Morocco? Where to? I am Moroccan 🙂
Tangiers and then Marrakech. Then I fly to Germany.
You HAVE to go to Chefchaouen if you go to Morocco.
what food should I try?
any specific type moroccan wine I should I should get?
You flaked on her first and she flaked back. It happens.
I never flaked. I just turned down an invitation twice because of legitimate reasons.
..................or you could burn it. 😢
I think it's a fucking cool gift though
she really doesn't deserve it.
I only purchased this gift when she was reliable/consistent lol
Whew! Just read thru all that. Yes - communication is definitely at cross purposes here. @saggurl88 gave some great advice (as usual) about being more direct because you are both mis-reading each other's signals I think. But you are Pisces and I don't think that will happen.
GIVE HER THE GIFT - and see what her reaction is. You don't wanna keep it anyway - I wouldn't.
One of my closest friends is Pisces - and I know I can never reach the depth of her and nor do I want to try. She reveals herself to me on her own terms but she told me I am one of the few she can tell anything to. We vibe completely differently, is where I'm coming from. You can't expect your Gemini to understand you and vice versa - there is beauty as well as frustration in that.
It's hard to relax and just BE with her without trying to force anything because you are into her. She's not there yet, though. Which is making you crazy.
She keeps me in a state of sexual frustration reading her updates. I wish I was sitting in on her classes so I can instigate and get down to the dirty details 😂😂😂
You HAVE to go to Chefchaouen if you go to Morocco.
what food should I try?
any specific type moroccan wine I should I should get?
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I want to go with you since we’re friends now!! 😝😂😂 I’m serious though. I haven’t been to Morocco! I want to see the spice market.
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
Gemini flaked for the second week in a row.
Should I just burn her gift? Block her number?
I'm that mad.
Mostly because I lost all of the data on my computer .
Apple replaced my hard rive when all I needed was a new MagSafe base.
So are you mad at her or Apple?
You're a Pisces, you should understand that mutable placements are prone to flaking, sometimes with good reason.
Gemini flaked for the second week in a row.
Should I just burn her gift? Block her number?
I'm that mad.
Mostly because I lost all of the data on my computer .
Apple replaced my hard rive when all I needed was a new MagSafe base.
So are you mad at her or Apple?
You're a Pisces, you should understand that mutable placements are prone to flaking, sometimes with good reason.
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taurus venus.
I'm really reliable because it's a pet peeve of mine.
if she fancied you back she would make the effort and she would have responded to the you’re cute text. Sorry, it seems kind of clear 😬 sod her, go have fun without her 😊☀️
thank you!!!!!!!
people on here tried to convince me otherwise.... it's an issue of miscommunication........ or that it was somehow my fault lol
I thought lack of continued effort / flaking ( without a super legitimate reason ) is literally the clearest way you can indicate how you truly feel about someone.
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
"Nah I caught up on two tubs of chocolate icecream because of how you made me feel"
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worst trolling attempt.
I wish I could get my printer to work in other news
A lot of emotional energy being spent on someone you only want to be FWB with.
I spend a lot of emotional energy on people I don't want sleep with.
pisces sun remember?
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
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no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
Gemini flaked for the second week in a row.
Should I just burn her gift? Block her number?
I'm that mad.
Mostly because I lost all of the data on my computer .
Apple replaced my hard rive when all I needed was a new MagSafe base.
So are you mad at her or Apple?
You're a Pisces, you should understand that mutable placements are prone to flaking, sometimes with good reason.
taurus venus.
I'm really reliable because it's a pet peeve of mine.
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I didn't say there was anything wrong with being flaky though lol.
Or maybe it's just me not expecting too much of people. And I'm fixed dominant so I'm supposed to be mad about shit like that, but I'm not 🤷
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
Damn. I missed a lot. Did you go over there? Are you there now?
no sent her a text ( told her I didn't really feel like chatting because I felt disrespected) so that she'd stop texting me lol
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OOOHHH!!!!! This is good! Finally we are getting somewhere!
Gemini flaked for the second week in a row.
Should I just burn her gift? Block her number?
I'm that mad.
Mostly because I lost all of the data on my computer .
Apple replaced my hard rive when all I needed was a new MagSafe base.
So are you mad at her or Apple?
You're a Pisces, you should understand that mutable placements are prone to flaking, sometimes with good reason.
taurus venus.
I'm really reliable because it's a pet peeve of mine.
I didn't say there was anything wrong with being flaky though lol.
Or maybe it's just me not expecting too much of people. And I'm fixed dominant so I'm supposed to be mad about shit like that, but I'm not 🤷
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with age flaking has bothered me less but it's still annoying.
especially since I don't.
I think I have flaked a total of twice in my adult social life one was a wedding and the other was catching up with an old friend. Both instances I realized how shitty of a friend they were to me so I canceled at the last minute.lol
"she just texted me hey...I'm sorry for being a homebody today....did you catch up on my essay?"
what do I say?
"Nah I caught up on two tubs of chocolate icecream because of how you made me feel"
worst trolling attempt.
I wish I could get my printer to work in other news
You love it.
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wasn't original / didn't make me laugh.
Gemini flaked for the second week in a row.
Should I just burn her gift? Block her number?
I'm that mad.
Mostly because I lost all of the data on my computer .
Apple replaced my hard rive when all I needed was a new MagSafe base.
So are you mad at her or Apple?
You're a Pisces, you should understand that mutable placements are prone to flaking, sometimes with good reason.
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I'm mad and hurt by apple.
2 years worth of data I'm not getting back.....and my wireless connection won't work anymore.
already was 3 weeks behind in school work....my computer having issues and losing my data because of an apple misstep was the last thing I needed.
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Gemini flaked for the second week in a row.
Should I just burn her gift? Block her number?
I'm that mad.
Mostly because I lost all of the data on my computer .
Apple replaced my hard rive when all I needed was a new MagSafe base.