Aqua men and sex...!!!

What I want to know is, is it 'normal' for an aqua man to want sex just when he wants it, I've initiate sex a couple of times, but nooooo! why? and being a pisces I'm obviously very emotional about this, I don't let him know. Don't get me wrong, there is definitaly not anything wrong with our sex life, very very exciting!!! but ofcourse when he wants it? why?

i think aqua men want sex when you ignore them and don't act like you want it...so if you want to have sex, all you have to do is roll over to your side of the bed with your back facing him and just ignore him for a little bit...most likely he will initiate contact.

This is super interesting. I dated a Pisces guy (and I'm an aqua female.) My frustration mounted and it was definately a sexual issue. The sex on his schedule was out of this world; definately, the best. However as an aqua I wanted a little control too and him holding back when I iniatiated because 'a lady doesn't want sex,' MADENNING! And I was a virgin then, so perhaps I had a Catholic girls start late syndrome where I held off too long.

I might say now that I read yours this is a power struggle that could have been fixed. Six months ago when we broke up swearing never to speak again, and my own six weeks later getting into a new relationship with the current Capricorn was my time of proving that I had no ties to him. But in November things changed again with the Pisces and we're talking 'as friends.' And at our last physical meeting where I saw him as I was with a friend, my friend asked me, "What about Mr. Cap?"
My response was, "we're dating still."
Then my friend said, "But you want him (Pisces). The chemistry is obvious."
I had no answer then and I do admit that perhaps I crush on the pisces still. And now that school is back in session I will see both of these men for the first time in almost a month starting tomorrow. Over break I was friendly to both long distance, not flirting just friendly meaningless chit chat.

My biggest issue with the pisces was sex and the power struggle it presented. I'm not into showing the world or being clingy as I'm SUPER busy. But in the bedroom, shouldn't a lady get to say when and where too? This is why I haven't mad any decision on my future course yet and I wonder if I want to try again. The Pisces was always the perfect old school gentleman who took care of me. And I miss him and the soothing sexy voice of reason he could do so well.

haven't made any decision not mad

Ok. My take on aquarius men, they sweep you in and break your heart. They are great lovers, but have no communication skills. According to him, it was a one sided thing...hey take off the damn restraints and let me resipericate.

yes, they are great lovers with no communication skills...you are absolutely right about that!!!

Moonchild: "i think aqua men want sex when you ignore them and don't act like you want it...so if you want to have sex, all you have to do is roll over to your side of the bed with your back facing him and just ignore him for a little bit...most likely he will initiate contact."

Unbelievable this works!!! I've acted all tyred and sleepy when we got into bed on Saturday evening, turned my back and ooooeeehoe!!! jip this works! ...weird, had to laugh!!!

I think what a lot of people forget with us is that we don't like to be bored. If it's the same old sex everytime, we're going to get bored and our sex drive will dive.

To turn on an Aquarian man, you have to think different, you have to make it unique and interesting each time to turn on our minds. Outfits, handcuffs, roleplay, etc. Be creative and different! Remember, you're dealing with an Aquarian here.

wings...i disagree with that last comment...my aqua bf always wants to have sex the same way almost every time...but why not, it works for both of us everytime and in the end we are both satisfied.

...and if anyone is switching it up in the bedroom, it is usually me!!! i am probably a lot more daring and kinky than he is...by far.

oh, but then again he is a cap/aqua cusp...so maybe he is more like a cap in bed!

When i was sleeping with an aqua man it was so boring. He just tried to show off and end up moving me around so much i was knackerwed and sore!! Not the best partner i?ll admit. Scorpio?s are better!!

Hmm, I might just be more adventurous than other Aquarian men. Do you know their Venus signs? That might have something to do with it.

No wait, checking out my birthchart now, I'm thinking of the 5th house. The 5th house relates to sensual activities. Checking out planets and transits in the 5th house can give a decent idea of their sensual nature.

my aqua's venus sign is sagittarius and mine is leo...so we have a very healthy sex life !!! and we are extremely physically attracted to one another...no doubt about that!

Mine Venus is Virgo and his was Capricorn (whatever that means)?!

Okay everyone forget the Venus sign thing, that has nothing to do with this, just an error.

It's the 5th house that's to deal with. Having both 5th houses in Virgo would show a sort of compatibility in sensual activities, leokitten.

hmmm...i don't know what time my aqua was born, all i know is that it was super bowl sunday of that year!!! so i do not know what sign his 5th house is in...but mine is in leo...and his mars is aqua and my mars is virgo...

so, does that mean the same thing then for his aqua mars and my leo in 5th house...since they are also opposites...? gosh...i have so much leo in my chart!!! it's all over the place...

well, i don't know what his 5th house is in b/c i don't know the time he was born...
my 5th house is in leo though...and his mars is in aqua

so, what does that say if my 5th house (leo) opposes his mars (aqua)—
or does it not say anything!!!

thanks starfish...i have looked up our charts before..i just didn't know what his 5th house is in...

how have you been doing btw?

lol my aqua will say, i dont want sex tonight..thats comin froma MAN!! i just play along and go sleep...but in the morning..if my hand finds itself somewhere warm then i get my way :-)

sometimes i think sex distracts them thats why they dont always wanna do it...or the could have another woman to please! hmmm

What does it mean if you have no signs in the 5th house?

Thanks aquaagi!

Does one look at the cusp after or before the empty house?

I'm a Pisces, and I've come to terms that my sex drive is higher. But if by chance my Aqua is not in the mood, I usually find myself getting woken up in the nicest possible way.
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i met an aquarius and i had one of the best sex ever...by the way he has a girlfriend.he said to me that he wished his girl was good as me in sex and that she is boring.they are 4 years together...hmm??!!?!i believe that they are kinky a lot...and they talk a lot.what do you think about that?by the way i am tha same zodiac as his girl libra.he calls me very 2 weeks or something and want to have sex.that is going on for 3 months now.he makes my mind go crazy...he desapears and then he comes back like nothing has changed.he always have candles and stuff at his place and he says a lot of sweet things to me that of course i dont believe!!!

Lol at libraff..ive been in the same situation. Make sure you leave the situation before he suggests it..that way you?ll always have his "heart"!!

Sola thats what i did...i just send him an sms telling him that i am really happy i met him but i cant be in this situation.even if its just sex i cannot talk alone in messages i want the other to be part of it and not only when he wants to.of course he didnt reply but i believe that he is going to call me again...ohh god what am i going to do then—!!?!?

You let him wonder. That's it. Do not immediately respond.

mystical if i dont answer anymore??!!?how is that?bad or good idea?but i want to talk to him so much..!!!or pretend?the funny think is that i know i want him beacuse of these games even if i hate them.i am crazy....

i understand....!!!how easy all begins and how complicated we make them ?!?!thanx

yeah, they definitely need someone else to get them going. they don't often make the first move. but if you do something to get them going and then look away and ignore them for a while, that usually does it.

Libraff,

This guy is not worth it, even if the sex is great like you say. He has a GIRLFRIEND. Don't sell yourself short. All he's interested in is the sex, and you are making things way too easy for him. He ignores you for two weeks, and suddenly reappears. We know what he wants then. You are a woman who deserves respect and you aren't get that with him. He sees you as easy prey. If he's cheating on his girlfriend with you, how many other girls do you think he's sleeping with?. He's bad news and you shouldn't get involved in this mess. He plays with your mind because you are allowing him to. Aquarians are very good at mind games, and well, he's got you, and he knows it. The problem is when a girl is too easy, the man doesn't respect her. First and foremost, you have to remember he has a girlfriend. If she continues to stay in the relationship then that's her choice. You, on the other hand, should never allow yourself to get entangled with this type of man. It's only going to lead to trouble. He's already disrespecting you. Well, you must put a stop to it. Otherwise the games are going to continue.

Yes, I understand you want to talk to him, and this is why he ignores you. He knows when he finally gets in touch with you (to have sex) that you'll be so glad. You know like a dog. If you ignore a dog long enough, the dog will start to bark at you. Well, this guy has all the controll, and you are starving for his attention. Never, never do that with any man. To be honest, this guy is no good.

For your own self-respect, you should walk away and leave him alone. Eventually, he'll get the message but you have to stay firm and show him you aren't going to take his crap or bread crumbs he's giving you. You should never pretend because that will get you nowhere. The games he plays shows he's a bit immature also. A mature man wouldn't play games. Also when he's cheating on his girlfriend, well, that should explain a lot. Let this dog lay quiet.

Remember, he's not the only guy in the world. Use your time and energy on someone who will do the same for you. You will never get this guy ever. He's having too much fun and eating way too much cake to ever stop.

This is just my 2 cents. It isn't meant to be harsh at all what I have written. I'm only being honest.

I have to agree with Sweet-P, my Aqua likes a little tease, tickle and then the chase. I find I have to tone down the kinky sex, but he's still quite adventurous. As for too much booze, some of our best sex is after a night out, too bad he can't remember it !!!

Mystical i really appreciate you wasted some time to answer me.thank you.i dont believe its harsh what you said its true and honest...i know exactly.the only thing is that whenever a man is looking for sex we say ok its just sex but with women we always say she is in love or something, right?
this aqua guy said a lot example "if i wasnt with my girl would you be with me?","do you wanna be in love?" he question me all the time things...i have read a lot of stuff here about aquarius but i believe he is insecure as a person.i know that this kind of situations dont work.maybe its me i dont know about other libras but i always feel something when i have communication and good sex...passion..and i want it to last.i cant control my feelings i wish i could.i havent send him anymore and he always call me with private number so i dont answer anymore to private callers hehehe i dont know what else to do....hmmm i ll try to forget him.

What kind of question is this, what is the point, you hide your true meaning?

i once asked my aqua if he is bothered that we only have sex once a week, for the most part (unless we are on vacation or out of town)...and his reply was, "i don't go by numbers...i like to have sex when it feels right...whether it's once a week or 5 times a week..."

it's not about the number for me either...it's more of the circumstance. but, i wanted to make sure it didn't bother him or anything...i would like it more than once a week, but we don't see each other very often and we both work a lot and are pretty tired.

New Englanders are prudes...

Yeah, but some places more than others 🙂

haha.......

You really need to stop going to best buy. Try circuit city....maybe do it yourself...better yet, google your problem

I thought we were more prudish than the UK.

As i'm new here i felt i had to comment on this thread... My boyfriend is an Aqua and i have never before met a man who only likes sex on his terms and is often " not in the mood". I used to get upset about it b/c i know he likes his porn A LOT and we have had lots of talks about it. He has tried to explain to me that the more he is in love with a woman the less he wants sex with her. I have also read someone else state this in a previous post, think this person was an Aqua too.. i just can't get my head round it b/c the opposite applies to me, when i truly love someone i like to be intimate a lot. Any Aquas out there feel this way too ? By the way his venus is in Aquarius, mine is in Taurus.

lunarlady...us cancers tend to equate sex with love, where aquas differentiate the two big time!!! so, it makes sense that the more they are in love with a woman, the less focus there is on sex. it's not that they don't like having sex, but it is not a big deal to them. they can take it or leave it most of the time...

as for your venus signs, i don't think they are very compatible and that probably reflects your different outlook son sex and love...
my aqua's venus is in sagittarius and mine is in leo...so we are extrmemely passionate with one another, and very fiery in the bedroom...

Yes he can take it or leave it which i think is unusual for a man but Aqua's do seem to be different from the norm! I'm not saying we arent good together in the bedroom cos we are but i think its a case of mismatched sex drives, he is happy with a couple of times a week, i would like a bit more. I agree with the venus signs, they arent really a good match. We have the same moon signs though, both of us Pisces and we are always really affectionate with each other and unlike lot of Aquas he is quite open about his feelings and tells me he loves me all the time. I think Mars signs are important when it comes to sex drive aren't they. ?

yeah, i only get sex from my aqua once...maybe twice a week!!! but it is the quality that counts with them not the quantity, and when we do it...it is amazing!!!
my aqua always says "it's not about the number"...meaning the number of times we have sex. that is how aqua men think...
so, just wait until you two have been dating 2 or 3 years...you will be lucky if you have sex once a week 😉

yeah, pisces moon will help a lot for your aqua!!! and, i do think mars has something to do with sex drive...in that case, i am screwed b/c my aqua has mars in aqua!!!

my aqua always says "it's not about the number"...meaning the number of times we have sex. that is how aqua men think...

They are so logical aren't they!!... I have relaxed a lot about the bedroom issue lately because we used to have a lot of arguments about it. The more i made a big deal of it the more he made sure it wasn't going to happen !! I don't mention it these days and he is a little more forthcoming...strange lot aren't they lol !!

Moonchild, do you know your Aquas rising sign??