Why are all the Virgo moons I have ever met narcissistic?

I have never met one that was not self serving or thoughtless when it comes to others. They have told me they only keep people around for fun and not because they care about them. Alot of them surround themselves with people for entertainment but have no actual bonds. They do not ask people how they are feeling, how they are doing or if they are okay. In this sense they end up alone. Surround by figures so they dont feel alone.

If they wrong someone and you bring it to their attention, you will be the bad guy for bringing it up. Ego so fragile they will take it to their death bed that they "cheated on you cause they thought you were cheating first" because having adult conversations was never an option for them.

Why are they all empty shells with no spinal cords?

Being empathetic is not an option for these guys either, they dont want anyone to "feel bad for them" cause they need to appear they have their stuff together 😉😉