Is it just me who is totally afraid to be alone in life?Afraid of losing my partner,my relatives who I love more than myself?
Aquarius afraid of loneliness
well, everyone is afraid of that... its normal... and you will never be alone 🙂 there are other ppl in this world, you know 🙂
i'm totally fine being alone
Yep that's my biggest fear losing my family, it's a scenario I've dreamt about plenty of times and I've contemplated the aftermath heaps and the conclusion is that I wouldn't be able to go on.
You would have to be a really special person to bring me back
You would have to be a really special person to bring me back
Posted by merimayes I don't want to be alone. I would rather live with my PARENTS till old age and take care of them if i'm not with my husband.
Is it just me who is totally afraid to be alone in life?Afraid of losing my partner,my relatives who I love more than myself?
me and my son would be living with them if my husband was gone. And I don't want to be with just anyone either. I want my husband till the very end till I die.
idk, as much as i love my parents i'd rather live alone... i guess its just how you look at things... i have been living alone for the past 12 years... i couldnt go back to my parents now 🙂))
I'm bored just with myself..I always need someone to be with me...whatever I do..It's like -in company is much better
Posted by merimaI can easily entertain myself ALONE, but I don't want to be without people I love that's my thing.
I'm bored just with myself..I always need someone to be with me...whatever I do..It's like -in company is much better
but I don't want to be around people I don't like either, so i'm choosy, and i'd rather be with my family. Family to me is IMPORTANT ...i'm a dominant 4th houser that's why and it's true.
Also, I have TRIED the living alone before with my own place for a few months and I hated it. I thought, let's try out this independence thing and I HATED it. I wanted some of my family members to move in with me so I just paid the rent for the rest of the contract and just left and gave my notice. I freaking HATE it and I don't wanna live with people I don't like at all. SO i'm very very CHOOSY.
EDIT - it must be my Capricorn because I just don't like people, probably why I don't make friends. only people I love and I know.
but then again I have lived with a man who was cruel so....that was horrible but long ago. But I couldn't get myself to leave to due to his tyranny. so I was scared to death.
ONLY the LONELY ...for the lonely hearts club!!!
booooo!!!!!!! YUCKO
booooo!!!!!!! YUCKO
" I'm bored just with myself..I always need someone to be with me...." yeah the same
when I was younger I wanted to be alone.. I didn't like ppl (except from my family)
Now I can't stand loneliness.... I want to be all day and night with ppl.... i think the reason is I overanalyze anything when I'm alone... and I end up sad... So When I'm out I don't think.. I'm happy...
😛
when I was younger I wanted to be alone.. I didn't like ppl (except from my family)
Now I can't stand loneliness.... I want to be all day and night with ppl.... i think the reason is I overanalyze anything when I'm alone... and I end up sad... So When I'm out I don't think.. I'm happy...
😛
exactly! I couldn' t desribe it better!!
Posted by loligrI don't overanalyze everything. that's more an air moon thing.
" I'm bored just with myself..I always need someone to be with me...." yeah the same
when I was younger I wanted to be alone.. I didn't like ppl (except from my family)
Now I can't stand loneliness.... I want to be all day and night with ppl.... i think the reason is I overanalyze anything when I'm alone... and I end up sad... So When I'm out I don't think.. I'm happy...
😛
you intellectualize your emotions.
my husband is sitting right next to me, he does everynight.
Posted by starwarswell said
my aquarius buds have the same fear some people find it shocking because they seem "alright" with being alone, which is true but they like people just as much.
I think aquarius people are always torn between being loners and social butterflies at the same time, I'm the same way for some weird reasons even though im a virgo. its hard to find people who can get this "trait" about us. luckily I did find this trait in my scorpio, aquarius and Libra friends.
Posted by Ryokohey what's your mars and venus??
I'm a Scorpio sun and I enjoy being by myself. I'm a loner. But at times, if I think too deeply, I worry about dying alone and not having children. I'll be old and ugly and no one will love me, no one will have known that I existed because my existence never mattered anyway...
But I try not to think about this.
cause you seem to have a defeatist attitude.
I have a cousin who is scorpio sun/aries moon, but with a libra mars and he is always, defeatist.
you can't do anything to help him.
I mean support him like family does, but he has to do it on his own of course.
I'll have to look up how Bill Gates got started from bottom up....
I wonder if he was already from a wealthy family.
hm Bill Gates is Scorpio sun/aries moon/libra mars. HUH....what the hell??
he's a billionaire. and he's married a long time now to a LEO sun, scorpio moon of course with LOTS of cancer influence.
he's a billionaire. and he's married a long time now to a LEO sun, scorpio moon of course with LOTS of cancer influence.
Posted by RyokoPosted by lisabethur8Doesn't Bill Gates have Asperger's? I might be defeatist because I'm pretty sure Saturn is my chart ruler, Capricorn rising. I don't view myself as defeatist though, i try to be very realistic and reality is harsh.Posted by Ryokohey what's your mars and venus??
I'm a Scorpio sun and I enjoy being by myself. I'm a loner. But at times, if I think too deeply, I worry about dying alone and not having children. I'll be old and ugly and no one will love me, no one will have known that I existed because my existence never mattered anyway...
But I try not to think about this.
cause you seem to have a defeatist attitude.
I have a cousin who is scorpio sun/aries moon, but with a libra mars and he is always, defeatist.
you can't do anything to help him.
I mean support him like family does, but he has to do it on his own of course.
I'll have to look up how Bill Gates got started from bottom up....
I wonder if he was already from a wealthy family.
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oh my gosh!!! my cousins also have aqua rising AND Capricorn rising. 😢
and I didn't know Bill Gates has Aspergers.
hmm it says here that he's been DIAGNOSED by ARMCHAIR psychologists. lmao
http://blog.masslive.com/real_learning/2010/08/bill_gates_aspergers_syndrome_and_your_gifted_child.html
And how does Bill Gates fit in to this story? "Mr. Gates, the phenomenally successful billionaire CEO of Microsoft, has been diagnosed by amateur, “armchair physicians” on the internet and in the media for years'. His legendary eccentricities, including the habit of “rocking” and a disdain for the opinions of others, have led many to speculate that he is an “Aspie,” or sufferer of Asperger’s. While no doctor has ever given Mr. Gates an official diagnosis, he stands as a hero for many Aspies who look to his success with hope.
What is the likelihood that Mr. Gates does indeed have Asperger’s? According to Jonathan Mitchell, the author of the essay “Undiagnosing Gates, Jefferson and Einstein,” the likelihood is low. He points to Mr. Gates’ successful social relationships as proof that whatever his eccentricities, he cannot have Asperger’s as he can function so well in “normal” society. (His essay is here) If Bill Gates can successfully run a business, get married, and pull himself together to perform well in interviews, he cannot possibly have Asperger’s, says Mr. Mitchell.
All of this illustrates how careful we must be as we seek to understand our children. The human mind is more complicated that we can comprehend, and trying to simplify it, label it, and set it into pretty boxes does more harm than good for the very children we are trying to help. In the words of Temple Grandin, the autistic woman about whom a television movie was recently made, genius itself can be considered an abnormality. Where would we be if we chose to treat genius as a problem, rather than a stroke of luck?
Gifted and bright children are often viewed as socially inept, prompting some to carry the analogy further and wonder if autism spectrum disorders range from completely dysfunctional to highly genius. Could there be overlap there, and is that spectrum actually where bright children fit? A simple explanation is not forthcoming, as all of the facts are as yet not obvious to us. We just do not know enough about the human brain to draw the appropriate conclusions in this case. However, with the information we have, incomplete as it is, we can say that every gifted child does not exhibit symptoms “on the spectrum.”
http://blog.masslive.com/real_learning/2010/08/bill_gates_aspergers_syndrome_and_your_gifted_child.html
And how does Bill Gates fit in to this story? "Mr. Gates, the phenomenally successful billionaire CEO of Microsoft, has been diagnosed by amateur, “armchair physicians” on the internet and in the media for years'. His legendary eccentricities, including the habit of “rocking” and a disdain for the opinions of others, have led many to speculate that he is an “Aspie,” or sufferer of Asperger’s. While no doctor has ever given Mr. Gates an official diagnosis, he stands as a hero for many Aspies who look to his success with hope.
What is the likelihood that Mr. Gates does indeed have Asperger’s? According to Jonathan Mitchell, the author of the essay “Undiagnosing Gates, Jefferson and Einstein,” the likelihood is low. He points to Mr. Gates’ successful social relationships as proof that whatever his eccentricities, he cannot have Asperger’s as he can function so well in “normal” society. (His essay is here) If Bill Gates can successfully run a business, get married, and pull himself together to perform well in interviews, he cannot possibly have Asperger’s, says Mr. Mitchell.
All of this illustrates how careful we must be as we seek to understand our children. The human mind is more complicated that we can comprehend, and trying to simplify it, label it, and set it into pretty boxes does more harm than good for the very children we are trying to help. In the words of Temple Grandin, the autistic woman about whom a television movie was recently made, genius itself can be considered an abnormality. Where would we be if we chose to treat genius as a problem, rather than a stroke of luck?
Gifted and bright children are often viewed as socially inept, prompting some to carry the analogy further and wonder if autism spectrum disorders range from completely dysfunctional to highly genius. Could there be overlap there, and is that spectrum actually where bright children fit? A simple explanation is not forthcoming, as all of the facts are as yet not obvious to us. We just do not know enough about the human brain to draw the appropriate conclusions in this case. However, with the information we have, incomplete as it is, we can say that every gifted child does not exhibit symptoms “on the spectrum.”
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