Is my crush (Aqua) uninterested or not?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by dazedandcofused76 on Saturday, March 19, 2016 and has 11 replies.

Interpreting an Aquarius Crush's Behavior

Aquarius individuals can appear distant even when interested. Their communication style is often reserved and independent. If he shows signs of warmth but is slow to respond, he may be interested but values his space. Consider his overall actions and consistency before concluding his feelings. Patience and clear communication are key to understanding his true intentions.

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@dazedandcofused76
10 Years

I have a crush on an Aqua, but he seems so distant. When I went over to his house to work on business (we're working on a few projects) he seemed really into me and even said I was a "beautiful attractive female" and if I ever wanna just come over to hang to text him.

After that he hasn't hit me up, I have to be the first one to text him about my project and he doesn't really text back in mid convo sometimes. I than made the approach to text him with "sorry to bother you ----- but are you free this weekend to go over our project" he than replied with "your not bothering me lol I'm more free next weekend"

Is it me? Should I stop crushing

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Keep crushing. Aquas are slow as molasses when they like someone (not slow if they just want some fun). They also tend to use their charm to attract people to them as opposed to initiating.

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@sparkle11
10 Years

Same thing has happened with me with an aqua guy.
Same exact story .
I see him like once a year.
and he knows that.
When we hang out we like, Catch up, and see where we are in life.
He keeps it at that pace.
I don't get it.
But aquarius guys can control to the ends of the earth.
They also enjoy keeping women frustrated and in suspense so they want them more, and so the women hit them up.

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@dragonjinse
11 Years

lol... I thought I'm reading my own story.
My aqua guy was like that at the beginning of our relationship. When we're just friends, he never went on any extra step to be with me.
When we started dating, we only saw each other like once in 3 months (LDR). He didn't let me call him (He doesn't like calling)
He stopped replying me in the middle of the conversation. He disappeared for a week twice!
Now, it's been a year already that we're dating. He completely changes! He texts me, video call me every day and every night.
He tells me where he's at, what he's doing etc.
He wanna see me every week now. Sometimes, he comes to visit me 3 times in the same week.

Hang in there girl. If you think he's worth to wait...

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@dazedandcofused76
10 Years

Posted by dragonjinse
lol... I thought I'm reading my own story.
My aqua guy was like that at the beginning of our relationship. When we're just friends, he never went on any extra step to be with me.
When we started dating, we only saw each other like once in 3 months (LDR). He didn't let me call him (He doesn't like calling)
He stopped replying me in the middle of the conversation. He disappeared for a week twice!
Now, it's been a year already that we're dating. He completely changes! He texts me, video call me every day and every night.
He tells me where he's at, what he's doing etc.
He wanna see me every week now. Sometimes, he comes to visit me 3 times in the same week.

Hang in there girl. If you think he's worth to wait...

How did you get to that next step? He's like a stone wall. I like challenges though lol

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@Shrewdsharp
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by sultrykitty
Keep crushing. Aquas are slow as molasses when they like someone (not slow if they just want some fun). They also tend to use their charm to attract people to them as opposed to initiating.

Not with this Libra. Aquarius - who have proposed fall hard and fast with some Libra women. I guess it depends on the person .

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@Shrewdsharp
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by sultrykitty
Keep crushing. Aquas are slow as molasses when they like someone (not slow if they just want some fun). They also tend to use their charm to attract people to them as opposed to initiating.

The two Aquarius i dated proposed within 90 days the next in 6 months.

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@Shrewdsharp
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by sparkle11
Same thing has happened with me with an aqua guy.
Same exact story .
I see him like once a year.
and he knows that.
When we hang out we like, Catch up, and see where we are in life.
He keeps it at that pace.
I don't get it.
But aquarius guys can control to the ends of the earth.
They also enjoy keeping women frustrated and in suspense so they want them more, and so the women hit them up.

Not if they want you.

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@Shrewdsharp
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by dragonjinse
lol... I thought I'm reading my own story.
My aqua guy was like that at the beginning of our relationship. When we're just friends, he never went on any extra step to be with me.
When we started dating, we only saw each other like once in 3 months (LDR). He didn't let me call him (He doesn't like calling)
He stopped replying me in the middle of the conversation. He disappeared for a week twice!
Now, it's been a year already that we're dating. He completely changes! He texts me, video call me every day and every night.
He tells me where he's at, what he's doing etc.
He wanna see me every week now. Sometimes, he comes to visit me 3 times in the same week.

Hang in there girl. If you think he's worth to wait...

He had somebody else initially.

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@Librawoman77
10 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by sultrykitty
Keep crushing. Aquas are slow as molasses when they like someone (not slow if they just want some fun). They also tend to use their charm to attract people to them as opposed to initiating.

Not with this Libra. Aquarius - who have proposed fall hard and fast with some Libra women. I guess it depends on the person .

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Yep that is precisely right. I did not know Aquarius were capable of taking their time?

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@sparkle11
10 Years

Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by sparkle11
Same thing has happened with me with an aqua guy.
Same exact story .
I see him like once a year.
and he knows that.
When we hang out we like, Catch up, and see where we are in life.
He keeps it at that pace.
I don't get it.
But aquarius guys can control to the ends of the earth.
They also enjoy keeping women frustrated and in suspense so they want them more, and so the women hit them up.

Not if they want you.

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The faster they want you, the faster it ends.