Why are all the Virgo moons I have ever met narcissistic?

This topic was created in the Moon Signs forum by Wild-of-you-to-say on Monday, July 27, 2026 and has 6 replies.

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@Wild-of-you-to-say

I have never met one that was not self serving or thoughtless when it comes to others. They have told me they only keep people around for fun and not because they care about them. Alot of them surround themselves with people for entertainment but have no actual bonds. They do not ask people how they are feeling, how they are doing or if they are okay. In this sense they end up alone. Surround by figures so they dont feel alone.

If they wrong someone and you bring it to their attention, you will be the bad guy for bringing it up. Ego so fragile they will take it to their death bed that they "cheated on you cause they thought you were cheating first" because having adult conversations was never an option for them.

Why are they all empty shells with no spinal cords?

Being empathetic is not an option for these guys either, they dont want anyone to "feel bad for them" cause they need to appear they have their stuff together ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

I have nothing to say against this ๐Ÿ˜‚ But some of them do a lot for you, even if they can't truly bond. So they are not selfish like a narcissistic leo can be.

And they don't have the tools to hurt you like a narcisssistic scorpio.

So I wouldn't say they give nothing in return in love or friendships, but it's definitely a transaction in their brain lol.

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@VR4
6 Years

"Prove it!"

โ€” ๐˜•๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ ๐˜—๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ, ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ ๐˜”๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ

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@Wild-of-you-to-say

Posted by Polyannanana
I have nothing to say against this ๐Ÿ˜‚ But some of them do a lot for you, even if they can't truly bond. So they are not selfish like a narcissistic leo can be.

And they don't have the tools to hurt you like a narcisssistic scorpio.

So I wouldn't say they give nothing in return in love or friendships, but it's definitely a transaction in their brain lol.

Lol like hugging a square, something feels wrong

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@Wild-of-you-to-say

Posted by VR4
"Prove it!"

โ€” ๐˜•๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ ๐˜—๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ, ๐˜๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ ๐˜”๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ

Her rap song was awesome. Thats it tho lol

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@Polyannanana
2 Years

Posted by Wild-of-you-to-say

Posted by Polyannanana

I have nothing to say against this ๐Ÿ˜‚ But some of them do a lot for you, even if they can't truly bond. So they are not selfish like a narcissistic leo can be.

And they don't have the tools to hurt you like a narcisssistic scorpio.

So I wouldn't say they give nothing in return in love or friendships, but it's definitely a transaction in their brain lol.

Lol like hugging a square, something feels wrong

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Hugging a square is the best explanation ๐Ÿ˜‚

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@matchmyzodiac

The thing I would check first is whether the ones you are thinking of have hard Moon-Saturn or Moon-Pluto contacts. Virgo Moon is a 2.3 day window, so about one person in twelve has it, and if the sign alone did this you would be describing a twelfth of everyone you have ever met. Fragile ego, no repair conversations, needing to look like they have it together, no empathy on display: that is the shape of a hard Moon-Saturn, and it turns up in every sign.

What Virgo Moon does on its own is care through usefulness. They fix your problem instead of asking how you feel, which is close to what Polyannanana called a transaction. Same behaviour on the surface, very different reason underneath.

Also worth checking the birth times. The Moon covers 12 to 15 degrees a day, so anyone whose chart was cast with a guessed noon time and who has the Moon in the first or last couple of degrees might not be a Virgo Moon at all.