aqua and relationships

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by asa011 on Tuesday, September 19, 2006 and has 31 replies.

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@asa011
20 Years

what are aqua men like when in a relationship? and do their relationships tend to last long or end quickly?

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@houstonpeach74
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Asa, depends on the woman/girl.

You have to give them A LOT of space, or they will run and take cover. If you hover over them, then they will not feel their independence - they need time to do a test drive with you before they commit. Keep their brains challenged - don't be a ditz.

The length of the relationship depends on the chemistry. I dated one for 3 years, was engaged, we had some problems, broke up, and in the midst of getting back together, he died.

I've dated 2 other Aquas in recent years and one lasted about 9 months and the other was a flash in the pan. I learned early with the 3 year-relationship and even the 9 month that these guys are freedom loving. You have to give them space. If they say they just need a day to themselves, give it to them! If you don't respect their space, they will lose respect in you quick. And don't question their intentions or motives when they're having this day to themselves.

Don't get huffy or upset if they don't show interest in your day. Truth is, they are interested, but they don't always feel like being in a talkative mood. They also are not the jealous type, or at least mine wasn't. So if you want to play that kind of game, pick another sign.

Don't get too attached to them too early - when they're ready to commit, it will be on their terms. I'm not sure of your sign, but you have to possess a lot of patience with these guys. I think that's why mine and my Aqua guy of 3 years lasted. I accepted him for who he was and vise versa and I even forgave his indiscretions and I continued to see what a great guy he was.

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@cappysweetie
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I agree with houston.

Being a cap, I did get attached to a previous Aqua and he doesn't to bolt :O He wanted his freedom with other women 😉 So I let him be free ... but without me. He will be a very decent man once he is ready to commit but beforehand will continue to play around.

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@houstonpeach74
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LOL...I'm not a traitor. The Aqua board was the first board I encountered a couple of months ago and I like coming in here. I still keep up with Pluto's Muse and her Scorpio guy.

I love everyone. I would never betray anyone. 😛

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Oh really? 🙂 Well, then I guess we're on track in Aquarian style where nothing stays the same as we are always looking for something interesting to talk about or do. The thread started with relationship advice and went quickly to lyrics of a Cure song, then some other song from the summertime to videos link. Hey, I'm not knocking it at all. It's just so great to see so many different personalities with different points of view. Makes life grand. Also in Aqua land things go very quickly.