Aqua is freaking out??

I've been aquaintances with an aqua girl for a while now (since feb) well I dont know if she considers me a friend but I see it as aquaintances. Anyway shes previously told me she likes me etc but I never really believed it, her words never follow through with her actions. And I told her a few weeks ago well she knows I've always wanted to get physicall with her but maintain the friendship. Anyway so yesturday I was bored and thought id stir a lil so I text her saying
Me - busy busy?? do u still think im good looking and find me attractive?"
she replied pretty much straight away and said -
"as always!! lol, Yeah I do!! Why wouldnt I? Do u?" so i replied saying"
Me - Dont know just thought you were over it & you know already know how hot and sexy I think you are. Well when the fk are u going to let me make a move? lol. Do you know how badly I want to pull you to one side and have my way with you! Nothing would change between you and I, just act like nothing happened 🙂 "

So i get no reply. Thats fine this was at about 3.30pm, I left it alone and text her back at about 9pm and I said "Did I say something I shouldnt have or that made you uncomfortable? Or you just dont want to answer"

She replies like 2 and a half hours later going
"Hey girl my iphone is playing up. You said nothing to offend me!! Im bout to sleep now but will text or email you in the morning! Hopefully you will get this text!! Nyt xo

So it seems she got shocked? maybe freaked out by what I said... Her text seemed really awkward and 'formal' and she gets like that when I've said something that she didnt want to discuss. lol. I might be seeing her today (we have uni together)... how can I make it non awkward or what should I do? just act like nothing happened and not bring it up again or—....

Who knows, maybe her phone really was acting up. Or maybe by the time she actually could respond, she wasn't as connected to the conversation, thus she didn't respond in the same way she might have had she actually responded right after you sent that text. Or maybe you're right, maybe she was a little shocked & just didn't know how to take it; Alot of people use the "Sorry, my phone lost service/died" line when they really just want to admit that they were shocked and/or didn't know what to say.

If I were you, I'd just leave it alone. Regardless of WHEN she got your text, oh trust me, she read it. And I'm sure that she processed what you said the same as she would've had she read it the minute you sent it, so with that being said, just let her bring it back up. And if she doesn't, let it go. OR if you don't want to let it go all the way, try to find a more subtle & maybe LESS aggressive way to say the same thing (just in different words).

Remember that text messages can be taken so many different ways. It's easier to have conversations like that in person, that way the other person's reaction would be obvious, thus they wouldn't have a way out/escape to revealing how they REALLY took on what you said. Maybe she felt that you came off way too aggressive, thus it turned her off. OR maybe she's the kind of girl that would prefer to do all the chasing and/or initiating of things like that, thus when someone else surprises her & makes the 1st move, it kinda throws her off a little bit.

Just wait & see. If the conversation resumes back to "normal" in person/over text message then you'll know that perhaps maybe her phone really was messing up. Yeah, it's kinda CONVEINANT that it started messing up at around the exact same time you said something very catchy, BUT it's possible. Just wait it out & see.

Okay well she didnt turn up to class today so should I text and be like "hey I hope you didnt not come to class because of what I said, dont want things to get weird lol. anyway hope ur okay.. talk 2 u later."

Or just leave it alone and see if she contacts me first.... next time im supposed to see her is next tuesday for class again.....

& thanks for your post Krysrenee. Very much appreciated!!

Just leave it alone for a while.

If she's feeling awkward the last thing she'll want is for you to follow it up with a reminder.

Let her answer you in her own time and if she doesn't, and does nothing to follow it up at all, she's not interested. You've put it out there, let her react and go from there.

Hello again. She finally got back to me on Tuesday morning after not hearing from her since Thursday. We were supposed to have class on Tuesday but I fgured she wouldnt turn up. Anyway so she emailed me tuesday morning asking how I think I went in an assessment we had last week etc etc then she started saying she was most likely going to drop out of the course etc. She's said she wants to drop out like 3 times before and I always convince her to stay.

This time when she told me she was dropping out I told her yea thats probably the best way to go, might as well drop out today and not bother coming to class. Call them and they will fax you a cancellation form. So she replied saying that yea she was going to call them now and it was probably the best option to drop out because shes too busy at the moment to attend classes. SO.... i didnt reply to that last email of hers. I thought long and hard about whether I should tell her how I felt since she was dropping out of the course and thats the only place I get to see her or just keep my mouth shut and be strong and let her go without saying anything. Anyway after consulting a friend who is also an aquarius she told me to just tell her how I felt because if i could have stopped her from leaving and if I didnt tell her how i felt then I might regret. So I sent her a lengthy email telling her I liked her and a few other things etc.

So she replied the next day at 9am sharp and said:

hey thanks for the email.

It really says a lot about you and im glad that you have said how you felt!

I feel the same and well at the moment im not me!

im going through a hard time and well i do want to go to class to see you but thats the only reason why i have stayed.

I will try to make thursday's class! and no i was not running away from your text!

Sorry that my email is short compared to yours but i cant really write you a long one as i am on my mobile and its difficult.!

Hope we can still talk! 🙂

So I told my aqua friend and she seems to think that this girl DOES like me but is just a tough cookie to crack. What are your thoughts??

Thanks guys.